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You've Got Mail

Bella
Hi! You've Got Mail from me, Bella. Like a voice note from your big sister, this podcast bring you weekly honest chats about life, growth, and figuring it out in your 20s šŸ’Œ So go ahead, open your mail!
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RE: What did my early twenties teach me?

Hi! You've Got Mail from me, Bella, and this week we are discussing my early twenties and everything they have taught me. Thank you for listening to this week's podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe! Follow me on socials by following this link: https://linktr.ee/youvegotmail Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 17, 2025•28 min

RE: I Didn't Get My Predicted Grades (and I'm so glad I didn't)

EVENT INFO: I am having an event in London on the 16th Aug and I would LOVE to see you!! Follow this link to access the tickets: https://lu.ma/04y3zmqy Hey you! You've Got Mail from me, Bella, and this week I'm probably being a little too honest and sharing how recieving my A-Level results went. As someone who had validatedbtheir entire existance on thair achievments, not getting into my univeristy course because of my grades was a low point. But, in this episode I explain why it was actually on...

Aug 10, 2025•24 min

RE: The Mindset Shift That Changed My Perspective

Hey!! You've Got Mail from me, Bella, and this week we are discussing why your perspective matters and how you can make the most out of every moment (but not in a toxic positivity way!!) Follow me on insta and on tiktok @mailfrombella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 03, 2025•29 min

RE: Why Expressing Yourself Might Be the Key to Figuring Yourself Out

Hi! You've Got Mail from me, Bella, and this week we are discussing creativity, self-expression and why it is so important as a stepping stone to finding who you are and working out who you want to be! Thank you for listening, it means the world <3 Love Bella šŸ’Œ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 27, 2025•24 min

RE: What has a five year relationship taught me?

Hi you! This week you've got mail from me, Bella, and we are discussing everything I have learnt about being in a relationship in my early twenties as my boyfriend and I celebrate our five year anniversary! Love, Bella šŸ’Œ If you don't already please press follow, you can find my on instagram and on tiktok @mailfrombella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 20, 2025•36 min

RE: From Burnout to Balance: How a Cafe Job Saved Me

Hey you šŸ’Œ It’s probably no surprise that I quit my old job and ended up doing something totally different. I always said that by month three of unemployment, I’d take anything —and when that time came, working in a cafĆ© felt like an unexpected but exciting change. At first, it was just a way to pay rent. But what I didn’t realise was how much this job would shift my entire relationship with stress, work, and self-worth. Six weeks in, I finally feel like I can see a job as just a job —not life o...

Jul 13, 2025•25 min

RE: Should I Move In With My Partner?

Hey you! Moving in with your partner is such a big decision, so here I am discussing all of this... It's weird, finally coming to this chapter of my life because I don't feel old enough, but I guess here we are... Love Bella šŸ’Œ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 06, 2025•33 min

RE: How Do I Beat Burnout?

Hi! You've Got Mail from me, Bella, and this week we discuss burnout and the small actions you can take to make sure burnout doesn't become your new normal. Let me know what you think about this episode in the comments! Love, Bella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 29, 2025•25 min

RE: Why being delusional helps us manifest our dream life

šŸ“© Inbox: New Message šŸ’Œ From: Your Internet Big Sister Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail talks about why being delusional is the solution to our problems, and I discuss why being delusional has helped me manifest a life I am really happy in. So go ahead—open your mail and let me know what you think :) Follow me on insta and on tiktok @mailfrombella ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/youvegotmail Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...

Jun 22, 2025•32 min

RE: am I addicted to my phone?

šŸ“© Inbox: New Message šŸ’Œ From: Your Internet Big Sister Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail talks about phone addiction, social media and and whyyyy we all need to be better about being bored. So go ahead—open your mail and let me know what you think :) Follow me on insta and on tiktok @mailfrombella ⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/youvegotmail Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...

Jun 15, 2025•30 min

RE: Dealing with summer FOMO

šŸ“© Inbox: New Message šŸ’Œ From: Your Internet Big Sister Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail is all about why we all have FOMO and how we can deal with it better. So go ahead—open your mail and let me know what you think :) Follow me on insta and on tiktok @mailfrombella ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/youvegotmail Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...

Jun 08, 2025•29 min

RE: Why You Should Trust Your Gut

šŸ“© Inbox: New Message šŸ’Œ From: Your Internet Big Sister Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail is all about why you should trust your gut, as it is usually more right than we realise. Whether you are starting to ask big questions in your life, want guidance or want to find out more about your intuition, learning to trust your gut is one of the most important lessons of your twenties. So go ahead—open your mail and let me know what you think :) Follow me on insta and on tiktok @mailfrombella ...

Jun 01, 2025•22 min

RE: Jumping Into the Unknown

šŸ“© Inbox: New Message šŸ’Œ From: Your Internet Big Sister Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail is all about dealing with change and jumping into the unknown. Whether your change is having exams, finishing school, going travelling or starting a new job, this episode is for you! The article is 'The Parable of the Trapeze' by Daanan Perry. So go ahead—open your mail and let me know what you think :) Follow me on insta and on tiktok @mailfrombella https://linktr.ee/youvegotmail Learn more about ...

May 25, 2025•29 min

RE: has therapy helped me?

šŸ“© Inbox: New Message šŸ’Œ From: Your Internet Big Sister Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail is all about how therapy has helped me process a tricky year in my life. The final lesson I learnt in therapy was that we always have the freedom to make new decisions, nothing is ever written in stone, and I wanted to share this with you. So go ahead—open your mail and let me know what you think :) Follow me on insta and on tiktok @mailfrombella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm...

May 18, 2025•20 min

RE: Why you can't force your future

šŸ“© Inbox: New Message šŸ’Œ From: Your Internet Big Sister Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail is all about how we can't force what is not meant to be for us. Sometimes the things we want most in life won't be right for us, but I truly believe that when these things don't work out we find something even better instead. So go ahead—open your mail and let me know what you think :) Follow me on insta and on tiktok @mailfrombella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...

May 11, 2025•25 min

RE: the hangover of hustle culture

šŸ“© Inbox: New Message šŸ’Œ From: Your Internet Big Sister Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail is all about the long-term impact of hustle culture and how choosing a career rather than thinking of the lifestyle we want is limiting impacting the lives we live in the long-term. So go ahead—open your mail and let me know what you think :) Follow me on insta and on tiktok @mailfrombella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...

May 04, 2025•31 min

RE: Are trends ruining our twenties?

šŸ“© Inbox: New Message šŸ’Œ From: Your Internet Big Sister Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail is all about the impact trends are having on our twenties, and how they are impacting the lives we live. So go ahead—open your mail and let me know what you think :) Follow me on insta and on tiktok @mailfrombella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...

Apr 27, 2025•33 min

RE: Dealing With Exam Stress

šŸ“© Inbox: New Message šŸ’Œ From: Your Internet Big Sister Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail is all about academic validation and why exam stress used to mean so much more than just exam stress. So go ahead—open your mail Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 20, 2025•18 min

RE: Why is finding friends in our twenties hard?

šŸ“© Inbox: New Message šŸ’Œ From: Your Internet Big Sister Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail is all about friendship and why finding friends in your twenties is so hard. So go ahead—open your mail Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 13, 2025•25 min

RE: why do 'eras' reframe our lives and help us understand change?

šŸ“© Inbox: New Message šŸ’Œ From: Your Internet Big Sister Hey you—check your inbox. This week’s mail is all about eras —why we create them, how they help us make peace with failure, and why defining things as chapters helps us deal with change. If you’ve ever said ā€œI’m in my ___ era,ā€ this episode is for you! So go ahead—open your mail Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...

Apr 06, 2025•26 min

RE: Is protecting my peace pushing people away?

šŸ“© Inbox: New MessagešŸ’Œ From: Your Internet Big Sister Hi! You've got mail from me and this week we are chatting about boundary setting and how trusting your anxious mind can *sometimes* mean you say no to plans you might actually enjoy. By learning how to question our motivations for saying no, we make sure we don't miss out on a key part of peace, social connection. So go ahead, open your mail!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...

Mar 30, 2025•25 min

RE: Is rejection redirection?

šŸ“© Inbox: New MessagešŸ’Œ From: Your Internet Big Sister Hi! You've got mail from me, Bella, and this week we are chatting about whether rejection is redirection. Often when things don't go as we planned them to we feel like we have failed, but, I'm starting to think that's not the case. So go ahead, open your mail!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 23, 2025•22 min

RE: Should you revisit a place you called home?

šŸ“© Inbox: New MessagešŸ’Œ From: Your Internet Big Sister Hi! You've got mail from me and this week we are chatting about visiting a place you once called home and why it can leave a funny feeling in your tummy. By revisiting old homes, we also revisit past selves which can teach us a lot about how far we have come. So go ahead, open your mail!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...

Mar 16, 2025•27 min

RE: How do you overcome loneliness?

šŸ“© Inbox: New MessagešŸ’Œ From: Your Internet Big Sister Hi! You've got mail from me and this week we are chatting about loneliness and different ways you can overcome that horrible feeling at the pit of your stomach. Loneliness comes and goes and each time I find to deal with it. So go ahead, open your mail!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 09, 2025•35 min

RE: Why does being positive help?

šŸ“© Inbox: New MessagešŸ’Œ From: Your Internet Big Sister Hi! You've got mail from me and this week we are chatting about why you need to stop rushing, appreciate the small stuff and, in times of darkness, find whatever light you can. So go ahead, open your mail!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 02, 2025•22 min

RE: adapting to change

šŸ“© Inbox: New MessagešŸ’Œ From: Your Internet Big Sister Hi! You've got mail from me and this week we are chatting about how to deal change in a healthy way! Change is scary but here are the things I’m doing to make it as normal as possible. In this episode, we why change is key to you growing as a person. So go ahead, open your mail!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...

Feb 23, 2025•31 min

RE: the different types of love

šŸ“© Inbox: New Message šŸ’Œ From: Your Internet Big Sister Hiii! You’ve got a new message from me, and this week as its the week of love we're talking about allll the different types of it!! There are so many different kinds of love, but platonic love is one of the most special. This Valentine’s Day , we’re diving into all the ways love can show up in your twenties—the friendships that feel like home, the deep connections that shape you, and the self-love that carries you through. So go ahead, open...

Feb 16, 2025•22 min

RE: So I made a big (career) decision...

šŸ“© Inbox: New MessagešŸ’Œ From: Your Internet Big Sister Hiii! You've got a new message from me, and this week we’re diving into some pretty big life moments. In this episode, we will talk about giving yourself time to figure out a plan, and why it's crucial to take time to process personal experiences before putting them out into the world.Join me as we explore the beauty of embracing change, trusting your intuition, and the freedom that comes with being in your twenties. If you’ve ever wondered ...

Feb 09, 2025•32 min

RE: How can I be happier?

šŸ“© Inbox: New Message šŸ’Œ From: Your Internet Big Sister Hi! You've got mail from me and this week we are chatting about listening to one of the most important voices in your life - your own. In this episode, we discuss how trusting your intuition can lead to more happiness, peace and clarity. So go ahead, open your mail! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...

Feb 02, 2025•32 min

RE: Surviving your twenties.. chatting with Lindsay from YouFoundHer podcast

What a way to kick off the guest's episodes with this beautifully comforting chat with Lindsay, the host of You Found Her Podcast, the podcast for ambitious minds seeking comfort. I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I did, and I hope it brings you an immense amount of comort to hear how things can turn out (it really did for me) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 26, 2025•51 min
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