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School Of Attraction Podcast

Damien Dieckeschoolofattraction.com

A place for men to learn about everything from approaching and attracting beautiful women, to men's personal development, the politics of sex and much much more. There's no topic Damien won't discuss as we dive down the rabbit hole of learned seduction and men's health. 

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Episodes

How To STOP Being a Nice Guy - Without Being An A-Hole

How can you STOP being a nice guy? Have you ever got the impression that women walk all over you because you're too nice? Do you constantly get thrown into the friend zone? Do you feel like even your mates are taking advantage of you? Does your long term partner lose sexual interest in you really quickly? Odds are, you could be suffering from nice guy syndrome, and Today I'm going to show give you a deep look into what lies at the core of your condition, and most importantly how to stop doing th...

Oct 28, 201913 minSeason 6Ep. 3

7 Dating Psychology Books You Must Read

In this video, I'm going to share with you 7 dating psychology books that weren't written by pick up artists that every man needs to read if he wants to become more successful with women. This list of books will help you develop a keen understanding of human psychology which you can learn to apply to attract more attractive women - The best part is that these books are written by real experts and not just guys who think they have the social skills required to get women....

Oct 24, 201910 minSeason 6Ep. 2

Tinder VS Cold Approach - How Approaching Women Change My Life

Which is better? Tinder and all it's online dating cousins? Or putting in the time to learn to cold approach women? Well as it turns out, learning to cold approach women during the day or night is about so much more than just having a life full of beautiful women. It's about embarking on a journey of self-improvement. So much of what you discover when you're learning to cold approach women in bars/clubs and on the street, are skills that you'll use in almost all aspects of your life, not just wh...

Oct 21, 201916 minSeason 6Ep. 1

Stop Picking Up Women - Start Having Fun With Them Instead

Trying to go out regularly picking up women in bars and clubs can be mentally draining - While you try to learn all these social skills, you are constantly facing a barrage of rejection, and you can quickly find yourself worn out and The truth is that what many men forget while trying to learn to attract women, the most important thing they should be doing is having fun. If you're not having fun with women, then they're not going to want to go on a date with you. I'm going to tell you my own sto...

Oct 17, 201914 minSeason 6Ep. 8

How Women Rate Attractiveness Differently To Men

Did you know that woman have a completely different way of rating a guy's attractiveness to the way men rate women? This difference is cause for a lot of confusion for guys wanting to learn how to attract women, and make a really good first impression. Once you understand how women go about assessing a man's attractiveness, then you can learn to make changes to the way women first perceive you and suddenly start being a whole lot more attractive to women.

Oct 17, 20199 minSeason 5Ep. 12

Develop This One Trait - And Women Will Gravitate To You

Did you know that more than having money, and more than being attractive, there's one trait that you absolutely MUST have to attract women? Did you know that even if you're a good looking guy with a decent job, that without this trait then women aren't going to want to date you? What is this trait? And how does it help men attract women? The trait is empowerment, and after giving dating advice to men for over a decade, it's one of the single sexiest qualities a man can have. The moment a man bec...

Oct 14, 201911 minSeason 5Ep. 11

Everything You Know About Female Sexual Selection Is Wrong

What do women want? What kind of men do women date? What kind of men do women sleep with? Are women supposed to be monogamous? Are women genetically meant to seek out men for safety? Many questions like this about female sexual selection are based on stories that we hear growing up, and then stories we hear online and from our friends. Very often, these stories are completely wrong - and lead us to try approaching women in ways that hurt our chances of success rather than help. Finding a woman t...

Oct 10, 201915 minSeason 5Ep. 10

The Tinder Arms Race - Why You Don't Get Matches

When Tinder launched in 2012, it was super-easy to get matches and dates. You simply got a small batch of decent photos, threw them into your Tinder profile, and started matching with women in your area. But in 2019, that has all changed - The sheer volume of Tinder users has created an arms-race of competition among men who have to find better and better profile shots for their online dating profiles in order to get women to pay them any attention.

Oct 07, 201915 minSeason 5Ep. 9

10 Psychological Tricks To Get A Girl To Like You

Today I'm going to share with you 10 scientifically proven ways to get a girl to like you using the power of human psychology. Be careful with this advice because they are subconsciously and subliminally powerful and need to be used responsibly. 1. Smell amazing 2. Use Smiling As A Reward 3. Tell Her A Secret About Yourself 4. Make Strong Eye Contact 5. Make Your Shoulder : Waist Ratio As Dramatic As Possible 6. Lower Your Voice 7. Pitch Your Questions Downwards 8. Tease Her Plenty 9. Use Your F...

Oct 03, 201916 minSeason 5Ep. 8

Why The Heck To Women Do this???

Have you ever had a woman do something that just leaves you exasperated thinking Why the heck to women do this?? Whether it's pretending to have a boyfriend rather than saying they aren't interested, taking forever to reply to text messages, cancelling dates at the last minute, Stealing your food instead of ordering their own, or pulling away from sex at the last minute. In this video I'm going to look at why these behaviors are so common, and most importantly what you can learn and what you can...

Sep 30, 201920 minSeason 5Ep. 7

Biggest Mistakes Guys Make On Tinder

Today I'm going to share with you some of the biggest mistakes guys regularly make on Tinder. Because trying to get matches, and text women, and get them out on dates can be difficult or downright impossible if you're doing these few things wrongly. In this podcast I'm going to look at the 3 topmost frustrating reasons guys don't get results on tinder. 1) Women don't respond to your first message 2) Women respond but the conversation always fizzles out and you can't get them out on a date. 3) Yo...

Sep 26, 201914 minSeason 5Ep. 6

How To Make Women Want You Sexually

Women feel sexually attracted to men who behave in very specific ways. When you're learning to pick up women because you want to get laid or because you're looking for a relationship, you're going to discover very quickly that if you have the wrong approach and the wrong dating mindset that women will easily friend-zone you. So today I'm going to discuss 5 strategies to make women want you sexually.

Sep 23, 201920 minSeason 5Ep. 5

How I Overcame Chronic Anxiety - 3 Powerful Strategies

When I was in my early 20s and late teens, I suffered with debilitating anxiety and was trapped in my parents house for months. Today I want share with you the strategies I used to overcome my anxiety. What worked? What didn't? I'm going to share my 3 top strategies for dealing with anxiety once and for all, whether it's social anxiety, or health anxiety, or any other kind you can imagine.

Sep 19, 201916 minSeason 5Ep. 4

Is Learning Pick Up Totally Wrong For You?

Are you getting increasingly frustrated with learning pickup? Are you starting to feel your self-esteem going downward rather than upwards because you're feeling like nothing you can do can get you any success with women? Are you feeling like maybe every dating coach and pick up artist out there is just feeding you lies? Perhaps right now is the wrong time to be thinking about girls completely - Perhaps most dating coaches don't realise that without a base level of social skills - trying to lear...

Sep 16, 201912 minSeason 5Ep. 3

Find Your Purpose And Women Will Be Drawn To You

One of the most important things every man needs in his life is a passion for the things that he does week to week. These passions lead a man to discover his purpose, the thing in life that makes him want to get out of bed in the morning and gives him resilience against life's ups and downs. When you're trying to learn how to attract women, it's usually more important to first spend time developing yourself as a man before you start learning how to talk to and flirt with women....

Sep 05, 201911 minSeason 5Ep. 2

Think Like a CEO – Date Like a Rockstar

What are the key skills that CEOs, top sales executives, and entrepreneurs have in common that men who want to learn to become more successful with women need to know? As it turns out, there's a lot we can learn from the corporate world about consistently improving our results in a highly competitive market.

Sep 01, 201955 minSeason 5Ep. 1

Why PUA Deception And Manipulation Will Hurt You Long Term

I first got involved in the Pick Up Artist community 15 years ago just after I read the book 'the game'. After a lot of initial excitement and some initial success, I realized that while I was talking ]to women, and I was getting some dates, and I was getting laid, I still wasn't feeling completely confident or happy. In this Podcast, I'm going to talk you through my pua journey and give you the dating advice for how to meet girls that I wish someone wouldn't have given me when I was on this jou...

Aug 29, 201914 minSeason 4Ep. 10

When She Doesn't Text Back - What To Do (And Why It Happens)

When a girl doesn't text you back, it can be extremely frustrating. Especially when she seemed happy to give you her number in the first place. There are a number of reasons why girls give out their numbers but then never end up going on dates with guys, and in this video, we're going to explore those reasons. We're also going to look at what you can do to ensure you don't get flakey behavior ever again and make women feel compelled to message you back almost every single time....

Aug 26, 201914 minSeason 4Ep. 9

5 Keys To Be Amazing In Bed - What Men Need To Know

5 Lessons about Sex that every man needs to know to be better in bed. Most men waste energy trying to learn a whole range of sex techniques so that women will be more satisfied. But the key to being amazing in bed and giving a woman mind-blowing sex is to understand that her most erogenous zone is her brain. If a man can tap into a woman's mind to make her feel extremely aroused during sex then she'll walk away feeling like she's had an incredible experience....

Aug 22, 201918 minSeason 4Ep. 8

Master The Art Of Witty Banter

Did you know that witty banter with women is rated as one of the sexiest traits a man can have? But how do you go about improving your ability to tease women, and keep interactions playful? More importantly, how do you go about doing that without accidentally insulting women, or come across as a dancing monkey or an outright tryhard?

Aug 19, 201959 minSeason 4Ep. 7

Interview With Mentor Royce (Asian Ex-Student)

I interview one of our ex-students Royce who talks about his experience learning pickup as an Asian student - some of the most important lessons he learned on his journey as well as some of his personal favorite experiences.

Aug 15, 201935 minSeason 4Ep. 6

Overcome Fear Of Failure - The Surprising Origins For Smart People

The fear of failure is one of the biggest impediments to truly becoming successful at anything. We all know that in order to succeed, then you need to repeatedly fail at things over and over again until you get really good at them. But knowing this fact, and actually LIVING this fact are very different. I want to talk about why the fear of failure and the belief that we are smart are intimately linked, along with the way we were raised and taught as children. Then I'm going to show you step-by-s...

Aug 12, 201917 minSeason 4Ep. 5

How To Compliment A Girl - Without Losing Her Respect

Did you know that there's a right way and a wrong way to compliment girls? The wrong way to compliment women will lose respect and cause her to want to get away from you. The right way will flatter her, and make her like you more (because of course, you have good judgment) A lot of guys think that complimenting women is wrong and that you should instead adopt a 'Keep her mean, keep her keen' mentality. But I'll also explain why this isn't the way you want to go about trying to pick up and attrac...

Aug 08, 201916 minSeason 4Ep. 4

These 12 Dating Resources Will Change Your Life

What at the 12 surprising ways any man can radically begin to improve his success with women? In today's podcast I'll be sharing the 12 resources I used to massively up my game which most dating coaches never tell you about

Aug 05, 201944 minSeason 4Ep. 3

How Does Life Change When You Become Successful With Women?

10 years ago, I was the most successful guy I knew when it came to attracting women - What did that journey look like? How has my life changed over the last 10 years as a result? I'm going to share with you some of the insights I gained about my life as a man, about attraction, about what I think many men are doing wrong on this journey. I'm also going to share some of the surprising benefits of embarking on a journey like this, that many men don't even realise lie waiting for them on this path....

Aug 01, 201916 minSeason 4Ep. 2

Damien Diecke & Steve Mayeda | The Men's Movement Begins

In this interview with Steve Mayeda, we're cover a ton of bases. Feminism, Male Empowerment and Liberation. The Myth of Male Power, and let me tell you, if you want a Men's Movement ... here it is!

Jul 29, 20191 hr 20 minSeason 4Ep. 1

Being Authentically Masculine

Listen to this hour-long seminar on the nature of masculinity in the 21st century. I'm going to be talking about what masculinity really is, and cover a whole range of ways that you can develop your own sense of masculinity and 'manliness' so that you become much more attractive for women.

Jul 25, 20191 hr 37 minSeason 3Ep. 10

Increase Your Social Intelligence - No Woman Will Be Out Of Your League

Stop approaching women out of your league and first start focussing on your social intelligence. So many guys who are just starting to learn to attract women get focussed on approaching women who are too far up the social hierarchy and wonder why they're failing so frequently. Social Intelligence is a trait that any guy can learn which will help him attract the hot girls he always wanted. But unfortunately learning this skill set takes time. Damien Diecke will show you exactly how you can increa...

Jul 22, 201913 minSeason 3Ep. 9

3 Big Mistakes Guys Make When Talking To Girls

When approaching women, guys there are 3 big mistakes most guys make that get them rejected, and they're really easy to fix. Whether you are running out of things to say, or you simply have no idea why she doesn't like you back, the reasons for getting rejected are really quite simple to fix. I've been coaching men for almost a decade now, and getting rejected every time they approach a girl they like is one of the most common causes for frustration. The good news is that once you understand wha...

Jul 18, 201911 minSeason 3Ep. 8

6 Biggest Mistakes Guys Make When Learning Attraction

When guys start working on being successful at attracting women, there are 6 common mistakes I see guys making over and over again. Most guys start the journey of learning how to talk to girls, but they quickly hit a wall where they stop getting any better and they burn out and quit. Today I'm going to discuss what these mistakes are so you can avoid them and learn how to better attract women.

Jul 15, 201916 minSeason 3Ep. 7
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