🔔 Subscribe for more Self-esteem & Dating tips! Hey everyone! Welcome back to The Deep Penetration Podcast, where we dive into self-esteem, dating, and building the love life you deserve. I’m Danny, your Self-esteem and Dating coach for Gay and Bisexual men. Ghosting is one of the biggest frustrations in modern Gay dating—why is it so common, and how can you navigate it without losing confidence? In this episode, I'm tackling the ghosting epidemic and giving you practical strategies to ...
Mar 07, 2025•21 min•Ep 93•Transcript available on Metacast Modern Gay Dating in 2025: Why It's Harder Than Ever & How to Succeed 🔔 Subscribe for more self-esteem & dating tips!Hey everyone! Welcome back to "The Deep Penetration Podcast", where we dive deep into self-esteem, dating, and thriving as your most authentic self. I’m Danny, your self-esteem and dating coach for Gay and Bisexual men. In this episode, we’re breaking down (Modern Gay Dating in 2025)—what’s changed, why dating feels harder than ever, and how you can navigate...
Feb 21, 2025•23 min•Ep 92•Transcript available on Metacast Want to make it to the second date? Going on a first date can be nerve-wracking, but with these essential first date survival tips, you'll be well on your way to securing that all-important second date! From making a great first impression to avoiding common date night disasters, I've got you covered. Whether you're a seasoned dater or just getting back out there, these expert-approved tips will help you navigate the world of online dating and find love in no time. So, what are you waiting for? ...
Jan 24, 2025•11 min•Transcript available on Metacast Hookup culture is a big part of the Gay community. Many people consider it a right to passage, but in reality, it can be damaging over an extended period of time. If you are wanting to get out of the pattern of hooking up and start dating more intentionally, this video is for you! Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 00:30 Be Clear on Your Goals 01:00 Set Your Intentions 01:45 Hold Yourself Accountable 03:11 Consistency is Key 04:52 Use Your Time Wisely Book a [FREE] Discovery Call: https://stan.store...
Jan 17, 2025•7 min•Ep 90•Transcript available on Metacast It's hard sometimes to gauge if someone is ACTUALLY into you and having a sign that he's into you would be amazing! For many of you, the anxiety isn't just about the date - it's what happens AFTER to date. We've all been there before; you do on a date with someone and things seem to be going really well! You chat, laugh, share stories, flirt, etc. but then - crickets! You don't hear anything after the date. In this video, I will cover the 6 signs that he is INTO YOU! Keep in mind, these are not ...
Jan 10, 2025•9 min•Ep 91•Transcript available on Metacast Finding love in the Gay community as a Gay or Bisexual man can be incredibly frustrating - believe me, I know! I spent many years looking for the "right" person and learned many lessons along the way. There are specific steps you can take to change your dating luck. These are the steps I took that resulted in me finding my partner and having a successful and thriving relationship 3 years later! Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 01:01 Brainstorm your values 02:51 Do your core values align with your ...
Jan 03, 2025•7 min•Ep 88•Transcript available on Metacast It's not uncommon in the Gay community that relationships fizzle out after 3-6 months. Unfortunately, it's a rarity to get past a year or two. I have worked with several men who can't even get passed a first date! If you are feeling disappointment with your dating life and you can't figure out why your relationships to last more than 6 months, I have some possible reasons for you! Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 01:23 You have unrealistic expectations 03:30 You're infatuated with the idea of dati...
Dec 27, 2024•14 min•Ep 87•Transcript available on Metacast Wondering why he’s not into you? Let’s get real—sometimes it’s not as complicated as it seems. In this video, I’ll talk about common reasons Gay and Bi guys face rejection, like coming on too strong, ignoring the signs, or confusing sex with something more. If you’re tired of chasing the wrong guys, this is for you! Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 01:20 You're coming off too strong 02:49 You're ignoring certain signs 04:25 You just like the idea of him 05:44 You like emotionally unavailable men 0...
Dec 20, 2024•11 min•Ep 85•Transcript available on Metacast There are MANY misconceptions about Bisexual men and what it means to date us. Trust me, I've heard it all: "Bisexual men are just DL guys who haven't accepted their sexuality." "Bisexual men can't be trusted because they are whores." "Bisexual men are selfish and just haven't made up their minds." "You can never satisfy someone who's Bisexual." The reality is, none of these are true. If you've had a negative experience with a Bisexual man, it's not due to his sexuality rather, his personality a...
Dec 13, 2024•10 min•Ep 85•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode, we are talking about the "grass is greener" mentality. As a coach, I have come to find that a lot of people will hide behind the "desire to see what's out there," to shy away from their personal insecurities. Many men will prioritize "preference" over connection. This episode is about exposing the myth of the perfect partner. If you are someone who is struggling to find a long-term committed relationship, have FOMO, or is struggling to figure out what you want... join the conver...
Nov 04, 2024•23 min•Ep 84•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode, we are talking about sexual health amongst Gay & Bi Men. Many of us have been exposed to sex from a very early age through porn and as many of you know, our introduction into the Gay community is usually through hookup apps. Many Gay & Bi men have had their first sexual experience with a complete stranger. While this can be an exciting experience, it can also result in some health complications. If you are someone who is interested in learning more about sexual health am...
Nov 01, 2024•18 min•Ep 83•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode, we are talking about the impact of porn on you and your relationships. For many of us, porn was our teacher and source of sexual expression when we were struggling to come out. It showed us there were other people like us. The problem is when we continue using Porn as an emotional crutch, leading to addiction. Have you ever stopped to think about the impact porn is having on your mental health and your relationships? If you want to unpack your relationship with porn, understand ...
Oct 28, 2024•25 min•Ep 82•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode, we are talking about the difference between discrimination and preference when it comes to dating. This is a HOT BUTTON subject amongst the LGBTQ+ community so I wanted to have an open and honest discussion about it. Do we use the term "preference" to mask or cover an underlying prejudice or dislike? Are preferences healthy? If you want to learn the difference between preference and discrimination, unpack the common misconceptions, and explore a topic that may trigger some uncom...
Oct 25, 2024•30 min•Ep 81•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode, we are talking about jealousy in same-sex relationships. Are Gay & Bi men more jealous? Jealousy in a universal feelings experienced by heterosexual individuals and homosexual people alike, but are there factors that feed the stereotype that Gay men are more jealous? If you want to learn about jealousy, identify if you are the jealous type, and learn how to overcome it... join me! Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 03:00 Jealousy vs. Envy 04:00 Common Misconceptions about Jealou...
Oct 21, 2024•23 min•Ep 80•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode, we are talking about the toxic masculinity trap! A lot of Gay & Bi men will say they "prefer" masculine or straight acting men, but is that possibly stopping you from finding love? I understand the allure and the attraction to "straight" acting men, but when it is the ONLY type of guy you are willing to date - you could be stopping yourself from finding a partner who is actually ready for a relationship! If you want to know what toxic masculinity is, how it's impacting you, ...
Oct 18, 2024•19 min•Ep 79•Transcript available on Metacast I think we've all been there before - hooked on a DL guy. The true question becomes, "what is so exciting about a DL guy!?" Why do we allow ourselves to fall in love or get emotionally involved with men who are not emotionally available? In the episode we will explore the sub-culture of DL men, their impact on the Gay & Bi Community, and how we can better navigate connections with men who are not out of the closet. If you have ever had an experience with a DL man, you'll want to stick around...
Oct 14, 2024•17 min•Ep 78•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode, we are discussing the processes of losing yourself in the Gay community. As humans, we have a deep desire to be a part of a community and belong - but what happens when the community you thought was your safe haven betrays you? We will discuss the societal pressures we experience as Gay & Bi men, dealing with internalized stigma (homophobia), how to identify if you're lost, and how to find yourself again. Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 02:35 How Do You Become Lost in the Gay...
Oct 11, 2024•21 min•Ep 77•Transcript available on Metacast In the Gay community, age gap relationships are not uncommon. Often, older men who are with younger men are considered "daddies," which is an interesting name if you think about it. In todays episode, we are talking about age gap relationships, if they are good or bad, the common misconceptions, my opinion on them, and some tips on how to have a healthy age gap relationship as a Gay or Bisexual Man. Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 02:25 Is It a Good Thing or a Bad Thing? 03:00 Why Age Gap Relatio...
Oct 07, 2024•19 min•Ep 76•Transcript available on Metacast There is a common misconception that Bisexual men can't be faithful and that we are "confused." In today's episode, we dive into these harmful stereotypes, unpack what it means to be a Bisexual man in today's society, the prejudice we face, and what it looks like dating a Bisexual man. Join me as we unpack the truth about Bisexuality! Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 02:30 What is Bisexuality? 04:50 I Always Knew I Liked Men & Women 06:25 Being Bisexual Doesn't Make Us Permiscuous 08:30 Unpack...
Oct 04, 2024•20 min•Ep 75•Transcript available on Metacast Hi, I'm Danny, a Self-Esteem and Love Coach specializing in helping Gay and Bisexual men thrive in their relationships and personal lives. If you enjoy this episode, don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and follow me on all my platforms! Click the link below for your FREE gift 🎁👇 https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny Today, we're discussing "Internalized Homophobia" and its effects on Gay relationships. As a Bisexual man who grew up in a religious, heterosexual household, I’ve experienced this f...
Aug 13, 2024•18 min•Ep 74•Transcript available on Metacast Hi, I'm Danny, a Self-Esteem and Love Coach specializing in helping Gay and Bisexual men thrive in their relationships and personal lives. If you enjoy this episode, don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and follow me on all my platforms! Click the link below for your FREE gift 🎁👇 https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny Today, we're diving into why many of us are drawn to emotionally unavailable men, and how to break free from this pattern. What We'll Cover: 1. Why unavailable men are attractive. 2...
Aug 06, 2024•21 min•Ep 73•Transcript available on Metacast Hi, I'm Danny, your Self-Esteem and Love Coach specializing in helping Gay and Bisexual men thrive in their relationships and personal lives. If you enjoy this episode, don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and follow me on all my platforms! I also have a FREE gift for you! Check the link below! 🎁👇 https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny In today’s episode, we’re diving into one of the most frequently asked questions: "How do I keep a partner?" This is a valid question, especially in today's dating...
Jul 30, 2024•22 min•Ep 72•Transcript available on Metacast Hi, I'm Danny, a Self-Esteem and Love Coach specializing in helping Gay and Bisexual men thrive in their relationships and personal lives. If you enjoy this episode, don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and follow me on all my platforms! 🎧✨ I also have a FREE gift for you 🎁👇 https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny In today’s episode, we’re diving into the topic of monogamy within the LGBTQ+ community. Monogamy is often discussed in the context of heterosexual relationships, but it is equally rele...
Jul 23, 2024•19 min•Ep 71•Transcript available on Metacast 🔗 Resources: https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny Here's What You'll Find: - [FREE] Gift: The Ultimate Dating Guide for Gay & Bisexual Men - [FREE] Discovery Call - Social Media Links Welcome to the "Deep Penetration" podcast! I'm Danny, a Self-Esteem and Love coach specializing in working with Gay and Bisexual men. In today’s episode, we’re diving into the topic of toxicity in relationships and how to stop attracting toxic men. 🌪️💔 It's crucial to understand and identify toxic behaviors to fo...
Jul 16, 2024•21 min•Ep 70•Transcript available on Metacast 🔗 Resources: https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny Here's What You'll Find: - [FREE] Gift: The Ultimate Dating Guide for Gay & Bisexual Men - [FREE] Discovery Call - Social Media Links Welcome to the "Deep Penetration" podcast! I'm Danny, a Self-Esteem and Love coach specializing in working with Gay and Bisexual men. In today's episode, we're diving into the tricky waters of developing feelings for a hookup. 🎧💖 Subscribe to the podcast and my other platforms for more content like this, and don'...
Jul 10, 2024•23 min•Ep 69•Transcript available on Metacast Resources: 🎁 FREE GIFT | https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach 🎙️Spotify | https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/deep-penetration 📱TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@coachdannymorales ❤️Insta | https://www.instagram.com/coach_dannymorales/ 💻Website | https://www.thecoachdanny.com 📧 Email | dannymoralescoaching@gmail.com Episode Description: Welcome to the "Deep Penetration Podcast", today I'm here to tell you something you might find hard to believe: every single person has the pote...
Jun 21, 2024•17 min•Ep 68•Transcript available on Metacast Resources: 🎁 FREE GIFT | https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach 🎙️Spotify | https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/deep-penetration 📱TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@coachdannymorales ❤️Insta | https://www.instagram.com/coach_dannymorales/ 💻Website | https://www.thecoachdanny.com 📧 Email | dannymoralescoaching@gmail.com Description: Welcome to the "Deep Penetration Podcast", Today we're diving into a topic that many Gay and Bisexual men are familiar with: Grindr. If you're part of t...
Jun 14, 2024•21 min•Ep 67•Transcript available on Metacast Growing up in the United States, there is emphasis on living the "American Dream," which means having the white picket fence, the dog, kids, etc. As society is evolving and changing that is not necessarily the goal, but the concept of the "perfect home life" is. As a queer man, we fantasize and idolize that living… even if you don’t want to admit it. Granted, every experience is subjective and therefore, your vision of love and relationships might be very different… but the men I have spoken to ...
Jun 11, 2024•17 min•Ep 51•Transcript available on Metacast Fear is a powerful emotion that can significantly impact our lives and it's often overlooked when considering the challenges faced by queer men in relationships. In the context of gay and bisexual relationships, fear plays a pivotal role, often acting as the primary obstacle to long-lasting and fulfilling partnerships. I know that for a lot of you this seems like the obvious answer, but have you ever stopped to ask yourself, why? Why does fear play such a major role in SO many failed relationshi...
Jun 11, 2024•18 min•Ep 45•Transcript available on Metacast I wanted to shed some light on the psychological and emotional aspects of pornography consumption and its potential impact on your intimate connection with your partner. By understanding the effects you can navigate you relationship with pornography in a way that promotes healthy self-esteem and thriving relationships. 1. Understanding Pornography's Appeal: Pornography is widely consumed due to its immediate accessibility, visual stimulation, and the fantasy it provides. It can be a source of se...
Jun 11, 2024•17 min•Ep 39•Transcript available on Metacast 
