I don't know if anyone can honestly claim to have never yelled at their kids before. I know I have, and I also know that I'm a better parent when I don't . With that in mind, I have a few tips in today's show to help you maintain your composure and communicate effectively without raising your voice when your kids are pushing you to the breaking point.
Today, for the first time ever, we have a real, live, honest-to-goodness man on the show! Brent Almond is the owner of Designer Daddy. "A gay dad blogger parenting with style, sass and sentiment." We'll be talking about how he got started, where he gets his inspiration, and what it's like to be one half of a two-dad parenting team. He's also the creative force behind a new line of heartwarming parenting products; ones I'm sure you're going to absolutely love.
Moving from one house to another is one of the most stressful events in a person's life, but if you throw a couple of kids into the equation, it can turn the aggravation meter up another few notches, to say the least. Today, I'm talking to Christine Stevens, one of my esteemed Sleep Sense Consultants and a true veteran when it comes to moving with little ones. She's got some amazing tips for keeping your little ones occupied and happy while you make the transition from your old house to the new ...
TV, computers, tablets and smartphones have proven to be a pretty invaluable resource for parents over the years. Bright lights, fun games, catchy music and colorful images can be a great way to distract your little one for a little while, and in many cases, these devices can be great educational tools as well. But, as with anything that our kids love, there's a balance that needs to be struck between how much they want and how much is good for them. On today's show, I'll give you my take on how...
Is there such a thing a the "Four-month sleep regression?" Absolutely. But it seems like every time our little ones hit a bump in the road when it comes to sleeping through the night, we try to put a label on the problem. That's not to say that regressions aren't a real thing, but identifying the actual cause for a few rough nights in baby's routine can help you decide what course of action to take (if any) and in today's episode, I'll help you do just that.
Summertime brings about a lot of new experiences for kids. For many, it can be their first time traveling, meeting relatives, visiting theme parks, and any number of exciting adventures. But it also means that the schedule they follow during the school year tends to get tossed out the window, especially when it comes to bedtime. So now that they're headed back to school, how can you get them back into the rhythm and make sure they're getting the sleep they need? It's easier than you think, with ...
When I was preparing to welcome my first child into the world, I had a distinct, utopian vision of what motherhood was going to be like. The reality of motherhood didn't match it in the least. The first six months of motherhood were actually some of the hardest days of my life. I loved my baby, of course, but I also experienced overwhelming feelings of failure and guilt. Today, I'd like to tell you about what brought this on, and what I did (and what you can do, if you're feeling the same way!) ...
When the time comes to return to work after the birth of a child, how many women can say that they feel genuinely ready? Not just physically, although that's certainly an important factor, but emotionally prepared and comfortable to leave their newborn for long stretches during the day with someone else. For those of us who have been through the process, we know how stressful and emotionally taxing it can be. Enter Lauren Brody Smith, author of The Fifth Trimester - The Working Mom’s Guide To St...
So you've finally got your little one sleeping soundly through the night. You've established a great bedtime routine, you're sticking to it every night, and baby's learned to settle independently when she wakes up in the night. But now it's vacation time, so how are you going to adhere to your schedule when everything's thrown into upheaval? Well, the short answer is, you're not. You're going to have to deal with the change in surroundings and schedule as best you can. So in today's episode, I'v...
For most of the families I've worked with, getting their kids to sleep through the night is the easy part. Getting them to take long, consolidated naps? That's where things get tricky. One of the major reasons for this is because, unlike nighttime sleep, the number and length of naps required for babies and toddlers changes relatively quickly. Today, I'll be giving you a rundown of how much daytime sleep your little one needs, and how to spot the signs that they're ready to cut one out altogethe...
"Always do the right thing, unless it's the wrong thing to do, in which case, never do that." If you're looking for parenting advice online, or from a varied group of experts, friends, or professionals, that's pretty much what it feels like for a new mom. For every piece of advice you get, there are two people waiting around the corner who will tell you that, not only is that not the best approach, it's actually harmful. In this week's episode, I've got some tips for navigating the endless ocean...
The good old "Time Out" is one of the most reliable tools available to parents when it comes to correcting problem behavior, but it's not always as simple as it sounds. There are plenty of situations where time-outs might not seem like a fitting, or available, strategy. After all, where are you supposed to take your child for a little quiet time if you're in a movie theater, or out for dinner? Beyond that, how do we know that we're teaching our kids what kind of behavior we're actually asking of...
Ever since it was made publicly available in the 1990s, synthetic melatonin has been renowned as a "natural" sleep aid, and its popularity has increased to the point where almost everyone is familiar with the name. The problem with the "natural" designation is that people tend to equate it with, "safe," and I've heard of pediatricians recommending melatonin for babies, literally babies who are having trouble sleeping. On today's episode, I've got a little bit of a rant against using pills and su...
They say that the hardest part of getting started... is getting started. This can be especially true when you're sleep training your little one. The time never seems to be quite right, there's always an upcoming occasion or obligation that seems to keep families from taking that first step. So today, I've got some advice for getting up and running with the Sleep Sense Program. When to start, when to avoid getting started, and a little encouragement for what's, let's face it, a challenging first ...
As parents, there's nothing so difficult as standing aside and watching your child fail at something. Whether it's sports or schoolwork, or just taking a harmless tumble, we're always ready to swoop in and provide that extra guidance, support, and help they need in order to ensure they succeed. But is that "help" actually depriving them of valuable learning experiences? At what point are we ready to allow our kids to fail at things? My guest on Today's show is Jessica Lahey, author of The Gift o...
Before the title causes a knee-jerk reaction from breastfeeding advocates, let me just say that this week's episode is, in no way, intended to discourage mothers who are happily and successfully breastfeeding. This is just an honest account of my experience with breastfeeding and the life lessons it taught me. It's blunt, it's straight-forward, and it's sincere, but as the title suggests, breastfeeding did NOT go well for my first child and I, and the pressure I put on myself to make it work was...
Every parent looks forward to the day when they can finally say goodbye to diapers, but the process usually isn't a lot of fun. Kids tend to protest change and that can lead to some unpleasant and occasionally embarrassing accidents. Today, I'll tell you about three of the biggest mistakes parents make when they're potty training their little ones, and help you avoid them, as well as a few tips to help minimize the conflict and even make potty training fun for both you and your child....
I recently read a fascinating book by Dr. Rachel Carlton Abrams called Bodywise: Discovering Your Body’s Intelligence for Lifelong Health and Healing, and I have to say, I was absolutely captivated from cover to cover. Which is why I'm so excited to be speaking with her on today's podcast! We talk about sleep (naturally) and the health problems caused when we don't get enough of it, but we also discuss whether or not today’s modern lifestyle (hurried meals, device addiction, etc.) is responsible...
Most of us, by the time we have kids, are savvy enough not to feed them energy drinks or sugary snacks right before bed. (Most of us. Not all.) Because, obviously, a bunch of caffeine and sugar will get them fired up and make it hard for them to sleep. But those aren't the only culprits hiding in your kids' food that might cause them some sleep issues. Today, I'm looking at the correlation between diet and sleep, and I'll give you some hints on foods to avoid, as well as a few to encourage, in o...
The dreaded sleep prop. Whether it's a pacifier, a breast, or rocking motions provided by Mom every time baby wakes in the night, they're the single biggest cause of baby not sleeping through the night. Which is ironic, because that's the very reason people employ them in the first place. Don't get me wrong. As the parent of a once-terrible sleeper myself, I know how desperate we can get to find something, anything , that will help us get our babies to fall asleep. Today, I'm looking back at som...
The toddler years are an amazing experience for both parents and kids. New skills and personality traits seem to develop almost every day, and it's a really fascinating process to be a part of. But as they develop, they like to experiment and see where their boundaries are, so there are usually some frustrating moments to go along with the magical ones, and a whole bunch of those boundary-testing moments are likely to happen around bedtime. Today, I'm discussing the 4 most common challenges pare...
Why is it, given how quickly babies adapt to a new sleep routine at bedtime, that they can't do the same thing when it comes to naps? Many of the parents I've worked with have been flat-out amazed at how easily their child started sleeping through the night, but when it comes to naps, the results often take quite a bit longer to materialize. It can be a frustrating endeavor, but I've got some tips in today's show to help you understand why daytime sleep can be so challenging for little ones, and...
It's not uncommon to hear a parent refer to their kids as their top priority, or the center of their universe, and for good reason. For most parents, their kids are the single most important thing in their lives. But there's a slight variance on those expressions that I hear a lot, and it gets under my skin a little bit. "My kids are my whole world." I know it might seem like nitpicking, but there's a reason why that particular turn of phrase bugs me, and I'll tell you all about it on today's ep...
As long as I've been a sleep consultant, and as much as I've seen the Sleep Sense brand grow, I've never lost my love for one-on-one consultations with people regarding their babies' sleep. Having dealt with a terrible sleeper myself so many years ago, I know the struggle parents go through, and the amazing sense of relief and happiness that comes when the situation gets resolved. With that in mind, a couple of weeks ago, I asked listeners to send me their questions about their little ones' slee...
There's no avoiding it. Your toddler is going to pitch a fit or two. However, tantrums are not usually due to anything serious, and are often just the result of frustration, overtiredness, or some good old fashioned boundary testing. Which is why, with a little foresight and clever distraction, a lot of them can be avoided before they get out of hand. On today's episode, I've got some specific, practical, easy-to-follow tips that can help you catch a toddler tantrum in its tracks, and give your ...
When it comes to getting kids to sleep through the night, nothing compares to a well-crafted bedtime routine. Many parents don't realize the importance of a predictable, relaxing regimen before putting their babies into their crib, or their toddlers into bed. The reasons for this aren't just psychological. Our bodies go through a fascinating physical process when we start sending signals that we're getting ready for bed. Although it might seem like an intuitive process, I've seen all kinds of ki...
I had to be careful in titling this episode, because there's no real "fix" for bad habits in others. (Especially kids, as any parent knows.) All we can do is try to discourage the behavior. But what form should that discouragement take, and how can we help to make it easier for our little ones to kick those habits? After all, we've all been there, right? Kicking a habit is hard, frustrating work, no matter what age you are. In today's episode, I'm addressing the "big three" habitual behaviors th...
New parents are often warned about "The 3 month sleep regression" or "The 9 month sleep regression." Really, you can substitute any number you want and you'll have no trouble finding corroboration that there's a sleep regression that happens around that age. But in my experience, there are causes for sleep regressions that have nothing to do with age. Today, I'll be discussing the three biggest reasons why your little one might suddenly break away from their carefully crafted routine, and what y...
"Be a good girl!" "Do you need a time-out?" Make sure you say thank you!" The way we talk to our kids is so generic, it could be coming from a handbook. We tell them to behave responsibly, to be considerate of others, and to be mindful of their actions, but is the message we're trying to communicate the one they're receiving? My guest today, Jennifer Lehr, is the author of ParentSpeak: What's Wrong with How We Talk to Our Children--and What to Say Instead, and she's sharing her thoughts on the t...
For a lot of parents I've worked with, room-sharing is straight-up indisputable. Just not always in the same way. Many parents feel that their baby absolutely has to be in the room with them. Not necessarily in the same bed, but definitely the same room. Others, myself included, decided early on that baby was going to sleep in their own room, and that the issue wasn't up for debate. The choice is, obviously, up to you, but it's important to understand what you're taking on when you allow your li...
