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Therapy Brothers

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This is The Courageous Call-in Show for redemptive healing after betrayal and addiction. Learn how to restore broken trust alongside 2 bold and experienced therapists. Brannon Patrick LSCW and Tyler Patrick LMFT have been in the trenches of addiction therapy for over 20 years, but before they were therapists, they were die-hard brothers and friends. In this podcast, they have deep discussions to answer the most difficult and uncomfortable questions–head on. This podcast is all about restoring trust in relationships after betrayal and addiction, healing trauma and shame, and experiencing wholeness like never before. Ask your question and let's have an honest conversation for a change. https://therapybrothers.org Reclaim Your Heart After Betrayal And Addiction: Begin our 12 month Healing Journey online group program founded by Brannon and Tyler. Book Your Discovery Call
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Episodes

#327: Can I Set A Boundary Around My Spouse's Lying?

In this episode, Tyler and Brannon discuss the struggles of setting boundaries around a partner's dishonesty. They tackle a listener's question about coping with a spouse's repeated lying, emphasizing the importance of trust and personal values in navigating such challenges. // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patrick...

Apr 03, 202436 minSeason 4Ep. 327

#326: Let's Talk About The Difference Between Limerence And Love

In this episode, Tyler and Brannon discuss the contrast between limerence and love. They tackle listener questions on navigating infidelity, rebuilding trust, and rekindling intimacy. // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" // Free Consultation Call: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com/co...

Apr 01, 202436 minSeason 4Ep. 326

#325: I've Done All I Can And I Still Feel Like I'm Not Enough. Am I Good Enough For God?

Caller Adam's Question: " What road blocks are causing me to gain recovery momentum with over a decade of failed attempts?....…" // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" // Free Consultation Call: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com/consultation-call⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Love Strong | Experience Therapy:...

Mar 27, 202451 min

#324: How Can I Find Peace No Matter What

In this podcast, Tyler and Brannon explore the path to inner peace, inspired by a quote from Buddhist monk Pema Chödrön. They discuss the balance between acceptance and agency, resilience in the face of challenges, and the transformative power of acknowledging the difference between pain and suffering. // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-q...

Mar 25, 202439 minSeason 4Ep. 324

#323: How Do I Know When My Spouse Has Forgiven Me?

Caller Danny's Question: "How do I know if my wife has forgiven me?....…" // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" // Free Consultation Call: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com/consultation-call⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Love Strong | Experience Therapy: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ // Brannon Patrick LCSW...

Mar 20, 202448 minSeason 4Ep. 323

#322: How Do I Navigate Rebuilding Trust And Showing Up Authentically After Relapse?

Caller Justin's Question: "I have been in recovery and sober for almost 2 years. Somewhere around July I relapsed which I just admitted to myself after listening to your podcast. I had been using the shopping apps Wish and Temu to look at women in lingerie. This continued until my shame caught up to me and I deleted the apps from my phone. We use an accountability software called Truple that sends screenshots of my PC and my phone to my wife. To my knowledge this software was not working on my p...

Mar 18, 202450 minSeason 4Ep. 322

#321: My Partner's Done A Little Bit Of Recovery Work. Should I Just Be Okay Now?

Caller Jessie's Question: " My Partner's Done A Little Bit Of Recovery Work. Should I Just Be Okay Now?....…" // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" // Free Consultation Call: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com/consultation-call⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Love Strong | Experience Therapy: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovest...

Mar 13, 202449 minSeason 4Ep. 321

#320: What Is Required To Heal?

Caller Kristi's Question: "What Is Required To Heal?....…" // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" // Free Consultation Call: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com/consultation-call⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Love Strong | Experience Therapy: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ // Brannon Patrick LCSW | "The Expert"...

Mar 11, 202445 minSeason 4Ep. 320

#319: Why Should I Work On Me Before I Worry About We?

In this episode, Tyler and Brannon delve into the crucial question: "Why should I work on me before I worry about we?" Join the Therapy Brothers on the podcast as they share insights drawn from their experiences as therapists and brothers. From navigating the challenges of individual growth to addressing the pitfalls of couples' therapy, they explore the importance of personal development in fostering healthy relationships. // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have...

Mar 06, 202440 minSeason 4Ep. 319

#318: Why Is It So Difficult To Make Amends

In this episode, Tyler explores the intricacies of making amends, delving into the emotional weight of unresolved wrongs. Sharing personal stories and insights, he navigates the challenges of Steps Eight and Nine from the 12 Steps framework. Tyler reflects on the impact of rejection through narratives about Andy Drake and Joseph, encouraging listeners to face their own lists and take the courageous step towards self-forgiveness. // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you...

Mar 04, 202435 minSeason 4Ep. 318

#317: Let's Talk About The Cornerstones Of Recovery

In this episode, Tyler discusses the cornerstones of recovery on the Therapy Brothers podcast. Tyler covers daily practices, setting boundaries, skill development, building a support team, and the power of mindfulness. // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" // Free Consultation Ca...

Feb 28, 202442 min

#316: What Does It Actually Mean To Not Take Your Partner's Pain Personally?

In this episode, Tyler and Brandon explore the intricacies of not taking your partner's pain personally. They discuss self-love, facing reality in recovery, and the importance of holding space for a partner's pain. // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" // Free Consultation Call: ...

Feb 26, 202442 min

#315: Why Do I Struggle When Things Are Going Well?

Caller Patrick's Question: "How do I balance my recovery with helping others on their recovery journey?....…" // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" // Free Consultation Call: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com/consultation-call⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Love Strong | Experience Therapy: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovest...

Feb 21, 202446 min

#314: When Do I Know Enough Is Enough?

Caller Tenesha's Question: "I am the wife of the husband who did this podcast with you. I would like to talk about my experience and our frequent issues that we continue to have. I am lost and don’t know what my next stop should be?....…" // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" // ...

Feb 19, 202449 min

#313: When Should I Put Myself Out There To Give Trust A Chance Again?

Caller Jennifer's Question: "My husband feels I should marry him and make a commitment because he has stopped using porn although has still relapsed and continued anger issues last several years?....…" // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" // Free Consultation Call: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https:/...

Feb 14, 202448 min

#312: How Safe Is Safe Enough To Re-engage Fully In My Relationship

Caller Megan's Question: " My husband has been sober from a porn and masturbation addiction for 6 years. We both did a lot of therapy and attended support groups for a long time. We both feel like we have healed and changed in so many ways. However, I still really struggle with a fear of intimacy with him after all these years. If he hugs me in bed, I shut down and freeze up and feel super anxious and claustrophobic. He has told me I avoid him and avoid intimacy by staying busy with the kids and...

Feb 12, 202440 minSeason 4Ep. 312

#311: What Is One Of The Most Important Recovery Tools?

In this episode, Tyler and Brannon discuss the key elements of well-being on the Therapy Brothers podcast. They highlight the importance of daily practices, covering Connection, Hobbies, Mindfulness, Rest, and God (CHMRG). // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" // Free Consultatio...

Feb 07, 202440 minSeason 4Ep. 311

#310: I Blew Up My Family For My Affair Partner- Now What?

Caller Samantha's Question: "I Blew Up My Family For My Affair Partner- Now What?....…" // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" // Free Consultation Call: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com/consultation-call⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Love Strong | Experience Therapy: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ // Branno...

Feb 05, 202454 minSeason 4Ep. 310

#309: Why Do You Have To Feel It To Heal It?

In this episode, Tyler and Brannon cover late-season elk hunting, announce the Radiant Dawn conference, and address tough questions on sexuality and post-betrayal recovery. They explore topics such as arousal templates, marriage challenges, and the complexity of leaving a relationship for personal satisfaction. // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-an...

Jan 31, 202441 minSeason 4Ep. 309

#308: Let's Tackle Some Tough Questions ( Part 2)

In this episode, Tyler and Brannon delve into a candid conversation about the challenges of navigating faith, personal boundaries, and overcoming addiction. Joined by guest Dan, the hosts explore the delicate balance between religious commitments and the demands of daily life. // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patri...

Jan 29, 202454 minSeason 4Ep. 308

#307: Let's Tackle Some Tough Questions (Part 1)

The Brothers discuss a variety of challenging topics related to recovery, healing, and growth. // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" // Free Consultation Call: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com/consultation-call⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Love Strong | Experience Therapy: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com⁠⁠...

Jan 24, 202438 minSeason 4Ep. 307

#306: I Feel Like I'm Working A Great Recovery, But My Partner Feels Different. How Do I Not Get Defensive?

Caller John's Question: "I Feel Like I'm Working A Great Recovery, But My Partner Feels Different. How Do I Not Get Defensive?....…" // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" // Free Consultation Call: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com/consultation-call⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Love Strong | Experience ...

Jan 22, 202449 minSeason 4Ep. 306

#305: Let's Give Some Rapid Fire Answers To Tough Questions

In this episode, Tyler and Brannon tackle relationship dynamics, emphasizing the pitfalls of manipulative tactics for intimacy. They also address listener concerns about the podcast's spiritual aspects, highlighting the acceptance of diverse beliefs. The brothers conclude by delving into the challenging journey of forgiveness post-betrayal in a marriage. // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Her...

Jan 17, 202440 minSeason 4Ep. 305

#304: The More Active I Get In My Religion, The Harder It Is To Avoid Pornography

Caller Dan's Question: "Why does my desire to view pornography increase as I become more religious? I have noticed a 1:1 relationship with my religiosity and desire to view pornography, and as I serve more at Church I find I am more stressed and seek to cope in unhealthy ways. It often feels like a need to establish equilibrium before or after being particularly religious. I have gone through pornography addiction therapy, and during that time I pulled away from service in the Church as I found ...

Jan 15, 202454 minSeason 4Ep. 304

#303: How Do I Make Deep, Real Friendships During Recovery ?

Caller Shalisa's Question: "Why is it so hard to find deep friends after recovery?....…" // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" // Free Consultation Call: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com/consultation-call⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Love Strong | Experience Therapy: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ //...

Jan 10, 202449 minSeason 4Ep. 303

#302: Why Is Feeding The Fear Cycle So Damaging

In this episode, Tyler and Brannon discuss modern parenting, emphasizing the significance of honesty and openness in relationships. They share experiences from a family trip experiment and address concerns about the ethical handling of sensitive topics, such as betrayal trauma. // SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION // We would love to answer any questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, healing, and anything you can think of. Click the link below to submit your question (and if you're open to bein...

Jan 08, 202444 minSeason 4Ep. 302

#301: There's A Big Part Of Me Telling Me To Go, And A Piece Of Me That Wants To Stay. What Should I Do?

Caller Sandra's Question: "There's A Big Part Of Me Telling Me To Go, And A Piece Of Me That Wants To Stay. What Should I Do?....…" // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" // Free Consultation Call: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com/consultation-call⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Love Strong | Experience T...

Jan 03, 202450 minSeason 4Ep. 301

#300: My Husband Is Enmeshed With His Mom. What Do I Do ?

Caller Stacie's Question: "How do I heal from infidelity through pregnancy. I'm almost 6 months into healing plus 6 months pregnant. I've been through so many different stages of grief and anger and resentments, all the emotions and it's hard to kind of identify what is pregnancy hormones/rage and what is the actual pain from betrayal. Trying to navigate this with three young daughters and pregnancy plus a husband who is also pretty spiritually broken has been the hardest thing in our lives and ...

Jan 01, 202445 minSeason 4Ep. 300

#299: We're Going Through The Disclosure Process And I Have A Lot Of Questions.

Caller Spencer's Question: "How do I determine if I am legitimately asking my wife to be less critical/more appreciative versus in an attempt to play the victim?....…" // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" // Free Consultation Call: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com/consultation-ca...

Dec 27, 202351 minSeason 3Ep. 299

#298: Why Is Prioritizing And Understanding Women's Sexuality Important?

Caller Bonnie's Question: "Why Is Prioritizing And Understanding Women's Sexuality Important?....…" // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" // Free Consultation Call: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com/consultation-call⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Love Strong | Experience Therapy: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong....

Dec 25, 202352 minSeason 3Ep. 298
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