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Tomboy Official

Helpful topics where we discuss dating, communication, complexities of relationships, style, social norms, and topics related to allies and LGBTQ+ humans. Want more? Patreon: (free and paid) patreon.com/TomboyOfficial Shop EBay: (Thorn Bloom 2025 T-Shirts) https://ebay.us/m/gRj3Ru (50 cents of all profits go to the Torrance LGBT+ Center in Los Angeles County, California) Blog: Tomboyofficial.blogspot.com IG: @Tomboyofficialig/
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Episodes

My Queer Dreams (a kick back & joking)

I’m reading through some dreams I’ve journaled about. Let me know if you like this short series and I’ll continue. That is, if I can dream up enough queer content:)

Aug 25, 202211 min

Formal Events

I’ve been noticing some formal events popping up that seem like they might be ideal for lgbtq+ and gender non conforming people.

Aug 17, 202219 min

Jelie of Kickback Couture and Reason Studios Interview (Black, LGBTQ+, masc presenting, female rapper, producer, and more; music production, personal experience with music, Reason, Propellerhead)

Here I talk about a recent Jelie interview (of Kickback Couture YouTube channel). I happened across this Reason Studios episode recently and it is about 1 year old by one of my favorite Black, LGBTQ+, female producers. I am so inspired by young aged millennial and Gen Z entrepreneurs, especially LGBTQ+ and gender representative talent. Check out some links: JELIE (main site): https://jelie303.com/home JELIE'S IG: @jelie303 JELIE'S YOUTUBE REASON STUDIOS AND OTHER PRODUCTION TUTORIALS: https://yo...

Aug 16, 20221 hr 16 min

Rita Brent Comedian (Black, female, lesbian, comedian, singer, writer, songwriter)

(See links below). I heard about Rita Brent on Ashley Gavin's podcast called "We're Having Gay Sex." RITA BRENT: https://www.ritabrent.com/ She is funny, talented at singing, has a partner, openly out Black lesbian female entrepreneur. Check out her funny content! She also sings very good and is very talented at her craft. ASHLEY GAVIN: https://youtu.be/btA4afqsDNc

Aug 16, 202213 min

Dating While Adjusting to Rona and Economic Change

We all are impacted by the changes in our societies. For myself I’ve noticed it even changed how I socialize, dating, eating, exercise routines, desires, motivation and everything in between. How have you been impacted lately? And what do you do to maintain a healthy balance while constantly needing to adjust since early 2020?

Aug 05, 202217 min

My Parents, Their Religion and LGBT

(Sorry I thought I had published this on Wednesday). This topic has some overlap of other episodes but I was thinking this through from specific actual examples of my parents since in our household we don’t have much of a discussion.

Aug 04, 202254 min

Black Pride (race and ethnicity, privilege, racism, prejudice)

Black Pride (race and ethnicity, privilege, racism, prejudice). We can see challenges already with trying to define race and ethnicity. How we look versus how we are treated can be impacting and can lead to privilege, racism, prejudice, and everything in between. The LGBTQ+ community in addition to sexual and gender minorities also is made of racial and ethnic minorities. Here we discuss some of the complexities (I talk about my personal experiences and opinions, this was recorded while driving ...

Jun 30, 20221 hr 33 min

Relationships and Internal Dynamics [self-esteem, perception, self-talk, & dating]

Relationships and Internal Dynamics [self-esteem, perception, self-talk, & dating]. (This is a working title). For once I jump into the topic, and on a weekday morning! I may break this down into separate topics and I’m likely going to be writing on related topics on the blog (www.tomboyofficial.blogspot.com). The goal here is to discuss themes I experience or themes others tell me about in relationships and applying them to dating as well. I hope it creates a sense of hope and sparks new po...

Jun 24, 20221 hr 40 min

Music, sound and art (pride bootcamp 2022)

Do you ever notice how creativity and creating art work is very fulfilling to the soul? Even if you aren’t good or skilled or knowledgeable we now more than ever have access at the least to online live streams of music, tutorials, free production software. And for other types of art there are digital software packages for sculpting, drawing, and 3D modeling. Get creative and pour some emotions into an art form and regardless the end product you will likely notice something further about your emo...

May 22, 20221 hr

Socializing (Pride Bootcamp 2022)

Time to unpack and study our social patterns. These change time to time. They can be altered by culture, lifestyle changes (graduating school, changing jobs), economic changes. And more! Try and identify the most recent day, week and if there are holes, barriers or unmet needs.

May 20, 202235 min

Sleep, wake, energy, mood (Pride Bootcamp 2022)

Back to the basics. Everything impacts something else. At your own preferred pace you can start to feel more on track. Identify the areas of the most struggle, for me I have them listed as sleep, wake, energy and mood. These are my major focuses lately. And I try and ground with spiritual practices and nourishment of deep breathing, food, nature, music, art/craft.

May 18, 202228 min
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