Hi type 9s, it's been an absolute honor to connect with you and discuss our thoughts with you over the past years. We are truly grateful for your listener-ship and would love for you to stay in touch, even though this is the final episode! Peace out, peacemakers! Special thanks to everyone who contributed to the podcast including our amazing guests and panelists! You know who you are, but here is a quick list we've compiled: Guests: Rhonda Farr, Emily Loveall, Priscilla Dean, Caryn Berley, Kelsi...
May 29, 2025•27 min
Hi, Type 9s! We are on an extended Spring Break until mid to late-April! During this window of time, Kimberly can take on new astrology clients but you've got to grab your spot by Sunday, March 16th, 12am (EST). While the podcast is on a break, check out Caryn Berley's new podcast, Enneagram Invitations: Saying Yes to Transformation . See you soon! Book your Type 9 Astrology reading HERE . (Order by 3/16/25, 12am EST.) Listen to Caryn Berley's new podcast HERE . More about your hosts: Kimberly E...
Mar 13, 2025•7 min•Season 4Ep. 48
Today we're featuring part 2 of our conversation with Caryn Berley! About Caryn: Trained as a social worker, Caryn Berley now plays the roles of Enneagram Teacher, Somatic Practitioner, and Transformationalist where she inspires insight, and wields wisdom in service of your Inner Knowing. Caryn believes you can live a life that honors all of who you are and benefits humanity as a whole. Through deep relationship, compassionate curiosity, somatic awareness, and (often) the framework of the Enneag...
Feb 28, 2025•53 min
Our favorite Enneagram teacher is back! This time, she discusses her somatic approach to healing with the Enneagram. We explore how and why our bodies have to capacity to unlock wisdom and facilitate growth, especially for Type 9s. About Caryn: Trained as a social worker, Caryn Berley now plays the roles of Enneagram Teacher, Somatic Practitioner, and Transformationalist where she inspires insight, and wields wisdom in service of your Inner Knowing. Caryn believes you can live a life that honors...
Feb 13, 2025•51 min•Season 4Ep. 46
Let's talk about choosing a "word of the year", in other words, a one-word theme for your intentions this year. Kimberly and Holly each share about their intentions and a word that they've chosen to capture how they'd like to feel and how they want this focus to benefit them. What's yours? Share with us via Facebook or Instagram! Relevant links: "Steady as She Goes" by The Raconteurs Your One-Word Theme for 2025 - a blog post by writer and podcaster Gretchen Ruben More about your hosts: Kimberly...
Jan 30, 2025•21 min
"I don't have the time for taking care of myself". Does this sound familiar, 9s? In reality, we all have the same amount of time as anyone else. It all comes down to giving yourself permission to treat yourself as a priority. Holly shared that the symptoms that resulted from burnout (pain/illness) actually reduced once she started using her time more intentionally. It helped transform her from someone who lived to serve other people's priorities all the time, to someone who spends time on the th...
Jan 16, 2025•49 min
Hey type 9s, we want to wish you a very happy new year! What better way to start it than by tuning into our own values and priorities? Here's a link to the Values Exercise we discussed and broke down so that you can try this at home. Let's define and redefine what values are most important to us at this time in our lives, keeping in mind that these can change. This is a helpful exercise to get clear on values before looking at our top priorities and how to schedule our lives to honor them. More ...
Jan 02, 2025•28 min
In the last episode of the year, there are a couple exciting announcements before Holly and Kimberly share their 2024 wins and challenges. Be sure to follow us at our fresh new Instagram account, and comment/DM us! @the.enneagram9.show Time-sensitive - Check out the details of Holly's mini-retreat scheduled January 1, 2025! @haporganizing What were your 2024 wins and challenges? We would love to hear them. If you're curious - Oracle card pulled was the "High Priestess" and the Tarot card pulled ...
Dec 19, 2024•28 min
Hey what's up type 9's? Before diving in to the meaty topic of the day, Kimberly and Holly share each of their "wins"! This will become a regular way to start off the episodes. Song reference: Dashboard Confessional "Don't Wait" We referenced our friends at the Enneagram Typecast Podcast to teach you about Hornevian Triad Groups in the Enneagram (episode linked is specifically for the Withdrawn types 4, 5, and 9). Then, Holly facilitates a fascinating interview with Kimberly, who shares insights...
Dec 05, 2024•49 min•Season 4Ep. 41
Still weirded out by the emotion of anger? So are we...but we are here to bring people like us some strategies and tips for handling it. In this episode, Holly and Kimberly: Share practical strategies/tips that we have used to process our own anger Share ways that we can express our anger to others Discuss thoughts on how therapy can help walk through feelings of anger, and the underlying emotions that anger hides Remind ourselves (and our listeners) that we are worthy of our own care and respec...
Nov 21, 2024•22 min•Ep. 40
Raise one hand and put your pinky, ring finger, thumb and pointer finger down! Buckle in, we're talking about ANGER today. It is the primary emotion that needs to be understood as type 9s in the "Gut" triad on the Enneagram. It has been said, by enneagram and inner work experts, that: Anger is a secondary emotion, there's always something underneath, like sadness and fear. Anger is energy in motion, helpful for boundary-setting, making changes, and advocating for ourselves. Anger is something ab...
Nov 07, 2024•40 min•Season 4Ep. 39
Part 2 of our enneagram origin stories has Kimberly and Holly discovering ourselves as heroes in our own journeys, fast forwarding to the end of the "movie" of our lives, and taking a peek at our future selves. We invite you to peer into the life of YOUR future self along with us! With guided visualization at the end, this short and sweet episode shouldn't be missed. Take a few minutes for yourselves and join us. COME FIND US! Instagram: @the_enneagram9_show @haporganizing Facebook group: The En...
Oct 24, 2024•13 min
Come see us naked! In part one of this two-part episode, Holly and Kimberly get raw and vulnerable, exposing the messy highs and lows of our initial discovery of the Enneagram and the realization that we are Type 9s. We talk about: How your Enneagram origin story is similar to the superhero origin stories we all know and love Kimberly's big secret: How the Enneagram helped her get real about her marriage...and end it. The ways the Enneagram has changed how Kimberly communicates How Holly's body ...
Oct 10, 2024•31 min•Ep. 37
Welcome to Season 4 of The Enneagram 9 Show! And, drum roll, please...my new co-host is the amazing Holly Perez! In this episode, we chat about: Our genuine hopes and big fears around teaming up The awkward moment when Kimberly asked Holly to be her co-host The future of the podcast If you're a long-time listener of the show, you already know and love Holly from the episodes below: #9. Organization as a Form of Restorative Self-Care with Holly Perez #31. How to Be the Boss of Your Own Life with ...
Sep 26, 2024•37 min•Ep. 36
This shorty episode features the juiciest, newsiest of news! Get notified about the upcoming FREE digital magazine for Type 9s at Enneagram9.com , due to drop in Winter 2024!
Sep 10, 2024•6 min•Ep. 35
She's back for a record-breaking THIRD time on the podcast because that's how much I love this Enneagram ninja. That's right, I'm talking about Caryn Berley. Today she teaches us about the Type 9's Habit of Attention - our tendency to focus on others' agendas as an adaptive strategy (an autopilot setting, if you will) to help protect us from engaging too closely with our woundedness. We discuss the what, how, and why of our Habit of Attention, and what we can do about it throughout our growth jo...
May 29, 2024•1 hr 21 min•Ep. 34
I'm posting today's episode on Mother's Day because this conversation is a Badass Mother F*cker. I'm super proud of this baby right here. You MUST listen. That's an order! This panel discussion took place at Nines Rising 2022 and it contains the beautiful, raw, heartwrenching testimonies of Peacemakers with different dominant wings and subtypes. We explore the heart center of intelligence - in other words, we talk about what it's like to FEEL all the FEELINGS. (Gulp!) PS. If we missed you at Nin...
May 12, 2024•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 33
Exciting news! I'm giving away a FREE ticket to Nines Rising, my virtual retreat for Type 9s! It's just one week away, on Saturday, May 4th. Here's how to enter: 1. Follow the podcast on your favorite podcast player. 2. Leave a rating + written review. 3. Screenshot your review and send it to me via email (hello@kimberlyeclipse.com) or via Instagram (@the_enneagram9_show). A winner will be randomly selected on Tuesday, April 30th. They will be notified via the method used to submit their screens...
Apr 27, 2024•9 min•Ep. 32
She's back! Holly Perez joins us once again to discuss the concept of leadership from within, specifically in the area of work. As an entrepreneur with a full-time day job in the corporate world, she shares what it looks like for a Type 9 to be BOSS. We discuss: Why getting clarity, prioritizing, and decision-making are so challenging for 9s. How action-taking, somatic work, joining co-working/ accountability groups, and even astrology help Holly overcome Type 9 challenges she experiences as a b...
Apr 21, 2024•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 31
This one's for the Master Mergers out there -- the 9s who habitually and unconsciously adopt people's needs, desires, preferences, opinions, and even communication styles as a way to maintain connection with others, thus creating an internal sense of harmony within themselves. In this episode, I share: The simple, one-liner magic bullet that will help with merging The 2 keys (well, 2.5 keys) to unlock the magic bullet How this all ties in with Nines Rising, our virtual retreat for Type 9's on Sa...
Apr 15, 2024•20 min•Ep. 30
Welcome to your weekly therapy session - no co-pay required! This is a can't-miss conversation with Enneagram-Informed Marriage and Family Therapist Michael Shahan. We discuss: The meaning behind one of Michael's guiding principles: You're Not What's Wrong With You What growth looks like for Nines while in therapy What holds Nines back from growing while in therapy Practical tips to help you through your next "shame spiral" Why paying attention to your body is so important for Nines The differen...
Apr 05, 2024•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 29
I'm back! I accidentally took a year-and-a-half-long bathroom break but am pumped for Season 3 of the show. In this episode I share: An intuitively channeled Letter from Love for Type 9s How my relationships have turned upside-down as a result of the Type 9 growth I experienced in my time away from the podcast A special invitation to Nines Rising 2024 - a virtual retreat for Type 9s on May 4th, 2024! I'm offering 25% off to Early Bird 9s who grab their seat by Monday, 4/1 at midnight (PST). Head...
Mar 29, 2024•25 min•Ep. 28
Hey, 9s. I didn't see this mid-season pause happening, but here it is. Listen to find out what's going down, and make sure you keep in touch (follow/ subscribe to the podcast + find me on IG) because I'm whipping up some pretty cool stuff for you upon my return. Tickets are still available for Nines Rising, my virtual retreat for Peacemakers happening this Saturday, 11/5. Grab your ticket at www.enneagram9.com. Keep in touch: www.enneagram9.com IG: @the_enneagram9_show...
Nov 01, 2022•13 min•Ep. 27
This one's short and sweet. Nines around the interwebs helped to create this list of best careers/ day jobs for Type 9s according to their own lived experience. And what the heck is a peace bucket, you ask? Come listen and find out! Tickets are still available for Nines Rising, a virtual retreat for Peacemakers. Grab your ticket at www.Enneagram9.com . Find me on Instagram: @the_enneagram9_show
Oct 25, 2022•16 min•Ep. 26
Guys, this will be the one and only time I sign an Adele song on the podcast. That's all you really need to know about this episode. Tickets to Nines Rising (a virtual retreat for Type 9s): www.Enneagram9.com Type 9 Astrology Readings: Book a session here Instagram: @the_enneagram9_show
Oct 18, 2022•28 min•Ep. 25
Hey, Nines! I recently asked Type 9s what their biggest challenge is when navigating adult friendships, and in this episode, I share their answers and stories. In part 2 of this series, which will be aired next week, I'll share some thoughts on moving through these challenges. For now, take a listen and see which of these testimonials you can relate to. Have you grabbed your ticket to Nines Rising, my virtual retreat for Type 9s? No? Whaaat? Whyyyy? For more info or to save your spot, visit www....
Oct 11, 2022•25 min•Ep. 24
Finally! Our first Type 9 panel! I've gathered a diverse group of Peacemakers ranging from college-age to their fifties, who open up about: the story of how they typed themselves as 9s how the perpetual yearning for perpetual peace and harmony shows up in their lives what the fear of loss and separation looks like in their relationships and what it's like to lack clarity, and certainty around their own identity at the very different seasons of life they're in This is a great episode if you want ...
Oct 04, 2022•1 hr 16 min•Ep. 23
Hey, 9s! This is a can't-miss episode that blends Type 9 basics with deep conversation about how differently each Nine experiences life and engages with the world. I'm interviewing certified Enneagram teacher and coach Lee Milligan, a social 9 wing 8. FUN FACT: Lee will be a panelist at Nines Rising, a virtual retreat just for 9s! Grab your ticket here . During our chat we discuss: The wake-up call Lee experienced that prepared her to fully receive and embrace the Enneagram as a powerful tool fo...
Sep 27, 2022•1 hr•Ep. 22
So you came back for more, huh? Welcome to Season 2 of The Enneagram 9 Show! In this episode, I dive into: Why I had to change the podcast title again A big announcement: I'm hosting the world's first EVER virtual retreat just for Type 9s! You MUST attend. That's an order. :) Listen for all the details on how to grab your ticket to Nines Rising on November 5th, 2022. Why growth for 9s looks and feels terrible -- and what to do about it how you can get $20 off your ticket to the Nines Rising retr...
Sep 21, 2022•32 min•Ep. 21
Surprise! We've reached the Season Finale. Believe me, I'm as surprised as you are. You'll definitely want to check out this episode because not only am I sharing some behind-the-scenes fun facts and thoughts, but I'll be unveiling what's in store for Season 2 and how YOU can be involved in it! If you'd like to participate in one of our Type 9 panel conversations to be aired in Season 2, reach out to me via IG or email. I'd love to have you! E-mail: hello@kimberlyeclipse.com Instagram: @kimberly...
Jul 26, 2022•19 min•Ep. 20
