If you're struggling to get the women you ideally want, and your feeling lonely, should you lower your standards with women to get some attention? The whole notion of lowering standards to attract women is based on the social pressure and judgement men put on each other to only date physically attractive women, even if you can't meet any and end up feeling frustrated. In fact, when you do lower your standards, there are many very important skills you'll learn along the way that will quickly make...
Apr 02, 2020•12 min•Season 9Ep. 1
Did you know that quite a few people who think of themselves as being introverts aren't really introverts at all? There's a lot of confusion about what being an introvert or being an extrovert is really all about - and sometimes that can play a big role in defining how we see ourselves and our social capabilities. From its early beginnings with Carl Jung, to its present-day place in modern personality profiling systems, Introversion has become an extremely popular term in pop culture and the med...
Mar 30, 2020•10 min•Season 8Ep. 13
Is Hypergamy really something men need to conern themselves with? Is there solid science behind the term? If you aren't wealthy or good looking, are you doomed to be alone and unloved for the rest of your life? There's a trend in our current society to make men believe that women are only interested in men who are good looking, tall, and wealthy - and even though the science clearly shows this isn't the case, the mindset persists. I want to reach out in this video today and help men to see that ...
Mar 26, 2020•12 min•Season 8Ep. 12
Did you know that with the right strategies in place, solo approaching women can be just as much fun as going out with a bunch of wingmen? For most guys, the idea of going out to meet women all alone is completely alien, but I'm going to show you a strategy that has proven to get me MORE success than going out with friends, and frequently includes women trying to set me up with their friends as well! It has worked for me over the last 13 years, and still works an absolute treat today....
Mar 23, 2020•10 min•Season 8Ep. 11
Tinder, Bumble, Hinge and all other online dating platforms are all just different kinds of online advertising mediums. Online advertising has its own success philosophy, and if you want to get lots of dates in your online dating profiles, then you should adopt the same kinds of mindsets as you would if you were advertising on Google Adwords or Facebook. Online dating apps like Tinder and Bumble have a lot of competition between men, all trying to market themselves to the available women. I'm go...
Mar 19, 2020•13 min•Season 8Ep. 10
I Want to share my life-long battle with anxiety and depression with my viewers - Too many men and women struggle with anxiety disorders on a daily basis, and it's easy to feel all alone. Anxiety can strike any one of us at any time, and it's important that more people talk openly about their experiences no matter how unflattering they may be. I myself felt a lot of shame about the anxiety that I suffered with, and it left me feeling even more isolated and alone than I already was, which led me ...
Mar 16, 2020•20 min•Season 8Ep. 9
What do women REALLY want in a man? What traits do you need to have to attract a woman in your life? That seems to be a debate that has been raging amongst guys for a long time, but there really isn't a debate - the answers have been well understood by sociologists and psychologists for quite some time. Today I'll be sharing the 6 most attractive features that men look for in women - These are the traits that turn women on the most.
Mar 12, 2020•15 min•Season 8Ep. 8
I'm going to give you four strategies you should be using every time you attend a speed dating event to start filling up your match cards with women's numbers. Speed dating has been around for decades, and I've had a lot of viewers message me asking if I could make a video about speed dating. The great news is that it's actually not that hard to get really incredible results from your speed dating sessions if you know what to do to get women to want to tick YES to you on their ranking cards....
Mar 09, 2020•14 min•Season 8Ep. 7
The secret success formula that allows anyone to become successful at anything in a surprisingly short amount of time. Learning how to become successful with women, or in business can often prove very hard work, and leave many people feeling like they're in a rut that they don't know how to get out of. For many of us, success can feel completely unobtainable, and we don't know how to get there. Today I'm going to share with you the COMPLETE SOA formula for success, including all the elements req...
Mar 05, 2020•21 min•Season 8Ep. 6
Did you know that going NoFap can have potentially dangerous side-effects? It's really important to understand the underlying reasons why you masturbate frequently so that you can learn to best manage your symptoms when you go NoFap. Going NoFap can actually cause men to take on other forms of addictions as a way of compensating for struggling to manage one's own stresses and frustrations in life. So today is a bit of a guide as to how you should get started with NoFap while being mindful of avo...
Mar 02, 2020•10 min•Season 8Ep. 5
Is playing hard to get really the best dating strategy for men? Should we pretend to be less available, take longer to reply to texts, act mildly disinterested to make women like us? I believe this is a terrible dating strategy that will ruin many more chances of success than it will help you to be more successful with women. In fact, if you want to get more women to chase you and be attracted to you, you're going to need to learn to BECOME harder to get, rather than spend time trying to PRETEND...
Feb 27, 2020•9 min•Season 8Ep. 4
Is online dating rigged? Are apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge, purposely screwing with you to make you pay for matches? Today I'm going to explore what's happening below the hood for online dating apps and websites, so you can better understand why things are so frustrating. But don't be too alarmed, there is a silver lining. As it turns out, just because it's hard to get matches and right swipes from cute girls online - There is actually a way to get much better results than you're used to....
Feb 24, 2020•11 min•Season 8Ep. 3
Toxic femininity is the evil twin sister of toxic masculinity that many women pretend doesn't really exist. In this video, I take the time to explore the world of toxic femininity, first outlining some of the more dangerous lessons our society teaches to young women, then to look at how we should handle cultural baggage that men and women bring to their dating lives. It can be hard to know how to find a good quality partner in a world that seems to be so full of anti-male propaganda, but I'm goi...
Feb 20, 2020•18 min•Season 8Ep. 2
Did you know that your Tinder profile could be right on the verge of getting a tonne of matches? Tinder and other online dating apps can be very frustrating, but when you realise that they are actually really similar to other kinds of online advertising, and you start treating your Tinder profile like an online ad, all of a sudden you can use the same principals to radically change your profile. The trick with Tinder and online dating apps is that sometimes small changes can have MASSIVE results...
Feb 17, 2020•10 min•Season 8Ep. 1
What are the worst flirting habits that cause men to get rejected? How many are you guilty of? In this video, I'm going to look at 5 bad dating habits that I consistently see are causing men to get rejected by women. Whether it's because they're boring the women to death, or because they're making them feel nervous or uncomfortable. If you want better results in your dating life, then these are the changes you'll have to make. Be sure to check out number 5, because many guys don't realise just h...
Feb 11, 2020•15 min•Season 7Ep. 7
Imagine if you could get women to start chasing you on Tinder rather than you having to put in all the work? Most men don't realise how differently women use tinder compared to how we use it - Once you understand the completely different mindest women have when swiping on guys, then you can better understand the frustrating things that women sometimes do. But More importantly, you can start to use the "Tinder Maybe" strategy yourself, to massively boost how attractive women find you, and how har...
Feb 04, 2020•10 min•Season 7Ep. 6
Find out how to avoid falling into the friend zone ever again. Getting into the friend zone sucks, there's a girl you like, and you've been hanging out with her for months now, and you finally find the courage to tell her how you feel, and she says, I really like you "LET'S JUST BE FRIENDS". But when you have a crush on a girl, it's really important not to wait too long to let her know how you feel, or falling into the friendzone will just become the inevitable and there won't' be anything you c...
Jan 28, 2020•8 min•Season 7Ep. 5
Where can introverts easily meet women? So you're an introverted or shy guy - and you want to meet women, but you're really not feeling like going to bars and clubs to approach random girls, or approaching random girls on the street? Fortunately, there are lots of alternatives for men to meet women that won't require any cold-approach at all. Introverted dating can best be enjoyed by becoming part of a small social group that engages in hobbies/passions/sports together because it removes the req...
Jan 21, 2020•11 min•Season 7Ep. 4
Why did your ex leave you? How can you be more attractive to a woman? What do women want in a man? Are women just hypergamous? Why do relationships end? Today I'm going to explore the Value Exchange Theory of Mate Selection, which goes a long way to explaining why some couples thrive while others fall apart. It will also help men to better understand not just their past failed relationships, but also how to build themselves up into the kind of men that women are going to value more highly in the...
Jan 14, 2020•11 min•Season 7Ep. 3
Today I want to tell you how to successfully approach girls - but most importantly I want to tell you how to do it without being creepy, scary, or intimidating. Unfortunately, the internet is full of guys approaching women in ways that are hyper-aggressive, sleazy, or just plain creepy, and man men are left feeling like this is the only way to approach a cute girl and have any kind of success. So if you're holding back on approaching women because you don't want to be THAT GUY that makes women f...
Jan 07, 2020•14 min•Season 7Ep. 2
Did you know that Introverts can flirt with and attract women just as effectively as extroverts can? Unfortunately, most dating advice out there is designed for extroverted guys, so sometimes it never feels like it's going to work for you. Today I'm going to show you how some of the introvert's superpowers, these are the strengths inherent to introverts that allow them to attract cute girls without having to pretend to be someone their not. This is the dating advice introverts need to hear!...
Dec 17, 2019•15 min•Season 7Ep. 1
Did you know that trying to sexually escalate early with a woman in a bid to get a one night stand or casual sex relationship is probably the wrong strategy for you right now? Most guys get focused on their sexual escalation skills rather than the rest of their attraction skills, and as a result, they miss out on a lot of interactions that may have led to sex eventually because they pushed too hard when they weren't ready for it yet. Today I'm going to look WHY you may well be better of waiting ...
Dec 10, 2019•14 min•Season 6Ep. 12
Attraction is not a choice! This is a phrase you've probably heard around the place - Frequently on my Youtube comments, I'll have men decrying dating coaching as a scam activity because you can't negotiate with attraction. So is this dating mindset patently wrong? Is that what I believe? Is that what I tell myself to sleep well at night as a dating coach for over a decade? Oddly enough, I think there's a lot of truth to the basic notion - But today I want to talk about this concept and why ther...
Dec 03, 2019•14 min•Season 6Ep. 11
Why do women always seem to go for bad boys? Is this actually true? or is it just something people say without much proof? Well it's certainly true for many women - but like many things related to the psychology of sexual attraction, the truth is more complex and varied than the stereotypes imply In this video, I'm going to compare the stereotype of men liking trashy dumb women to the stereotype of women liking bad boys, and demonstrate why it's actually a sign of low self-esteem in both genders...
Nov 26, 2019•13 min•Season 6Ep. 10
Trying to get matches on Tinder can sure be frustrating, but rarely is it more frustrating when your matches suddenly drop to almost 0, and you have no idea why it happened. As it turns out, there is a very real tinder saturation problem - this is an issue that will affect all online dating apps, and could well be happening to you. So what can you do to fix the problem? If you've suddenly noticed your tinder matches crash?
Nov 19, 2019•10 min•Season 6Ep. 9
Trying to go out regularly picking up women in bars and clubs can be mentally draining - While you try to learn all these social skills, you are constantly facing a barrage of rejection, and you can quickly find yourself worn out and The truth is that what many men forget while trying to learn to attract women, the most important thing they should be doing is having fun. If you're not having fun with women, then they're not going to want to go on a date with you. I'm going to tell you my own sto...
Nov 14, 2019•14 min•Season 6Ep. 8
How can a man become more empowered? Many people confuse having power with being an empowered human being, and yet the two often don't occur at the same time. Women are turned on by empowered men, it's one of the top 5 traits women want to find in a man, but so often we walk around feeling dis-empowered because we focus so strongly on the things we don't have any control over.
Nov 11, 2019•15 min•Season 6Ep. 7
ith so many supposed studies out there about the science of attraction, many of which contradict each other, how do we find out which scientific dating research we can trust, and which we should ignore? Human sexuality is incredibly complex and diverse, and as it turns out humans are very prone to misinterpreting all kinds of data, but most significantly we misinterpret statistical data. Unfortunately, we are prone to a host of psychological biases which color how we view the dating world. In to...
Nov 07, 2019•20 min•Season 6Ep. 6
Are you getting frustrated with going on dates with women and they never seem to want to catch up a second time, and you're going crazy trying to work out why? Well thanks to some fantastic research from the only Psychologist to win a Nobel Prize - Daniel Kahneman, I'm going to show you a simple trick you need to be using to dramatically change how she feels about you after a first date. When you apply the Peak End rule to your date, you'll end up with far more second dates because women will ha...
Nov 04, 2019•10 min•Season 6Ep. 5
What's the secret to getting a perfect girlfriend? Are you struggling to find girls that you think are worth dating? Does it seem like the world is full of bad eggs? Have your past relationships taught you that women aren't all that they seem when the relationship starts? Perhaps you are just on the hunt for a great partner and came across this video. Today I want to talk to you about why most men have the completely wrong approach to finding an amazing partner, and this approach usually leads t...
Oct 31, 2019•13 min•Season 6Ep. 4
