Experience the transformative power of negotiation with our esteemed guest Megan Shapiro, a construction attorney turned risk management maestro. As we unravel the complex tapestry of negotiation for construction leaders, Megan imparts her wisdom on the holistic approach to risk management. It's not just about the fine print or safety protocols; it's an intricate dance with communication styles, tailored approaches, and the strategic use of questions to unlock win-win scenarios. Our dialogue is ...
Mar 13, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Season 2Ep. 115
When was the last time you gave someone your full trust? This isn't just about believing they'll show up on time, but trusting them with the parts of you that you might keep under lock and key. Join us as we sit down with Jennifer Lacey, the 2023 Dallas Business Journal's Woman of the Year in Business, who not only shares her journey through vulnerability and trust but also provides us with an in-depth look at the hard-won lessons in her book, "Lean in Love." Throughout our conversation, Jennife...
Mar 06, 2024•51 min•Season 2Ep. 114
Have you ever witnessed a transformation that reshaped a life's trajectory? That's precisely what Jesse Hernandez has experienced, evolving from a high-achieving construction maven to a magnanimous contributor through stories and wisdom shared in his compelling book, "Becoming the Promise that you Were Intended to Be." Our conversation peels back the layers of crafting an authentic personal brand, the delicate dance of self-promotion, and the profound shifts that come from pouring into others. J...
Mar 06, 2024•55 min•Season 2Ep. 114
Ever wonder how a melody can unlock a memory or a rhythm can help someone relearn how to walk? This is the magic that music therapist Joanna Ostrander brings to the table, and she unraveled the mysteries of neurologic music therapy with us, offering an intriguing look at music's impact on the brain. As our conversation weaved through Joanna's transition from performance to therapeutic practice, it became clear that music is not just an art form; it's a bridge to personal growth and a way to help...
Feb 28, 2024•59 min•Season 2Ep. 113
Unlock the secrets to gracefully declining requests and safeguarding your boundaries with the guidance of Sarah Ginald, our boundary expert. Prepare to navigate the tricky waters of saying "no" without ruffling feathers or compromising relationships. Our latest episode serves as a playbook for those moments when you need to stand your ground, offering nine practical strategies that marry assertiveness with empathy. Whether it's disentangling the refusal from the individual asking or learning the...
Feb 15, 2024•10 min•Season 2Ep. 112
Ever felt the weight of a simple 'no'? We've all been there, wrestling with the anxiety of turning down a request, and the ripple effects it might have. That's why we invited Sarah Ginella, the insightful VP of Full Sail Partners, to unravel the emotional layers that often make it so hard to refuse. Together, we tackle the concept of 'counterfeit yeses' and how to realign our decisions with our true feelings, championing the power of an authentic 'no.' It's a journey through the highs and lows o...
Feb 07, 2024•52 min•Season 2Ep. 111
Have you ever wondered why some conversations leave you feeling invigorated while others feel like a dead end? Tune in as Brandon and I dissect the art of asking questions that aren't just fillers but gateways to deeper connection and understanding. Our latest episode of Uncommon Communicator podcast peels back the layers of communication, emphasizing how a blend of curiosity and the right questions can transform dialogues from mundane to meaningful. In a candid exchange, we revisit the nuances ...
Jan 31, 2024•28 min•Season 2Ep. 110
When Matt Ohly, Adam Hoots, and I gathered around the mics, we uncovered the threads that weave together Eckhart Tolle's "The Power of Now" with the fabric of our daily interactions. This episode isn't just a chat; it's a deep connection through shared stories that reveal how the art of presence amplifies our ability to communicate genuinely and listen intently. We're not just industry professionals—we're seekers of moments that build bridges between efficiency in work and the fullness of life o...
Jan 24, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Season 2Ep. 109
Ever found yourself sugarcoating words until your message loses its edge? Lance Furiyama joins us to champion the raw power of communication, where frankness can unexpectedly cut through noise and foster effectiveness. We navigate the origins of Lance's forthright style, deeply rooted in the unadorned cadences of Pigeon English, and unpack how a touch of authenticity can make for compelling conversations. A personal anecdote brings to life a moment where Lance's genuine approach sparked a memora...
Jan 17, 2024•13 min•Season 2Ep. 108
Ever found yourself in the thick of a construction project, where every voice has the potential to build or bulldoze progress? Lance Ferriyama from Trade Partner HQ joins us to hammer down the significance of communication in the trade industry, offering a blueprint for turning monologues into dialogues that construct rather than constrain. Together, we're chipping away at the old-school 'sizing-up' culture and reengineering it into one of collaboration and respect – because, in this field, a so...
Jan 10, 2024•45 min•Season 2Ep. 107
Get ready to redefine success with our latest Uncommon Communicator podcast, where I promise you'll discover the transformative potential of one-word goals. Ever felt overwhelmed by a laundry list of New Year's resolutions that fizzles out by February? We're tackling that head-on, revealing why 91% of resolutions fail and how embracing a singular focus like "growth" or "influence" can steer you towards personal triumphs. I open up about my own adventures with these powerful themes, showing you h...
Jan 03, 2024•12 min•Season 2Ep. 106
Unlock the secrets to building unshakeable trust in every word you exchange as we dissect Stephen M.R. Covey's "The Speed of Trust" with the insightful Jennifer Lacey. Transform your interactions with our three-pillar approach to trustworthy communication: harnessing honesty and courage to confront reality, refining conduct through respect and accountability, and fortifying commitment with an unyielding dedication to these values. This episode is your compass to navigate the complexities of comm...
Dec 27, 2023•11 min•Season 2Ep. 105
Ever wondered how communication could be a game-changer in your relationships, both personal and professional? Grab a cup of tea and tune into our latest episode of the Uncommon Communicator Podcast, where I, your host, have a heart-to-heart discussion with the brilliant, Jennifer Lacey, also known as the “famous lady.” Jennifer, an ace lean practice leader in the construction industry, lays bare her insights on the powerful role of openness and honesty. We let you in on our personal journeys, a...
Dec 20, 2023•50 min•Season 2Ep. 104
Ready for a journey back in time to ancient Athens? Today, we're thrilled to continue our enlightening dialogue with Felipe Engineer Manriquez on the philosophy that's shaped his life and many others - Stoicism. We promise you an exploration of this ancient philosophy's roots; its founder Zeno of Sidium, its therapeutic nature, and its profound impact on our lives. We'll delve into its emphasis on ethics and how our thoughts can influence our well-being. Plus, we'll unravel the mystery behind th...
Dec 13, 2023•10 min•Season 2Ep. 103
Ever wonder how ancient philosophy can transform modern-day communication and performance in the construction industry? Well, prepare to be enlightened as we journey into the realm of stoicism and its impacts on communication, with insights from the seasoned construction pro, Felipe Manriquez. We kick off the episode by discussing the wisdom of renowned Stoics like Marcus Aurelius and Epictetus, and their profound influence on cognitive behavior theory. Felipe shares how these teachings have hel...
Dec 06, 2023•58 min•Season 2Ep. 102
Ready to unlock the secrets of your leadership style? Get ready to revolutionize your communication skills as we dissect the world of leadership with our guest, Rich Hopkins. In a candid discussion, we shine a light on the main leadership styles - authoritarian, participative, and delegative - and how they shape the way we interact in the workplace. It doesn't stop there; we're taking things up a notch by delving into seven unique styles including autocratic, pace setting, transformational, coac...
Nov 29, 2023•13 min•Season 2Ep. 101
Brace yourself for a journey of reflections, insights, and gratitude as we celebrate our 100th episode of the Uncommon Communicator Podcast. This isn't just an episode; it's a milestone that marks our collective growth in the world of communication. We've learned to recognize when communication occurs, to take charge of conversations, and to steer dialogues towards mutual understanding. Gratitude is in the air Let's not forget our incredible guests who brought their unique perspectives to our po...
Nov 21, 2023•17 min•Season 2Ep. 100
Are you ready to uncover the secret to effective leadership and transformative communication? Join us as we unravel these mysteries with Rich Hopkins, a man of many talents and immense influence. Bring your notepad as Rich, a seasoned keynote speaker, disability advocate, author, sales expert, and presentation coach, takes us behind the scenes of his TEDx journey and shares his empowering 'win anyway' mantra. This episode promises not just an inspiring story but also valuable insights into craft...
Nov 15, 2023•39 min•Season 2Ep. 99
Get ready to shift your perception of feedback, authenticity and vulnerability with our special guest, master questionator and construction mind shifter, Jesse Hernandez! Ever wondered how constructive criticism can be a powerful catalyst for personal growth and improvement? We bring into focus these overlooked aspects of communication, offering you a fresh perspective on how to become a more effective communicator. In our conversation with Jesse, we delve into the importance of feedback, dissec...
Nov 08, 2023•14 min•Season 2Ep. 98
What if you could transform your life by shifting your focus from achieving to contributing? That's exactly what construction mineshifter, author, and podcast host, Jesse Hernandez, set out to do, and he's sharing his profound journey with us on this episode of the Uncommon Communicator Podcast. Drawing from the most compelling chapters of his book 'Become the Promise You're Intended to Be', Jesse unveils the enriching process of transitioning from achievement to contribution and the liberating ...
Nov 01, 2023•54 min•Season 2Ep. 97
Ever wondered why respect in communication is so pivotal? It's time to join us as we dissect the core principles of respect as shared by Adam Hoots, an author and expert on communication, on the Uncommon Communicator Podcast. This episode shines light on the intricacies of respect, its roots, and how it can be cultivated even in adulthood. We explore how this simple human concept can foster an environment studded with open dialogue, active listening, innovation, and meaningful engagement, and wh...
Nov 01, 2023•14 min•Season 2Ep. 96
Meet Adam Hoots, founder of Construction ACHE Solutions and a change-maker in the realm of construction. His dedication to shifting the perception of skilled trades and craft workers is awe-inspiring, and our discussion today promises to shed light on this, and the fascinating world of lean construction principles. A man of many languages, Adam emphasizes the power of words in building trust with colleagues, a trait that's been instrumental in his success. In fact, it was Adam's remarkable journ...
Oct 25, 2023•48 min•Season 2Ep. 95
Ever wondered why some people naturally excel at networking while others seem to struggle? What if you could unlock the secrets to becoming a better communicator and networker? Today, we glean the wisdom of master facilitator and networker, Keith Bailey, as we unfold the UC playbook - the key to refining your networking skills. We explore how acknowledging our strengths and polishing our weaker areas can transform us into more proficient communicators than we ever imagined. Keith introduces us t...
Oct 18, 2023•7 min•Season 2Ep. 94
Guess who's played a pivotal role in transforming the art of networking and communication? It's none other than Keith Bailey, co-founder of Articulated Intelligence. Brace yourself, because we've got him right here in our podcast, and he's ready to share his wealth of knowledge on the power of conversation and the subtleties of networking. Keith takes us down memory lane, sharing a personal story about a cold call that didn't go as planned, but in turn, became a game-changer in his approach to n...
Oct 11, 2023•54 min•Season 2Ep. 93
Welcome to the Uncommon Communicator podcast, where we are here to bring enlightenment to the topic of communication. Jocko Wilink calls his ability to detach a super power. He tells a story as a young seal where he was able to look lower his rifle and look at the whole situation to better assess the situation Detachment as a good thing Detachment Jocko realizes that everyone (including himself) tends to use faulty judgment when they let emotions and ego get in their way. By removing these varia...
Oct 04, 2023•8 min•Season 2Ep. 92
What is a promise? A promise is a manifestation of intent to act or refrain from acting in a specified way at some point in the future. It's communicated by one party, to at least one additional party, to signify a commitment has been made. Jean-jacques Rousseau said it clearly: Those that ae most slow in making a promise are the most faithful in the performance of it The Toastmasters promise debate Does the organization need to provide for the success of each club or is each member responsible ...
Sep 20, 2023•11 min•Season 2Ep. 91
Things to prepare for in a hand off and avoid being the fire hose. Think about the organization of the information Daily weekly Monthly duties Create a plan that gives that information…meeting daily? Weekly Be prepared to make the best use of the time What is a flow that would make sense to hand off the information Steps that build upon each other Don’t put the cart before the horse Would shadowing be a way to introduce the activities? Consider the level of expertise of the receiver Often times ...
Sep 13, 2023•11 min•Season 2Ep. 90
Active listening is something we talk about a lot as far as being a good communicator Some characteristics of active listeners include good eye contact, undivided attention, and patience. The active listener’s demeanor helps the speaker feel respected Empathic listeningThis type of listening includes the mechanics of active listening and takes the listener a step further. The empathic listener begins with the intent to immerse themselves fully in the other person and what they are experiencing. ...
Sep 06, 2023•7 min•Season 2Ep. 89
The Uncommon communicator is the individual that has the enlightenment to recognize in any situation whether communication has occurred. This uncommon communicator takes ownership of the conversation and possesses the skills to navigate and facilitate the conversation to mutual understanding. Welcome to the Uncommon Communicator podcast where we bring enlightenment to the topic of communication. Ed Gable has been my long time brother, I feel like I have known him all my life. Along with being fa...
Sep 04, 2023•34 min•Season 2Ep. 88
Enjoy this throwback and very popular episode - Both Hosts of The Uncommon Communicator are enjoying some time off: Our Guest today William Bullock, Negotiator for the UK Police and currently serves as the asset manager for the UK Ministry of Defense. He has spent 13 years as the most experienced and qualified hostage negotiator in the UK and have produced a groundbreaking conflict management training course. A Hostage Negotiator's specialist art of conflict management in gaining influence and d...
Aug 09, 2023•41 min•Ep. 87
