297A | Learning as Self Love: Yeh Ka-ching’s Sex Stories
Episode description
Philosophical musings on art and voyeurism through the lens—Yeh shares how his “lack of emotion” inspired a life of trying out different personae and his transition from street photography on the Las Vegas Strip to stepping into the world of survival sex workers.
00:00 Documenting strangers’ sexualities and his personal academic reading habits
06:54 Noodling on narcissism and approaching every interaction as significant
09:37 Masking, social alienation, and exploring taboo
14:25 Why his masculine role models are the “cowboys of porn” and the different sides of his Self
18:30 Directing a dominatrix during a shoot and how his shame changes based on his active persona
21:23 Reflections on the social construction of taboo and becoming desensitized to what was once “forbidden”
26:21 Photography origins: surveillance-style photography, gonzo journalism, and erotica
30:38 Voyeuristic inspiration from David Lynch’s Blue Velvet and learning as self love
35:25 Feeling disconnected and experiencing social intimacy through information exchanges
38:31 His analytical approach to human connection
44:28 Pinning down what excitement actually is and how learning is always in support of his actions
47:12 The secret to being a good voyeur and physiologically reactionary sexual attraction
51:21 Ultimate voyeurism dreams + hypocritical health, safety, and consent practices
54:35 Following assumptions and social scripts to achieve his desires
56:15 Big reactions to his art and being shunned for documenting subjects on the edge of society
📈 STATS | 33 heterosexual queer Chinese man, he/him pronouns, monogamous, freelance photographer, classics scholar, lifer, from Las Vegas, into: sex, sexuality, voyeurism, documenting sexual experiences, philosophy, nihilism
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