Developing a secure attachment in your marriage occurs when both partners feel like their needs are met sensitively and consistently. When this happens regularly, a sense of trust is created in the relationship. This episode will show you how to get there. Please consider becoming a monthly supporter of the podcast: If this podcast has benefited you, please consider becoming a monthly supporter. Your support will help keep the Marriage Steps Podcast on the air so couples across the globe can rec...
Feb 12, 2020•13 min•Ep. 58
Welcome to the Marriage Steps question and answer episode. Today I'll be responding back to two questions.The first focuses on what a woman should do who found out her husband has a porn addiction. The second focuses on what a woman can do who just discovered her husband wants a divorce. Please consider becoming a monthly supporter of the podcast: If this podcast has benefited you, please consider becoming a monthly supporter. Your support will help keep the Marriage Steps Podcast on the air so ...
Feb 07, 2020•11 min•Ep. 57
The majority of couples have differences in libido, which often creates all sorts of frustration, pressure, and conflict. This episode provides 7 ideas to help couples resolve some of those differences. Please consider becoming a monthly supporter of the podcast: If this podcast has benefited you, please consider becoming a monthly supporter. Your support will help keep the Marriage Steps Podcast on the air so couples across the globe can receive hope and tools for their relationship. Depending ...
Feb 06, 2020•15 min•Ep. 56
Porn is everywhere whether you want it to be or not. Like any drug, it has an impact on the user, which in turn impacts the marriage. This episode unpacks 8 things to consider with porn and marriage. Please consider becoming a monthly supporter of the podcast: If this podcast has benefitted you, please consider becoming a monthly supporter. Your support will help keep the Marriage Steps Podcast on the air so couples across the globe can receive hope and tools for their relationship. Depending on...
Jan 29, 2020•15 min•Ep. 55
It's free marriage advice hour on the Marriage Steps Podcast. In this episode Dr. Wyatt addresses two questions from listeners. The first revolves around contact with an ex-lover and the second involves spiritual activity. Send your questions for the next free marriage advice hour to info@drwyattfisher.com. Please consider becoming a monthly supporter of the podcast: If this podcast has benefitted you, please consider becoming a monthly supporter. Your support will help keep the Marriage Steps P...
Jan 26, 2020•11 min•Ep. 54
We hear all the time about men having higher libidos than their wives. But what about when the woman has the higher drive? What types of barriers and unique challenges does that create? Moreover, what can be done about it? This episode will show you some steps. Please consider becoming a monthly supporter of the podcast: If this podcast has benefitted you, please consider becoming a monthly supporter. Your support will help keep the Marriage Steps Podcast on the air so couples across the globe c...
Jan 22, 2020•14 min•Ep. 53
Sex is a loaded topic for couples and most have problems with it for one reason or another. However, one thing that can resolve many of the problems is making sure the wife orgasms before intercourse. This episode will explain five reasons why. Please consider becoming a monthly supporter of the podcast: If this podcast has benefitted you, please consider becoming a monthly supporter. Your support will help keep the Marriage Steps Podcast on the air so couples across the globe can receive hope a...
Jan 17, 2020•10 min•Ep. 52
What do you do when your needs aren't met in marriage? What do you do when your partner hurts your feelings or offends you? A lot of people stuff down their negative feelings because they don't want to be vulnerable with what they feel or they want to avoid a fight. This episode highlights the top four reasons it's important to express your negative feelings. Please consider becoming a monthly supporter of the podcast: If this podcast has benefitted you, please consider becoming a monthly suppor...
Jan 15, 2020•12 min•Ep. 51
The more unhealed trauma you have in your past, the more difficult you'll be as a spouse. Hurt people hurt people. This episode will walk you through the top two ways partners with unhealed trauma can be difficult in marriage. Please consider becoming a monthly supporter of the podcast: If this podcast has benefitted you and you would like to keep it on the air, please consider becoming a monthly supporter. Depending on the amount of your financial gift, you'll receive a public thank you on the ...
Jan 10, 2020•12 min•Ep. 50
When couples go through seasons of no sex it often impacts low and high libido partners differently. Low libido partners usually don't even think about it. High libido partners are usually devastated. This episode discusses six ways no sex impacts high libido partners. Please consider becoming a monthly supporter of the podcast: If you believe in this podcast and would like to partner with me in reducing the divorce rate one marriage at a time, please consider becoming a monthly supporter. Your ...
Jan 08, 2020•11 min•Ep. 49
A question I hear a lot in my practice is how to make a woman desire more sex. Well, this episode is for you as I unpack the top two keys to making a woman desire more sexual intimacy. Please consider becoming a monthly supporter of the podcast: If you believe in this podcast and would like to partner with me in reducing the divorce rate one marriage at a time, please consider becoming a monthly supporter. Your generosity will help keep the Marriage Steps Podcast on the air, which will directly ...
Jan 03, 2020•14 min•Ep. 48
The holidays are filled with stress for many people. Decorating, Christmas cards, shopping, difficult in-laws, etc. Unfortunately, all that stress negatively impacts marriages. Therefore, this episode will provide 4 tips for making it through the holidays successfully. Become a monthly supporter of the podcast: If you believe in this podcast and would like to partner with me in reducing the divorce rate one marriage at a time, please consider becoming a monthly supporter. Your generosity will he...
Dec 20, 2019•11 min•Ep. 47
While striving towards a life-long covenant marriage is optimal to increase security and personal refinement, there are times when separation is recommended. This episode will provide those scenarios. Become a monthly supporter of the podcast: If you believe in this podcast and would like to partner with me in reducing the divorce rate one marriage at a time, please consider becoming a monthly supporter. Your generosity will help keep the Marriage Steps Podcast on the air, which will directly im...
Dec 18, 2019•13 min•Ep. 46
We hear a lot that "two become one" in marriage. However, we don't hear much about what that means and how to apply it. This episode will walk you through three possible levels of oneness, including body, soul, and spirit. Become a monthly supporter of the podcast: If you believe in this podcast and would like to partner with me in reducing the divorce rate one marriage at a time, please consider becoming a monthly supporter. Your generosity will help keep the Marriage Steps Podcast on the air, ...
Dec 11, 2019•10 min•Ep. 45
The more invincible you think you are to having an affair, the more likely you'll fall into one. The truth is we're all susceptible to an affair if we aren't careful. This episode will show you 8 things that may increase your affair risk. Become a monthly supporter of the podcast: If you believe in this podcast and would like to partner with me in reducing the divorce rate one marriage at a time, please consider becoming a monthly supporter. Your generosity will help keep the Marriage Steps Podc...
Dec 06, 2019•15 min•Ep. 44
Just because you get married doesn't mean you'll stop being attracted to others. Therefore, knowing how to manage attraction towards others with integrity is essential to honor your marriage. This episode will provide 5 tips to get you started. More information here on the marriage podcast More information here on marriage counseling in Boulder, CO More information here on marriage retreats in CO More information here on marriage retreats in TX If you would like to support my mission to reduce t...
Dec 04, 2019•9 min•Ep. 43
Everything in your life pulls you away from your partner. Therefore, becoming a team requires continual effort. This episode will provide 6 tips for developing more teamwork in your marriage. More information here on the marriage podcast More information here on marriage counseling in Boulder, CO More information here on marriage retreats in CO More information here on marriage retreats in TX If you would like to support my mission to reduce the divorce rate one marriage at a time, please consid...
Nov 20, 2019•15 min•Ep. 42
The top two things needed for a good marriage are the right type of heart and the right type of tools. If you only have one or the other it's not enough. Both are essential. This episode explores what it means to have the right kind of heart and the right kind of tools for a good marriage. Click here for information on attending my next couples retreat Click here for information on scheduling marriage counseling If you would like to support my mission to reduce the divorce rate one marriage at a...
Nov 13, 2019•11 min•Ep. 41
Money is a common topic couples fight about and there are various reasons why. This episode will walk you through ten steps to move you towards financial peace in your marriage. Click here for information on attending my next couples retreat Click here for information on scheduling marriage counseling If you would like to support my mission to reduce the divorce rate one marriage at a time, please consider becoming a monthly supporter. Your generosity will help keep the Marriage Steps Podcast on...
Nov 08, 2019•21 min•Ep. 40
Some in-laws are wonderful. They're kind, respectful, and easy to get along with. However, many in-laws are difficult and if not handled properly can create marriage problems. This episode will walk you through four steps to managing difficult in-laws effectively. Click here for information on attending my next couples retreat Click here for information on scheduling marriage counseling If you would like to support my mission to reduce the divorce rate one marriage at a time, please consider bec...
Nov 06, 2019•11 min•Ep. 39
Through the years of being married, it's common for spouses to start feeling less physical attraction for one another. If this feedback is not presented or received well, problems usually erupt. This episode addresses four ways to manage it effectively. Click here for information on attending my next couples retreat Click here for information on scheduling marriage counseling If you would like to support my mission to reduce the divorce rate one marriage at a time, please consider becoming a mon...
Nov 01, 2019•15 min•Ep. 38
It's easy to start feeling hopeless in marriage for a variety of factors. This episode addresses the top five things to do when you start feeling that way. For more information on my top six marriage steps for happiness click here . Click here for information on attending my next couples retreat . Click here for information on scheduling marriage counseling with me . If you believe in my mission to reduce the divorce rate and would like to financially partner with me to keep the Marriage Steps P...
Oct 29, 2019•13 min•Ep. 37
We all love stories, especially stories of hope. Listen to this live interview of a couple who was near the brink of divorce but was able to recover and fall back in love. For more information on my top six marriage steps for happiness click here . Click here for information on attending my next couples retreat . Click here for information on scheduling marriage counseling with me . If you believe in my mission to reduce the divorce rate and would like to financially partner with me to keep the ...
Oct 25, 2019•21 min•Ep. 36
Many couples include one partner who's a hot head. A hot head is a person who routinely loses their temper. It can be difficult being the hot head and obviously difficult to be on the other side of one. This episode provides seven options for managing relationships with a hot head. For more information on my top six marriage steps for happiness click here . Click here for information on attending my next couples retreat . Click here for information on scheduling marriage counseling with me . If ...
Oct 23, 2019•15 min•Ep. 35
One of the worst things you can do is settle for an unhappy marriage, which happens all the time. Our top needs are unmet and we are tired of fighting so we give up and surrender. However, doing so turns marriage into a prison and resentment begins to build. This episode will show you five reasons not to settle for an unhappy marriage. For more information on Dr. Wyatt Fisher's top six marriage steps for happiness click here . Click here for information on attending the next couples retreat with...
Sep 18, 2019•11 min•Ep. 28
When couples are dating their love buckets get full and they fall in love. Everything your partner does that makes you feel good fills your love bucket (fillers) and everything they do that makes you feel negative towards them drains your love bucket (drainers). Therefore, the quickest way to fall back in love is for both partners to fill one another's love bucket while eliminating the behaviors that drain one another's love bucket. This episode will show you how! For more information on Dr. Wya...
Sep 13, 2019•21 min•Ep. 27
When couples fight, they become hyper-focused on the weeds, including who said what, what happened when, etc. This is futile. Instead, couples must identify their core needs that are fueling the weeds. This episode will provide four ways to do that to decrease conflict. For more information on Dr. Wyatt Fisher's top six marriage steps for happiness click here . Click here for information on attending the next couples retreat with Dr. Wyatt Fisher . Click here for information on scheduling marria...
Sep 11, 2019•11 min•Ep. 26
When a couple is first dating they give all their attention to one another. Then, after being together for many years kids, careers, and finances tend to take precedence. Unfortunately, this makes couples slowly drift apart from one another. This episode addresses this slow drift and provides four practical ways to start giving your spouse more attention this week. For more information on Dr. Wyatt Fisher's top six marriage steps for happiness click here . Click here for information on attending...
Sep 06, 2019•11 min•Ep. 25
Partners throw out bids for connection in marriage all the time. The bid can be for more affection, more sex, more quality time, more emotional intimacy, etc. Identifying your partner's bids and then learning to turn towards them is crucial for marital happiness. This episode will explain why. For more information on Dr. Wyatt Fisher's top six marriage steps for happiness click here . Click here for information on attending the next couples retreat with Dr. Wyatt Fisher . Click here for informat...
Sep 04, 2019•12 min•Ep. 24
Around 50% of all marriages experience infidelity. Discerning how a couple got there and how to recover can be a convoluted journey. Part of the journey is determining who is to blame for the affair, which this episode covers. For more information on Dr. Wyatt Fisher's top six marriage steps for happiness click here . Click here for information on attending the next couples retreat with Dr. Wyatt Fisher . Click here for information on scheduling marriage counseling with Dr. Wyatt Fisher . If you...
Aug 30, 2019•10 min•Ep. 23
