Want a peek inside the world of kink from those who know it best? Longtime BDSM lifestylers and professionals Ian Rath and Aiden Starr host this intimate, sexy and entertaining show that is perfect for viewers of any level or experience in kink. Using eXtreme Restraints props, toys and tech, they show you the newest toys to play with and invite sexy guests to try them out and share their unique and very explicit experience with them. Conversations between Ian and Aiden are not only fun to listen to, they’re easy to understand and perfect for people from all walks of life who are interested in enhancing their sex life.
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Ian Rath and Bella Rolland delve into the often-discussed female orgasm gap, sharing statistics and practical advice for both men and women. They stress the importance of open communication, exploring personal pleasure points, and overcoming shame associated with sex toys. The episode culminates in a series of live demonstrations of different vibrators and strokers, offering tangible tools and tips to help listeners achieve more fulfilling sexual experiences.
With over 25% of the population identifying as disabled, knowing how to adjust for neutral positions that aren't painful and still let everyone feel sexy, empowered and feel pleasure is important. Our illustrious hosts Aiden Starr and Ian Rath invite an exciting new guest, Rachel, who lets us take a look inside the world of enjoying your body as a kinky, disabled person
In this episode of XR University, hosts Ian Rath and Aiden Starr invite Zariah Aura, a gorgeous trans woman, to share how she uses sex toys to enhance her own pleasure and fully enjoy her body!
Fantasize about role play scenes? Want to be a kinky animal? Enjoy the idea of "breeding" fantasies? On this episode of XR University, we get into our favorite part of BDSM, the element of having fun and playing! Everyone has a fantasy. How do we talk about it and bring it into the bedroom? Our hosts Aiden Starr, Ian Rath and their guest Charlotte Sins dive into the psychology of role play and show us some of the toys that are great tools to make it happen!
While How To Build A Sex Room takes viewers into the world of building new rooms, remodels and upgrades, our show shares ways to make it easy for yourself to create a spicy room that is specific and unique to your kinks and desires.
Ian and Aiden welcome Destiny Cruz to delve into the nuances of professional and stimulating bondage play. The discussion highlights the critical role of early, honest communication about sexual preferences and boundaries in forming healthy relationships. They also explore how to navigate differing desires, respect individual limits, and foster a culture of accountability and continuous learning in kinky dynamics.
In this episode of Extreme Restraints University, guests Daddy An Li and Elori join Ian Rath and Aiden Starr to teach and talk about Impact Play and Corporal Punishment! You can enjoy Aiden, Ian, Elori or An Li nerding out about the science of beating up the body with different toys and enjoy the combined experience and wisdom from all four of them.
As people start meeting up via FetLife and munches again, dungeons, playspaces and parties bring us back to planning for fun and kinky nights. Preparing for the best scenario while also being cautious and careful is part of building a perfectly curated Play Bag.
This week on XR University we tune in to Aiden Starr, Ian Rath and their gorgeous and entertaining guest Paige Owens as they talk about the hot topic that’s on everyone’s minds since restrictions have been lifted: travel!
As the world starts to open up, our “proverted” hosts Aiden Starr and Ian Rath (joined by Izzy Lush) help the audience understand how to be professional when trying new things.
Get ready to get shocked, or at least surprised, at how fun and pleasurable E-stim can be! Ian and Aiden bring first time guest Electra Rayne into the studio.
In this episode of XR University, Ian and Aiden are joined by the lovely Alexia Anders to discuss how to use Valentine's Day as a springboard to better sex.
This month, Ian and Aiden are joined by Ruckus, to discuss both the prostate and pegging play. While we have a male guest to help demonstrate various types of play this episode is for anyone who identifies with having a prostate, and wants to discover new ways to stimulate it.
Ian, Aiden, and special guest Kira Noir discuss and demonstrate Booty Sparks, a unique line of anal toys that include decorated gems, and flashing lights.
Join Ian, Aiden, and Mistress An Li, as they discuss and demonstrate the practice of FemDom, or female domination. It includes impact and chastity play.
Join Ian Rath, Casey Calvert, and Brooklyn Gray as they discuss how both women and men can introduce sex toys, and other bits of play, into your sexual routine.
Celebrate Women's History Month, International Women's Day, and a new season of XRU with Ian and Aiden and the amazing Kendra James and discuss Femdom.
With Valentine’s Day approaching, you have a chance to treat your partner, or yourself, with some sexual bliss. On this episode of XR University, Ian and Aiden are joined by the lovely Penny Pax.
Due to prolonged periods of isolation and self-quarantine, more people are turning to bondage play as a form of therapy. Learn more from Ian and Aiden, with special guest Kira Noir.
Whether alone, or with a partner, masturbation can be stimulating and orgasmic. In this episode of XR University, Ian and Aiden are joined by Lance Hart and Charlotte Sartre.
Ian and Aiden are joined by Dixie Comet and Nate to discuss consent in relationships. Relationships are a 2 way street, and it's important for both partners to have a say in what goes on.
Unless you happened to be quarantined with your significant other (or special someone), the events of recent weeks may have caused you to rely on technology to get your fix.
Being stuck at home doesn’t have to be all bad. The team at XR University (Ian Rath and Aiden Starr) are joined by the luscious Casey Calvert to talk about how you can enjoy sexual play at home.
XR University is back with a new episode. This time, the duo of Aiden and Ian are joined by the superb and sexy Kira Noir, to discuss high tech anal play.
On this episode of ‘XR University’ show co-hosts Ian Rath and Aiden Starr are joined by Sebastian Keys to discuss and demonstrate the latest technologies, around prostate stimulation.
