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Social Skills Coaching

Patrick Kingbit.ly
While everyone wants to make themselves and their lives better, it has been hard to find specific, actionable steps to accomplish that. Until now... Patrick King is a Social Interaction Specialist, in other words, a dating, online dating, image, and communication, and social skills coach based in San Francisco, California. He’s also a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market and writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships. He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to break down emotional barriers, instill confidence, and equip people with the tools they need for success. No pickup artistry and no gimmicks, simply a thorough mastery of human psychology delivered with a dose of real talk.
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Master First Impressions: Greetings & Introductions Done Right! (Unspoken Social Rules)

00:00:00 Unspoken Social Rules & Etiquette, (Un)common Sense, & How to Act (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 25) Written by Patrick King Narrated by Russell Newton. Unspoken Social Rules & Etiquette, (Un)common Sense, & How to Act (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 25) By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3lsqXzM https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRWMQNRF Ever feel awkward when meeting new people? Unsure of the right way to greet someone? Fret no more! T...

Dec 11, 202417 min

Find Your Life Philosophy In 10 Minutes! - Wisdom From Buddha, Stoics & More!

00:00:00.000 10-Minute Philosophy 00:05:56.080 The Trolley Dilemma. 00:09:57.040 Philosophy Is About Thinking. 00:13:08.600 What’s Your Life Philosophy? 10-Minute Philosophy: From Buddhism to Stoicism, Confucius and Aristotle - Bite-Sized Wisdom From Some of History's Greatest Thinkers By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/10MinPhil https://www.amazon.com/10-Minute-Philosophy-Confucius-Aristotle-Bite-Sized-ebook/dp/B07T9QVSX7 Feeling lost and searching for answers? You're not alone! In ...

Dec 04, 202420 min

Think for Yourself: Master Independent Thought in 4 Steps (Patrick King's "The Independent Thinker")

Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3n6A2fzPodcast 00:00:00 The Independent Thinker Written by Patrick King Narrated by Russell Newton. 00:00:42 The Levels Of Mastering Independent Thought. 00:01:56 Level 1 - A Patchwork Identity. 00:03:27 Level 2 - Developing trust in the self. 00:06:22 Level 3 - Truly independent thought. 00:14:53 The Fundamentals Of Independent Thought. 00:15:15 Habit 1 - Critical reading. 00:18:10 Habit 2 - Not getting too fond of your own perspective. 00:20:30 Habit 3 - Being O....

Nov 20, 202440 min

Clear Thinking Strategies Top Minds Use to Succeed!

00:00:00 The Art of Clear Thinking 00:05:14 The Armored Ego. 00:21:32 Obstacles To Honest Thought. 00:34:01 On Forming Opinions. 00:41:49 “Strong opinions which are lightly held” is a helpful rule of thumb. "The Art of Clear Thinking" by Patrick King Hear it Here: https://bit.ly/clearthinkingking Struggling to think clearly and make sound decisions? You're not alone! In this video, we'll explore key ideas from Patrick King's book "The Art of Clear Thinking: Mental Models for Better Reasoning, Ju...

Nov 13, 202446 min

Sharpen Your Thinking! Deconstruct Situations, Analyze Deeply & Never Be Fooled Again (With Practical Intelligence By Patrick King)

Practical Intelligence: How to Think Critically, Deconstruct Situations, Analyze Deeply, and Never Be Fooled By Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/practicalintelligenceking https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08263KGHKDescription: Feeling like you're missing things or not thinking critically enough? This video is for you! We'll dive into the world of Practical Intelligence by Patrick King, exploring how to: Look beneath the surface: Learn to deconstruct situations and uncover the hidden truths. E...

Nov 06, 202437 min

Master The Art Of Conversation: Learn From Improv Comedy

In this video, learn how to master the art of conversation through improv comedy techniques. Improve your banter and leadership skills with insights from Patrick King! In today's video, we're going to explore how to improve your conversation skills using improv comedy techniques. We'll discuss: The importance of reading and reacting to everything in a conversation How to listen for emotion and be generous with your attention The power of using improv to think on your feet and come up with witty ...

Oct 30, 202416 min

How to Speak Effectively: Influence, Engage, & Charm

In this video, we'll discuss the key points from Patrick King's book "How to Speak Effectively: Influence, Engage, & Charm" (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 29). This book is a comprehensive guide to improving your communication skills and making a lasting impression on others. Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3N9lsjI 00:00:00 How to Speak Effectively 00:06:51 How To Use The Ladder In Your Own Life. 00:28:30 Chunking - Adjusting The Zoom Button. 00:42:58 Think Before You Speak. We'...

Oct 23, 20241 hr 2 min

Unleash Your Inner Charisma: A Deep Dive into Patrick King's "Massive Charisma"

Ready to captivate audiences and command attention? Join us as we delve into the world of charisma with Patrick King's groundbreaking book, "Massive Charisma." Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3OJ4V72 In this episode, we'll explore the essence of charisma, providing a practical definition and zooming in on the specific qualities that make a truly charismatic individual. Discover how to cultivate a powerful charismatic aura that will leave a lasting impression on everyone you meet. Don't miss this ...

Oct 16, 202442 min

Conversational Landmines: 5 Things To Avoid In Social Situations

Tired of awkward conversations? Learn how to avoid the top conversational landmines that can ruin your social interactions. In this video, we dive into Chapter 1 of Patrick King's book, How to Engage, Connect, & Captivate, and explore the 5 things you should never do when talking to others. Discover how to avoid playing the cool guy, being a boring know-it-all, bringing your ego to the party, bragging, and mismatching energy. By understanding these conversational pitfalls, you can become a m...

Oct 09, 202438 min

Become A Human Behavior Scientist: Decode Emotions And Predict Behavior

Want to know what people are truly thinking without them saying a word? Join Patrick King as he dives into the fascinating world of human behavior. In this episode, we'll explore the art of reading emotions and predicting behavior. Discover how to differentiate between primary and secondary emotions, and learn to listen to what the body is saying. You can gain valuable insights into people's attitudes and intentions by understanding emotions. Don't miss this opportunity to become a master of hum...

Oct 02, 202451 min

The Social Animal: Understanding The Science Of Human Connection

Discover the science of human connection with psychologist Robin Dunbar in "The Social Animal." Explore the psychology behind relationships and social interactions in this captivating book. The Science of Social Intelligence: 45 Methods to Captivate People, Make a Powerful Impression, and Subconsciously Trigger Social Status and Value [Second ... (The Psychology of Social Dynamics Book 7) By Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/socialintelking 00:00:00 The Science of Social Intelligence 00...

Sep 25, 202438 min

How To Make People Crave Your Presence: The Subtle Art Of Likability

Learn the subtle art of likability and how to make people crave your presence. Discover the secrets of context-dependent memory and how it can enhance your social skills. The Science of Likability: 67 Evidence-Based Methods to Radiate Charisma, Make a Powerful Impression, Win Friends, and Trigger Attraction (4th Ed.) (The Psychology of Social Dynamics Book 12) By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3BXFuHQ

Sep 18, 202432 min

Before You Open Your Mouth: The Power Of Mindset In People Skills

Learn the power of mindset in people skills before you open your mouth! Discover the Clever Hans effect and its impact on communication and perception. Improve Your People Skills: How to Connect With Anyone, Communicate Effectively, Develop Deep Relationships, and Become a People Person By Patrick King Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3nQxB0N 00:00:00 Improve Your People Skills 00:05:10 Hanlon’s Razor And Assumptions. 00:13:52 The Curiosity Factor. 00:25:05 Walk A Mile For Empathy. 00:28:36 Let’s ...

Sep 11, 202436 min

How to Build Strong Friendships: The Friendship Formula and Creating a Reality Distortion Field

Make Friends Easily: How to Charm and Connect in Record Time By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3u0rxtc 00:00:00 Make Friends Easily 00:06:17 The Friendship Formula. 00:18:17 How To Use Schafer’S Formula To Your Benefit. 00:23:22 Create Your Own Reality Distortion Field. 00:28:39 Stay Present. 00:38:42 Reciprocal Curiosity. 00:52:02 Assume Nothing. 00:54:54 Person, Not Story. 00:57:29 You Go First. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CDWF4WLJ Making new friends doesn't have to be a chore. L...

Sep 04, 202410 min

How To Be Funny: A Beginner's Guide To Humor

How To Be Hilarious and Quick-Witted in Everyday Conversation (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 14) By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/BeHilarious 00:00:00 How To Be Hilarious and Quick-Witted in Everyday Conversation 00:06:37 Know Your Humor Style. 00:10:22 Finding The Humor In Everyday Life. 00:17:28 Consume More Comedy. 00:23:06 Puns And Dad Jokes. 00:29:03 What Funny Stories Are Made Of. 00:35:31 Funny Analogies. 00:36:37 The Death penalty and the McRib. 00:39:21 The H...

Aug 28, 20241 hr

Beyond The Surface: Cultivating Curiosity, Skepticism, And Critical Thinking

Neuroscience-proven guidelines to think, act, and become smarter ASAP. It’s not what you know, it’s how you think. 00:00:00 Practical Intelligence 00:00:17 Look Beneath The Surface. 00:09:15 Curious As A Cat. 00:19:25 A Skeptic’s View. 00:28:10 The Critical Thinker. 00:36:56 Paul-Elder Thinking. You’ve been fooled before. You’ve missed things. You’ve been slow on the uptake and others have passed you by. Radically transform your thinking for both speed AND accuracy. Think quickly on your feet to...

Aug 21, 20241 hr 6 min

Unlock The Secrets Of People: Master The Art Of Reading Anyone

Read People Like a Book: How to Analyze, Understand, and Predict People’s Emotions, Thoughts, Intentions, and Behaviors (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 9) By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/readpeopleking https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BTYQXK62 00:00:00 Read People Like a Book 00:00:04 Why You’Re Probably Doing It Wrong. 00:00:06 The Problem Of Objectivity. 00:00:10 Motivation As A Behavioral Predictor. 00:00:16 Our Inner Child Still Lives. 00:00:18 The Motivation Factor—Pl...

Aug 13, 20241 hr 23 min

Stop People-Pleasing: Break Free From The Need To Be Liked

Learn how to stop people-pleasing and break free from the need to be liked. Say goodbye to the disease to please and start living for yourself! Stand Up For Yourself, Set Boundaries, & Stop Pleasing Others (if that’s okay with you…) (Be Confident and Fearless Book 9) By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3To6NDu https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B7GWJN4F

Aug 07, 20241 hr 4 min

Master The Art Of Conversation: Learn From Improv Comedy

Improve Your Conversations: Think on Your Feet, Witty Banter, and Always Know What to Say with Improv Comedy Techniques (2nd Edition) (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 10) By Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/improvking 00:00:00 Improve Your Conversations 00:09:46 Spontaneity and Flow 00:15:41 Emotional Intelligence 00:21:26 Play 00:24:50 Make it Easy https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08RY4HMHX Does your mind blank in conversation and create awkward silence? Do you run out of things...

Jul 31, 202439 min

Become A Human Lie Detector: Read People Like A Book

How to Extract Info, Secrets, and Truth: Make People Reveal Their True Thoughts and Intentions Without Them Even Knowing It (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 12) By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/ExtractInfo https://www.amazon.com/dp/B093ZRPCDK 00:00:00.000 How to Extract Info, Secrets, and Truth 00:02:59.000 Look At My Face. 00:14:44.640 Body Talk. 00:33:09.000 Putting It All Together. 00:49:18.560 Thinking In Terms Of Message Clusters. Learn to quickly read people and d...

Jul 24, 20241 hr 2 min

Communication Breakthrough: Stop Fighting, Start Collaborating

00:00:00 Intentional Communication 00:03:31 You versus Me ...or Us versus the Problem 00:13:22 Assume People Are Doing Their Best. 00:24:31 Telling The Third Story. 00:34:08 Address the Higher Self, Acknowledge the Emotional Self 00:44:54 Mastering Self-Differentiation Intentional Communication: Emotional Validation, Listening, Empathy, and the Art of Harmonious Relationships By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3HhRPIm https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09MPQJ3BZ How to read between the line...

Jul 17, 202458 min

Unlock Your Mind: Master Critical Thinking With Riddles

00:00:00 Learn to Think Using Riddles, Brain Teasers, and Wordplay 00:04:18 Thinking Modalities. 00:05:48 Going Outside The Box. 00:13:30 Mastering Critical Thinking. 00:24:33 Putting It All Together. Learn to Think Using Riddles, Brain Teasers, and Wordplay: Develop a Quick Wit, Think More Creatively and Cleverly, and Train your Problem-Solving instincts By Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/usingriddles https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08CD33V2S Learn how to ask the right questions, solve pr...

Jul 10, 202438 min

Handling Big Egos - Even Yours

00:00:00 The Power of EQ 00:02:12 Empathic Listening And Responding. 00:09:20 The Four Types Of Empathic Responses. 00:22:58 Ways to be a more active and constructive responder 00:27:36 Shift Responses Versus Support Responses. The Power of E.Q.: Social Intelligence, Reading People, and How to Navigate Any Situation By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3OJ4V72 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C3CC2RM3 Your success in life will depend on how good you are with people. Sorry, that's the harsh...

Jul 04, 202445 min

The LOST Art Of Listening: Become A MASTER Communicator

Mindful Listening: How To Be Present, Intentional, and Empathetic (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 35) By Patrick King Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3zldf8Y https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CX1F3HFX The key behind communication - it's not about what you say. It's how you shut up. Empathy and listening - they sound easy, but you know that most people you meet on a daily basis can't do it. So what's the deal? Mindful listening is the skill behind deep relationships. This book is about a sk...

Jun 26, 202448 min

The SCIENCE Of Motivation: Why We Do What We Do (Chapter 1)

00:00:00 Motivation Triggers 00:00:28 What Is Motivation? 00:02:52 Anything You Want. 00:04:46 What Is Motivation? 00:15:13 Science, History, And Biology. 00:28:44 The Science Of Motivated Action. 00:34:09 Three Primary Theories. 00:34:54 Drives And Needs Theory. 00:35:29 Arousal Theory. 00:36:50 Instinct Theory. 00:54:48 Theories Into Application And Practice. Have you ever wondered what truly motivates you? This video dives deep into the science behind motivation, exploring its history, biolog...

Jun 19, 20241 hr 13 min

Unleash Your Inner Charisma! | Fox Cabane's Types & Howard Friedman's Secrets

MASSIVE CHARISMA: Small Talk, Charm, Likability, and How to Succeed With People (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 31) By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3uhUQ6T https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C7Q9FBM8 Develop your own personal gravity with concrete skills to stand out, be noticed, and captivate people. If you (1) walk into a room and feel invisible, or (2) want to ensure you make a powerful personal impact – NEWSFLASH: you need better advice than “fake it ‘til you make it” o...

Jun 12, 202448 min

Master Communication: From Awkward To Awesome!

00:00:00 Improve your people skills 00:02:38 The Triangle Eye Contact Technique 00:06:53 Using Proxemics 00:09:27 Personal Space 00:14:23 Perceptual Positions For Empathy And Awareness 00:23:45 Three-Step Active Listening Improve Your People Skills: How to Build Relationships Anywhere, with Anyone, in Any Situation By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3nQxB0N https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B2P6YCS2 Become the ultimate people person and social butterfly. Your qualifications and intelligen...

Jun 03, 20246 min

Establishing Boundaries

Establishing Boundaries: How to Protect Yourself, Become Assertive, Take Back Control, and Set Yourself Free (Be Confident and Fearless Book 6) By Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/establishboundariesking 00:07:47.640 Drawing The Line 00:13:00.440 Types Of Boundaries 00:21:53.960 Are You In Need? 00:28:09.515 Your Relationship With Boundaries 00:33:02.040 The Conditional Statement 00:38:01.480 An Important Definition 00:58:21.120 Self Assessing https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08CV1V7HL How t...

May 29, 20241 hr 8 min

Master People Skills: The Power Before You Speak

Unlock the Secret to Better Relationships! People skills aren't just about what you say – they begin with how you think about others. 00:00:00 Improve your people skills 00:03:20 Members of the Belief Police 00:12:35 For instance, take the story of Clever Hans 00:17:02 Hanlon’s Razor In this video, we explore the power of: Hanlon's Razor: Why assuming good intentions strengthens connections. Curiosity Factor: How genuine interest unlocks fascinating conversations. Walking a Mile in Their Shoes: ...

May 22, 202447 min

Validation As A Communication Skill AudioChapter from How to Listen, Hear, and Validate AudioBook by Patrick King

How to Listen, Hear, and Validate: Break Through Invisible Barriers and Transform Your Relationships (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 11) By Patrick King 00:00:00 How to listen, hear, and validate 00:10:37 Why Validation Is So Important 00:16:53 Isn’t Validation The Same As Empathy? 00:19:57 Validation—One Of The Clearest Ways To Express Care 00:25:52 Validating The Right Way And In The Right Moment Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/listenhearvalidateking https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08WLB...

May 15, 202434 min
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