Are you done with small talk? Do you find yourself wanting more time alone? Does the world seem heavy? If so, you might be in the cocoon stage of healing. In this episode down why this stage is important, and how to get through it. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ My Book: HOW TO DO THE WORK https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Me! 215-366-0012 Get...
Jun 26, 2022•36 min•Season 2Ep. 44
The father wound runs deep. Today (father’s day) we’re having an open vulnerable conversation about what it is and how we can heal from it. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Nicole! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/...
Jun 19, 2022•40 min•Season 2Ep. 43
Shame is the result of carrying our wounding, alone. Shame keeps us repeating the same cycles, patterns, and behaviors. And, it has us believe that we aren’t worthy of connection. We all carry shame. In this episode, we talk about why it holds us back and how to release it. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/...
Jun 12, 2022•44 min•Season 2Ep. 42
Being misunderstood is one of the most painful experiences and yet as we heal this is something we will face often. Not everyone is going to “get” us or when like us as we become more fully ourselves. In this episode, we talk about how to get through it and why being misunderstood is a sign you’re on the right path. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www...
Jun 05, 2022•35 min•Season 2Ep. 41
Today there is a massive awaking going on. We are becoming more self aware and this is having a huge impact on society. If you’ve been feeling a shift in energy and the way you see the world this episode is for you! Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Nicole! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future ...
May 29, 2022•30 min•Season 2Ep. 40
So many of us have lived as a false version of ourselves. We had to hide parts of who we were or deny our own reality in order to fit in or be loved. As adults, we have an opportunity to tap into our true selves. By living our truth we become more empowered, confident, and able to create the life we have always wanted. In this episode, we talk about what this means for us and how you can start this journey. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-O...
May 22, 2022•43 min•Season 2Ep. 39
Self reflection is the ability to see yourself. ALL of yourself. In this episode, we talk about why it’s important, why it can sometimes suck, and how to use self reflection to become more self-aware. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Nicole! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: h...
May 15, 2022•31 min•Season 2Ep. 38
This week we have a special episode for Mother’s Day! We realize this is a sensitive time + our mainstream culture doesn’t always acknowledge this. In this episode, we get real. If you’re working through the mother wound, this episode is for you. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Nicole! 2...
May 08, 2022•47 min•Season 2Ep. 37
In this episode, Nicole chats with friend and fellow author, Lisa Bilyeu. Lisa is the co-founder of Quest Nutrition and the founder of Women of Impact. Her new book “Radical Confidence” is a must read for anyone looking to be an empowered creator of their life. This episode was a blast to record and there are tons of gems for you all. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO TH...
May 04, 2022•52 min•Season 2Ep. 36
Remember childhood when play came easy to us? It’s like we shift into adults who forget how to have fun, to be spontaneous, or to just let go without hustling to the next thing on our to-do list. In this episode, talk about why play is so important in healing, and how to start doing it more often. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-...
May 01, 2022•30 min•Season 2Ep. 35
There’s a Ram Dass quote that says “if you think you’re enlightened go spend a week with your family.” Recently, we both had family visit and it brought up a lot. In this episode, we share what we learned and how to cope when you’re triggered around family. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Tex...
Apr 24, 2022•52 min•Season 2Ep. 34
What do you think of when you think of a creative? Do you think artist, painter, performer? The truth is all of us have a creative being within us, waiting to come out. In this episode, we talk about how we get in touch with our inner creative and how you can too. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/0063012...
Apr 17, 2022•26 min•Season 2Ep. 33
We’ve been conditioned to always be on the go or to always be productive. Sometimes we feel guilty for resting, but rest is an important part of healing. We all need downtime to just “be” without any agenda. In this episode, we talk about rest as an act of self care. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/0063...
Apr 10, 2022•40 min•Season 2Ep. 32
Do you feel exhausted, overwhelmed, or just like you need a break from life? It's time to protect your energy. How do we do it? One word: boundaries. In this episode, we talk about how we protect our own energy and how you can too! Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Nicole! 215-366-0012 Get...
Apr 03, 2022•32 min•Season 2Ep. 31
In this episode, we talk about what it means to celebrate yourself. And why the practice of celebrating all of the small things is so important as you heal. We give some examples of how we do this and we’ll show you how to do the same. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Nicole! 215-366-0012...
Mar 27, 2022•29 min•Season 2Ep. 30
Want to know a way to live a much less stressful life? It’s done through having realistic expectations. In this episode, we’re getting real about the expectations we have with ourselves and other people. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Nicole! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal...
Mar 20, 2022•31 min•Season 2Ep. 29
We all want to be there for the people we care about. Sometimes we don’t know how to actually do this. Or we feel uncomfortable even trying. In this episode, we share ways to support the people you love in the way that feels best for them. Get ready to have deeper relationships that feel more connected, and be sure to share this with the people closest to you in your life. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://...
Mar 13, 2022•36 min•Season 2Ep. 28
We’ve got a lot of feedback from the community to talk more about this so this week we are diving deeper. Get ready for a vulnerable open chat on sex and why we all feel so weird about it. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Nicole! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theho...
Mar 06, 2022•49 min•Season 2Ep. 27
This week we have a special guest, Gabby Bernstein. Gabby is a New York Times bestselling author and spiritual teacher who’s new book “Happy Days” is an incredible testament to the power of healing trauma. We talk about sobriety, vulnerability, and how we can heal the broken parts of ourselves to find peace. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon....
Feb 27, 2022•55 min•Season 2Ep. 26
When you think of intimacy, do you think of sex? Most people do. Here’s the thing, intimacy is actually about emotional connection. And that emotional connection takes safety, trust, and communication. In this episode, we have a vulnerable conversation about what intimacy actually looks like and how it creates relationships that are meaningful, healthy, + allow for mutual evolution. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF...
Feb 20, 2022•40 min•Season 2Ep. 25
Trauma can show up in our relationship in many ways. We can be shut down, defensive, and unable to speak what we really feel. In this episode, we share how trauma shows up in our own relationships and how we work through it. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Nicole! 215-366-0012 Get my FRE...
Feb 13, 2022•30 min•Season 2Ep. 24
We are all in desperate need of connection. Recent events have had us more lonely, isolated, and disillusioned than ever. In this episode, we talk about building emotional intimacy and trust. If you’re ready for relationship upgrades, this ones for you. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Ni...
Feb 06, 2022•54 min•Season 2Ep. 23
There is one thing that causes relationships to end more than anything else: assumptions. Our brains tell stories in order to make sense of our world. Those stories are usually full of assumptions about “why” people do things. The problem is, our assumptions hold us back from true emotional connections with our partners, friends, and family. In this episode, you’ll learn how to stop assuming and start becoming curious. This ones a game changer for all relationships, give it a listen! Join the Se...
Jan 29, 2022•24 min•Season 2Ep. 22
Trauma has many negative impacts, and it can also create the foundation for resilience + a connection to something greater than ourselves. In this episode, we talk about transforming tragedies + breakdowns into triumphs + breakthroughs. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Nicole! 215-366-001...
Jan 16, 2022•55 min•Season 2Ep. 21
In this solo episode, Dr. Nicole talks about being a cycle breaker. Cycle breakers become aware of dysfunctional family patterns and heal. In our society people don’t talk about how scary, isolating, + lonely this can be. If you’re a cycle breaker on a journey of healing, this episode is for you! Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-W...
Jan 09, 2022•22 min•Season 2Ep. 20
In this episode, we talk about two things that seem very different: gratitude and jealousy. But what if jealousy could teach us how to be grateful? In this episode, you’ll learn how to be more self aware, how to understand why jealousy happens, + how to switch up the way you think about jealousy you become happier + fulfilled. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: ...
Jan 02, 2022•26 min•Season 2Ep. 19
If you’re looking to find your people this episode is a must listen. Dr. Nicole shares why she created a virtual healing community and gives you tips on how to connect with likeminded people. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Nicole! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://th...
Dec 26, 2021•34 min•Season 2Ep. 18
Most of us were taught as children that our emotions were wrong or bad. Some of us were punished for crying or told to not get angry. This makes us disconnected from our emotions as adults. In this episode, you’ll learn hope to have a new relationship with your emotions to create better relationships, feel more fulfilled, and have an overall better understanding of yourself. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https:...
Dec 19, 2021•22 min•Season 2Ep. 17
Do you find yourself in relationships where you feel disappointed, unhappy, or like your expectations aren’t met? We repeat the dynamics and patterns we saw when we were little. Knowing this can help us heal our own patterns. If you’re craving more vulnerability and connecting with yourself and the people around you, give this episode a listen. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HO...
Dec 12, 2021•24 min•Season 2Ep. 16
Grief is part of life. We lose people. Relationships end. Life changes. In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Jenna share how grief can be medicine that helps us grow. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X Text Nicole! 215-366-0012 Get my FREE Future Self Journal: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/...
Dec 05, 2021•40 min•Season 2Ep. 15
