Hey, 9s! I just woke up and rolled out of bed to record this episode, so I'm keeping this description short and sweet. I review the Top 5 Regrets of the Dying (a powerful book by Bronnie Ware), identify the regrets many 9s resonate with, discuss my own big life regrets, and talk about what we Peacemakers can do to live a more courageous, engaged, full life. www.KimberlyEclipse.com IG: @kimberly.eclipse
Jul 19, 2022•18 min•Ep. 19
Hey, Fellow 9s! In today's mini episode, I encourage you to ditch the shame you have around your troubles with consistency and aim for a different (but related) goal instead. www.KimberlyEclipse.com IG: @kimberly.eclipse
Jul 12, 2022•23 min•Ep. 18
Well, hello. We meet again. Indecision is a common hurdle for Enneagram 9s. In this mini-episode, I share 3 exercises you can use to make a tough decision, whether big or small. Connect with Kimberly or book a reading: www.KimberlyEclipse.com Instagram: @kimberly.eclipse
Jun 28, 2022•16 min•Ep. 17
Introducing my Summer Booty Shorts Series! Each week during the summer, I'll drop short and punchy mini-episodes to get you thinking, feeling, and taking action. In this episode, I share the heartbreaking, profound, and eloquent thoughts of a Peacemaker pal I met in a Facebook group for 9s. Take a listen to what he's identified as his hidden agenda as a (social) Type 9. www.kimberlyeclipse.com
Jun 22, 2022•10 min•Ep. 16
Hey, Friends! Guess what. The listeners have spoken and I happen to agree with them. This podcast has gone back to being a show for Type 9s! Other happy news: I'm switching to a weekly publishing schedule! New episodes will drop every Tuesday. Get ready for my Summer Shorty Series (mini-episodes to feed your Peacemaker soul) Longer format interviews and solo casts will resume in the fall. In this episode I discuss: Why desire is such a scary, seemingly dangerous idea for 9s Why I gave into fear ...
Jun 14, 2022•31 min•Ep. 15
Since I'm the Queen of Career Change (and finally landed on my true calling/ dream business), I thought I'd bring Hope Cook onto the show to help all my fellow empaths with the internal, emotional, and even spiritual process of making a big shift in your career. Hope is a Type 2 on the Enneagram (also known as "The Helper"), so she's very familiar with what it's like to pay constant attention to the needs, desires, and voices of others-- to the point where you risk losing touch with your own inn...
May 31, 2022•48 min•Ep. 14
Hot damn, do I have a juicy episode for you today! This one has been one of my favorites to record because it was so fun and powerful. Today I'm interviewing Kelsie Wilhoit, a mentor for Type 9s on the Enneagram and the hilarious and insightful genius behind the popular Instagram account @Healthy9Club. She serves Type 9s in such a uniquely helpful and entertaining way, and you'll see from our conversation that there is so much more to her than even her brilliant online memes could ever communica...
May 17, 2022•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 13
Hey, all! This is part 2 of my conversation with Caryn Berley-- a life coach. certified Enneagram teacher, self-proclaimed paradigm shifter, and fellow Type 9. Even if you're already familiar with the Enneagram (a powerful tool for personal and spiritual growth, self-understanding, and understanding others), this episode will blow you away because of how Caryn approaches the system. Cary and I talk about: Using the Enneagram with compassion vs. with judgment Learning about the Enneagram vs. work...
May 03, 2022•1 hr 15 min•Ep. 12
Unfortunately, I couldn't title this episode "OMG, I'm such a fangirl of Caryn Berley, someone pinch me!" But maybe I should have. Today's episode is a deeply vulnerable and philosophical fireside chat with the brilliant Life Coach and Enneagram Teacher, Caryn Berley. This episode is divided into two parts. In this first part we discuss: an extrovert's expanded definition of what it means to be a 'gentle soul'. who we are independent of the presence of others. takeaways from Caryn's recent astro...
Apr 19, 2022•34 min•Ep. 11
In this episode, Kimberly explores three questions to ask yourself if you often feel intimidated at work. Each question below is covered in-depth with insights and examples to help you work your courage muscle, reduce your anxiety, and shine on the job. 1) Are you in an industry and in a role that allow you to use your gifts and truly shine? 2) What would you do if you messed up, underperformed, or were not your best self at work? Can you trust yourself to correct situations with integrity? 3) E...
Apr 05, 2022•29 min•Ep. 10
In this episode, Kimberly chats with Professional Organizer and Coach, Holly Perez. Holly shares: the most incredible reframe EVER (AKA, her philosophy on organizing as a form of self-care). quick organizing tips that will make an immediate impact on your happiness and wellbeing. how being organized can heal relationships and reduce stress and anxiety. the mind-blowing 'Sunday Basket' method of organizing. vulnerable thoughts on how she struggled with procrastination and perfectionism while prep...
Mar 23, 2022•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 9
Same(ish) podcast, new title! This is the first official episode of Meek Not Weak! In this episode Kimberly discusses: how the world totally screws Gentle Souls why the larger community of Gentle Souls, especially in the United States, suffers from a confidence crisis/ courage crisis what Gentle Souls can do to get 'unscrewed' how comedian Dave Chappelle's mom influenced this podcast (and the new cover art) an idea for how high school yearbooks could better serve Gentle Souls Connect with Kimber...
Mar 08, 2022•17 min•Ep. 8
Change is in the air for the Let Your 9 Shine podcast! This episode covers: 4 ways the podcast and Kimberly's business are changing 3 ways they're both staying the same Kimberly's response when put on the spot and asked the question "What makes you mad?" her philosophy on underwear See you on "the other side"! www.KimberlyEclipse.com IG: @kimberly.eclipse
Feb 28, 2022•16 min•Ep. 7
You guys! This one's juicy and full of jaw-dropping findings. In this fascinating episode, Kimberly discusses: How Astrology and the Enneagram overlap and differ How your astrological birth chart informs your Enneagram type What Astrology actually is and what it isn't (Hint: It's not your horoscope in the back of magazines.) The 4 ways Astrology and the Enneagram can be used together to support your growth Why Kimberly gets nervous when she tells people she's into Astrology How you can receive a...
Dec 21, 2021•42 min•Ep. 6
In this episode, we explore the topic of instincts with Priscilla Dean, a licensed professional clinical counselor and certified Enneagram teacher. We discuss: how instincts explain why you might not identify with all the Type 9 stereotypes an overview of the 3 instincts (sexual, social, self-preservation) and how they manifest for Peacemakers why the order (or "stacking") of your instincts helps you understand where your sloth is the strongest, and therefore, what kinds of "right action" will b...
Nov 22, 2021•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 5
In this episode, Mindful Life Coach and fellow Type 9 Emily Loveall talks with us about the empowering benefits of mindfulness-- the state of being fully present in our emotional and physical experiences. Rather than retreating and numbing out from emotional discomfort, we chat about how 9s have the opportunity to access inner strength and wisdom through the non-judgmental, simple process of being present, still, and aware. During our discussion Emily shares: how mindfulness and the enneagram ca...
Nov 10, 2021•44 min•Ep. 4
In this episode, emotions coach Rhonda Farr (a type 9 who is married to a fellow 9) talks with us about healthy emotional intimacy for 9s within a marriage or other romantic partnership. Get ready for some incredible wisdom bombs and practical tips! She addresses the topics below and so much more. why intimacy feels harder and more complex than we expect when we first enter into a marriage or romantic partnership what the most common blocks are for healthy intimacy and how she recommends that 9s...
Oct 29, 2021•51 min•Ep. 3
In this episode, host Kimberly Eclipse totally (over)shares the embarrassing reasons why the podcast went silent for a few months. Hint: skin confetti + groaning! She explores three reasons why Nines, in particular, have a hard time asking for help-- and they may not be the same reasons why other types have trouble with it. Lastly, a few practical tips are shared on how to move past Nine-ish resistance so you can get the help you need when you need it.
Oct 11, 2021•26 min•Ep. 2
In this episode, you'll meet your host, Kimberly Eclipse, hear the painful but redemptive Origin Story of this podcast, and find out what you can expect in future episodes. There might also be the singing of a Backstreet Boys song. You have been warned. Let's Connect! Instagram: @kimberly.eclipse
Jun 06, 2021•21 min•Ep. 1