The phrases dating and courting are often used interchangeably. However, is that the correct way? Jump down the rabbit hole with us to hear about what we feel the difference is and why it is important NOT to TAKE a drink from Chris. Come on in and join the conversation. The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions ...
Oct 17, 2022•1 hr 3 min•Season 4Ep. 8
If you are a regular podcast listener, then you know we use Maya Angelou's wisdom a lot. So much we dedicated a whole episode to her lesson of "When someone shows you who they are, believe them." Who is to blame when you decide to ignore the warnings? Can you ever change someone's behavior? Is it worth it? Come on in and join the conversation. The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can...
Oct 10, 2022•56 min•Season 4Ep. 7
This episode, much like all the Mad Hatter episodes, will be exploring some graphic stories and details that may be a trigger so please consider your own trauma stories and experiences when deciding to listen. Mad as a Hatter. Do you know the story behind the phrase? The insanity behind the character? The phrase was used to describe someone who’s crazy or prone to unpredictable behavior. Between the 18th and 19th centuries, hatters used Mercury in their creations. The Mercury poisoning resulted ...
Oct 03, 2022•21 min
In the world of dating in today's age; there are many options you can pick from. We discuss poly, open, long-distance, and age-difference relationships. We talk about what ones each host can and has participated in and the ones that are a hard pass. From relationships to Olaf; this episode is truly a comical trip down the rabbit hole. The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the ...
Sep 26, 2022•55 min•Season 4Ep. 6
We all have heard the saying, "Men are from Mars; Women are from Venus." What does that mean for communication? Conflicts in communication can bring abrupt endings. Is it possible that communication could be based more on personality rather than gender? Come chat it up with the Wonderland crew and join in on the conversation. The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic ...
Sep 19, 2022•1 hr 15 min•Season 4Ep. 5
This episode, much like all the Mad Hatter episodes, will be exploring some graphic stories and details that may be a trigger so please consider your own trauma stories and experiences when deciding to listen. Mad as a Hatter. Do you know the story behind the phrase? The insanity behind the character? The phrase was used to describe someone who’s crazy or prone to unpredictable behavior. Between the 18th and 19th centuries, hatters used Mercury in their creations. The Mercury poisoning resulted ...
Sep 12, 2022•19 min
What does healing look like to you? Is it different when you are dating? How do you stay authentic to your healing while allowing yourself to be vulnerable with someone new? Come chat it up with the Wonderland crew and join in on the conversation. The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and ...
Sep 05, 2022•51 min•Season 4Ep. 4
Have you ever been told that you have “daddy issues” or been called a “mama’s boy” What exactly does that mean? What does it mean for you and your relationships? In this episode, we begin a conversation about what these terms actually mean, ways to identify the behaviors, and how to address them before they hurt your relationship. Spoiler alert…one of the hosts, has both! Can you guess who? The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appe...
Aug 30, 2022•1 hr 4 min•Season 4Ep. 3
This episode, much like all the Mad Hatter episodes, will be exploring some graphic stories and details that may be a trigger so please consider your own trauma stories and experiences when deciding to listen. Mad as a Hatter. Do you know the story behind the phrase? The insanity behind the character? The phrase was used to describe someone who’s crazy or prone to unpredictable behavior. Between the 18th and 19th centuries, hatters used Mercury in their creations. The Mercury poisoning resulted ...
Aug 22, 2022•24 min•Ep. 1
Come chat it up with the Wonderland Crew as we talk about the challenges of "Dating After Divorce". We talk about our own experiences and respond to some questions from others. Also, grab some tips for those of you who find yourself in this experience of dating after divorce. The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our ...
Aug 15, 2022•1 hr 13 min•Season 4Ep. 2
We're backkkkkkkkkkk! Season 4 has officially arrived! Come chat it up with the Wonderland Crew as we talk about what being "too" single is. Is that really a thing? Studies suggest that it is. We open the season with a discussion that is full of laughs and revelations that being single too long can actually shorten your lifespan!!! What?! Share your thoughts on the topic? Can being single for too long actually impact your health?? The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found ...
Aug 08, 2022•53 min•Season 4Ep. 1
Welcome to the "In-Betweens" a series of episodes between Seasons 3 and 4. Anything goes and the topics will be lighter but just as educational and engaging. This episode welcomes Tim from the " Real Talk with Tim " podcast as we go down the rabbit hole asking the question; is loyalty a learned behavior. We also take a look at the research that suggests cheating could be genetic. Below you will find links to the research references in the episode and Tim's handles to go share some love to his pl...
Jul 17, 2022•54 min
Welcome to the "In-Betweens" a series of episodes between Seasons 3 and 4. Anything goes and the topics will be lighter but just as educational and engaging. This episode is based on a video selection that discussed how "like attracts like". We take you down the rabbit hole in a discussion with Mr. Blackovation about how the main person to blame for our issues with others is....wait for it...OURSELVES! The video we are discussing will be available on our IG and FB. Don't forget to follow us on o...
Jul 10, 2022•48 min
This is the “official” last episode of our mini-series this season. We had to come back and finish with a merging of two episodes that got you all talking. In this episode we welcome back Davian from Season 1 Episode 6; “Matching Mindsets” and Mr. Blackovation (Darrell Barnes) helps to address the highly debated topic of overly masculine women in the black community and the imbalance that is being caused in relationships. Keisha co-pilots this episode. For me to say I wasn’t triggered… would be ...
May 22, 2022•1 hr 17 min•Season 3Ep. 18
Come chat it up with the Wonderland Crew and special guest and longtime friend M.Perry as we look at what vulnerability looks like in the black man. However, somewhere around the 25-minute mark, the train goes off the track. Come listen to an honest conversation between both genders asking and answering some tough questions about relationships. How many "Trigger Moments" can you count? That should have actually been the title! Our final episode for Season 3 is one that will have you engage...
May 16, 2022•52 min•Season 3Ep. 17
The Our House Is On Fire Monthly Series will take a look at various issues impacting the black community. The purpose is to discuss areas that have been overlooked or not given attention to and seek solutions. The goal is healing and moving forward from a place of unity and understanding. This episode is a Podcast Collaboration with Mr. Blackovation, host of the All Things Black Podcast. We will talk about how schemas such as “The Disappearing Black Father” and the “Strong Black Woman” can have ...
May 08, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Season 3Ep. 16
Live episode April Recap. Topics : S3 E14 - The Aftermath: What Is Your Break-Up Profile? S3 E13 - Recycling Pain in Relationships S3 E12 - Our House Is On Fire - Mental Health and The Community Impact S3 E11 - Creator's Corner Edition - What is Authentic Forgiveness? Guests Host : Marlowe ( The Woke Therapist ) and she is also the host of the podcast Marlowe and Mimi (guess who Mimi is) :-P The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted and nothing appe...
May 02, 2022•1 hr 3 min
Come chat it up with the Wonderland Crew as we look at how we handle break-ups. Is the way you handle break-ups healthy? Does it help you move on or does it cause you to linger in a space that is not beneficial for you? Do you know your break-up profile? Let’s start a conversation about how the “Aftermath” and spot behaviors in ourselves that may be hindering your growth when relationships end The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing a...
Apr 24, 2022•1 hr 2 min•Season 3Ep. 14
Come chat it up with the Wonderland Crew as we go down the rabbit hole and seek to learn what it means to "pay pain forward". What are some behaviors that can sabotage new relationships and fresh starts by reliving experiences of the past? Are you making your current partner pay for things your ex did to you? Are you creating a narrative based on transgressions of the past? The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while t...
Apr 17, 2022•59 min•Season 3Ep. 13
The Our House Is On Fire Monthly Series will take a look at various issues impacting the black community. The purpose is to discuss areas that have been overlooked or not given attention to and seek solutions. The goal is healing and moving forward from a place of unity and understanding. This episode is a Podcast Collaboration with Mr. Blackovation, host of the All Things Black Podcast. We will talk about the stigma of mental health and how they impact the black community. We will unpackage the...
Apr 10, 2022•1 hr 3 min•Season 3Ep. 12
Come chat it up with the creators of the "Relationships Through the Looking Glass" podcast as we welcome Marlowe Valcourt, The Woke Therapist, and Mr. Blackovation (Darrell) back to Wonderland. In this episode, we go down the rabbit hole as we seek to find out what authentic forgiveness is. Michelle and Markis take the episode back to its foundation of freestyle conversations on topics highlighting the importance of honest representation in seeking growth through connection. This season we have ...
Apr 03, 2022•52 min•Season 3Ep. 11
Live episode March Recap. Topics : What's Worse, Physical or Emotional Affairs Episode 2 of the "Our House is on Fire" series When Do You Know, It's Time to Go Guests Host : The co-creator of the podcast, Markis, makes an appearance and All Things Black Podcast (Mr. Blackovation/Darrell) The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will take a look...
Mar 27, 2022•57 min•Season 3Ep. 10
Come chat it up with the Wonderland Cast as we talk about deciding to end a relationship. This season we have focused on healing and healing together. Sometimes that healing is deciding to end a dead-end or toxic relationship. We talk about ways to determine for yourself when a relationship has hit the expiration date or is there a chance things can be fixed. As always feedback is always welcomed. The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted and ...
Mar 20, 2022•51 min•Season 3Ep. 9
The Our House Is On Fire Monthly Series will take a look at various issues impacting the black community. The purpose is to discuss areas that have been overlooked or not given attention to and seek solutions. The goal is healing and moving forward from a place of unity and understanding. This episode is a Podcast Collaboration with Mr. Blackovation, host of the All Things Black Podcast . We will talk about how some damaging behaviors that have been celebrated, promoted, and accepted in our comm...
Mar 14, 2022•59 min•Season 3Ep. 8
Come chat it up with the Wonderland Cast as we talk about cheating. What is worse, physical or emotional infidelity? Learn about some challenges to fixing a relationship when one of the partners has stepped out. Is it something that can be fixed? What are some fo the reasons why a person would stay? Disclaimer: The opinions and views expressed by CHRIS in this episode are those of his and his alone. They do not reflect the opinions or views of Michelle! The poor soul that not only had to l...
Mar 06, 2022•58 min•Season 3Ep. 7
Live episode Feb Recap. Topics: Couples Therapy, Following Back into Old Patterns, and Violence in the Black Community Guests Host: The Forefront Radio (Levi) and All Things Black Podcast (Mr. Blackovation/Darrell) The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will take a look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we...
Feb 27, 2022•1 hr 9 min
Come chat it up with the Wonderland Crew as we talk about couples therapy, what it is and what it is not? Answer some questions about some reasons to go to therapy with your partner and is it something you HAVE to do together, or can you go it alone? Of course, there will be some laughs...so come join in on the conversation. The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic ex...
Feb 20, 2022•55 min•Season 3Ep. 5
The Our House Is On Fire Monthly Series will take a look at various issues impacting the black community. The purpose is to discuss areas that have been overlooked or not given attention to and seek solutions. The goal is healing and moving forward from a place of unity and understanding. This episode is a Conscience Podcast Collaboration with Mr. Blackovation, host of the All Things Black Podcast . We will talk about the parts of our history and the ongoing challenges that are faced daily...
Feb 13, 2022•1 hr 8 min•Season 3Ep. 4
Come down the rabbit hole and learn about the challenges and benefits that occur when you begin to work on yourself and heal from past traumas and painful experiences. Healing can be a lonely road and sometimes people may stand in your way...and other times it is your own voice that can be the hardest to fight against. What do you do when people want the "old you" back? How do you handle it when you feel the unhealed behaviors were easier? Come listen to Michelle, Nicole, and Kesiha as they chat...
Feb 06, 2022•1 hr 2 min•Season 3Ep. 3
Live episode Jan Recap. Topics: Advice, Online Dating, and Mental Health Guests Host: The Forefront Radio (Levi) and Nerdy Bear Studios (Kuma) The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will take a look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests i...
Jan 30, 2022•58 min•Season 3Ep. 2
