Today's episode is about LOVE AND NARCISSISM. Do they love you? Did they ever? I go into detail about my thoughts on whether or not a narcissist can actually love anyone other than themselves (ourselves) Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help...
Jun 12, 2021•21 min•Season 2Ep. 32
Today's episode is about the narcissist's smear campaign and why they do it. Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists...
Jun 11, 2021•13 min•Season 2Ep. 31
Today's episode is about the different ways a narcissist a sucks you back into the relationship. If you take them back with no changed behaviors, you are opening the doors to getting hurt again. Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring aw...
Jun 10, 2021•13 min•Season 2Ep. 30
Today's episode Is about why narcissists choose to lie for no reason. I go into detail about how it gives the narcissist power and it actually could give the narcissist a form of pleasure. Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awarenes...
Jun 09, 2021•10 min•Season 2Ep. 29
Today's episode is about the steps I've taken after being in therapy to live a better life overall. I have been in therapy for nearly 4 years and I layout a lot of the things that have helped me cope with NPD, be married and raise my children. I discuss what makes me a little different that your average narcissist. Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has ...
Jun 07, 2021•18 min•Season 2Ep. 28
Today's episode is about the prospects of a narcissist changing. I am a diagnosed narcissist that has been in therapy for nearly 4 years and I give my perspective on the topic here. 'Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from...
Jun 07, 2021•20 min•Season 2Ep. 27
Today's episode is about the Narcissist and the new supply. One of the main questions I get on my social media platforms is "Are they treating the next person better than me?". I answer this question in detail and explain why it looks so good from the outside looking in. Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it...
Jun 06, 2021•14 min•Season 2Ep. 26
Today's episode is about why I went to therapy. When I'm doing my one on one's with people one of the main questions that comes up is "Why did you go to therapy?". My answer to that question remains the same. I had to absolutely hit rock bottom. I had to get to the point where I couldn't blame anyone else for my position in life other than myself. Rock bottom will look different for everyone but one thing is certain, you can't hit rock bottom with someone holding you up. Welcome to The Narcissis...
Jun 05, 2021•16 min•Season 2Ep. 25
Today's episode is about the POTENTIAL of a narcissist and how holding on to it can get you hurt and have you wasting years of your life. The person that they showed you in the beginning is just a facade and the real version of themselves shows through eventually. Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I wou...
Jun 03, 2021•10 min•Season 2Ep. 24
Today's episode is about the downside of tying your self worth to a narcissist. I get a lot of comments on my page about how sad men and women are that their current or ex narcissist (or toxic person) won't get help. In this video I go over how it's NOT ABOUT YOU, it's about us, the Narcissist. Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my...
Jun 02, 2021•13 min•Season 2Ep. 23
Today's episode is about the narcissist on a first date and how you should react. My advice is to slow it down and take your time because SPEED is the weapon of a narcissist. Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the oth...
Jun 01, 2021•11 min•Season 2Ep. 22
Today's episode is about the Narcissistic discard. WHY DO WE DO IT? I go in depth behind a few reasons why a narcissist discards you and one discard that I don't see a lot of material on! Sometimes the narcissist forces you to be the one to discard them!! Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have l...
May 31, 2021•12 min•Season 2Ep. 21
Today's episode is about whether or not the narcissist in your life knows what they are doing to you. My answer is YES, we know. Narcissists are not used to being held accountable for our actions so we tend to escalate over time in order to chase a "narcissistic" high to see what else we can get away with. Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitel...
May 30, 2021•12 min•Season 2Ep. 20
Today's episode is about love bombing from a narcissist...later in a relationship. A lot of people think that a narcissist only love bombs you in the beginning of a relationship but that's not true. A narcissist will love bomb you anytime they feel like you may leave them. Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without ...
May 25, 2021•12 min•Season 2Ep. 19
Today’s PODCAST only episode is about making the narcissist EARN your information. Speed is the weapon of the narcissist so take it slow and make them earn it. Also! Everyone doesn’t deserve a second chance. Tune in for more. All my links — https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
May 23, 2021•9 min•Season 3Ep. 2
Welcome to the first PODCAST only version of the Narcissists’ Code. Today’s episode goes over my current TikTok “drama” and how consistent change is the only acceptable apology. Check out all my links here — https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
May 22, 2021•10 min•Season 3Ep. 1
Today's episode covers the always elusive question of "How can you tell if they are serious about changing?" I go over a few ways that you can "test" to see if the narcissist (or toxic person) in your life is changing in some way, shape or form. I also get very passionate about why I stayed in therapy and I send a direct message to other narcissists out there about how their (our) behaviors are effecting our families. Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee ...
May 20, 2021•13 min•Season 2Ep. 18
Today's episode is about missing the narcissist that was in your life. I get a lot of people that are embarrassed about the fact that even years of mistreatment and abuse, they actually still miss the narcissist. In this video I go over how it's actually understandable and how you need to mentally have a funeral for them and then celebrate your new life. Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my per...
May 15, 2021•12 min•Season 2Ep. 17
On today's episode I go into detail about how a narcissist will waste years of your life and then blame you for sticking around for so long. A true narcissist does not care about anything other than satisfying their own needs in some way, shape or form. Take back your power and regain control of your life now or you will regret it later, I promise.
May 11, 2021•15 min•Season 2Ep. 16
Today's episode is about my origins and why I went to therapy. So many people ask me this question and I feel the need to come back and start over since my following has grown. Although I am married, my wife was not the only reason I went to therapy. There were a lot of events that came to a point and I forced changed upon myself. I am not cured, I am just aware Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy fo...
Apr 27, 2021•22 min•Season 2Ep. 15
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse vi...
Apr 23, 2021•13 min•Season 2Ep. 14
Today's episode is about the "TRAUMA BOND". This is when you are literally bonded through trauma to a narcissist. You can't find the strength to leave even though you know you are in a terrible situation.
Apr 07, 2021•12 min•Season 2Ep. 13
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. Today's episode is about being Isolated by a Narcissist. A narcissist wants to isolate you so that we are your only source of emotional support, financial support and friendship support. Be wary of the signs. You can find me on Tiktok at Me...
Mar 31, 2021•14 min•Season 2Ep. 12
Welcome to my Channel. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of this series is to point out people that could be narcissists. I'm not calling them narcissists though, I'm just going on the assumption that they are and providing perspective as to why they could be doing what they do. Today's episode is...
Mar 24, 2021•13 min•Season 3Ep. 1
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse vi...
Mar 22, 2021•12 min•Season 2Ep. 11
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these podcasts is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse ...
Mar 11, 2021•15 min•Season 2Ep. 10
Today's episode is about the emotions as a narcissist. I tell a personal story about how I went 17 years without shedding a tear because I felt like showing any emotions would hinder me from experiencing life the way I wanted to experience it. This is my most honest episode, I really get into my life and why I am the way that i am.
Mar 07, 2021•20 min•Season 2Ep. 9
Today's Today's episode is going to be all about CHILDREN and narcissists. If you're new to the channel, I am a self aware narcissist whose goal is to bring awareness to both sides of the dynamic, the narcissist and the survivor. I cover co-parenting, abandonment, obsessions and even go into detail about how I coparent with my oldest son's mother. A narcissist can use their kids as leverage against the other parent and will try to turn them against the other parent as well Find me on tiktok at m...
Mar 03, 2021•16 min•Season 2Ep. 8
Today's episode is going to be about the hot topic of Love Bombing from a narcissist. Is the love real? Why does it stop? How are they so good at it? All of these questions and more are answered in this episode. My goal is to bring awareness to the other side of the narcissistic dynamic by offering you the perspective of an actual self-aware narcissist. Follow me on instagram at mental_healness and tiktok at mentalhealness.
Feb 22, 2021•16 min•Season 2Ep. 7
Today's episode of the Narcissists' Code covers the subject of HOOVERING. If you are unfamiliar with the term, Hoovering (like a vacuum) is when a narcissist sucks you back into the relationship by any means necessary. I also cover the "REVERSER HOOVER" a coin I termed. The reverse hoover is a form of the silent treatment that us as narcissists, use to get you to question yourself and reach out. You can find me on Tiktok @/mentalhealness and Instagram @/mental_healness // If you have any persona...
Feb 15, 2021•15 min•Season 2Ep. 6
