A few years ago, one of my clients managed to get Scarlett Johannson to give him a call on the phone - how did he do it? I'm going to talk with Brendan who is an ex-student who has gone on to live a colourful sex life including orgies, many casual sex relationships and more. What were the most important lessons he learned about becoming the kind of man women want to get down and dirty with?
Jul 09, 2019•25 min•Season 3Ep. 6
It's no secret that I believe strongly in fighting for men's rights, and that I think feminism usually takes political issues way too far, but I'm also not a fan at all of the Redpill and Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW) movement. All these ideologies act as big red flags to emotionally unstable people who have vendettas against the opposite gender. I'm going to talk about why I think all of these philosophies are hurting the world at present and what I think members of these parties need to do i...
Jul 04, 2019•23 min•Season 3Ep. 5
What do women want? What do women want in a man? What is a masculine man? What is a feminine woman? What is Masculine Sensitivity? These are questions which get asked a lot, and in this day and age, it can be a very tricky question for some to answer. In this Podcast, Damien Diecke and Diviya Nand discuss some of the powerful aspects to being the kind of man that women sit up and take notice of. Sexual polarity is getting forgotten in the modern world. Getting to the core of masculinity is what ...
Jul 02, 2019•55 min•Season 3Ep. 4
Throughout society men are being taught that learning to find a high quality partner isn't that important, and will just 'happen' naturally down the line. But increasingly, men are becoming frustrated with their dating lives because they don't know how to talk to women. We invest 100s of thousands in our career but never think to invest in learning to attract better women into our lives.
Jun 27, 2019•12 min•Season 3Ep. 3
No matter what kind of results you want to have with women, whether it's to find that one special woman for a fulfilling long term relationship, or just live the single life and sew some wild oats - There's no denying that our mindsets lie at the center of our success (or lack thereof!) So what are the mindsets that truly set apart the men who seem to always have such an easy time talking to and attracting beautiful women into their lives? How do they think differently from the average guy? Toda...
Jun 25, 2019•52 min•Season 3Ep. 2
Would you like to know how to consistently have more fun and more successful relationships? Would you like to know how to embrace your passions and purpose while still having a fantastic relationship with an amazing woman? Would you like to have relationships explained to you in great detail by one of the world's foremost relationship experts? Some of the topics covered include: - the importance of being open to meeting an amazing women - the importance of having a list of criteria for potential...
Jun 20, 2019•47 min•Season 3Ep. 1
Do you find yourself constantly falling into childish emotional states around women? Do you get jealous or insecure or generally controlling around women? Do you struggle with rejection and act out? These are all signs that you haven't learned to deal with your inner child appropriately. When women say they want a man and not a boy, what they really want is a man who knows how to manage his childish side. That's what women really want.
Jun 18, 2019•15 min•Season 2Ep. 9
So many times guys see cute girls and refuse to take any action because she's so hot that she must be out of his league. Correlating hot women with leagues is a terrible strategy that's going to guarantee you never have success with women. What you want to find a girlfriend, or just pick up a hot girl in a bar, you need to be aware that there is a league of sorts at play that's related to your social skills and your confidence levels. The great news is that you can learn to become more confident...
Jun 13, 2019•18 min•Season 2Ep. 8
Did you know that most men miss out on the most amazing sex of their lives? Did you know that the beliefs you have about casual sex can play a massive role in how eager women will be to go to bed with you? If you're struggling to get one night stands with girls, or you're never feeling fulfilled by your sexual experiences, then this could be the missing piece of the puzzle. I know it certainly was for me!
Jun 11, 2019•13 min•Season 2Ep. 7
Knowing how to get her interested in casual sex is a critical skill most guys struggle with. The reason the struggle so much is that they don't understand what's in it for the girl. When it comes to casual sex for women the truth is that it's NOT just about the sex. It's about a complex emotional journey that women want to go through before they will WANT no strings attached casual sex. So join Dee from http://solvingme.com/blog/ and Damien the School of Attraction host, for a great interview...
Jun 06, 2019•8 min•Season 2Ep. 6
Toxic Masculinity has really polarised a lot of people recently especially with the recent release of the Gillette ad campaign. I took the time to have a deeper look to see what was really going on in society that's causing so many women and some men to get upset at the modern notion of masculinity. What I discover is that there are some really valid problems that deserve attention but that the way the message is being delivered is causing a lot more damage than good. The gender debate is never ...
Jun 04, 2019•25 min•Season 2Ep. 5
Ever wondered how to tell if she's approachable? I'm going to share the red and greed flags so you know exactly what to look out for, especially when working out which girls to avoid. Knowing if a girl is available, and knowing how to tell if she wants to talk to you is a very important skill to learn. Most men have no idea and as a result, they have to face a lot more rejection and awkward silences than they would like. Once you know which girls are going to be friendly to you, then it's much e...
May 30, 2019•17 min•Season 2Ep. 4
There's a lot of negativity being shifted towards men in society right now but who's to blame? In this interview with Fascinating opinion-youtuber - Yogioabs, we're going to delve into the world of MGTOW, Feminism, Red-Pill, and Men's Rights. This is one of those times when I get to interview a man who I respect, but don't agree with all the time - It's a way to explore both sides of a very important debate that's happening right now.
May 28, 2019•41 min•Season 2Ep. 5
Over the last 2 weeks, I've read through the entire Rational Male book by Rollo Tomassi, to better understand the philosophy behind the red pill movement. It turns out there's plenty that I agree with, but there's also a lot that turns out to be teaching very unhealthy mindsets. Do I think men should be turning to the red pill philosophy to improve their lives? For many it would drastically improve their dating lives and their relationships - But I still think it's a flawed option. I'm going to ...
May 23, 2019•26 min•Season 2Ep. 4
In this talk, you’ll learn what it takes to be happy. Damien Diecke shows that “getting stuff” is the long and unstable way to happiness, and shares the direct, efficient and effective way to you achieving sustainable happiness that lasts. In this podcast, you’ll learn: - How pursuit, not pleasure is the key to your happiness. - What you can learn from the happiest people ever recorded. - The practical steps to happiness you can start to use today.
May 21, 2019•1 hr•Season 2Ep. 3
Few things can be more soul-destroying than going through an emotionally abusive relationship, and yet almost all men go through this at one point or another in their lives. But what's really important is how you learn to process the abuse you received during your relationship, and what kind of accountability you take for the role you played.
May 14, 2019•18 min•Season 2Ep. 11
Have you ever been caught in a neediness spiral? Where you can see yourself getting more and more needy with a girl, and she's getting more and more turned off by you, but the more turned off she is, the needier you become? We've all had it happen to us at least once - And most guides that teach us how to be less needy focus on controlling our behaviours in the moment. But in today's podcast, I want to show you how to become less clingy and needy around women by focusing instead on the root caus...
May 09, 2019•13 min•Season 1Ep. 10
I hear a lot of debate about whether online dating or cold approaching is a better way to meet women. Often times guys sit in one camp and hurl abuse at the other. But in truth, when it comes to meeting girls, both can be great strategies but they do have their own pros and cons. Sure you could invest time in both, but the truth is that you'll eventually need to invest your time in just one way of meeting women.
May 07, 2019•21 min•Season 1Ep. 9
I want to explore my personal evolving views of what is going on in the aftermath of the #METOO movement, especially the notion of affirmative consent which has a lot of men left scratching their heads. I've spent a lot of time talking to women trying to understand their take on the events and the general psychological environment of the movement and why it exploded so quickly and what it's fighting for. I've learned some pretty incredible facts about women's' experiences around men especially w...
May 02, 2019•14 min•Season 1Ep. 8
Let's first explore why women test men when they first meet them, to understand why women want to put us on the spot and make us feel uncomfortable. Then let's look at some of the most frequently asked 'shit tests' that men frequently receive, and how to bust through them in a way that leaves women liking us even more. Shit tests are a golden opportunity to demonstrate to a woman that we are the man they're looking for.
Apr 30, 2019•16 min•Season 1Ep. 7
2 Dating professionals discuss the good, the bad, and the ugly in their experiences with open relationships with their long term partners. Are open relationships the natural path for humans? Or is monogamy still the way to go? How do you bring up conversations about open relationships with your partner? How should you react if she brings up the idea of an open relationship with you?
Apr 25, 2019•59 min•Season 1Ep. 6
In this in-course training sound byte, Damien is going to show you step-by-step how to make the perfect approach when you see a woman you really want to talk do but have no idea what to do or say.
Apr 23, 2019•17 min•Season 1Ep. 5
Pick Up Artists have been around for a long time, trying to become more confident and successful with women. But there are many beliefs and mindsets that PUA's have that destroy their chances of getting true success. Become successful with women isn't just about lying and cheating and playing games with the minds of pretty women. Attracting girls shouldn't be about convincing to date you, it should be about becoming the kind of man she really wants to date. I'm going to share with you everything...
Apr 18, 2019•15 min•Season 1Ep. 4
What really constitutes good sex? Tantra Instructor and sex therapist Jacqueline Hellyer, shares some incredible insights on the world of sex and eroticism. So many men and women dream of being good in bed.. But what do women really want in bed? What do men want in bed? Is the path to making her orgasm simply following a set of steps? Or is it like an artwork, where every body is a different style of art to be understood and appreciated? This is one of the most interesting interviews that I've e...
Apr 16, 2019•49 min•Season 1Ep. 3
The age-old question of Men Vs Women - Who struggles the most with dating? Is there an unfair advantage at play? If I asked a man and a woman this question, both would likely be certain than they have it worse - But often that's because we can't see the other side of the gender debate. We are too caught up with our own dating pains and struggles. So do men have it worse than women when dating? Keep watching to find out!
Apr 11, 2019•16 min•Season 1Ep. 2
Discover the 4 emotional needs women need to have met in order to want to have casual sex, one night stands, or simply to have more sex with their boyfriend. Women don't want casual sex relationships for the same reason that men do, and very often women avoid having sex with guys not because they aren't interested in him, but because he isn't meeting her emotional needs. So if you're wondering how to start a casual sex relationship, or how to drastically improve your chances of finding a one nig...
Apr 09, 2019•12 min•Season 1Ep. 1