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who is pansexual ethically non-monogamous and enjoys connections with both long-term lovers and comet connections new and old who streak through her life she is into authentic connection sapiosexuality oralism sensory play exchanging information especially with fellow sex nerds and badass goddesses exploring threesomes, including but not limited to MFM and FFM configurations, and dicks, dicks, dicks!
Also a lover of learning, she loves to study behavioral economics and is getting a degree in ancient studies with a focus on Greek material culture. She also works as a legal courtesan at my favorite of all the brothels, Sherry's Ranch, which she travels to from the East Coast. Welcome, Jessica G! Thank you so much, Luna. I'm really, really excited to be here to chat with you. I am so excited to have you here to chat with me. Before we get to all of your naughty sexy details, I would like...
our lovely community to get to know you as a human the way that I have. So, start out by telling us, in general, What makes you go woo? What are you excited about? What do you love? How do you have fun? What brings you big, huge joy? And not dicks yet, we're gonna get to that later. Thank you. We always get to Dex. You touched on a lot of my special interests. I love, love, love learning.
connection that's what gets me excited about everything um a lot of emotional investment in things um but in terms of hobbies and like What I do for fun? I'm a huge nerd. I really enjoy tabletop role-playing games like Dungeons & Dragons, No Longer White Wolf. It's Onyx Publishing, but World of Darkness. I also really enjoy anime and manga. I am a huge foodie. I cook because I like to
And I craft a little bit here and there, some crocheting, some jewelry making, plus I sing in the shower when nobody's around. Only when nobody's around! Unless I'm dragged up for karaoke. I was going to say, I think I have a new goal of like hearing you sing in the shower. Is that a creepy goal? You can't. The cue sticks are great. It's your own private concert hall. Can we go two clicks back? And I would love to hear specifics of what you love to cook and what you love to eat.
I grew up in a Chinese American household and so... We always had kind of like a smorgasborg of food, but I really, really love Asian food, particularly things that I ate growing up. I'm still working on my culinary skills. I have to say, my sister is. far superior and i would much rather eat my sister's food but my sister's a chef also i do think that eating other people's food in general
It's extra delicious. Unless they get mad about it, I won't do that. But if they're sharers, I feel so loved if someone shares food with me. And I love to share food too. There's a thing that my family says. food is care so if you're cooking for somebody or you're sharing a meal together like it's showing that you you care about what is nourishing them plus there's the whole like Connection aspect.
that when you are taking time with someone and talking and enjoying an activity together whether that's the cooking or the eating or the conversation like it's all kind of the big warm package it's like a hug but to get back to your question i really like cooking chinese dishes that i had growing up so like Steamed fish or char siu or pan fried noodles. Lots of things I want to learn how to make, but something my sister taught me recently was hand-pulled noodles. some point.
when we are on tour together, I will have to make for you. Yes. Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh. I want to make them with you. There's a place in Vegas called Magic Noodle, which I love the name of. And I love just like watching them stretch them out. And they have, and then there's like a kind where they like scrape them off. And so, um, I love noodles. I love noodles. I love noodling. I love all forms of noodle.
okay okay all the noodle and i i do agree with you the the connection is nourishment but it's nourishment on all levels right like that connection thing it's so so much okay so continuing this theme I would love to hear a little bit about self-love. It sounds like cooking is part of that. It sounds like maybe engaging in things you love is part of that. But how do you move you?
I am still figuring it out. But I think that's a good thing. So it's a continuous process. For me, journaling is part of it. Being reflective. Also, I'm working on... self-compassion and Warmth so treating myself like I would one of my very very dear friends It's hard to do sometimes, isn't it? But I think taking time for myself and sitting with thought.
meditating, listening to music. That's all part of my package. Yeah. Do you have any like sensual go-tos? Like for me, for example, put me in a hot tub or a bath or a spa and I'm like, it's not exactly i guess it is sensual it's sensual not sexual um i love getting massages
It's just, I turn into putty. I also get acupuncture, which can be very relaxing, but can also be very like... stimulating i at some point want to go to a head spa i don't know if you've seen these trends but A lot of them are... you know asian owned and based in like traditional homeopathic medicine where your hair gets like this lovely bath and you get like a scalp massage and a neck massage and there's just aromatherapy so it's
It's just a pleasant all-around thing that I really want to try. Oh, yeah. as i'm hearing you talk to i'm like oh but it's a gateway drug because if i want that then i'm gonna want more like which i am it's it's not a sexual experience but i'm like well then I might as well go to a K-SPA and get that in my scrub and then go to the massage part. I don't know.
um yes yes and i love what you said too about it being an ever-evolving process right like maybe a better way to ask this question is how do you woo you today or right now or what's unfolding and i think you illustrated that beautifully because i noticed that for me too it changes constantly, right? Like, this is not a set answer or...
If I take a bath too many nights in a row, which I don't because I conserve water. And so I leave it as a treat for myself so that it does have kind of that heightened specialness. You know, or if I travel for weeks at a time, so then when I come home, I'm like, my bathtub. and i love it sounds like you are just carving out that time and bringing consciousness to it you know so
I would like to know now, how do you like to be wooed? Tell us some of the ways that you like to receive love, affection, and care. So the biggest things for me are time and attention. I love quality time. I love physical touch. But if you are choosing to spend your time with me, then I feel so... valued and appreciated and i really like having shared experiences and sometimes those shared experiences are just sitting on the couch, naked together, cuddled up.
yeah fun and um intimate but i'm a pretty simple gal i just like knowing that you want to be with me. That's what I enjoy. I love that you gave a definition of quality for you because it's different. Like when I first was like, quality time well what does that mean words and affirmation i don't want words if i want for me quality time includes words of information is kind of what i've realized you know like i love to connect i love to noodle and also oh oh i just got all warm and fuzzy feeling
into now you are spending your time here with me does it go both directions i know for some people gift giving and receiving okay now i feel extra special um that's nice and i love you know for me too quality time is not sitting around with people i love where we're all on our phones like that for me does not count i know some people that is enough for them
And I love that they know that about themselves and that they can ask for it explicitly. Hopefully, you know, for me, like you said, I would rather be naked, get that oxytocin flowing, be have cuddlies, you know, and I also have run into issues with. friends and lovers well specifically a friend who was a lover in the past where we had a disagreement about like what chilling together and i'm saying that with air quotes means you know he was like could you just stop talking and i was like
Well, yes, I can. And now I'm sad. Like, you know, so... And that's not to say that it always has to be talking all the time, but just feeling like there is space for me to be myself and finding that vibe and that in-syncness I think is huge. Are there other ways that you like to be wooed? Like, or things in the past that as you reflect just like really made you melt?
i mean we'll get to some of the spicier stuff later right but one of the things that makes me melt is i'm into oralism it's something that i've found a word for very recently but I really enjoy hearing someone else's voice. particularly if it's very gentle and quiet and close to my ear, like feeling the breath and having it kind of wash over me. That makes me feel like we're in sync. When do you feel the most connected to other humans? You've already given some good examples.
But what textural quality makes you actually have the experience of I am connected? So the exchange of information where there's often, not always, often eye contact, engaged body language. I can feel myself leaning into you through the screen.
so i really love learning and sometimes that learning is like a topic or about a specific item or a collection but most often i find it's learning about someone else and myself i want to share something with you i don't know if i've shared this with you already
And maybe it'll make you feel connected. It makes me feel connected because it is a piece of information I'm about to exchange with you. My awareness of the fact that I connect through information exchange in my brain is linked with you and I don't know if it's because I discovered it through telling you that or if it was like the week we met is when I discovered it. I think those discoveries came hand in hand. Like it might have even been, I remember the first moment we met and I was like,
Tell me if I talk too much because I like to connect through an exchange of information and I think since then it's a thing that I've been saying because I'm like, whoa, that's really true. And then your reflection of like, no, yes, me too. Let's do it. I was like, well, you know, I read it in a book a few years ago and I was like, yeah, yeah, I think that, but it just like locked in. So I actually associate information exchange in the name of connection with you.
In my head, I just went, woohoo! And my body just went. Yes, I associate information exchange with you. Like that phrase and recognizing that that's a part of myself. Like I've always just kind of put it as I love learning, but it is. It's sharing information together that I find really exciting. Don't get me wrong. I love reading. I like videos and podcasts, of course. But having something in real time with another human being is...
What gets me going? That makes sense. I mean, it's connection-based learning, and it's like if we are connection fiends, which I think you and I both are, it makes total sense. Okay. Wow. Any other connection things? I mean, we'll get to the touches parts. I know that's a thing for both of us, but any other like broad strokes? Not sexual strokes, but I mean, yes and no.
I talk through TV shows and movies and all sorts of things. I don't like going to the movie theater. I much prefer being at home because one of my partners will just pause. Whatever we're watching and we get to sit and like talk it through there's um This show called Married at First Sight I haven't watched reality TV in almost a decade because I briefly was producing and directing online reality television with pickup artists, and so...
seeing how the sausage is made and also like understanding the behind the scenes things and it's like honestly i think a lot of it is pretty fucking unethical and then they're not making it you know they're making it to trigger amygdalas and to like poke at people and so then I my little ethical heart is like oh no oh it's not teaching the world to be a sexy or more loving place it's creating a shit show for spectacle oh god you know but but now I'm like
ooh but watching it and then the next time i tried to watch reality tv was love on the spectrum because people are like you would love it you will see yourself and i was like This is... fucking atrocious and rude like like give them their help people don't just okay i mean that's just my i know a lot of people really really like it like so many people who i love and care for
genuinely thought that I would have a good time, you know, but whatever. I have my own, clearly my own little baggage around reality. But now I'm like, something together. and just pause and record about the noodles that come out of it anyway future future projects You know, I wouldn't do that with movies. I want to do that with TV because I'm trying to understand what other people are seeing. And I get a lot of reflections that are like, you're thinking too hard. And I'm like, well...
I'm just nodding along trying to understand people here. Yes! Okay, so I'm hearing that being able to talk through things, and it sounds like if I'm understanding, processing maybe the connections or relationships that you're seeing on screen is a part of that desire there. Yeah. 100% I'm also a Big Brother watcher. I won't go so far as to say I'm a super fan because I can't quote all of the statistics, but the thing that I find most fascinating is the interpersonal dynamic.
So there's a lot of fodder for thought in reality TV, I think. And I obviously don't have your background in it. something i want to probe more into in the future casting and the producing process like they are really alchemizing arcs that go up and down and i'm so sorry to pop everyone's bubbles but uh It's not all natural. Oh, yes. It's not actually reality. I will say I am a big fan. Not that it's neutral. There's no such thing, right?
co-creation has lenses because just like the nature of our existence in the world we're all projecting giving and receiving information but that's why I really love documentary style stuff you know and it's not that it's not a narrative shaped like we're shaping your narrative here together today with our curiosity and your sharing and my questions but like I'm like let's just Try to represent them.
as they see themselves you know again being a human is so imperfect there's no such thing as communicating quote unquote clearly but there's best efforts and that's why i think dialogue is such a wonderful tool Okay, so now tell us what does it take for you to want to take a connection that you feel with someone and make it intimate? This is going to sound very simple, but I think the
realization of it is a lot more complicated. I want to feel desired not necessarily objectified which like has its own place but really scene that that makes me feel good and excited and ready to get in I love that. I'm like, See all of me. Let me know. Signal to me that you see me and you can objectify me. Let me know that you know and perceive me as an entire being so that I can be your nasty little fuck toy.
I feel like I need a really good reason to connect intimately that I want to feel Valued. And that's an important part of building up to what we can have together. Yeah, I'm like, good vibes and show me that you care. Show me. Yeah. Show me how much. Woo me. Give me an irresponsible invitation, as I like to say. Woo me so I can go woo. Okay, so in that vein, Tell us a little bit about your health and safety practices. You are an ethically non-monogamous person. You are also a professional, so
What are your standards like here? And are you usually the leader of these conversations? Does it turn you on if someone else leads? And just tell us a little bit about your health and safety needs. Absolutely. So I think this is a really, really important topic. For me personally, as someone who's ethically non-monogamous and as a professional, but also like for people in the wide world, I get tested.
outside of the brothel for my own peace of mind. I also use protection that can be in the form of male condoms, female condoms, dental dams, or my preference is laurels, things like that for a physical barrier from STIs. I also use birth control as an extra safety measure for both me and my partner. we have an agreement not to get me pregnant. And that's something that I want for myself and that they want for themselves. In terms of time at the Brothel.
I along with the other legal courtesans there get tested every week. So if you see us at the ranch, we are clear and ready to go. And then what about in terms of at the ranch when you see clients, like what sort of considerations do you have there? It's very important that... We keep our fluids separate so we can have lots of fun and also comply with state and federal regulations.
kissing, which I thoroughly enjoy. Extra, extra special. Okay, so I'm hearing barriers. I'm hearing avoiding fluid exchange if you are at work. I'm hearing regular testing both in and out of work. If you are enjoying this episode so far, I would love it if you took a few seconds right now to share it with at least one curious friend.
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What about the actual conversations that you have with your partners? Whether it's for work or play, or do you feel a big distinction between work and play when it comes to those conversations? Like, what do you need to discuss with someone in order to feel... comfy to get intimate. What exactly I discuss with each partner work and play kind of depends on the relationship that we've built up.
or i guess more succinctly it depends on what kind of kinks we're exploring together but in general i make sure that we have some kind of safe word Or we use a red, yellow, green system. so that we can, in the moment, communicate with each other easily and smoothly what we're enjoying and what we might be willing to explore further, but maybe at a later point. I love that. So for anyone listening who maybe hasn't used a red, yellow, green system,
Well, first I want to clarify, do you do that also in vanilla relationships? Absolutely. Okay, so tell us what your red is, tell us what your yellow is, tell us what green means. It kind of depends on the person.
so you define this with each partner that seems confusing and hard so you just like know person to person i do my best okay and That's also why I think the system is so helpful because if I... think that maybe my partner is into one thing and they say, oh, yellow, then I know that I should pull back and slow it down a little bit. Or if they say red, I can full stop and check in with them. Make sure that they're...
Okay. I see. So the general outlines are exactly like a traffic light, but the specifics of what each go slow down stop means is different so it is it is the same in that we are all the same as human beings but it is different in that we all have our own different details okay okay That makes more sense. Okay, gotcha. Yeah, so I use a red, yellow, green to... Do things in real time? I make sure that my partners know what that means. That if I say yellow, I need a little bit more lead up.
or maybe even some conversation to make sure that what I'm looking for and what they're looking for are matching. Green. That is a oh yes. Do that more. Please now. Green! Green! Green! I won't say...haven! used green that way. before i love it i love it i the phrase screaming green suddenly has a new connotation not that it was ever phrased before but i'm like this we're making it afraid no no Scream green. Formerly associated with envy, now it's associated with good, great lovin'.
Okay, do you have any other thoughts on love or reflections on relationship or wisdom on woo or anything else about health and safety? Wisdom is heavy. Okay, what about woo-sdom? Okay, my wisdom. I love communication in all its forms, whether it's verbal, nonverbal, sexual, platonic. So I think personally, I think the best way to connect is by communicating. Just go, go, go. Yeah. I know everyone has their different ways, but I sure love words.
then again once i get to the body parts like one literal body parts then it's smooth but i need to have enough words to get to the body parts personally exactly i love that yeah i love that okay if you had to rate yourself on a sexual shame-o-meter with 10 being so full of shame and zero being like
I don't have any shame. Where do you fall today, right now, in this moment? And when, if ever, does your shamel coaster get squiggly? Or when has it gotten squiggly over the years? Like, tell us about your relationship to shame.
Specifically sexually speaking. Specifically sexually. Okay, so in general, my shim-o-meter is about a zero. It does spike from like a... two to a five if i am not sure that the person that i'm speaking with is comfortable so like i guess it's less of a it's less of a shame and more of a like
I'm uncomfortable because I really, really don't want to make somebody else uncomfortable. So relatable. Yeah. In general, like, if I feel comfy with the other person and that they won't be... upset with talking about sex or having sex Heart Zero.
negative yeah but i grew up in a pretty conservative household okay and we did not talk about sex like at all but I think I've been a very sexual being from a very young age so even though we didn't talk about it in my family they entered it as a wonderful thing and so that's where i did my learning Okay, so take us through your personal sex education, starting with when you first remember hearing about sex. It sounds like you did not get a sex talk. No. My first...
exposure to sex was, surprise, surprise, in a book. I was reading Tamara Pierce's Song of the Lioness Quartet. one of my favorite series still and there was a sex scene in it and I was Pretty young. Okay. How young do you think if you had to guess? I was just over 10. Okay. But that's also like when sex ed starts going and public education and the area that I grew up in. And then more explicit and detailed sex was in Harry Potter fan fiction. Yes!
Okay, yeah, yeah oh and you're you're five years younger than i was the same age as harry like growing up like when the first book came out we were the same harry me and harry you know so you already had books out Do you remember when you started reading Harry Potter and when you started reading the fan fiction that was sexy?
So I started reading Harry Potter in fifth grade. I had seen movies before because I have older siblings. But I started reading the Harry Potter series in fifth grade when I was... really sick with the flu and there was a giant book sitting next to me so i was like okay i guess i'll fill my time read it in a day it was the fifth book out of order as usual And I want to say when I could roll off the couch and was no longer sick with the flu is when I...
started looking for Harry Potter erotica. Wait, so you had already learned from the other book that erotica was a thing, but you... When did you learn to use the internet to look for it? Probably that year. Okay. So I was in fifth grade. Wow, okay, so you knew to look for it. You were having sex ed in school, or did that? It's approximately-ish. Your biological sex was fourth grade. Fifth grade was, this is the other. biological sex and then sixth grade was kind of like
This is how sex happens. Which... was not terribly informative okay yeah i'm like wow i did not get that we only had reproductive it is so wild to me too that they split up girls and boys, perceived girls and boys, for these lessons when they didn't have anything arousing or erotic in them i'm like it's not even like you're teaching us the good stuff like i thought i was gonna get some real like feminine wisdom here no you want to show me a weird video okay
Did you learn anything? Were you aroused yourself? When did you start exploring your own body? Was it pre-fanfiction? At what point did you get physically intimately curious? I would say... First sex scene in Tamara Pierce's book. Okay. That was like, well, I have parts. I can do things with parts. And there was definitely some like exploration of my own body. Okay.
yeah so that was that was fun but i didn't start like doing anything with anyone until i want to say summer after sixth grade was my first kiss Just a kiss. summer after eighth grade was a make out and then another one my family and i had went to italy and I think my sibling was in the bathroom at a church. I can still see those church steps. and There was this really cute Italian boy.
And we, like, were hardcore making out on the steps of a church. Wait, wait. Was other family nearby? Or just your sibling was in the bathroom, parents were nowhere to be found? My sibling was in the bathroom, and my parents were at a museum. so my sister is several years older than i am so We were allowed to. roam by ourselves a little bit not for a whole day but like several hours at a time
Then throw my dick. Okay. Wow, how did that come up? Were you just like making eyes and then you were making out? yeah i love it okay okay so when did you start getting into like Sexy partnered play. What was that unfolding? What were those learnings like for you? And did you have friends that talked about it? Or were you mostly just learning from books and or internet? sister lesson no okay no we didn't talk
I gave my sister the whole download of everything I knew once I had information. Like at first I was like, sorry, babe, I don't have data yet. And then as soon as I got to my mic, okay, let me tell you. Okay. yeah my sister had um a boyfriend in high school and like i vaguely knew that they did stuff The advice that they gave me later when I was in high school was, if you have sex, pee after. And I was like, okay. But it's important advice and not something that like comes up during sex ed.
Not necessarily. Yeah. I mean, I even read in the vagina Bible, I think she was like, no, it's not that important. I know it's very important for some people. For me, I can definitely not pee in it. It doesn't matter, but I know that for some people, if they don't pee, they will get a UTI like that. So, yeah. Okay. It's me. Yeah. Damn. Damn. Yeah. I mean, these are important things to know. Yeah. I was really sick in high school, like an ongoing condition. So when I went out, I went.
all out and so i got sick freshman year of high school and i met some friends who were not my like friends at the high school that I went to or my local high school and I lied to my parents and said I was going to stay over at a cousin's house. And then went partying with these people. And I think my first high school party, I got like pretty drunk. But my first high school party, I blew like...
10 guys? Wow, what? Wait, was that the first time that you, like, had fooled already with... Yeah. Whoa, wait.
so had you watched porn how did you even know what blowjobs were like did they just were they just like put it in your mouth and like i'll try that because that was kind of how my first blowjob was i mean we instant messaged about it first and then i was like i would put a penis in my mouth sure i'll try it like i'm curious and it was only years later i was like oh it's oral sex it's that's oral i did it you know i thought i was just doing blowjobs
Wait, wait, wait, so, okay, sorry, we've totally, I want to have 10 at once, were they lined up, or was it like one after the other, was it like, what was it like? Okay. So it was like a big, raucous high school party in some very wealthy person's house. Wow. I never got to go to one of those. That was not my family.
Let's be clear. No, these were your not good girlfriends, not your school friends. These were people that you snuck out with, friends. Yes, exactly. So, yeah, it was like drinking and like dancing. Dirty dancing grinding, you know all the other things and then Somebody would catch my eye Like, make eye contact, glance towards a staircase, we'd go up to a bedroom, and I'd blow him. Not safe sex practices.
Early on, I didn't either. Also, it took me like a decade to figure out to use condoms for oral sex with randos. You know, like I didn't even know that was like a thing. so right which now i fucking love blowjobs with condoms because also it makes blowjobs without condoms extra special you know like all of it and then i get to feel like safer sluttier okay so wait so Were you swallowing? Like, did you know what to do? Were you feeling very confident? Like, what was the vibe of it for you? So...
Are we at the dicks, dicks, dicks part? This is dicks. Yes, you just told me about ten blowjobs. We are dicks, dicks, dicks times three plus one. I love that you made it now! Oh, my God. Okay. So, I love penis. I love all shapes and sizes and... COLORS! A little red tip. curves and All the things. I like the gradient when like
this part is light colored, that part's a darker color. Like, I love, I mean, I love when it starts out pale and small and then gets red and big. I mean, just all of it. All formations. All healthy dicks are yummy. I don't know. Yes. So I had done like a fair bit of fanfiction reading at that point. Oh my god. How did I not discover fanfiction? God bless it. Okay. it can be a little raunchy which is fine so i had done a bit of reading fan fiction reading and
It felt like I had a pretty good sense of grasp so bad. Grasp. I'm a pretty good grasp. Pretty good hold, pretty good handle on it. I got a taste for what to do. Okay, sorry. I'll lose your duck. Oh my god. Yes. Yes, yes, yes, and yes. But I felt like I had a pretty good idea of what the basics were, and I was tired of it just being book learning. You reached your limit. I did. Oh my god. I was such a horny teenager. I'm such a horny adult.
Wait, so did you set out to like try to get 10 or was it just let me see what I want to do? Like, do you remember how you were feeling about it at the time? Yeah, so I was not inhibited. I was out of the house. i was feeling good that night so it was just like whatever i want to do i'm gonna do and If I found somebody attractive.
and he wanted me to blow him, I was gonna do it. Yeah, so no, I didn't set out to perform oral sex on 10 guys, but that's what ended up happening. You just let the spirit take you. Yes! I love that. But I love that you also are keeping track. I mean, not that counting in numbers is
the top pinnacle of anything, right? You know, people try to base goodness of sex on quantity, like, we had sex twice a week, but it's like, well what is the quality of that however as a data gatherer and as someone that just loves numbers and loves to kind of keep track of my lovers i love you know i can usually remember back to who they are i mean now i take copious journal notes and i have my
My private pleasure journal that I read and yes, masturbate to, okay. I love that you were paying attention. I love that. Were they all in the same bedroom or were they like different locations? It was different bedrooms, whatever was free and close. Was it all private or were there sometimes other people doing things nearby? Okay, so that time was private. Okay. parties.
incidentally were the private experiences um also I only went down on them they did not get to go down on me okay later so after I had developed a stronger rapport with there were like three guys that i was good friends with shall we say and had been experimenting うーん With a bet, I'll... oral and for me digital penetration but also like kink stuff how old were you now and this is not a party environment or where where are we oh yeah sorry let me set the scene right um so not a party environment
Like it was usually at one of their houses when parents were away and I was 15 and 16. So like in there. So in terms of kink stuff. We did breath play, bondage and So dangerous, but we were careful. Blood play? Yeah. Lots of YouTube videos on sterilization. Okay. Wait, so these were some of your first experiences? I didn't even giggle in that. Wow, is this the result of fanfiction? Or where did these desires enter your head? Or was it because of these partners? I think I...
Just had like a lot of dark things that I was and to some extent, am into. Blood play is out now.
i think i got that out of my system but yeah one use scalpels okay you what really like designs what did you do what did you do yeah tell us the details of the blood let's go there let's go there first because i have not done this but i'm i'm needle curious right i like acupuncture i haven't had in a while but i've never had anyone like do decorative needles but i've read some needle things that have you know color me curious with the right person yeah
So, I didn't actually do needles. Just scalpels. Just scalpels and exacto knives. Fresh blades, I'm hoping. Yes, but that was the point of it. So we sterilized the blade tips. anything that would, you know, be pressing into flesh. And X-Acto knives are pretty easy to switch out. So that was always good option not super expensive for high school students and People look at you a little funny if you're buying scalpels. They don't really look at you funny if You're buying X-Acto knives.
like oh arts and crafts project okay high school kid and it wasn't a lot of decorative patterns although there were some um but it was mostly on places that i could hide easily so inner thighs upper arms and like sides, so like ribs. but mostly mostly just like straight or wavy lines and nothing too deep because It was more about the pain and the sensation of
cutting and being cut more than like actually inflicting injury. Was it connected to an erotic experience for you or was it something more... in partnership to explore I heard you say sensory play but like did you guys also have like was it a turn on basically is what I'm asking yeah One of my things is vulnerability. and my background is as a sub So I was the one being cut. I was the one in.
vulnerable position but that wouldn't have been something I would do if I didn't trust my partner or partners so aside from like the physical act of being cut and like feeling life energy flowing out of me another aspect of the eroticism was trusting somebody with something so dangerous. Yeah. Yeah. And I would put breast play up in that same category, right? We- YES!
I know many people do not conceive of a little bit of choking as something that is so dangerous, and yet it is. But it is. And yet it is, yeah. So... What kinds of conversations were you having that you felt safe with these partners? It sounds like you did some research. We're having some open conversations. Maybe this is why you use red, yellow, green in all kinds of connections. I don't know. Probably. But what were those conversations like for you?
So being a little neurotic, I actually wrote up contracts with them. So, yeah, a little high school jazz. Writing up sex contracts But it very clearly laid out like this is the limit of each activity if you Exceed this All future endeavors are terminated. Legal action, yadda yadda. So sexy. I mean, it is though. Safety is sexy and clarity is sexy. It creates that clear, hard container. for where i am gonna play you know especially if you're playing with something that's so edgy yeah
And then I guess that brings me to an unpleasant aspect. One of my partners, in the heat of the moment, breached my boundaries.
forced his cock down my throat and it was a horrible experience but also something that i learned from and all ties were severed and i also am very clear with my partners now with what's acceptable and what's not and if boundaries are trot on or push You got... one morning and that's it wow i'm so sorry that happened that fucking sucks because what a way to ruin the energy of dicks dicks dicks you know what i mean right like
All it has to be is so good and collaborative. You don't have to fuck it up. damn yeah i i too will often give a warning if it seems in good faith i also have ended connections when immediately it was clear to me energetically or whatever that it was like you know one lecherous whatever i've been like that then we're done doing that get out now thank you okay you know um but i also
In general, I have filtered people to the point of maybe there was a miscommunication. I'll give them one chance, and then I'm like, you're done, though. um did you were you able to receive external support in that healing like how did you kind of process that breach so I think in some ways I was fortunate because I was able to take control of the situation again and he ended up in the hospital, not me.
I like just wish there was some karmic thing where like Anyone who abuses another human being like their genitals are instantly just like staple like like if there could be like a cosmic creature that immediately looks like you know like i don't know like a monster like this is like what my brain fantasizes about like just
the jaws of the spirit from the beyond like when they're just no then people would talk with each other you know in my favorite my favorite book the moon is a harsh mistress if a man so much as touches a woman they live on the moon and there's a ratio of 10 to 1 male to female and so if anyone touches a woman in a way that she did not consent to all the other dudes just round them up and put them into space immediately like that's the kind of consent law that i'm like that
that so um i'm not promoting violence i am in fact promoting the opposite and i love that you took care of yourself in the way that was available to you. So, yes, in some ways I was able to, I think I was. i was fortunate and able to reclaim agency and it took a very long time like more than a decade a long time before I talked to a therapist about it and processed it with a professional, but I had processed it with... partners before that. So that was good.
When did you have penetrative partnered sex? And like, did you always identify as a sex fiend? I am identifying you as a sex fiend just based on the little that I know of you. I feel like we have this in common. But, like, when did you, like, know you were sexy and when did you... you know, start really fucking. Okay. So I didn't pop my cherry until I was 19. Me too. Twins. Really? Yeah. 19 and a half. Not for lack of trying.
So I was with a serious partner and that's how I lost my virginity. It wasn't to a certain extent, I guess it was planned, but it wasn't like today we are going to have sex. Yeah, I really want this, like, right now, so fucking put it in me. Were you already serious at the time, or did it become serious after it got put in? It was getting serious before. So we had been together like maybe a month. Okay. He hadn't really ever explored.
BDSM but knew he was a dom and I was like well I do actually have some experience in this field. Do you want to explore it together? So we had done some spanking and some oral and just like fun touches, come play. Complay. I really do. And I was am very attracted to him and so so horny that day I was so horny And we had been like... playing around for probably six hours and i was like i need to feel you inside me so he put on a condom and i was like this
That is what I've been missing. This is it. Wow, so good. I know a lot of people have shitty first times, but like... The man knows what he's doing. I too had a woohoo time. Like, I was like, finally! You know, like, I was just so excited. What was good about it for you? What do you remember? Like, it sounds like you were warmed up for six hours. Oh, yes. Step one, amazing. I wasn't. But, like, I mean, I was warmed up all the years and all the years of trying and getting rejected. Sure.
um it's okay it's okay it's okay it's divine timing and also i now know that some boys are scared of women who want to have sex when i had to learn Try asking four times and getting rejected by different people. Fucking ridiculous. If you would ask me, I would have been like, oh, Luna. oh thank you i mean i just yeah see goes to show i had to learn some things about asking the right people but you asked someone who was a great fit someone that was arousing you deeply for hours and weeks so
Tell us about the wonderful parts. What do you remember? So I have a fairly tight pussy. Yes, I have been told. I'm also like extremely wet. Like there's just like a lot of fluid. So I remember him. pushing into me he has a sizable dick it's thick and it's long so i remember feeling the head even though the condom was there like compressing things I could feel like his head and when it went in on that ridge Am I getting a rose right now? Absolutely.
I'm like, oh, it's really tight. Now, okay, well, now I want to be in a threesome. Like, now I just want to, I mean, you know, just for scientific purposes and exploration. I'm just curious. I mean.
absolutely yes you are so beautiful and so yes i remember his head going in and like stretching me and I don't know if that's like a thing that you enjoy but oh yeah for me i'm like i love being stretched filled i love just feeling like it's not just about being filled up and it can be different sizes different thicknesses but i love feeling My body react to another body. It's so yummy. And then he like paused for a moment and then slid in because I was
Really bad. Six hours. Yeah. I was really bad. That's a lot of build up. how how to get a woman to beg for it i'm being i'm being gender general here but like how to get a person to beg for it uh spend six hours warming them up with lots of teasing and okay yeah Yeah, it'll work, right? And I remember he, like, hit my back wall, and I just came so hard. Wow. Okay, so this seems like a good time to talk about your orgasms. No.
that they are the end-all be-all, not that they are the goal, not that they are priority, but they sure are nice. I mean, for some people, they are the priority. You can tell us if that's you, but it sounds like you can come from Internal stimulation when warmed up properly. Yes! Absolutely. I don't have loads of data. Would be nice if I had hundreds of women that I could compare to, but presently, nothing. In progress. In progress. I have been told that I am very orgasmic.
So I really like clitoral stimulation. That is often a very quick way to get me to come. Internal, so especially G-Spot, will get quite a response.
I tend to squeeze down pretty hard. I'm not trying to. It just happens. It's tight and wet. Tight and wet. And... I can often come from neck kisses that's got me off really easily orgasmic neck kisses uh-huh i'm very sensitive really yeah i'm gleaning this i didn't know these things i'm like oh so what how like sucking nibbling what about earlobes like what parts of your neck so basically
basically anywhere on my neck um collarbone my ears are really sensitive in my intro you mentioned uh sepia of sexuality um and oralism, but it can also be text. If someone is able to stimulate my brain, I can come from reading or hearing. Like, dirty talk? Yeah! so you can come from talking or reading is it dirty talk in particular or is it type of turnout like are there other things like sepiosexuality could be broad but is it specifically like intelligent personalized dirty talk like what
Words have made you come. I am not sure that I can recall. the specific words but I have a very very vivid imagination and I think that if there is enough explicit detail my brain kind of fills it in with sensation. I was going to say, yeah, it sounds like you're a sensory, okay, sensation and imagination. Wow. Wow. Wow. a little odd a wonderful kind of odd so i take it that you are a multiple orgasmer like i i oftentimes
If I have one, especially if it's like an intense one, then I'm done. Really? yes and i feel like i maybe have also run into you when i'm like overstimulated from coming because i and so that's why i really like edging because also for me if i I mean, whatever. I've had a day or two in my life where I've had like 10 or 12, but that's like...
Super maximum like it's almost uncomfortable like because at some point I may have to stop because Everything will get too loud too sensitive to like can't have music can't have light Sometimes the touches, like that's when I need to get flogged to kind of like get reset because the impact helps me balance out. And so sometimes having the intensity of sensation is what allows me to keep going pleasure-wise.
you know um and i also have had like rolling pleasure but that's also where it's like different types of orgasms do different things to me you know and so i can definitely have like lighter cums or like internal intense internal like full body things um so tell us about your version of like how you experience each one like can you just keep going like if someone's like nibbling your neck and touching your clit and then they fuck you inside like will you come multiple ways yes
Cool. Wow. I love that. I'm like, I want to watch. In divine timing. In divine timing. I actually, I didn't realize that was abnormal? Everyone's different. Everyone's different. Everyone's different. I don't meet as many people that are like me. You know, I meet a lot of people that can come kind of a lot. And I meet a lot of people that are like satisfied after one or two. And I'm talking about pussy owners here.
sure sure everyone's different but yeah i mean then again i've also interviewed someone on this podcast who can come in the wind and i'm like whoa you know like it's not her like normal everyday thing but like it's happened and i'm like You know, and I've heard that. What about your nipples? Are your nipples orgasmic? Do you have that through line? So I like when someone plays with my nipples.
But I've never come from it. Okay. Not yet. A challenge, maybe? An exploration, certainly. But do you enjoy nipple worship receiving it? okay i do yeah that's fun yeah what other parts of your body love to be touched and worshipped and how so i like As we have established a little bit earlier, I was into some like heavier BDSM. I wouldn't say like heavy, but like heavier BDSM. I'm definitely lighter now, but I enjoy... Spanking. I like impact play. I also love the feel of restraint.
Something that I want to explore is shibari. It's so... It's beautiful with a yummy type of restraint, too. really is um but my skin in general is just extremely extremely sensitive um a little bit of kiss curse but light light touches almost anywhere on my body. Will give me the shivers. I'm like shivering right now And I really adore kissing like just a full open mouth to mouth Intense, passionate kiss is Mind-blowing.
with and without fucking i love both ways but yeah it's so also i do feel like i am just in this new It's like being a teen in my 30s. Like, I'm like, oh.
kissing is so hot you know but also the more that i say that the more other people are like yes kissing kissing kissing you know it's like oh yeah and i don't know if that's like a post-covid thing or if it's a sex work related thing but it's just like it just seems extra special do you Have sensitive feet dear feet enjoy worship, or are they tickly or have you explored them enough?
They are... particularly I haven't done a whole lot of foot worship exploration yet something that i'm yet something that i'm open to but yeah I guess I don't know enough. I do enjoy when people play with my hair. It feels really good. Sometimes the rough tugs, but also if we're cuddling, just like... getting my scalp massaged a little bit or just like playing just like little playing with my hair like it's just Very nice and will probably get me into another round Oh, that's so yummy.
When in your intimate journey did you begin to identify as consensually non-monogamous or ethically non-monogamous? They are interchangeable, as I understand it. I want to say in... In high school, when I was seeing those three guys, like... one of them had a girlfriend and She was into it. Sometimes we would play a little bit But mostly it was with those three, but everything was very like
open and playful and fun until it wasn't. My journey is not really linear. I also found that I was into exhibitionism at that time. Some of the most fun that I had was... one of the guys had this like i don't know i don't even know why he had it he had this like really large round bed i want one and we would Pull it away from the wall and put chairs around it.
And there were friends and friends of friends who would come over and watch me get myself off. Oh my god, okay. You don't even know all the fantasies that I've had about... circle related things as you can see i love flat representations of the moon but um wow wait what so you would just just get yourself off with watchers How many? i want to say if it was like a full full audience um like 12. Sometimes it was single guys and then other times it would be like girls and their boyfriends.
And I would usually do some like manual masturbation and I would use a variety of toys. And then occasionally I would have one of my partners play with me. Yeah. it was really hot it was so much fun was that something that you were like an instant yes to or did you have to think about it like what because i'm trying to imagine a younger me and i don't know like i was open But what drew you toward this experience? Do you remember your thought and or feeling process?
Well, I want to say that the first time I did anything kind of like that, it was my Three guys wanted to just sit and watch. one of them who's a weird data nerd like me and I think like you a little bit. Wanted to count how many times I came so he set a timer for half an hour and I think it was something like 24 times. Wow! I would. Be dead. Like, not even the fun guy. But that is amazing. I'm like, I'd be a watcher. Oh my gosh.
Whoa. Was it hands? Was it toys? Was it a mixture? What do you remember? It was hands and I think it was a black lalo. Okay. I don't remember what exactly it was. Some kind of penetrative. and I just went at it. wow more than once it sounds like you like it was a repeat like wow so that was the first time and i was like oh that was fun and like i liked this is a little bit of a power dynamic thing i think I enjoyed how much they liked it. If that makes sense. Oh, that makes total sense. I...
I'm always happy to be watched or not watched. Like if the context is correct, I'm not shy about like you are watching. I will only get off on it if there is a specific person who wants to watch me be watched. Like it is in fact that dynamic.
i'm like yes just tell me to go do whatever you want me to do and it'll take it to the next level for me it's already hot to me if it's just like oh yes this is a place of permission i can be free i can do what i want you know if people want to watch i love to serve them that way but if it's like someone whispers naughty things into my ear and then i have to go out on stage and do a thing which has not happened except in my fantasies you know i'm like
yes like you said it's that connection it's the exchange it's the relationship that is connected that takes the erotic to the next level for me and that's why casual sex like pure straight up casual like uh i mean casual like tinder where people are basically like sex dolls to each other and they don't really talk and they kind of don't even whatever
so uninteresting to me and i'm hearing that increasingly from other people so i don't think i'm really unique here or with the rise in the number of people that are describing themselves to me as demisexual i'm like Yes, I too am a human that enjoys connection. Yes, it is harder when it's personalized. I agree.
yes i do want to get to know someone you know even if i don't have to know them for years i can know them for 10 20 30 minutes but i need to feel connection in our exchange so that i can have a next level experience not just an orgasm because I can just, yeah, do that.
i can do that on my own i can do that on my own yeah yeah wow when did you it sounds like also pretty young you were identifying as not straight like when did you identify your pansexuality So I think I would have identified myself as like... queer curious in high school, but also not like labeled anything. In fact, I didn't label anything. Vaguely curious. Yes. Yes. like people of all genders are sexy but not like actively pursuing anything um because
Dicks, dicks, dicks. But I identified as Pan in 2018 it was just like a when i just like sat and reflected for a little while I realized I am not straight. I am not straight even a little bit. Boobies are too beautiful. I want to have them in my mouth. I want to lick the pussies. Pussies? And there's something just so sensual about curves. Yeah. Yeah. So beautiful.
okay i feel like you and i definitely could talk for hours and we met you may have to come back to talk for more do you want to tell us what inspired you to make the leap to professional to go to my favorite place in the world and work at the magical oasis that is sherry's ranch It really is It's magical. So I realized I just needed a change. I needed something different. I've always been... interested in some kind of service.
for a while i thought a non-profit then i thought teaching and then i found out about cherries and i was like oh I could have sex and other people could enjoy that. And it seemed and is the perfect fit.
I want to make pussy jokes here. On a serious note, I will say, sadly, in some of the research that I have been reading lately, burnout rates for both teaching and non-profit work is high like those are two fields in which people are deeply under-resourced and so it's like i i too want to serve and also it's like
we gotta be well and we gotta help ourselves and help you know help other people i think and i think that's i will say i think you were doing the lord's work i'm kind of joking but not really actually i think for me sex is transcendent it's a transcendent experience okay so how wonderful to discover that you like it what have been some of your favorite things so far like so if someone has never been to the ranch before doesn't know that legal brothels exist these
safe oasis spaces where people can come and have clear discussions about exactly what they want maybe they're looking for a goddess of chinese american descent with beautiful beautiful breastesses i don't know um what kinds of activities, spaces, places, types of play have you enjoyed there? Or do you hope to enjoy? We can get into bucket list things, but start with your favorites that you've experienced.
okay the favorites i love here we are again connecting with people that that's the thing um and Sherry's lets me do that in a way that Other spaces don't. And it brings people who... looking for that kind of authentic human interaction whether it's a five-minute conversation and physical intimacy or more like a lot more um it's really really fulfilling I've also discovered that one of my kinks like my maybe my biggest turn-on is Seeing another person in pleasure.
That has made me come more times than I can count. and i'm like now aware of that that's so hot you're like it's not just words after all sometimes all i gotta do is look at them and see how happy they are whoa that's so cool and then one of The really fulfilling, exciting...
pleasurable experiences that I had at Sherry's. A client came in and this man had recently lost his wife and was trying to reconnect with himself and his honestly his libido and just like feeling confident and we spent a little time chatting and getting to know each other and there was some really good chemistry there and He was worried. that I wouldn't have fun so far from what happened. But we had a wonderful time physically. And then afterwards, we just kind of cuddled and talked for
I don't know. Almost an hour. Sharing. Quality time. Quality time! And it was just so... It was so good, and I came away from the experience, like, having learned about him and... Learned from his experiences and I think he came away like happier and more secure and who he was and being ready to move forward with the next stages of his life.
that is so beautiful you know it's so interesting over the years of all the brothel research that i've done when i talk to lay people about it or shall i say not getting laid people who have never been to a brothel um you know like who don't necessarily understand they're like
I don't want anything transactional. It usually sounds like that. And I go, well, you can pick someone you have a connection with. You know, in the same way that you can hire me as a photographer if you want someone who will really connect with you and get to know your personal story on a number of levels or you can go to a photo mill and they can go click click click done like both kinds are available Both include transactions. If you want to be real straightforward about that word.
And you know what else are transactions? Marriages. All dating. Literally any kind of relationship because hopefully they all include an exchange and if they don't, it's really lopsided and not good karma. Let me just say that.
you know and so so it's so funny because i know that the more that i learn about The actual opportunity that there are in brothels for people to connect to themselves to a partner to learn to have a safe space to heal trauma i'm like what an underutilized educational resource and obviously they would all be better if they were in the hands of edge erotic geniuses but um
you know hashtag future but you know in the meantime it's like they are beautiful spaces for connection it's like well if you don't want a transactional experience then make sure that you bring your A-game when it comes to connection, you know?
yes yeah because it's like you are such a connectable person and like you said it's hot to be valued it's hot to have someone who really wants to choose you and there are different ways of showing that right there are explicit and implicit ways in dating we show it by doing lots of time energy slow investment of getting to know each other it's just a different structure but it's like any human who knows themselves hopefully knows if they're feeling connected or not and it sounds like you
have a very yummy orgasmic flavor oh yes okay speaking of flavor okay well we didn't talk about butt stuff well okay We will have to come back. Maybe that'll be details for a future episode because you and I, I think, share some butt sluttery in our proclivities. So we can talk about tight pussies and tight assholes on a future update. Okay.
But for now, I would love to hear what are your hopes, goals, and dreams for the future? Like, what's on your bucket list? Sexy, definitely, but doesn't have to be sexy. All of it. Okay, so sexy overnight with Luna. I am hoping for... some more couples i got really lucky last tour and had a great time with a few couples um so great um maybe some single ladies want to come by or Single ladies and their friends. And wish list, I guess, would be...
More of what I've been lucky enough to have already experienced at Sherry's, which is Wonderful people that want to spend time with me and appreciate me. Non-work things, I guess. Um, I am... Planning a move to New Zealand. It's a long-term plan, but I already have been looking at like How to do the commute from New Zealand to Sherry's. I love that. I fucking love that. Buying a house. And finally, finally, finally getting a doll.
yes i love doggies okay and if maybe this is new zealand i don't know my welcome visit you suddenly had an unlimited budget to build your own personal pleasure palace or whatever structure you please, what elements would it have and who would be invited? Alright, so it would have multiple bedrooms, of course. Definitely one of those circle beds. with Comfy single seater chairs and also like love seats. I'm thinking a dungeon with some bells and whistles.
ceiling suspension definitely invite an instructor for some shibari a really lovely hot tub for relaxation and not relaxing activities lol not relaxing after you've done shibari I also think I would want not all of the bedrooms to have this, but like, uh... couple of them to have one-way mirrors for like a little bit of voyeurism, a little bit of exhibitionism, lots of toys. So, have you used Honey Play Box before? No.
What is it? Okay. So it's a toy company. And this is not sponsored, by the way. My favorite toy. is Terry T-E-R-R-I from Honey Playbox. And it's like a rabbit, but... so there's like the clit stimulator right Then there's the insertable part which is like two long sections but in the middle of it is this extra phalange and it does this i know phalange in a bit of motion it's a tapping motion okay
Specifically, extra phalange is very funny to me, especially in the middle of a sex store and like, like, like, blah, blah, blah. Cool. There are so many moving parts. Yeah. But it is... fantastic okay it's also um app based so you can like push the buttons on it If that's comfortable for you or your partner or partners, or you or partner or partners can control it remotely on your smartphone. I fucking love it. And it just... It's so good. It's so good.
I also will just say, I'm a photographer, I could take pictures of you in Shibari, and I could hang out your hot tub in the meantime, I'm just saying I'm by myself. Fuck yes, fuck yes. Oh, who, who is invited? All of the ladies from Sherry's. Okay. Because. Of course. Yeah. We have a good time. We like to party. Some of my partners, both from Sherry's and Not, and... Maybe a few, like, celebrity crushes. Oh, yeah. I love that.
Please come to the grand opening of My Pleasure Palace. Thank you, celebrity crushes, guest of honor. I will honor you. I will honor you. Invite from the top tier courtesan right here. Okay. I love that. And then I guess... Friends of friends. Yes. Yes. There would be A whole stack of NDAs and contracts. Because, like... And also, like... The quick send away kit.
for testing. Because safety. Yeah, yeah. And all the condoms. Love that. Love that. Yeah, condoms, laurels, lube, all the barriers. And I could give a health and safety talk at the beginning and set the tone for norms that we establish if you want. I'm just saying. Okay, so light noodle question here at the end to wrap up. How do you think that we can co-create a sexier, more loving, and more connected world together? I think it starts with... Listening.
and observing and being open. Not just to... sexual experiences, but yes that. but being willing to like hear each other out and talk things through.
Communicate, communicate, communicate. That's where I stand. And maybe more kissing. I'm learning to communicate with not just words. You know, it's such a... delicate nuanced personal thing but the whole point of communication is it give and take it's not just you know it's listening My coach and friend Jerry is working with me to listen with my heart, my whole body, not just my mind, not just the literal words.
Obviously, words that people say are also important, but they're one part of a puzzle. What is the being saying? And I do think that you're onto something with the kissing. You know, my sensitive immune system is always like health and safety though. And I'm like, okay, well obviously we need to co-create a world where we kiss each other more so that we can all share germs and then just be on the level, you know?
exactly exactly at least in our little bubbles okay so very lastly how do you love to spread ripples of love I touched on this a little bit with Sherry's and how I came to be there, but a lot of it is helping people where and how I can and sometimes that is being a friend who can babysit your kid. Sometimes it's volunteering at the local animal shelter. Sometimes it's helping to discover or share a discovery of an intimate moment or a long-lasting connection.
That's my... Let's share a bit of just love. Fuck yeah. Lovers, you can find Jess on the internet at Jessica G. The link is in the description below. Jess, thank you so much for being a guest on this podcast and helping spread ripples of love. Thank you so much for having me, Luna. Lovely humans. That is our show.
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Work on your writing no matter where you are in the process. Have a private off-pod conversation over coffee, lunch, dinner, or while we collage or paint together. Or you can just watch me while I create for you. That has been very fun. You can really infuse dreams and wishes as we just focus intentions for the future people. but also fun if you want to paint.
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Writing the first draft or finalizing an edit can be the focus. We can co-write. Sometimes I just body double for people and it's really helpful. Communicating and getting to know one another on a deeper level can be the focus or all of- And if we do it in the SoCal area, I know an awesome chef who I love working with. So if you are looking to drop in deeply with a small group, it is a pretty next level experience.
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