291 | How Far (And Much) I’ve Come: Wyoh’s Update
Episode description
Wyoh revisits her very first episode where she interviews herself and updates it with her current, six-years-later perspective and reflections.
00:00 Inspirations of MeToo and sex ed gaps
04:11 Reflections on oversharing, shame, friendship and parasocial relationships
08:09 Updates on sexuality labels, erotic artistry and sex work
10:12 Formative experiences, masturbation discovery
15:20 Understanding rejection and communication
18:45 First blowjob experiences, deep throat learning
24:30 Evolution of oral sex skills and preferences
29:15 BDSM discovery and communication growth
35:22 Safety protocols and boundary setting
41:08 Protection discussions and body hair preferences
47:33 Updated views on hygiene and consent
52:16 Relationship styles and touch needs
1:04:22 Professional boundaries and parasocial dynamics
1:11:08 Double penetration hopes and gangbang fantasy sharing
1:19:54 Evolution of fantasies and connection needs
1:30:12 What makes me go WOO? The moon, croissants, and learning from others
1:31:30 How learning about others' experiences shapes understanding of connection
1:33:37 The reality of projections in new relationships and meeting expectations
1:35:14 My obsession with "lining things up"
1:37:41 How “lining things up” applies to photography, podcasting, and all creative work
1:40:19 How I woo me: the importance of alone time
1:45:06 How to woo me: food, touch, and engagement with creative work
1:48:55 Building safety and trust in relationships
1:50:44 Requirements for physical intimacy and love of clear containers
1:54:22 Evolution from early podcast days to embracing all erotic arts
1:56:56 Dreams of creating edurotic content and spaces
2:00:13 Ongoing learnings navigating personal relationships
2:01:29 Health, safety, and communication practices
2:05:02 Patterns of boundaries in vanilla vs kinky connections
2:15:52 Ongoing project: organizing my ultimate bucket list of pleasure exploration
2:21:56 Vision for Explicit Negotiation edurotic series
2:32:15 Future goals: redefining sex education and creating safe spaces for deep connection
2:35:12 Dreams of co-creating a more connected, loving world together
🔗 | PEOPLE & RESOURCES MENTIONED
Marc Brackett (Yale researcher, creator of RULER emotional intelligence program) - marcbrackett.com
Lisa Feldman Barrett (Neuroscientist, emotions researcher) - lisafeldmanbarrett.com
Esther Perel (Psychotherapist, relationships expert) - estherperel.com
Brené Brown (Researcher focusing on vulnerability and shame) - brenebrown.com
Andrew Huberman (Stanford neuroscientist, host of Huberman Lab podcast) - hubermanlab.com
Emily Nagoski (Sex educator and researcher, writer on sexuality and stress) - emilynagoski.com
Amelia Nagoski (Choral conductor, co-author on burnout research)
Cherie DeVille (Adult performer, former pod guest) - cheriedeville.com
Ophelia Kaan (Adult performer) - x.com/OpheliaKaan
Tyler Poelle (Acting teacher at Lesly Kahn) - tylerpoelle.com
Show Me by Will McBride and Dr. Helga Fleischhauer-Hardt
Atlas of the Heart by Brené Brown
Hot Sex: How to Do It by Tracey Cox
Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski
Come Together by Emily Nagoski
Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily & Amelia Nagoski
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