Welcome to Episode 444 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Lisa Schaefer VP of Marketing at Promescent , who speaks to me about the biggest trends reshaping sexual-health products and sex-tech innovation. In the first half of the episode, I dive into three listener questions and unpack why fantasy is perfectly healthy, offer concrete scripts for sharing kinks without shame, and celebrate self-pleasure as a lifelong birth-right, while sprinkling in resources, exercises, an...
Jun 24, 2025•36 min
Welcome to Episode 443 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Epiphany Jordan who speaks to me about the essential role of nonsexual, nurturing touch in our lives and how it intersects with wellness, relationships, and even trauma recovery. In this rich and deeply personal conversation, Epiphany shares her journey from studying sacred sexuality to creating structured touch experiences aimed at fostering connection and healing. We explore the cultural, religious, and psycholog...
Jun 17, 2025•46 min
Welcome to Episode 442 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Eleanor O’Brien who speaks to me about exploring erotic fantasies through creativity, theater, and self-expression. In this conversation, Eleanor shares how her personal journey with fantasy evolved from taboo-fueled curiosity to embodied empowerment. We explore the fascinating world of erotic storytelling, from her theater adaptations of fantasy monologues to the value of devising your own erotic scenes through se...
Jun 10, 2025•45 min
Welcome to Episode 441 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell who speaks to me about cultivating intimacy in long-term relationships, navigating sexless marriages, and reigniting erotic connection between partners. In this episode, we explore what truly keeps the spark alive in long-term relationships and why the common advice of compromise may actually undermine deep connection. Dr. Stockwell introduces her approach of Uncompromising Intimacy , which ...
Jun 03, 2025•37 min
Welcome to Episode 440 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Jeff Abraham, CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, whose lead product is Promescent. Jeff speaks to me about the deeply misunderstood topic of premature ejaculation (PE) and the emotional, relational, and physiological dimensions behind it. In this enlightening conversation, Jeff and I unpack the complex web of stigma, shame, and misinformation that surrounds early ejaculation. We discuss the difference between perc...
May 27, 2025•47 min
Welcome to Episode 439 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm thrilled to have a panel of leading sex therapists and relationship and intimacy experts from around the world. They’ll discuss the most common mistakes people make in the bedroom and how to address them. A big thank you to Dr. Emily Jamea , Ariel Anderssen , Dr. Lori Bisbey , Catherine Auman , Candia Raquel , Dr. Stephanie Bathurst , Dr. Avrum Weiss , and Elliot Katz . In this episode, we explore the habits that often go unnoticed but c...
May 20, 2025•22 min
Welcome to Episode 438 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill , who speak to me about emotional regulation, co-regulation, and their transformative journey in creating a stronger sexual connection through emotional attunement. In this heartfelt episode, Glenn and Phyllis share their personal story of early sexual struggles and emotional disconnect in their marriage, which eventually led them on a lifelong quest for answers. Married since 1982, they ...
May 13, 2025•51 min
Welcome to Episode 437 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Brittany Steffen, LMFT, who speaks to me about how couples can navigate and deepen their sexual communication. In this episode, Brittany and I discuss the kinds of conversations couples should be having but often aren’t, especially when it comes to sex. We talk about the importance of discussing how and when to initiate sex, redefining what “counts” as sex, and how understanding each other’s intentions can greatly ...
May 06, 2025•44 min
Welcome to Episode 436 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman , co-founders of the Somatica Institute, who speak to me about sex parties. In this episode, we discuss the evolving landscape of sexual exploration, intentional relationship structures, and how sex parties can be transformative when approached with clear communication, consent, and a sense of curiosity. Danielle and Celeste share their personal journey of entering the world of ...
Apr 29, 2025•34 min
Welcome to Episode 435 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Tia Lynn , a seasoned intimacy coach and host of the Sexy Biz Babe Podcast, who speaks to me about navigating threesomes, one of the most common fantasies among couples - and how to approach them with intention, clarity, and care. In our conversation, we explore the difference between fantasy and desire, and why not every fantasy needs to be acted upon. Tia offers practical advice on how couples can decide whether ...
Apr 22, 2025•32 min
Welcome to Episode 434 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Rain DeGrey , who speaks to me about the world of prostate massage and milking - what it is, how it works, and the deeper cultural and psychological barriers we often encounter around anal play, particularly for men. In our conversation, Rain breaks down the differences (and similarities) between prostate massage and milking, highlighting how both are often misunderstood. We explore how performance anxiety, shame, ...
Apr 15, 2025•41 min
Welcome to Episode 433 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Anna Lee, the CEO and co-founder of Lioness , who speaks to me about the intersection of pleasure, science, and innovation - and how we can redefine the way we understand and experience orgasms. In this episode, Anna shares her fascinating journey from working in big tech to creating Lioness, a company rooted in data-driven pleasure and sexual wellness. We dive into how her cultural upbringing shaped her early rela...
Apr 08, 2025•40 min
Welcome to Episode 432 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by William Moore, who speaks to me about his incredible journey from LGBTQ+ advocacy to pioneering innovations in male enhancement procedures. In this powerful episode, William shares his story of growing up in rural Alabama and eventually becoming a national LGBTQ+ rights advocate, culminating in a landmark U.S. Supreme Court case that changed anti-discrimination laws forever. He also takes us into the world of male ...
Apr 01, 2025•51 min
Welcome to Episode 431 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Susan Bratton as we explore the fascinating world of sexual biohacking—how we can extend our sexual vitality and pleasure throughout our lives. Susan is an expert in sexual wellness and longevity, and she shares valuable insights on how we can enhance our "sex span" alongside our health span. A lifelong entrepreneur, Susan is CEO of two companies. The 20, founded in 2019, is a supplement company specializing in li...
Mar 25, 2025•45 min
Welcome to Episode 430 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Lynn Lohide , a professional body piercer and needle play educator. Lynn speaks to me about the fascinating world of needle play - what it is, how it's practiced safely, and the deeper emotional and psychological connections people have with it. In our conversation, Lynn shares how their journey into professional piercing led them to discover the erotic and ritualistic aspects of needle play. We explore the ways i...
Mar 18, 2025•28 min
Welcome to Episode 429 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Ariel Anderssen , who shares her incredible journey from growing up in a strict religious community to becoming a BDSM model and advocate. We explore the origins of kink, whether it’s something we’re born with or develop over time, along with the role of trust, communication, and appreciation in BDSM relationships. Ariel opens up about her early fascination with power dynamics, how she discovered the BDSM communit...
Mar 11, 2025•36 min
Welcome to Episode 428 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Dr. Alexandria Saunders , who speaks to me about the transformative practice of Yoni massage within Tantra. We explore how this sacred technique can deepen intimacy, heal past trauma, and help individuals reconnect with their bodies in a more profound and holistic way. In this episode, Dr. Alexandria shares how her journey into Tantra began through yoga and how she seamlessly integrates spiritual and sexual wellne...
Mar 04, 2025•49 min
Welcome to Episode 427 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Catherine Auman , a marriage and family therapist with extensive expertise in Tantra. We look into the fascinating world of Tantra and its role in deepening intimacy, exploring how couples can move beyond routine interactions to cultivate more sensual and spiritual connections. In this episode, Catherine shares her personal journey into Tantra, how she integrates it into couples therapy, and why it’s a transformat...
Feb 25, 2025•36 min
Welcome to Episode 426 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Pauline Ryeland , an expert in Tantra, intimacy coaching, and libido work. Pauline shares her deep knowledge of Tantra as a way of life, explaining how we can use practices like eye gazing and breathwork to strengthen emotional and physical intimacy with our partners. Pauline Ryeland, Intimacy Whisperer ® has been working as an Intimacy, Sex & Libido Coach & Educator for over 13 years. She is certified as ...
Feb 18, 2025•29 min
Welcome to Episode 425 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be speaking with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu, co-hosts of the Dateable Podcast , to dive into the complexities of modern dating. We explore how dating has evolved over the years, why many people struggle to transition from endless texting to real dates, and how societal shifts have changed what we look for in a partner. With more choices than ever, dating can feel overwhelming, but Julie and Yue share insights on how to naviga...
Feb 11, 2025•35 min
Welcome to Episode 424 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be speaking with Evan Marc Katz , a dating coach with over two decades of experience helping smart, successful women find lasting love. In this episode, we dive deep into the complexities of modern dating, exploring how attraction, chemistry, and long-term compatibility play a role in finding the right partner. Evan Marc Katz became the world’s first dating coach in 2003, specialising in helping smart, successful women create l...
Feb 04, 2025•48 min
Welcome to Episode 423 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome back Dr. Richard Espinoza, he joins me to speak to about he complexities of modern dating, from ghosting to online matchmaking, and everything in between. In this episode, we discuss why ghosting has become so prevalent, how attachment styles shape our approach to vulnerability, and why online dating can often feel like a rollercoaster. We also reflect on the importance of self-awareness when navigating relationships, a...
Jan 28, 2025•50 min
Welcome to Episode 422 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome back my good friend Veronica Cisneros, who joins me to speak to about how evolving gender roles are influencing relationships and intimacy, particularly in cases where women take on the role of primary breadwinners. Veronica sheds light on the ripple effects these changes can have - how they may foster feelings of resentment, diminish intimacy, and lead to relational obstacles like stonewalling. This discussion highligh...
Jan 21, 2025•34 min
Welcome to Episode 421 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Bel Di Lorenzo , who speaks to me about the practice of pompoir, also known as vaginal gymnastics. Bel shares her journey into discovering and mastering this ancient technique, which involves gaining control over the vaginal muscles to enhance sexual pleasure and health. Bel Di Lorenzo is a women’s sexual health advocate, and the author of the bestselling book, The Gohddess Method. Her science-based approach is designed...
Jan 14, 2025•40 min
Welcome to Episode 420 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome a returning guest, Dr. Alison Ash who speaks to me about the fascinating realm of sexual fantasies, preferences, and the art of open communication with partners. Dr. Aly offers practical tools and exercises to help you uncover your deepest desires and navigate the delicate process of sharing these fantasies. Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, auth...
Jan 07, 2025•34 min
Welcome to Episode 419 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a special New Year's Episode, where I’m excited to be joined by six experts to uncover the most common mistake people make in their sex lives. We’ll explore strategies for achieving a more exciting and passionate sex life, as well as sharing personal advice, emphasizing the importance of seeking help early for sexual concerns and the availability of various resources to improve sexual health. The episode will feature insights from Dr. Step...
Dec 31, 2024•20 min
Welcome to Episode 418 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Keeley Rankin, a returning guest, to talk about sexual positions and how exploring them can enhance intimacy and pleasure. Keeley shares practical insights from her new course, “Sex Class,” designed to help people connect more deeply with themselves and their partners. Keely Rankin, a leading sex and relationship coach based in San Francisco, has been helping men, women, and couples overcome intimacy challenges and...
Dec 24, 2024•36 min
Welcome to Episode 417 of the Sexology Podcast! In this episode, I'm excited to be joined by Dr. Debby Herbenick , who speaks to me about sexting, its role in sexual development, and how we can navigate this topic with care and understanding. Dr. Debby Herbenick is an internationally recognized sexual and reproductive health professor, researcher, and educator. She is a Provost Professor at the Indiana University School of Public Health and director of the Center for Sexual Health Promotion.For ...
Dec 17, 2024•28 min
Welcome to Episode 416 of the Sexology Podcast! In this episode, I had the pleasure of speaking to Dr. Marina Gerner to discuss her fascinating book on femtech - short for female technology. Together, we explored some groundbreaking innovations in women's health tech, such as smart bras designed for heart monitoring and devices aimed at preventing birth injuries. Dr. Gerner shared the challenges that femtech continues to face, including biases in funding and the persistent societal taboos surrou...
Dec 10, 2024•37 min
Welcome to Episode 415 of the Sexology Podcast! I’m thrilled to be joined by Alyssa Brayboy , an incredibly talented independent filmmaker and sex worker. In this episode, she talks about her beginnings in Virginia to her life in Los Angeles, sharing her unique journey of navigating the entertainment world while embracing sex work as a way to support her artistic passions. Our conversation looks into the misconceptions surrounding sex work, the complexities of juggling multiple roles, and how se...
Dec 03, 2024•45 min
