How do we connect? What makes a mutually satisfying relationship? What are other people into?
These are real human stories. Guests share details of their personal lives and/or work to add emotional context to the confusing experience of attempting to relate to other human beings. The goal? To learn from and more deeply understand one another through exchanges of personal wisdom and experience.
The focus is always connection and intimacy in our modern world: relationships, dating, friendship, cultural “norms” and taboos. Conversations explore vulnerability, shame, desire, pleasure, celebration, creative bucket lists, fantasy play spaces, irresistible invitations and so much more. Listen and share to co-create the story-based, connection-first sex ed we never got—but will all definitely benefit from. Let's co-create the new horizon of personal education, together. Let's learn from each other & spread ripples of love.
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55 straight man, he/him pronouns, non-monogamous, married for 25 years to a woman 15 years his senior, dating girlfriend of eight years, athlete, lover California-based, into: living in the moment, older women, pleasing, worshiping, lingerie, role play, outdoor sex, communication, sharing fantasies, hands-on sex education, learning languages, traveling the world, moving his body. Topics mentioned: Age gap relationships, open relationships, polyamory, group sex, threesomes, sex games, liar's dice...
A total power exchange with his wife, partner-focused pleasure, and exploring piss play—Steve shares how his 20-year vanilla relationship transitioned into a consciously designed, mutually nurturing connection. 00:00 Scalding hot baths, outdoorsy adventures, and grounding in himself 06:16 A magnetic spiritual connection with his partner and how they balance their disparate relationship needs 12:17 How a 24/7 dynamic with contracts and monthly meetings helped him connect more fully with his partn...
Mermaid roleplay, creating sexy safe spaces, and de-stigmatizing sex work—Kaylani shares how working at a legal brothel has led her down a path of self-discovery, independence, and deeper human connection. 00:00 Why sex work is “intimacy therapy” 03:20 Community, conquering shame, and feeling empowered as a legal courtesan 09:15 Creating safe judgement-free sexy spaces that allows lovers to express their vulnerability 12:51 Mermaid role play and fulfilling partners’ fantasies 17:19 Client succes...
Voyeurism, non-monogamy, and exploring partner-specific kinks—Nico shares deep noodles on the power of permission and how he’s fortifying humanity through the gift of his own personal “medicine.” 00:00 Hedonism, collective enjoyment, and connecting with animals 05:20 How granting himself permission to be “selfish” allows him to experience what he loves and consciously gift himself to others 10:12 Practicing balance in all things and reflecting on past experiences to shape his future 15:44 Why he...
Sensual touch, blowjobs, and authentic connection—Allissa shares how being a reiki practitioner and Highly Sensitive Person help her deeply connect with lovers both in her personal life and as a legal courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch. 00:00 Her journaling practice and managing self care time 03:04 What she needs in connections and the importance of paying attention to details 06:15 Loving without judgement + experiencing a wide array of people and cultures 08:39 How working at a legal brothel helped r...
Hollywood in the era of free love, cunnilingus joy and expertise, and reflections on relationships over his eight decades on this planet—Bernie shares how creativity flows through all aspects of his life as an Indigenous storyteller and generous lover. 00:00 Enthusiastic creativity and why writing is the “hardest artwork there is” 02:37 The intimacy of reading someone a movie and what he loves about being close to a woman 04:27 Falling in love with himself over and over through the process of wr...
Jessica Xie shares her journey of sexual discovery, from fanfiction to ethical non-monogamy and sex work, emphasizing the importance of communication, connection, and consent. She discusses her experiences with kink, exhibitionism, and the transformative power of seeing others experience pleasure, highlighting her work as a legal courtesan and her passion for creating authentic human connections.
Boldness, banter, boundaries and mental stimulation plus her very own reverse harem—Clara is a big dick magnet, proudly facilitates puddles of cum, and shares her reflections on love and what she needs in relationships. 00:00 Emotionally guarded but open to imperfect love 03:21 How she honed her practice of patience and positive self-talk 05:45 Dreams of ink therapy, self-care maintenance, and what she loves about getting tattooed 08:42 Words backed by actions, being prioritized, and the need fo...
Philosophical musings on art and voyeurism through the lens—Yeh shares how his “lack of emotion” inspired a life of trying out different personae and his transition from street photography on the Las Vegas Strip to stepping into the world of survival sex workers. 00:00 Documenting strangers’ sexualities and his personal academic reading habits 06:54 Noodling on narcissism and approaching every interaction as significant 09:37 Masking, social alienation, and exploring taboo 14:25 Why his masculin...
Pegging explorations, unexpected orgies, and sex clubs with friends—Jack shares updates about her own life plus their research on the intersection of kink and autism. 00:00 How a formal autism diagnosis helped them realize what they do and don’t understand about neurotypical behaviors 07:04 Enjoying tit-clit-tit flogging + when IS sensory play sexual or nonsexual? 12:38 Flogging tips for beginners 14:18 How a PhD assignment led to an unexpected oral sex orgy 18:34 Open to orgies with friends and...
Lesbianism, radical self-care, a nurturing marriage with kink dynamics, and a sex-inclusive love of romance novels—Elizabeth shares stories of self-discovery and how it led to a marriage that embraces submission, pleasure, and mutual growth. 00:00 What she loves about romance novels and the importance of feeling chosen 05:54 Reflections on asexual relationships and knowing what kind of sexual connection she needs 08:36 How her wife’s grand romantic gestures help her feel seen and appreciated 12:...
Nude car shows, sex toys, and swinging—BJ returns to share his recent explorations and his discovery of a new kink. 00:00 The importance of always having a towel at a nudist car show 05:37 Heightened sensuality in nudity and the different types of nudism 12:19 Expanding his sexual tool shed with FirmTech’s data-collecting TechRing and Performance Ring 17:44 Reclaiming his sexuality post-injury through prostate play and his new favorite cock ring 23:53 Reflections on perfectionism and pursuing ex...
Easily adaptable, a passion for travel, and the realities of working in adult PR in an increasingly censored society—Brian shares good vibes and loves of work and play. 00:00 How staying active and going with the flow fuels his happy workaholism 04:40 Romanticizing his work + the pros and cons of easily accessible porn 10:40 The joys of dry humping and being grateful for discovering masturbation “late” 14:20 Offending people in the name of supporting his clients and de-stigmatizing sex 17:16 Dai...
Next-level self-love, playful acts of service, and a praise kink—Olivia shares how her everyday practice of giving and receiving has led to a wonderful life, her favorite types of dirty talk, the connections that make touch tantalizing, how she discovered her desires, and the ways she wants to give and receive 00:00 Seizing every opportunity to treat herself 03:51 Generosity of adults in her early life and her own receiving superpowers 08:05 Healthy romanticizing and an expanded understanding of...
The fun of telling your top NO, sexual fluidity, surprisingly sensitive nipples, and polyamorous dating while married—Avalon shares how erotica, art, and deep, loving connections have helped her create a life of exploration that keeps her excited. 00:00 Learning about self-love through her first romantic relationship 06:14 Sensorial artistic delights and practicing self kindness 13:52 How an eight-year-long committed relationship helps her practice receiving 15:42 The magic of instant chemistry ...
BDSM, Catholic guilt, and a foot fetish—Spike shares how living in a cage for a year helped them become a community-building Dominant with an insatiable thirst for more. 00:00 Feeling love through movement, intimacy, and creating community 02:19 Why Spike loves tall nerds, clumsy weirdos, and lovers who help him learn 05:40 Catholic altar boy guilt and reflecting on shame with partners 07:51 Taking control and inviting audience and partners into play 11:37 Embracing being nasty and a suitcase fu...
Wyoh revisits her very first episode where she interviews herself and updates it with her current, six-years-later perspective and reflections. 00:00 Inspirations of MeToo and sex ed gaps 04:11 Reflections on oversharing, shame, friendship and parasocial relationships 08:09 Updates on sexuality labels, erotic artistry and sex work 10:12 Formative experiences, masturbation discovery 15:20 Understanding rejection and communication 18:45 First blowjob experiences, deep throat learning 24:30 Evoluti...
A mailbag episode of questions and celebrations, plus Kimberly joins Wyoh for reflections on six years of sex podcast learnings. 00:00 What we’ve learned about human connection 10:04 How we’ve noticed people relate to sex 17:08 What Kimberly has learned about herself 23:48 What Wyoh has learned about herself 31:18 What we’re most excited about for this podcast going forward! 41:30 Q: How do you prepare for anal play? 53:11 Q: How can I invite my boyfriend to initiate sex more? 1:01:39 Q: How do ...
I tried to get AI to help me organize the 800ish things on my erotic bucket list…it tried. The work in progress continues. 00:00 Bucket list overview and embracing the spirit of play 10:42 Intimacy, sluttiness, and kissing 18:48 The hotness of specificity and building tension 20:53 Thigh sex, grinding, and condom masturbation 27:04 Light scratching and discovering how partners pleasure themselves 32:06 Playing with anal, nipples, and fluids 37:53 Oral sex and nonverbal communication 46:10 Rimmin...
BDSM, female Domination and non-monogamy—Miss Butter shares her evolution from Lifestyle Dominant lover to ProDomme while navigating family life. 00:00 Discovering the joys of sex and how she became a virgin again 06:46 Dissolving her own shame parenting a teenage daughter 10:54 Selective penetration and boundaries for different partners 15:03 New partner negotiations and playing safely with toys 22:22 How she loves making client’s dreams come true 24:07 A life-changing strip club make-out sessi...
Wyoh had a super kinky threesome with her super hot girlfriend and her booty call guy and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the juicy details including the nurturing that led up to all the hot sex and crazy orgasms that she wound up having, the couple massage she had with her guy and how and why it turned her on, why she loves and can get off on a soft c***, how her hot girlfriend wound up at the hotel and exactly what went down with her, how she was turned on watching her ...
Camming, pornography, and indulgent edging—Mia shares how she went from repressed Catholic schoolgirl to sexually liberated professional girlfriend. 00:00 Practicing safer sex and why she always carries a wide range of condom sizes 06:44 Hands-free masturbation and sex beyond genitals 09:00 What Mia loves about sex 10:55 Shooting porn and risk aware play 14:18 How Catholic private school made her a “repressed slut” 18:15 Discovering partnered pleasure through a double-ended dildo 20:59 Cam girl ...
Polyamory, stripping, exhibitionism, and bisexuality—Miss Tori is a mum of eight who talks openly with her kids about her active sex life and is constantly making new discoveries. She is joined by her daughter Bebe Bubbles (eps 280 & 282 ) for an in-depth look at her sexy evolution! 00:00 Accidentally forming a throuple and why she’s always been open about sex 04:55 Bisexuality, figuring out communication, and creating a safe gathering space 12:59 What Miss Tori learned from Bebe about sex 15:49...
Threesomes, non-monogamy, and a money kink—Nikole shares about maximizing pleasure for partners and the power in being fully yourself. 00:00 How she went from 100 to 0 on the shame-o-meter 05:12 Exploring her own body through OnlyFans and why she desires pleasure from partners 11:26 Blowing minds with transcendent sexual experiences and erotic sex ed live-streams 17:20 Empowered by OnlyFans and selling panties 21:41 Being the ultimate sugar baby 30:10 Money kink: communicating what matters and t...
Cervical orgasms, sex vacations, and submission—Sarah shares about stepping out of religious shame and embracing her own pleasure. 00:00 Learning how and when to talk about sex 04:06 Risk aware play and leaving space for adjustment 08:15 Checking in with her high libido demisexual self and asking for what she needs 14:50 Navigating purity culture and discovering the mechanics of sex growing up 23:21 Religious loopholes and feeling the freedom to finally explore 28:32 A seven inch dildo and eroti...
Glory holes, gay porn, deep throating, and phone sex Domination—Sydney shares how she’s letting go of perfection, embracing her full self, and satisfying her intimacy needs. 00:00 FaceTime dating wisdom 5:40 Shame squiggles and what she needs to feel safe 14:00 Adult bookstores and glory hole dick sucking 20:29 Discovering the joys of fucking everywhere at any time 27:45 Balancing her needs for comfort, safety, and connection 34:10 Why effort feels sexy and the perks of hotel sex 38:03 Phone sex...
Bebe is back to talk all about love and being her own muse. 00:00 The many forms and feelings of love 05:00 Accepting bisexuality, queerness, and discovering non-monogamy 14:10 Getting turned on by applause and the importance of saying “I love you” 19:12 Connection revelations and the trickiness of reading people 23:32 Noticing and changing dating patterns 28:54 How recovering from gonorrhea led to deeper feelings for a partner 31:42 Ways Bebe feels loved 40:42 Reconnecting with her body through...
Bebe returns to continue her story: Ho Phase 2.0, exploring non-monogamy, orgasmic nipple play, CBT, and her new Best Sex Ever phase. 00:00 Reframing unhelpful tendencies and learning to respect her own boundaries 6:03 Plus-sized spanking perks and the importance of permission when leaving marks 10:11 Safety tips for breath play 12:20 Recognizing patterns and replacing period shame with pleasure 18:24 Gaining self-acceptance and new language to communicate needs 22:16 Teenage bucket list dream: ...
