The one and only Victoria Albina, NP, MPH is back and we're going DEEP (as always). We chat about: What gets in the way of us being PRESENT during sex Why we deny ourselves pleasure Blocks against receiving love and care Tools for nervous system regulation Mindfulness How to work towards presence after sexual trauma Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
Mar 01, 2023•1 hr 20 min
We’re talking all things MASTURBATION with one of our favorite sex and pleasure educators, Luna Matatas. We cover: New positions to try How to make your hands feel JUST as good as a toy How to finger yourself What to do if you get nervous while *exploring* How often we should masturbate How to start fantasizing during solo play Dirty chat rooms How long a solo sesh should be Taking masturbation OUTSIDE the bedroom (legally) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
Feb 22, 2023•1 hr 9 min
We're diving (fist first) into FISTING with Dr. Liz Powell and you simply CANNOT miss this one. We chat about: What fisting is WHY it's worth trying out How to ease into fisting Prep... because there's a lot of prep HOW to fist a vagina or butt Fisting yourself Positions What to do once you're in there Pain free removal Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
Feb 15, 2023•1 hr 4 min
Oh honey... have we got a treat for YOU! We have five of our favorite tips from past episodes that are sure to give you the sexiest, steamiest, most indulgent Valentine's day EVER. So sit back, relax, and get ready to chat about: How to sloooow things down and get sensual from EP. 72 with Ev'Yan Whitney French kissing from EP. 82 with Raquel Savage How to *sexily* take your clothes off and set the scene from EP. 44 with Ari Antwine Bringing food into the bedroom (get your chocolate sauce and fro...
Feb 10, 2023•40 min
THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE FUN… and by “this” we mean sex, hookups, dating, ALL OF IT. Cue Myisha Battle, a sex and dating coach who quite literally wrote the book on finding the fun in all of it. We decided to deep dive into hookups (obvs) and chatted about… Deciding what we want from sex Finding your sexual values How to find hookups (both on the apps and off) What’s the deal with “chemistry”? The benefits of hookups How to make hookups as fun as possible “I’m not that into you, but damn I wanna b...
Feb 01, 2023•1 hr
Ready to understand what’s happenin hormonally in that beautiful body of yours? What about how to have AMAZING sex your entire life? Well get ready ‘cuz this week we’re talking menopause… HOLD ON DON’T GO ANYWHERE. This is CRITICAL info for anyone with a vagina and if you want to keep smushin’ puss til your six feet deep, you’re gonna want to listen in. So, buckle up and get ready to meet Dr. Shyama Mathews an OB/GYN and Menopause Specialist. We’re chatting about: What menopause actually is and ...
Jan 25, 2023•1 hr 9 min
Victoria Albina, NP, MPH (you know, our favorite human who LITERALLY changes our lives every time she she speaks) is back and this time we’re breaking down ✨ATTACHMENT STYLES✨. We chat about… What attachment styles ARE and how we LEARN them Anxious vs avoidant vs secure attachment How our attachment style impacts our romantic relationships The ways that anxious and avoidant attachments SHOW UP in our lives What secure attachment looks and FEELS like Steps for moving towards secure attachment 💖 ...
Jan 18, 2023•1 hr 9 min
Hey ya filthy sl*t... let's learn how to talk dirty. Dr. Tara is back on the pod with TONS of examples and expert advice. We chat about... How ANYONE can be good at dirty talk (even if you're awkward) Dynamic dirty talk 8 types of dirty talk and examples for each Directing vs narrating Beginner to intermediate examples Alternatives to "daddy" Our favorite words to refer to a penis Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
Jan 11, 2023•1 hr 7 min
This week, we’re learning how to breakup with ANYONE (yes, anyone) with Jamye Waxman, a sex therapist and author. We cover: The types of breakups we experience (friends, family, romantic partners) WHY breakups are so damn hard HOW to breakup with someone What to avoid when breaking up with someone What’s a “good enough reason” to breakup with someone How to start feeling better Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
Jan 04, 2023•1 hr 7 min
We're rounding out the year with some of our FAVORITE advice we've gotten in 2022. We've had INCREDIBLE guests, LIFE CHANGING tips, and whole lotta laughs so let's just dive right in and chat about... Blow jobs What to do when you’re working with a small mouth or tired jaw Making things work FOR YOU Why you don’t need to be healed to have sex or be worthy of PLEASURE When the sex is bad Leaving room for things to just BE BAD and not something you need to “work on” Ethereal orgasms Episodes menti...
Dec 28, 2022•41 min
We're rounding out the year with some of our FAVORITE advice we've gotten in 2022. We've had INCREDIBLE guests, LIFE CHANGING tips, and whole lotta laughs so let's just dive right in and chat about... The POWER in being single De-centering romantic relationships Confidence and seduction How to feel sexy Thinking your "better" Letting yourself be WRONG Somehow it always comes back to COMMUNICATION Episodes mentioned: EP. 84 The Art of Seduction: How to Walk, Talk, & Touch Like A Bad Bitch wit...
Dec 21, 2022•38 min
In this episode we’re SITTING DOWN (lol) with Laydee Vee and Dee Black and getting a crash course in face sitting. We chat about: What face sitting is Who can be the sitter (HINT: it’s not just vulva owners) Four different face sitting positions How to get INTO the positions (and not feel awkward) What to do once you’re up there How to sit with CONFIDENCE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
Dec 14, 2022•56 min
We’re talking with Anne Hodder-Shipp, an award winning sex educator and coach, about MODERN LOVE LANGUAGES and learning all the ways to love and be loved (because there’s like waaaay more than 5). We cover: What a love language is and WHY they matter The classic 5 love languages and their (very shitty) origin What Modern Love Languages are and how they help us EXPAND our understanding of love How to determine YOUR love language(s) Specific examples of how to give and receive love based on your l...
Dec 07, 2022•1 hr
We’re feeling CHATTY, so let’s get into it. We’re talking: Labia and labia lumps “Innie vs. outie” labia Labiaplasties Edging during masturbation Letting someone spit in your mouth (and LOVING it) Sexual World Records (including longest masturbation sesh, farthest ejaculation and MORE) Craigslist Missed Connections Some of our toxic little tendencies (and some of yours) Red Flag or Deal Breaker Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
Nov 30, 2022•53 min
Let's get it on... IN PUBLIC. We're talking PDA with Dr. Tara and breaking through ALL the shame. We we chat about: What Power PDA is Critique and support for PDA What if there's a discrepancy between what you and your partner want? Giving NO f*cks Who decided affection needed to be kept private? Should there be goal with PDA? How far is TOO far in public? How healthy displays of affection are GOOD How to start engaging in PDA if you're new to it Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastch...
Nov 23, 2022•1 hr
This interview CHANGED OUR LIVES and our relationships because it turns out… we might be a little toxic (yep, that means you too). So let’s talk about it with Emmalee Bierly, LMFT and Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT of Shrink Chicks. We’re unpacking and working through a whole lot, including: What it actually means to be “toxic” Common ways that we're toxic but might not realize it Anti-relational and dysfunctional behaviors Expecting your partner to KNOW what you need Feeling like your “better” at relat...
Nov 16, 2022•1 hr 11 min
Here at Honeydew Me, we came to the realization that our friendships have DEEPLY impacted our sex lives... so let's talk about it. One of our absolute favorite humans, Victoria Albina, NP, MPH, is back on the pod and we are DIVING into the relationship between friends and sex. We chat about... How friendship and sex are related Emotional outsourcing Intimacy in relationships Getting your friends' opinions: good or bad idea? Gossip vs well-intentioned sharing Is there such a thing as sharing TOO ...
Nov 09, 2022•1 hr 2 min
This week we're pressing play ON PORN and learning all the ways it can make our sex lives hotter and our relationships better. Rachel Wright, a licensed marriage and family therapist with a Master's in clinical psychology joins us to chat about: How porn can BENEFIT your relationship Fun ways to incorporate porn into partnered sex Jealousy and porn: "why do they watch porn if they have me?!" and "what if my partner is jealous that I watch porn?" Is watching porn cheating? Feeling insecure about ...
Nov 02, 2022•51 min
Halloween is fast approaching and this year we are ON THEME. We're revisiting role play and diving even deeper with expert tips, personal stories, LOTS of research, and input from our lovely listeners. We chat about: What role play is Judging your fantasies and desires Benefits of role play Working through embarrassment, nervousness, or shame Planning and set up Talking with your partner Specific scenarios Experts Featured: Kait Scalisi, @passionbykait Lala Loves, @lalasbedtimetales Learn more a...
Oct 26, 2022•55 min
It’s time for INITIATION… but like the consensual, fun, sex kind. If you’ve ever wondered how to initiate sex, struggled with a fear of rejection, or are looking for long term initiation tips, this episode is for you! We chat with some of our favorite experts AND share our own struggles to bring you one hell of a guide… We cover: Obstacles to initiating sex Fear of rejection How to take the pressure of off initiation Fun, indirect ways to initiate sex Sexy and very direct ways to initiate sex Fi...
Oct 19, 2022•51 min
DISCLAIMER: there is NO completely SAFE way to engage in choking/breath play, this episode will discuss safety measures, better practices, and consent, but is only an introduction. We encourage you to take part in further education alongside an expert BEFORE engaging in the practices discussed. Hope you’re ready for an episode that’ll ✨take your breath away✨. Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire are on the pod and talking all thinking breath play, including choking. We cover: What breath play is (...
Oct 12, 2022•1 hr 2 min
We're getting ✨ballsy✨ and chatting all things testicle play with Jake Mossop, a Registered Nurse! We talk about: Why it's enjoyable to play with testicles Types of touch (pressure, squeezing etc.) The importance of lube When to include testicle play and how to combine with other types of play What tea bagging is Positioning Using your mouth Taint play Incorporating toys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
Oct 05, 2022•47 min
Michelle Hope, sexologist, activist and Director of Social Impact and Strategic Communications at SIECUS, joins us to talk post-Roe action items and resources. We discuss: What Roe v. Wade is, what happened, and how we actually got here The role of comprehensive sex education Resources for states that have lost access to abortion Getting involved in your community Resources: Three For Freedom Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
Sep 30, 2022•42 min
THE Dr. Jennifer Lincoln is on the pod and ready to talk ALL things birth control. We chat about: Common myths and misconceptions (i.e. infertility, negative health impacts etc) Whether "hormone balancing" is legit and if "hormone imbalances" are the cause of all your issues WHY we tend to demonize birth control Types of birth control methods (hormonal vs non hormonal) Plan B: what it is, how to use it & when to use it What actually is an abortion and what are the types of abortions REALLY C...
Sep 28, 2022•1 hr 7 min
Emma and Cass thought it high time to break out the video cameras and record something spicy. Now it’s time to share all the dirty deets and unpack how it went. We chat about: Planning for your sex tape (vibes, roleplay, positions etc.) Setting up your physical space (camera angles, lighting, background music etc.) Options for when you are NOT ready to record yourself What went wrong… Finding what feels authentic and pleasurable to YOU Alternatives to the “up close and personal” recording style ...
Sep 21, 2022•34 min
Lala, creator of Lala’s Bedtime Tales, is here to chat about all things AUDIO EROTICA. We discuss: What audio erotica is and what makes for GOOD audio erotica Why fans of ASMR are going to LOVE audio erotica Improving your dirty talk Using audio erotica alone and with a partner How to discuss audio erotica with a partner Benefits of listening to audio erotica Using audio erotica to explore your fantasies and different types of sex Finding ways to make safety and prep SEXY Learn more about your a...
Sep 14, 2022•45 min
Victoria Albina, NP, MPH is BACK and this time she’s answering YOUR questions about codependency, relationships, and sex. We discuss: Mismatched libidos Having your own back & showing up for your needs What to do if you’re partner isn’t following through People pleasing Understanding what your intuition is telling you Fear of being cheated on Supporting a partner with depression, while supporting yourself Trying to justify a partner’s toxic behavior The “why don’t we just break up then” come...
Sep 07, 2022•1 hr 11 min
In this episode we’re chatting with Lisa Welsh, a sex and pleasure educator who’s dedicated to helping you build self-worth and banish boring sex. We discuss: Lisa’s playful approach to sexuality What we’re doing that makes sex feel boring, subpar, or “meh” How to work through shame How to actually check in with yourself during sex Fun sex games to play in the bedroom Body mapping Having sex when you’re in a rush (aka a quickie) Is there such a thing as too silly or goofy when it comes to sex? L...
Aug 31, 2022•1 hr 5 min
In this episode we're chatting with Alicia Davon, a relationship and romance expert, about what it takes to build a successful relationship. We discuss: What a "successful" and "unsuccessful" relationship looks like (hint: success doesn't necessarily mean long term or headed towards marriage) How commitment is actually a type of freedom Working through commitment issues Romanticizing the messy parts of life and relationships Whether you can move from incompatibility to compatibility Relationship...
Aug 24, 2022•1 hr 3 min
Cat is BACK and so are her answers to your UNCENSORED questions. This time we’re getting even spicier and diving into foot fetishes, f*cking your ex, how to pleasure a smaller peen, and SO MUCH MORE. Cat walks us through the “what are we” conversation, the “I need you to get better at fingering” conundrum, and some sure fire ways to keep the heat in your long distance relationship. Tune in now for some hot takes, killer advice, and a very good time. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcas...
Aug 17, 2022•1 hr 5 min
