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The Toxic People Detox

Dr. Shayla D. Williamswww.thetoxicpeopledetox.com
A practical guide to finding peace in the midst of toxic people.
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Episodes

The Final Lesson

Thank you everyone! Take care of yourselves.

Nov 30, 20208 min

Dealing with Toxic Staff

This is the first of the last three episodes of this podcast. Today, I tackle a listener question. How does a supervisor deal with toxic staff?

Nov 02, 202018 min

Coping Strategies for Toxic Situations with Dr. Ron Dalrymple

“Each person has inside them an enormous capability and creative power which they’ve probably never begun to imagine. We must start working toward that to bring that forth.” Dr. Ron Dalrymple Dr. Ron Dalrymple is a licensed psychologist, author and filmmaker with a special interest in the higher, seldom understood powers of the mind. He has written four books using his research to motivate individuals to achieve greatness by utilizing the power within themselves. All four books are best- sellers...

Jul 27, 202036 min

Overcoming Abusive Relationships with Tamuri Richardson

“We all from one time or another, find ourselves in some type of toxic relationship. There should be no dishonor in that it happens. We don't always know the person. I think you dishonor yourself when you know, and you can do better and you don't do better.” Tamuri Richardson Tamuri Richardson is an expert Motivational Speaker, She is a Speaking Presenter for NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness) with the goal to help fight the stigmas of Mental Illness, shes an award winning Toastmasters I...

Jul 20, 202026 min

Stop Dating the Same Type of Person with Melissa Snow

“I wasted most of my 20’s and 30’s looking for love in all the wrong places, until eventually I hit rock bottom. All the love I so desperately wanted from someone else was already inside me." I discovered who I REALLY was and what was truly important to me; I learned how to love AND like myself; I mastered the art of setting boundaries; I improved my communication skills dramatically; And I gained a TON of self confidence in the process. Any links you would like me to include in the show notes. ...

Jul 13, 202029 min

Still the Mind with Quinn Barrett

“Sometimes when we're trying to be in motion and make things happen in our life, if we don't have the clarity, we can't see it.” Quinn Barret Quinn Barrett is an author and speaker who teaches people how to meditate in fun and unconventional ways. Her mission is to help people live life in balance with simple methods, which can be used at any time, anywhere. She is the creator of BusyLife Meditation and Intuition Daily, a new conscious, interactive meditation practice. Quinn has taught her innov...

Jul 06, 202028 min

Self-Care Series – Reinventing Yourself

In today's episode, I discuss 3 tips to focus on reinventing yourself. Highlights include Pivoting vs. starting from scratch Examples of people who have changed their career path even in the face of economic crises Creating challenges for yourself

Jul 02, 202012 min

Seeing Yourself in Other People with Royce Morales

“…If we release that energetic hold that we have on someone, everything can shift. The way we perceive them shifts. Their actions might shift. Our reaction to them might shift. We're left with love and forgiveness, and sometimes even a sense of gratitude that they helped awaken something in ourselves that we didn't want to look at.” Royce Morales Royce Morales is a renowned spiritual teacher who has been teaching breakthrough, core, self-discovery work for decades. Her trailblazing, life-shiftin...

Jun 29, 202022 min

Self-Care Series: Rebuilding Broken Dreams

What type of content do you want to hear more of? Send me an email with a suggestion or question and I will cover your topic. support@TheToxicPeopleDetox.com I am open for coaching in the summer. Need some insight from an objective 3rd party? Click on the link to schedule a call. https://bit.ly/2X5dDTq

Jun 25, 202011 min

Living with Narcissists with Dr. Rita Louise

“Maybe it's time for you to look at yourself and value yourself and honor yourself and keep them on a really short leash.” Dr. Rita Louise In today’s episode, Dr. Rita opens up about growing up in with a narcissist mother and how she gained control over her life. A survivor or childhood abuse, Dr. Rita Louise has emerged as a gifted empath and talented clairvoyant medical intuitive. She is a Naturopathic physician and the founder of the Institute Of Applied Energetics that trains students in the...

Jun 22, 202027 min

Feeling Abandoned After A Failed Relationship

In today's episode, I tackle a listener's email about pain and loss after a relationship ends. How does one deal with the pain of abandonment and not feeling good enough? How does one start to move on? Check out this episode to find out. What type of content do you want to hear more of? Send me an email with a suggestion or question and I will cover your topic. support@TheToxicPeopleDetox.com I am open for coaching in the summer. Need some insight from an objective 3rd party? Click on the link t...

Jun 18, 202010 min

Narcissistic Family Dynamics with Sarah Griffiths

“The very best thing that you can do is to understand that and to do everything you can to start to be the whole and complete person that you were intended to be.” Sarah tells the story of how close she came to taking her life* in October 2010. Childhood bullying at school had left her so self-conscious that she couldn’t bear to live any longer. All of the negative self-beliefs she had were reinforced in her narcissistic marriage. A split-second decision*changed her. mind, and she became determi...

Jun 15, 202051 min

Self-Care Series: Creating Healthy Boundaries– Solo Wednesday

Setting healthy boundaries can do wonders to help you deal with difficult people. What does it mean to set boundaries exactly? In today’s episode, I give 3 practical steps to setting boundaries as part of your self-care regimen. What type of content do you want to hear more of? Send me an email with a suggestion or question and I will cover your topic. support@TheToxicPeopleDetox.com I am open for coaching in the summer. Need some insight from an objective 3rd party? Click on the link to schedul...

Jun 10, 20206 min

Getting Along in Close Quarters with Asha Tarry

“Instead of us feeling ashamed of ourselves or guilt with where we are emotionally and mentally during this time, it's all right. It's fine to be there. Wherever you are, wherever you go, there you are.” Asha Tarry is a certified life coach and licensed psychotherapist. As a treating provider, Asha has the experience and skill to transform lives. The work she provides as a life coach to individuals, couples, groups, and small business entrepreneurs is based in the philosophy that we all need eac...

Jun 08, 202029 min

Self-Care Series: Freedom from Excessive Worrying – Solo Wednesday

If this is your first time listening, then welcome. Given what’s been happening in the world and currently in many US cities, there is a need for calm and reason. Today’s episode marks the first in a series of episodes focusing on self-care. We start off with helping you achieve freedom from excessive worrying. What type of content do you want to hear more of? Send me an email with a suggestion or question and I will cover your topic. support@TheToxicPeopleDetox.com I am open for coaching in the...

Jun 03, 202013 min

Examining Self-Sabotaging Behaviors with Su Orosa

“Unless you can look at all of those blocks and self-sabotaging blocks…they're just going to keep reappearing down the line.” Su Orosa Su Orosa is a mental health and wellness coach, who gives women the tools they need to manage their inner critic and put a stop to self-sabotaging behaviours. Providing her clients with a compassionate, safe space to really open up, Su encourages introspection and helps her clients to start living the lives they were always meant to live. Highlights of today's ep...

Jun 01, 202022 min

Healing from Toxic or Narcissistic Parents – Solo Wednesdays

Parents are often our first experiences with human contact. In an ideal setting, they are there to nurture and protect us. What happens when that dynamic is twisted into a power struggle? In today's episode, we examine common signs of dysfunction and ways to put yourself on the path to healing and taking back your power. These tips can apply to just about any toxic relationship, but we are specifically talking about toxic parents. CommonSigns: Belittling or devaluing - You accomplishments are ne...

May 27, 202016 min

From Grief to Celebrity Makeup Artist with Christina Flach

“Don't wait to be with people that you love.” Christina Flach Christina Flach is the CEO, a makeup guru, a widow, a substance awareness advocate, a fashion commentator, a mom to four living children, and one who died. She lives with these titles, but she's defined by one word, grace. Christina openly shares her story of success and heartache to provide inspiration to others and to save lives through sepsis awareness advocacy. Highlights of this episode include: How Christina dealt with grief of ...

May 25, 202022 minSeason 2Ep. 2

Fixing Your Life with Faust A. Ruggiero

“Learning how to go inside yourself, find what's in there, and learn how to make all the processes in your life support you, and you will be happy.” Faust Ruggiero People more often go to see a psychologist when things are falling apart. The success rate on this can go two ways: your willingness to do the work and the skills of your psychologist. Faust A. Ruggiero’s professional career spans almost 40 years, and is diversified and compelling, as it has consistently established new and exciting c...

May 18, 202019 min

How to Simplify Your Life and Stay Sane [Episode 50]

In today’s episode we will examine 5 steps for simplifying your life. Don’t let the simplicity fool you. These are powerful steps to gain a semblance of control in today’s hectic society.

May 12, 202013 minSeason 1Ep. 50

Developing Mental Toughness [Episode 49]

Books have been written and courses have been developed on the topic of mental toughness. What does mental toughness mean exactly? Ask 10 different people and you will get 10 different answers. In today’s episode, Dr. Shayla gives two principles for building up your mental toughness muscles. Is it tough? Of course, but the result is a calm, centered life.

May 04, 202012 minSeason 1Ep. 49

How to Take Back Your Power [Episode 47]

“When a resolute young fellow steps up to the great bully, the world, and takes him boldly by the beard, he is often surprised to find it comes off in his hand, and that it was only tied on to scare away the timid adventurers.” Ralph Waldo Emerson How do you deal with intimidation and prejudice in a work environment? Dr. Williams has 3 points to dealing with the situation head on.

Apr 01, 202026 minEp. 47

Workplace Bullying – How to Overcome [Episode 46]

“When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.” – Viktor Frankl In today’s episode we cover: the types of bullying and a powerful method to deal with it.

Jan 01, 202030 minSeason 1Ep. 46

5 Money Challenges To Increase your Savings [Episode 44]

“Too many people spend money they haven't earned, to buy things they don't want, to impress people that they don't like.” --Will Rogers You might have heard that quote before. It’s becoming a cliché but the brutal honesty is what makes it so powerful. During my Chapter 13 Bankruptcy, I had to rethink my approach to saving and spending money. Not only do I talk about 5 spending challenges that helped me build up a nice cushion, but how I stacked them to protect my bank account from those unexpect...

Jan 24, 201915 minEp. 44

Detaching from Toxic Situations [Episode 43]

V “True detachment isn’t separation from life but the absolute freedom within your mind to explore living.” Ron. W. Rathbun The good news is that detachment is a skill that you can learn. The bad news is that detachment is a skill that you can learn. Skills take time to learn. There will be moments when we let ourselves get caught up in the moment. That’s human. Emotions are there to serve us, not control us. We must master them, not the other way around. Today we discuss 4 tips for detaching fr...

Jan 08, 201916 minEp. 43

Picking Your Battles- When to Fight and When to Flee [Episode 42]

The desire to win is human nature. Winning gives us satisfaction, but is winning always a good thing? People might quote Winston Churchill when he said, “Never give in. Never give in. Never, never, never, never–in nothing great or small, large or petty–never give in, except to convictions of honour and good sense. Never yield to force. Never yield to the apparently overwhelming might of the enemy.” I used to use this quote to justify my actions, however, Churchill said this during the second Wor...

Jan 01, 201913 minEp. 42

Biding your time with a Toxic Boss [Episode 41]

A reader sent me an email about a situation with a toxic boss. She writes, “[My boss] rules with fear, and has fired/made redundant/bullied out many of my former colleagues. She essentially picks one member of staff each week to be her least favourite person - she calls them out in front of everyone, creates issues, overreacts if something goes "wrong". She will email text you in the evenings and on weekends, and it always stresses me out for hours! We don't have HR so I don't really have anywhe...

Dec 19, 201811 minSeason 1Ep. 41
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