291B | Our Weird is Needed: Wyoh’s Update
Episode description
Part two of my self-interview about love, connection, and mission to make the world a sexier place with the current set of podcast questions.
00:00 What makes me go WOO? The moon, croissants, and learning from others
01:18 How learning about others' experiences shapes understanding of connection
03:25 The reality of projections in new relationships and meeting expectations
05:02 My obsession with "lining things up"
07:29 How “lining things up” applies to photography, podcasting, and all creative work
10:07 How I woo me: the importance of alone time
14:54 How to woo me: food, touch, and engagement with creative work
18:43 Building safety and trust in relationships
20:32 Requirements for physical intimacy and love of clear containers
24:10 Evolution from early podcast days to embracing all erotic arts
26:44 Dreams of creating edurotic content and spaces
30:01 Ongoing learnings navigating personal relationships
31:17 Health, safety, and communication practices
34:50 Patterns of boundaries in vanilla vs kinky connections
45:40 Ongoing project: organizing my ultimate bucket list of pleasure exploration
51:44 Vision for Explicit Negotiation edurotic series
1:02:03 Future goals: redefining sex education and creating safe spaces for deep connection
1:05:00 Dreams of co-creating a more connected, loving world together
🔗 | PEOPLE & RESOURCES MENTIONED
Marc Brackett (Yale researcher, creator of RULER emotional intelligence program) - marcbrackett.com
Lisa Feldman Barrett (Neuroscientist, emotions researcher) - lisafeldmanbarrett.com
Esther Perel (Psychotherapist, relationships expert) - estherperel.com
Brené Brown (Researcher focusing on vulnerability and shame) - brenebrown.com
Andrew Huberman (Stanford neuroscientist, host of Huberman Lab podcast) - hubermanlab.com
Emily Nagoski (Sex educator and researcher, writer on sexuality and stress) - emilynagoski.com
Amelia Nagoski (Choral conductor, co-author on burnout research)
Cherie DeVille (Adult performer, former pod guest) - cheriedeville.com
Ophelia Kaan (Adult performer) - x.com/OpheliaKaan
Tyler Poelle (Acting teacher at Lesly Kahn) - tylerpoelle.com
RESOURCES / BOOKS
Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski
Come Together by Emily Nagoski
Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily & Amelia Nagoski
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