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Coaching Real Leaders

Harvard Business Review / Muriel Wilkinshbr.org
We all want to get to the next level of our career, but so many of us get stuck. Longtime leadership coach Muriel Wilkins takes you inside real-life leadership coaching sessions with high performers working to overcome professional challenges and grow as leaders. Listen in on real conversations and leave with new insights and practical guidance for your own career. The views expressed on this podcast are those of its hosts, guests, and callers, and not those of Harvard Business Review.

Episodes

How Do I Get Recognized as a Leader?

In this episode of Coaching Real Leaders, Muriel Wilkins coaches Denise, who seeks recognition as a leader in a company valuing long-term relationships. They explore Denise's assumptions, the reality of her contributions, and strategies to navigate the insular culture. The coaching focuses on self-advocacy, seeking feedback, and reframing perspectives to leverage the culture's strengths.

Apr 07, 20251 hr 1 minSeason 9Ep. 1

Coming Soon: Season 9 of Coaching Real Leaders

A lot of things change throughout your career, but challenges will always be there. Executive coach Muriel Wilkins helps leaders at all levels deal with the leadership hurdles they face in today’s work world. She’s back with a new season of Coaching Real Leaders, taking us into of real life executive coaching conversations. Listen to the new season of Coaching Real Leaders starting April 7th.

Mar 31, 20252 min

How Do I Position Myself to Influence Senior Leadership?

Muriel Wilkins coaches Brayden, a leader seeking to expand his strategic impact, on navigating mixed signals from senior leadership and maintaining effectiveness without burnout. They discuss aligning personal and organizational goals, clarifying his role, and addressing the disconnect between desired growth and actual behaviors. The coaching explores Brayden's frustrations, motivations, and how to reframe his approach for greater influence and personal fulfillment.

Dec 16, 202450 minSeason 8Ep. 6

How Do I Lead Change When There Is Stakeholder Resistance?

She’s an experienced leader who made a big international move to take on a new change management role. But the transformation project isn’t working out the way she had hoped. Now she’s looking for ways to increase buy-in from key stakeholders while also navigating cross-cultural challenges. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches this leader through her possible next steps to handle the resistance she’s facing as she tries to lead change.

Dec 02, 20241 hr 5 minSeason 8Ep. 5

Do I Really Want To Be a C-Suite Leader?

She’s put in the hard work and might be next in line for an important, C-suite level job. But she’s not sure if that role is something she really wants. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches this leader to help her discover what she really wants to do next.

Nov 18, 202453 minSeason 8Ep. 4

How Do I Deal with Low Performers on My Team?

He leads a large team that has grown quickly. Now he’s struggling with senior members on the team whose work isn’t meeting his expectations. He’s not sure how to hold them more accountable and drive higher performance. Host Muriel Wilkins helps him evaluate his options and understand the different ways he can enforce boundaries to move his team forward.

Nov 04, 202448 minSeason 8Ep. 3

How Do I Handle It When I Disagree with My Boss’s Decisions?

After finishing business school, he landed several leadership positions and was fast-tracked into the executive level of his organization. But he’s been struggling to find his footing in his new leadership role, especially when he doesn’t agree with his boss. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches him through how to come to terms with leadership decisions he doesn’t agree with while staying true to himself.

Oct 21, 202455 minSeason 8Ep. 2

How Do I Balance My Career Ambitions as Part of a Dual-Career Couple?

She has ambitions to reach the C-suite, but her career has hit a plateau. Opportunities in her current role have stalled, and she feels her options are limited as she tries to balance her career with that of her partner’s. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches her through reframing her career stagnation and the steps she can take to continue her professional growth.

Oct 07, 202442 minSeason 8Ep. 1

Coming Soon: Season 8 of Coaching Real Leaders

Butting heads with your boss? Trying to decide whether to push for a promotion to the C suite? Struggling to figure out what really matters to you in your career? These are all real challenges that many of us face in our careers, but we don’t always have a place to turn for answers. Executive coach Muriel Wilkins is back for another season of Coaching Real Leaders to tackle these leadership hurdles and more on the podcast that takes you behind the scenes of real life executive coaching conversat...

Sep 30, 20242 min

How To Make the Most of Your Work Day (from Working It)

This episode is a special introduction to Working It, an award-winning podcast from the Financial Times. Host Isabel Berwick explores why different people work better at different times of the day. Bestselling author Daniel Pink joins Berwick to discuss how we can harness these differences to do our best work.

Aug 12, 202421 minSeason 7Ep. 6

How Can I Set the Right Boundaries in a New Job?

She’s experienced burnout in more than one past role. Now, after taking some time away from work, she’s gearing up to start a new position and she wants to avoid making the same mistakes. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches her toward uncovering the root of her burnout and realizing how she can change the work habits that have caused it in the past.

May 20, 202454 minSeason 7Ep. 6

How Do I Prove I’m the Right Person for a Different Leadership Role?

He’s come up the ranks and built his career working in the field, and now wants to transition to the corporate side of his company. But he’s struggling to convince senior colleagues to permanently place him in such a role. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches him through defining his value proposition and influencing key decision-makers to achieve his career goals.

May 06, 202453 minSeason 7Ep. 5

How Do I Avoid a Career Plateau at Midlife?

She’s an experienced leader who has always been highly ambitious and motivated to achieve impressive results. But now as she enters mid-life, she’s thinking about the next phase of her career and how to find a balance between striving and fulfillment. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches her through her concerns about aging in the workforce, finding the right challenges, and planning for her future.

Apr 22, 20241 hr 3 minSeason 7Ep. 4

How Do I Stay on the Fast Track to the Next Level of Leadership?

She has moved up in her organization quickly and often feels like she’s playing catch up. But she also has gotten positive feedback from senior executives that she’s performing well. Now, as her company grows and the advancement opportunities narrow, she wants to be strategic about how to get to the next level of leadership. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches this leader to think through how she needs to adapt to move forward.

Apr 08, 20241 hr 6 minSeason 7Ep. 3

How Do I Get Results Without Feeling Burned Out?

He’s a leader with a passion for going the extra mile and achieving results. But he’s struggling with how long he can sustain the level of effort and time required to meet the demands of his new role. Host Muriel Wilkins helps this leader unpack what drives his work habits, redefine how he demonstrates his value, and align his workload with his overall goals.

Mar 25, 202451 minSeason 7Ep. 2

How Do I Balance My Career Goals with My Company’s Needs?

She held many positions all over the world before landing her dream leadership role. But then she took on a different position at her company to be closer to where she wanted to live permanently. Now she’s missing her previous role and hopes to return to it, but is unsure how to make it happen since the company needs her where she is. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches her through understanding how to articulate her career goals and navigate what’s next.

Mar 11, 202441 minSeason 7Ep. 1

Coming Soon: Season 7

Executive coach Muriel Wilkins is back March 11 with a new season of the podcast that takes you behind the scenes of real life executive coaching conversations. On this season of Coaching Real Leaders, you’ll listen in on coaching sessions with leaders working through pressing career challenges like: How can I craft my next role to avoid burnout? Should I return to the C-suite? How can I find a new role that makes use of my strengths and brings me happiness? Can I adjust my workload while still ...

Mar 04, 20242 min

How Do I Handle Negative Feedback from My Team?

She’s grown her entire career at one company, but now she’s in a new leadership role and she recently felt blindsided by negative feedback from her team. She’s struggling to process the feedback and respond. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches her through how she can move forward with her team.

Nov 27, 202354 minSeason 6Ep. 6

Should I Continue to Climb the Corporate Ladder?

She’s a high-achiever who has defined herself through her achievements and promotions. But she’s hit some bumps in her career and she’s feeling less engaged in her work. Now she’s questioning the leadership track she’s on. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches her through defining what success looks like for her moving forward.

Nov 13, 20231 hr 1 minSeason 6Ep. 5

How Do I Find Meaning in My Work?

He took a less traditional career path to college and law school. Now he’s successful as a lawyer, despite several job pivots. But he is still missing meaning and connection in his work. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches this leader through defining his purpose and how that can translate to his work.

Oct 30, 20231 hrSeason 6Ep. 4

How Do I More Effectively Build Stakeholder Alignment?

He’s a leader with a growing team, and he enjoys people management. But he’s struggling to influence those outside of his team and build trust with stakeholders. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches him through developing some of the skills he needs to gain stakeholder alignment while driving for results.

Oct 16, 202352 minSeason 6Ep. 3

Should I Push To Make My Interim Leadership Role Permanent?

She’s taken a number of chances in her career and made some big pivots. Now, she’s been assigned to a senior role on an interim basis, but she’s not sure whether she should try to make the role permanent. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches her through the decision-making process to better understand what’s holding her back and the future she envisions for herself.

Oct 02, 202352 minSeason 6Ep. 2

How Do I Communicate With More Tact?

He’s always believed in hard work and is extremely ambitious. But he’s received feedback that sometimes the way he communicates is too direct, and he wants to work on his delivery. Host Muriel Wilkins helps him understand what might be holding him back and coaches him through how he can improve his approach.

Sep 18, 202352 minSeason 6Ep. 1

Coming Soon: Season 6

Executive coach Muriel Wilkins is back September 18 with an all new season of the podcast that takes you behind the scenes of real life executive coaching conversations. This season, first-time managers, mid-level leaders, and executives work through some of their most pressing career challenges. You’ll hear conversations around questions like: How do I know if I should make my interim role permanent? Have I taken my career as far as it will go? How do I build more effective relationships with m...

Sep 11, 20232 min

How to Use Your Presence (from Think Fast, Talk Smart)

On this special bonus episode, host Muriel Wilkins and Think Fast, Talk Smart host Matt Abrahams discuss strategies for creating a strong physical presence that can be felt by those around you . By understanding and controlling your presence, you can communicate more effectively, lead more authentically, and have a greater impact on your organization. Follow the Think Fast, Talk Smart podcast on your favorite podcast app. Stay tuned for a new season of Coaching Real Leaders this fall!

Aug 21, 202324 minSeason 5Ep. 6

The One Skill Leaders Need Today (from Radical Candor)

Candor and compassion at work are more important (and more difficult to cultivate) than ever. On this episode, host Muriel Wilkins joins the Radical Candor podcast to take questions from listeners and discuss how to lead in a hybrid environment. Look for Radical Candor in your favorite podcast app. And keep an eye out for the new season of Coaching Real Leaders, coming this fall!

Jul 25, 202350 minSeason 5Ep. 6

How Do I Move Forward from a Career Setback?

He experienced early success and a fast promotion at his organization, but then things started to shift. Now, there have been leadership changes, and his scope of responsibilities has changed, making him feel like his career is backsliding. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches him through how he can reframe the situation and prioritize what he wants from his career going forward.

Jun 19, 202356 minSeason 5Ep. 6

How Do I Set the Right Pace To Meet Our Strategic Goals?

She loves the work she does and has effectively managed her career to gain increased responsibility over time. She’s recently started managing managers for the first time and is struggling to find the right pace to help her organization reach long-term strategic goals, amid some short-term uncertainty. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches her through setting goals and timelines for the long term.

Jun 05, 202358 minSeason 5Ep. 5

How Do I Work with a Difficult Boss?

He’s a mission driven leader who has always found roles where he can help others. He was brought in at a high level at a new organization, but he’s feeling tension and conflict with the organization’s founder. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches him through how to manage himself in this negative work dynamic.

May 22, 202357 minSeason 5Ep. 4

How Do I Define My New Role to Set Myself Up for Success?

She’s found a career path she truly enjoys, in part because of her ability to take risks and try new things. Now, as her team is reorganized, she has the opportunity to design her next leadership position, but she’s not sure what she needs and wants to be successful. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches her through reframing what may be holding her back and identifying the priorities she wants to focus on going forward.

May 08, 20231 hr 1 minSeason 5Ep. 3