It’s super disappointing when you’re doing the work and you feel like the universe keeps rolling out one disappointing dude after the next. Naturally, you want to question the universe, (If you happen to believe in a higher power) and wonder what it’s all for… In today’s episode, Claire unpacks a new situationship her client, Jen, was moving through, that she was very excited about— only to then find herself extremely hurt and sad when the guy she was newly seeing became a major disappointment. ...
Jul 31, 2023•41 min•Ep. 230
Claire was inspired to do this episode because she's been coaching a few clients on not wanting to leave, and who justify staying while in the initial stages of a relationship with men who are demonstrating signs of unavailability. She is simultaneously coaching other women who are KICKING themselves for not leaving sooner but stayed for years because they painted green over red flags. In today's episode, Claire touches on when it's time to get out in the beginning stages of a relationship AND i...
Jul 24, 2023•49 min•Ep. 229
Claire tries to avoid cliché phrases like “endless possibilities” and “stay present!” but these sayings are overused for a reason! In today’s episode, she invites you to go back to the basics of shifting into expansive beliefs when it comes to finding your person, vs reacting off of what is or isn’t happening in your love-life, and therefore making it mean that it will never work out. Claire uses two of her clients as examples who have a more unique circumstance than most of her clients… One cli...
Jul 17, 2023•38 min•Ep. 228
Today, Claire brings on a very special guest, Caroline, who's based in Sweden and worked with Claire for a year and a half. Caroline shares the ins and outs of her journey towards finding love, both as Claire's client and a continued independent student of the work. You're in for a real treat with some of the nuggets of wisdom Caroline brings to the table as she reflects back on her journey towards finding herself AND her dream partner. Enjoy!
Jul 10, 2023•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 227
Today's episode is inspired by Claire's client, Sarah, (name changed to protect her privacy) who fears her "clinginess" to the result of finding her person is messing up her process. You might be just as surprised and relieved to hear what Claire had to offer Sarah, who has been working SUPER HARD to find her person... as Sarah was! It's normal to be a little clingy and attached to really wanting something that matters to you, and in this episode Claire offers how you can approach this when it c...
Jul 03, 2023•32 min•Ep. 226
If you think you're a total catch, Claire is THRILLED. She tends to attract clients in two camps: those who feel insecure and unworthy, OR they think they're total catches. This episode is for the catches who are genuinely confused about why they're still single, and find themselves comparing and despairing a lot with thoughts like, "Why does SHE have someone and I don't??" As always, this is a safe space to look at our uncomfortable thoughts that may bring up shame and/or embarrassment, but let...
Jun 26, 2023•46 min•Ep. 225
It's so hard to NOT take things personally when someone you care about leaves the building... Even if you only went on a couple of dates. But in today's episode Claire breaks down how you can look at NOT making it so personal. Also, between now and this Sunday 6/25/23, the "I'M ENGAGED!" mini-offer is available to you which includes Claire's course and a BONUS 1:1 session with Claire. CLICK HERE to sign up: https://www.clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/my-engagement-offer...
Jun 19, 2023•57 min•Ep. 224
We're HERE! It happened. Claire gives the play by play of the best day of her life, along with a couple of cringey moments! Also check out her latest mini offer that expires June 25, 2023: https://www.clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/my-engagement-offer
Jun 12, 2023•51 min•Ep. 223
This won't be the first time Claire touches on the importance of visualization when it comes to manifesting an epic romantic relationship, but now you have a WHOLE EPISODE on the importance of visualization, and more specifics on what your practice could look like. An inspired quote she shares several times throughout the episode is from David Cameron Gikandi's book, A Happy Pocket Full Of Money . "When I willingly go where my most desired imaginings take me, I become a creative force that no li...
Jun 05, 2023•45 min•Ep. 222
There's no right or wrong way to execute your morning practice, but whether you're heartbroken or single & looking for love, Claire HIGHLY RECOMMENDS that you have one. In today's episode she gives you a rundown on how to approach your morning practice for each of these purposes... It doesn't have to be perfect or flawless, but carving out the time to do it, will for sure benefit you in the long run. Claire dares that you commit to one of the two practices she offers you, for 60 days, and cl...
May 29, 2023•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 221
Today's episode is inspired by one of Claire's clients who reconnected with an ex (not part of her coaching plan!) and ultimately decided that overall she just thinks she has a "bad mindset." Much to the clients' surprise on the group call, Claire chimed in with, "Yeah ME TOO!" In this episode you'll discover how your negative mindset, whether it's about your love-life or something else, doesn't have to be a problem... it's NOT CONSISTENTLY DOING SOMETHING ABOUT IT, that's the problem, and Clair...
May 22, 2023•35 min•Ep. 220
You want love, and you believe you're DOING your part...You're swiping, dating, working on yourself, etc. Maybe you ARE... But what would it look like to do 10 TIMES the part that you're already doing, in order to find your person? NOT from a pressury, rushed, energy, but from curious, motivated and well... "energized" energy! This episode was inspired by a book Claire is reading by Grant Cardone, called the 10 X Rule. How can you not only 10X your effort into finding true love, but 10X the idea...
May 15, 2023•33 min•Ep. 219
It's not kindness, communication, or respect... although those are pretty good hallmarks of a relationship too! Claire reveals what she thinks makes Larry and her work so well together, which doesn't involve just the two of them... Curious? Then check out this freeing and fun episode, where Claire definitely has a laugh at her own expense, as well as Larry's. Referenced episodes My Heartbreak Story. Inward and Onward
May 08, 2023•37 min•Ep. 218
In today's episode, Claire addresses the woman's desire to be pursued, specifically in heteronormative relationships. Claire herself identifies as a "traditional feminist," who appreciates the man pursuing the woman when it comes to asking her out, initiating contact, and yes, even paying for the first couple of dates, while still being all about female empowerment, independence and equality. HOWEVER, there were lots of ways Claire showed up at the beginning stages of her relationship with Larry...
May 01, 2023•45 min•Ep. 217
Big TRIGGER WARNING for today's episode, as Claire understands that physical appearance-- especially for women-- can tend to be an extremely sensitive issue. And yet, it's an issue that she really wanted to address in today's episode, because what we look like, as well as what we want our ideal person to look like or NOT look like, often comes into play in our dating lives. Claire's intention for this episode is to offer you a shift in perspective about the importance and pressure surrounding th...
Apr 24, 2023•33 min•Ep. 216
If you let the story, "I'm just not lucky in love" roll off your tongue, this episode is for you, because YES-- it IS just a story that you get to change instead of perpetuate as your truth! Claire helps you see how your love-life isn't about luck-- it's about belief AND the meaning you're making out of what's unfolded in your past romantic relationships. Enjoy!
Apr 17, 2023•34 min•Ep. 215
If you think your attraction to unavailable men is super confusing because you believe you're super available, this episode is for you. Get ready to hunker down and eat a slice of humble pie for this episode. Claire truly believes that like attracts like, NO MATTER WHAT, and if you're willing to look at how YOU might have something to do with your continued pattern of attracting unavailable men-- despite how much healing work you've done on yourself-- get cozy and take a listen!...
Apr 10, 2023•34 min•Ep. 214
Claire speaks so much about how easy it is to settle for crumbs, but in this episode, she talks about common ways women automatically want to write someone off without deeply considering WHY they're writing that person off... They're being rigid for reasons that usually have to do with past experiences, or observing someone else in a particular circumstance that makes you believe that someone who wasn't rich enough wouldn't work well for you either. (using money just as an example). Today's epis...
Apr 03, 2023•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 213
Claire is bringing you a dating app smackdown on today's episode! Look, this isn't to say that your person is definitely on the apps, but the apps ARE the most mainstream way to date these days, and Claire is here to say that just because you've had some brutal experiences or "no luck" with the apps so far, doesn't mean you should throw in the towel when it comes to the apps. If you are ready to take the dating app smackdown, as well as understand how you have so much more power than you realize...
Mar 27, 2023•28 min•Ep. 212
In today's episode, Claire share's about a client's resistance to doing the work outside of their calls together (very normal!) but what was uncovered underneath the resistance broke open a whole new way for her client to approach her finding-love journey. This is Claire's favorite aspect of the coaching work: When you don't even realize the blocked thought that's preventing you from where you want to go, because you don't even recognize the bad vibes this thought is having on your finding-love ...
Mar 20, 2023•33 min•Ep. 211
This episode was inspired by two of Claire's clients who she saw were missing the point of the self-love work... Sure, we want to be the best versions of ourselves when we meet the one, but this self-love journey isn't ONLY so we can get something like romantic love out of it, and when we unconsciously lose sight of this, that's when things can feel like they're going awry. Whether or not you think you've got the self-love work down, and/or you are finding yourself still miserable, or at the ver...
Mar 13, 2023•59 min•Ep. 210
Today's episode was inspired by a basketball coach Claire recently observed, who talked about why the ball wasn't going into the basket. It was because the players were shooting to make the shot-- not focusing on shooting the ball correctly. This got Claire thinking about how people do this with dating: They date to land a man. They don't date with intentionality, awareness, clarity and joy with the PROCESS of finding the man! Two very different things, with the latter being CRUCIAL! Claire brea...
Mar 06, 2023•44 min•Ep. 209
Today's episode invites you to specifically LOVE the way you're showing up when it comes to your search for the one, even when someone you're into ends up really disappointing you. Claire is selling dignity over your ego in this episode, and offers 7 examples of how a woman can show up with dignity in her dating life. She also shares how choosing dignity comes up for her in her business, instead of choosing her ego, because she truly believes that how you are in one area of your life is how you ...
Feb 27, 2023•36 min•Ep. 208
Claire was inspired to do this episode because she is tired of seeing so-called experts give dangerous advice that could ultimately sabotage you and/or your relationship or potential relationship. Guidelines and rules are important-- especially when you've been abandoning yourself when it comes to your love-life for so long... But when you're too rigid and are automatically only looking at your circumstance narrow-mindedly because of something some self-described expert says is right or wrong, y...
Feb 20, 2023•35 min•Ep. 207
Although Claire did an episode two years ago on her 40th birthday, reflecting on 10 years since her rockbottom relationship and all that she has learned, she decided to do another one only two years later as she celebrates 42, because there are more big life lessons she has processed since then, now that she is more "full swing" into her ideal relationship. Whether you're heartbroken or single and looking for love, there are great reminders in here, that she wished she'd understood and factored ...
Feb 13, 2023•51 min•Ep. 206
How is it true that the work IS working, when you've been putting in the work and you're NOT seeing the results?? Claire was inspired to record a new and improved episode on this topic, due to a personal experience of herself guessing if the work was working in a particular area in her own life, and a client was questioning the same thing regarding her dating life. TRIGGER WARNING: This episode touches on body image/weight issues as well as Claire's personal journey with alcohol, in case these a...
Feb 06, 2023•41 min•Ep. 205
In the second of this three-part series, holistic health expert, Jamie Mckeown, guests again and breaks down more of the science when it comes to the effects alcohol can have on your broken heart, in a light-hearted, entertaining, and non-preachy manner! If you are someone who tends to lean on alcohol in general, or even more so when you're nursing a broken heart, don't be afraid to listen! This is not about preaching on what's right or wrong, or good or bad. The purpose of this three-part serie...
Jan 30, 2023•59 min•Ep. 204
In the second of this three-part series, holistic health expert, Jamie Mckeown, guests again and breaks down more of the science when it comes to the effects alcohol can have on your broken heart, in a light-hearted, entertaining, and non-preachy manner! If you are someone who tends to lean on alcohol in general, or even more so when you're nursing a broken heart, don't be afraid to listen! This is not about preaching on what's right or wrong, or good or bad. The purpose of this three-part serie...
Jan 23, 2023•1 hr•Ep. 203
Claire brings back her bestie and health expert, Jamie Mckeowen, to discuss a topic she continues to explore in her own life: ALCOHOL. This episode is the first of a three-part series where Claire and Jamie share about their own histories and current relationships with alcohol, and why it's an important topic for women's health that needs to be consistently revisited, because it's easy to forget about the harmful effects alcohol can have in large quantities and/or on a consistent basis. This fir...
Jan 16, 2023•58 min•Ep. 202
Claire takes a fun spin on the phrase, "Onwards and Upwards" in this episode, as she shares about her challenging year in 2022, and how she is choosing to show up differently for 2023. It's a tricky thing to balance what experts say we all "should" do when it comes to creating goals and making big life and business decisions. In today's episode, Claire talks about the importance of listening to your gut above anything else, even when it might not make logical sense to those around you who may kn...
Jan 09, 2023•40 min•Ep. 201
