Uninhibited horniness, dirty talk, using the stoplight system (red yellow green), and connecting through information exchanges with fellow sex nerds—Jess shares how her love for learning and deep communication fuels authentic connections both in her personal life and as a legal courtesan. 00:00 Investing in connection and being a “huge nerd” 02:54 Growing up in a Chinese-American household where “food is care” + nostalgic dishes she loves to make 05:23 The continuous process of learning self lov...
Mar 11, 2025•42 min•Ep. 299
Hard fucking, deep throating, and firm boundaries for friends with benefits and continuous sexual expansion with a no-fucks-given attitude—Clara is a big dick magnet who proudly facilitates puddles of cum. 00:00 How gaining comfort in her body led to enjoying cunnilingus and embracing empowered pleasure 04:07 Clara’s tips for giving the best blowjob 05:50 FFF threesome learnings 10:39 Squirt revelations and learning about her body through partnered play 12:28 Deep throat training and finding edg...
Mar 05, 2025•55 min•Ep. 298
Boldness, banter, boundaries and mental stimulation plus her very own reverse harem—Clara shares her reflections on love and what she needs in relationships. 00:00 Emotionally guarded but open to imperfect love 03:21 How she honed her practice of patience and positive self-talk 05:45 Dreams of ink therapy, self-care maintenance, and what she loves about getting tattooed 08:42 Words backed by actions, being prioritized, and the need for mental stimulation 12:50 Reading people and how she knows wh...
Mar 04, 2025•54 min•Ep. 298
Erotic photography, the feminine mystique, and musings on morality—Yeh shares how the eye is his sexual organ. 00:00 Signaling shame and using context clues to assume peoples’ lines 03:20 Being ostracized by clowns for his provocative work 06:34 Approaching life with humor and why he likes being a “nice sociopath” 09:12 Desires informed by Greek classics and the sexiness of androgynous femininity 13:07 Putting on personae and his day-to-day asexuality 16:45 Preferring exercise to ejaculation and...
Feb 26, 2025•57 min•Ep. 297
Philosophical musings on art and voyeurism through the lens—Yeh shares how his “lack of emotion” inspired a life of trying out different personae and his transition from street photography on the Las Vegas Strip to stepping into the world of survival sex workers. 00:00 Documenting strangers’ sexualities and his personal academic reading habits 06:54 Noodling on narcissism and approaching every interaction as significant 09:37 Masking, social alienation, and exploring taboo 14:25 Why his masculin...
Feb 25, 2025•1 hr•Ep. 297
Pegging explorations, unexpected orgies, and sex clubs with friends—Jack shares updates about her own life plus their research on the intersection of kink and autism. 00:00 How a formal autism diagnosis helped them realize what they do and don’t understand about neurotypical behaviors 07:04 Enjoying tit-clit-tit flogging + when IS sensory play sexual or nonsexual? 12:38 Flogging tips for beginners 14:18 How a PhD assignment led to an unexpected oral sex orgy 18:34 Open to orgies with friends and...
Feb 18, 2025•1 hr 8 min
Lesbianism, kink dynamics, and her transgender journey—Elizabeth shares stories of self-discovery and how it led to a marriage that embraces submission, pleasure, and mutual growth. 00:00 Experiencing constant crushes and being open to relationships unfolding naturally 04:38 How physical safety allows her to take big emotional risks during sex 06:08 Self-censorship and the value of privacy 13:56 Discovering the rhythms of a stable relationship and exploring submissive fantasies 17:54 The sexual ...
Feb 12, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 296
Radical self-care, a nurturing marriage, and a sex-inclusive love of romance novels—Elizabeth shares how she practices receiving love. 00:00 What she loves about romance novels and the importance of feeling chosen 05:54 Reflections on asexual relationships and knowing what kind of sexual connection she needs 08:36 How her wife’s grand romantic gestures help her feel seen and appreciated 12:55 Discovering the perks of a mutually “selfish” marriage 15:02 Figuring out how to romance her wife with e...
Feb 11, 2025•31 min•Ep. 296
Nude car shows, sex toys, and swinging—BJ returns to share his recent explorations and his discovery of a new kink. 00:00 The importance of always having a towel at a nudist car show 05:37 Heightened sensuality in nudity and the different types of nudism 12:19 Expanding his sexual tool shed with FirmTech’s data-collecting TechRing and Performance Ring 17:44 Reclaiming his sexuality post-injury through prostate play and his new favorite cock ring 23:53 Reflections on perfectionism and pursuing ex...
Feb 05, 2025•44 min
Easily adaptable, a passion for travel, and the realities of working in adult PR in an increasingly censored society—Brian shares good vibes and loves of work and play. 00:00 How staying active and going with the flow fuels his happy workaholism 04:40 Romanticizing his work + the pros and cons of easily accessible porn 10:40 The joys of dry humping and being grateful for discovering masturbation “late” 14:20 Offending people in the name of supporting his clients and de-stigmatizing sex 17:16 Dai...
Feb 04, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 295
Playful acts of service, embracing threesomes, and pursuing what she wants—Olivia shares how she discovered her desires and the ways she wants to give and receive. 00:00 Learning about sex from talking with women rather than getting a formal education 04:10 Unlearning what porn taught her and navigating unhelpful educational tools 08:26 Confidence and explicit direction about how to be touched 09:52 How her brother’s friends helped her be open with herself and others about sex 15:15 The sexual b...
Jan 30, 2025•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 294
Sapiosexual turn-ons, holding hands, and a praise kink—Olivia shares her favorite types of dirty talk and the connections that make touch tantalizing. 00:00 Opportunistic friend sex and wanting to be enthusiastically desired 07:05 The hotness of emotional intelligence and genuine kindness plus meeting people where they’re at 11:04 Needing mental, emotional, and physical stimulation for the energetic exchange of sex 16:32 Practicing dirty talk, loving praise while riding, and being turned on by d...
Jan 29, 2025•54 min•Ep. 294
Next-level self-love, wanting to connect, and a desire for fulfilling relationships—Olivia shares how her everyday practice of giving and receiving has led to a wonderful life. 00:00 Seizing every opportunity to treat herself 03:51 Generosity of adults in her early life and her own receiving superpowers 08:05 Healthy romanticizing and an expanded understanding of self-love 11:38 The difference between romantic, platonic and self love 13:38 A love of linguistic specificity and astrological geek-o...
Jan 28, 2025•45 min•Ep. 294
The fun of telling your top NO, surprisingly sensitive nipples, and polyamorous dating while married—Avalon shares how erotica, art, and deep, loving connections have helped her create a life of exploration that keeps her excited. 00:00 Smutty book surprises and understanding compulsive heterosexuality 04:10 Learning about sex from insightful, playful podcasts 07:53 A desire for beautiful, sensual porn 11:42 Exploring her queerness and relationship through nude self portraiture 15:23 Understandi...
Jan 22, 2025•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 293
Sexual fluidity, defying the relationship escalator, and naturally exploring non-monogamy—Avalon shares her explorations and reflections in connection with herself, her partner, and others. 00:00 Learning about self-love through her first romantic relationship 06:14 Sensorial artistic delights and practicing self kindness 13:52 How an eight-year-long committed relationship helps her practice receiving 15:42 The magic of instant chemistry and self awareness of her relational needs 23:31 Expectati...
Jan 21, 2025•1 hr 17 min•Ep. 293
BDSM, Catholic guilt, and a foot fetish—Spike shares how living in a cage for a year helped them become a community-building Dominant with an insatiable thirst for more. 00:00 Feeling love through movement, intimacy, and creating community 02:19 Why Spike loves tall nerds, clumsy weirdos, and lovers who help him learn 05:40 Catholic altar boy guilt and reflecting on shame with partners 07:51 Taking control and inviting audience and partners into play 11:37 Embracing being nasty and a suitcase fu...
Jan 14, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 292
Part two of my self-interview about love, connection, and mission to make the world a sexier place with the current set of podcast questions. 00:00 What makes me go WOO? The moon, croissants, and learning from others 01:18 How learning about others' experiences shapes understanding of connection 03:25 The reality of projections in new relationships and meeting expectations 05:02 My obsession with "lining things up" 07:29 How “lining things up” applies to photography, podcasting, and all creative...
Jan 08, 2025•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 291
Wyoh revisits her very first episode where she interviews herself and updates it with her current, six-years-later perspective and reflections. 00:00 Inspirations of MeToo and sex ed gaps 04:11 Reflections on oversharing, shame, friendship and parasocial relationships 08:09 Updates on sexuality labels, erotic artistry and sex work 10:12 Formative experiences, masturbation discovery 15:20 Understanding rejection and communication 18:45 First blowjob experiences, deep throat learning 24:30 Evoluti...
Jan 07, 2025•2 hr 30 min•Ep. 291
A mailbag episode of questions and celebrations, plus Kimberly joins Wyoh for reflections on six years of sex podcast learnings. 00:00 What we’ve learned about human connection 10:04 How we’ve noticed people relate to sex 17:08 What Kimberly has learned about herself 23:48 What Wyoh has learned about herself 31:18 What we’re most excited about for this podcast going forward! 41:30 Q: How do you prepare for anal play? 53:11 Q: How can I invite my boyfriend to initiate sex more? 1:01:39 Q: How do ...
Dec 31, 2024•2 hr 45 min•Ep. 290
I tried to get AI to help me organize the 800ish things on my erotic bucket list…it tried. The work in progress continues. 00:00 Bucket list overview and embracing the spirit of play 10:42 Intimacy, sluttiness, and kissing 18:48 The hotness of specificity and building tension 20:53 Thigh sex, grinding, and condom masturbation 27:04 Light scratching and discovering how partners pleasure themselves 32:06 Playing with anal, nipples, and fluids 37:53 Oral sex and nonverbal communication 46:10 Rimmin...
Dec 24, 2024•1 hr 27 min•Ep. 289
BDSM, female Domination and non-monogamy—Miss Butter shares her evolution from Lifestyle Dominant lover to ProDomme while navigating family life. 00:00 Discovering the joys of sex and how she became a virgin again 06:46 Dissolving her own shame parenting a teenage daughter 10:54 Selective penetration and boundaries for different partners 15:03 New partner negotiations and playing safely with toys 22:22 How she loves making client’s dreams come true 24:07 A life-changing strip club make-out sessi...
Dec 17, 2024•1 hr 29 min•Ep. 288
Wyoh had a super kinky threesome with her super hot girlfriend and her booty call guy and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the juicy details including the nurturing that led up to all the hot sex and crazy orgasms that she wound up having, the couple massage she had with her guy and how and why it turned her on, why she loves and can get off on a soft c***, how her hot girlfriend wound up at the hotel and exactly what went down with her, how she was turned on watching her ...
Dec 12, 2024•57 min
Camming, pornography, and indulgent edging—Mia shares how she went from repressed Catholic schoolgirl to sexually liberated professional girlfriend. 00:00 Practicing safer sex and why she always carries a wide range of condom sizes 06:44 Hands-free masturbation and sex beyond genitals 09:00 What Mia loves about sex 10:55 Shooting porn and risk aware play 14:18 How Catholic private school made her a “repressed slut” 18:15 Discovering partnered pleasure through a double-ended dildo 20:59 Cam girl ...
Dec 10, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 287
Orgasms, exhibitionism, and understanding evolving desires—Miss Tori’s stories continue! 00:00 Poly communication wins 04:07 Navigating marriage, a new girlfriend, and shifting desires 08:29 Experiences with women and new levels of sex 12:02 Changing attractions, attachment struggles, and living for herself 19:33 Exploring kink and learning to squirt 23:14 Jealousy, the hotness of meeting needs, and how Bebe’s experiences mirror her mum’s 31:09 How orgasms are different with other women 36:30 Ex...
Dec 05, 2024•54 min•Ep. 286
Polyamory, stripping, and bisexuality—Miss Tori is a mum of eight who talks openly with her kids about her active sex life and is constantly making new discoveries. She is joined by her daughter Bebe Bubbles (eps 280 & 282 ) for an in-depth look at her sexy evolution! 00:00 Accidentally forming a throuple and why she’s always been open about sex 04:55 Bisexuality, figuring out communication, and creating a safe gathering space 12:59 What Miss Tori learned from Bebe about sex 15:49 How being open...
Dec 03, 2024•46 min•Ep. 286
Threesomes, non-monogamy, and a money kink—Nikole shares about maximizing pleasure for partners and the power in being fully yourself. 00:00 How she went from 100 to 0 on the shame-o-meter 05:12 Exploring her own body through OnlyFans and why she desires pleasure from partners 11:26 Blowing minds with transcendent sexual experiences and erotic sex ed live-streams 17:20 Empowered by OnlyFans and selling panties 21:41 Being the ultimate sugar baby 30:10 Money kink: communicating what matters and t...
Nov 26, 2024•55 min•Ep. 285
Cervical orgasms, sex vacations, and submission—Sarah shares about stepping out of religious shame and embracing her own pleasure. 00:00 Learning how and when to talk about sex 04:06 Risk aware play and leaving space for adjustment 08:15 Checking in with her high libido demisexual self and asking for what she needs 14:50 Navigating purity culture and discovering the mechanics of sex growing up 23:21 Religious loopholes and feeling the freedom to finally explore 28:32 A seven inch dildo and eroti...
Nov 19, 2024•1 hr 22 min•Ep. 284
Gay porn, shower sex, and primal passion—Sydney’s stories continue! 00:00 Holy grail gangbang and craving caresses 02:49 Chasing the drug of genuine intimacy 10:03 Shower sex: getting ravished and vulnerable golden showers 17:14 Enforcing boundaries and reclaiming her home 21:25 Mutual choking and making out 24:41 Constantly evolving and finding what feels good 29:48 Exploring trans-friendly BDSM spaces, international sex, and kitchen table poly 35:30 Craving mutual vulnerability and the pleasur...
Nov 14, 2024•42 min•Ep. 283
Glory holes, deep throating, and phone sex Domination—Sydney shares how she’s letting go of perfection, embracing her full self, and satisfying her intimacy needs. 00:00 FaceTime dating wisdom 5:40 Shame squiggles and what she needs to feel safe 14:00 Adult bookstores and glory hole dick sucking 20:29 Discovering the joys of fucking everywhere at any time 27:45 Balancing her needs for comfort, safety, and connection 34:10 Why effort feels sexy and the perks of hotel sex 38:03 Phone sex mistress ...
Nov 12, 2024•47 min•Ep. 283
Bebe is back to talk all about love and being her own muse. 00:00 The many forms and feelings of love 05:00 Accepting bisexuality, queerness, and discovering non-monogamy 14:10 Getting turned on by applause and the importance of saying “I love you” 19:12 Connection revelations and the trickiness of reading people 23:32 Noticing and changing dating patterns 28:54 How recovering from gonorrhea led to deeper feelings for a partner 31:42 Ways Bebe feels loved 40:42 Reconnecting with her body through...
Nov 07, 2024•57 min
