The good news and the tough news… The good news is it’s all up to you whether you go for that dream in your heart or not. It’s not dependent on any other person, place, or thing. The tough news is only you contain the power to believe you are worthy of being the star of your own life, and that power is often buried under layers of faulty programming, trauma, and negative experiences. The picture you have a garden that you can see from the kitchen window…right now it’s an eyesore, filled with wee...
Jun 06, 2022•55 min•Ep. 416
For years I believed God forgot about me. I felt like my prayers went unanswered to the point where I lost all faith and hope. I studied the Law of Attraction and manifestation for 8 years diligently and felt like nothing was happening outside of an occasional rock star parking spot, and some chance meetings. Often I would lie awake alone at night pleading “what am I missing here Universe, God, Angels, any one??” I never felt like I got a clear sign or answer. In fact, I gave up hope of even get...
Jun 01, 2022•19 min•Ep. 415
What you avoid WILL persist. It’s incredible how much effort, time, and money we humans will spend on avoiding discomfort. The scary thing is you probably aren’t aware it. I’ve had the privilege of coaching thousands of people intimately, and I started to notice a pattern with people who felt “stuck,” and like “nothing was working in their business.” The pattern is they were spending all of their energy trying to avoid the pain, the vulnerability, the awkwardness, the insecurity, and the fear of...
May 30, 2022•26 min•Ep. 414
It’s quite selfish actually. We are all given God-driven gifts, talents, unique traits, and ideas…they aren’t there for us to squander them. We have them because they are to be used in some way for the greater good of all. Maybe you are naturally nurturing and compassionate, plus have a talent for making people feel safe. There are so many career options that pair perfectly with these traits: Become a therapist, a coach, a nurse, a holistic guide, and a breathwork healer. Maybe you are great at ...
May 25, 2022•55 min•Ep. 413
The biggest misconception when it comes to manifesting… Most people think in order to be a master manifester you have to mentally and energetically live in an abundant state (AKA high vibe 24/7) otherwise it won’t work. If that was the case, my crazy over-thinking, complaining-loving ass would be broke. The Universe knows that you are a human being filled with emotions, hormones, faults, and fears. It is not expecting you to be something that is literally impossible. Not even the most skilled an...
May 23, 2022•19 min•Ep. 412
It’s never what you think it is. When we see people we know or admire that have something we deeply desire, our brains immediately come up with assumptions as to how they “got there,” “achieved that thing,” and have that life. New podcast listeners email and DM every week saying things like, “I assumed you had to work non-stop to be super successful and sacrifice your personal life, thank you for teaching me another way.” Or my favorite…my blunt communicators, “and here I thought you were that r...
May 18, 2022•34 min•Ep. 411
It’s so easy to slip into this because we are naturally wired to be on alert for potential harm. The cave-woman version of you had to make sure you or your babies weren’t going to be eaten by a savage animal in the middle of the night. My point is, that we are naturally wired to identify negative, scary, sketchy, worrisome, and dangerous people, places, and things FIRST. So there is no avoiding these thoughts. What we want to do manage is to stay stuck in them. Social media makes all of this 100...
May 16, 2022•39 min•Ep. 410
There’s always a catch. If you are a regular listener of my success and money podcast, you’ve heard me say this line on repeat. Whether we decide to take action or not….whether we say “yes” or “no,” there is a pay off and a trade off. This is why so many of us get stuck in over-thinking and over-analyzing, because it’s scary to make the “wrong” choice, and have to suffer the consequences. When you are starting, growing, and running a business….you have to constantly make tough decisions every we...
May 11, 2022•53 min•Ep. 409
People suck. That was going to be my entire post, but I thought that was a bit dark. You know those weeks where you feel like you’re getting whacked in every area of your life, and you literally can’t have one more thing go wrong…then it does?! I call those “Fu*k everything and everyone” moments. We don’t actually mean it, but we just want to be left alone with in pure silence, no responsibilities, and copious amounts of carbs for two days. Is that too much to ask Universe?!!!! As much as these ...
May 09, 2022•33 min•Ep. 408
You know what’s bullsh!t?? When people complain about not having the money, the friendships, the sex, the freedom, the body, and the life they want, but DON’T TAKE ANY real consistent action to get it. I’m callin’ my self out too, as I’ve done it. Saying, “I’m not happy”….. this or that “needs to change,” and then not anything because I’m scared or don’t want my life disrupted. Well Fu*k me sideways, staying in the unfulfilling and painful situation is already causing a life disruption, so we ma...
May 04, 2022•53 min•Ep. 407
2022 has brought up DEEP PAIN for me. We all go into a new year filled with hope, excitement, and intentions for great accomplishments. The part that we seem to forget every year is in order for our intentions to manifest, PAINFUL STUFF WILL OCCUR. Look back on anything major you’ve attracted into your life….none of these things happened without any detours, roadblocks, craziness, bumps, bruises, or even life-changing catastrophes. When we want to call in something or someone new into our lives,...
May 02, 2022•36 min•Ep. 406
This may be hard to hear but it has to be said. A basic coach and friend will tell you what you want to hear, a real coach and friend will tell you what you need to hear, and risk pissing you TF off. You’ve been half-assing your business while convincing yourself that you’re really workin’ it. Just because your busy doesn’t mean you’re getting down to business. My brain can be crazy manipulative, convincing me that I’m too tired, that I need to wait, that the circumstances aren’t right, that I’l...
Apr 27, 2022•1 hr 10 min•Ep. 405
Consistent little moves are what build big dreams. Your mind will try to convince you that if you can’t do it all right now then you have to wait “until…” Until you have more time Until you have more energy Until you know exactly what you’re doing Until you things at work slow down Until you get that certification Until your kids are older These are all just excuses your ego is doing a fantastic job of convincing you of because underneath all of that mental gymnastics, you are scared of the unkn...
Apr 25, 2022•33 min•Ep. 404
The reason you’re stuck in a slump isn’t what you think it is. If you’re feeling uninspired lately, and you can’t seem to get your engine going, let alone your brain….you probably think you have “motivation” problem, but what you really have is an off balance energy system. All the coffee, exercise, and dance music in the world won’t fix this energy leak that likely has been going on for months, even years (that was the case for me). My fellow over-givers, empaths, and heart-based entrepreneurs ...
Apr 20, 2022•28 min•Ep. 403
A lesson for my fellow feelers, healers and highly-sensitives: You will encounter many people who are so shut down emotionally that your loving and expressive spirit is too much for them. These people may even tell you that you are “too sensitive,” “too much,” “so emotional,” or “overly expressive.” I’ve been called all of these things many times by the people I love, so much that I believed this was a major inherit flaw of mine. Just because someone says or feels that you are too much, doesn’t ...
Apr 18, 2022•55 min•Ep. 402
The amount of time we waste obsessing and caring about stupid stuff is a crime. Every time we give our time, attention, and energy to people, situations, and things that either don’t deserve it or are completely out of our control, we rob ourselves of the beautiful life we desire. It would be fair for me to say that I’ve given away YEARS of my precious life with over-thinking, over-analyzing, and trying to control stuff that is completely out of my hands. Time is one thing we can’t get back no m...
Apr 13, 2022•25 min•Ep. 401
You’re in need of a perspective change. I said this to at least 9 clients in the last six weeks. When we are afraid of taking a risk, failing, succeeding, looking stupid, upsetting friends and family….our ego’s come up with these assumptions that sound like facts. “Tiff I really want to start a podcast, but I know I’m so late the game and there are already millions of podcasts out there, and it would take a miracle for some unknown person like me to standout.” I thought the same exact thing, eig...
Apr 11, 2022•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 400
WARNING! Heavy dose of real Tiff talk comin’ in hot. What I’m about to say to you may feel harsh, but it’s something that changed my life and allowed me to get to the 7-figure a year marker in both of my businesses. Integrity is when your actions match your words. There is nothing that will ruin trust more than continued broken promises, right? They say they “promise they will do better.” They say they “won’t let it happen again.” They say they “will absolutely get ____ done.” Then we believe th...
Apr 04, 2022•47 min•Ep. 399
This word makes me lose my mind! It’s the ULTIMATE abundance-blocker. Incredible how these 3 little letters can change the trajectory of your entire life. T-R-Y Guaranteed, you have heard your partner say it, your kids, employees, family members, and yet part of you is still operating parts of your life under the “I’ll try” method. When my long-time private Spiritual Mentor Tony gave me the task to put a check mark on a Post-It every time I thought or said “try” for two weeks….I thought, “well I...
Mar 30, 2022•31 min•Ep. 398
It’s a full time job believing in ourselves. Managing our monkey minds and the 6-12 thousand thoughts we have in a day is exhausting sometimes, but the price you will pay if you don’t do the daily work is HUGE. Of those thousands of thoughts, on average 80% of them are negative, and 95% of those are repetitive negative thoughts. (Source: The TLX institute®) Well f*ck no wonder I was walking around like a whacked out zombie most of my life. First of all, don’t beat yourself up for being so negati...
Mar 28, 2022•24 min•Ep. 397
Don’t be fooled by this nonsense. Thinking you have to do all the things and be on all the socials for this to work. Thinking you aren’t organized enough or motivated enough to build a successful business. Thinking that once you have “CLARITY” on what you need to do first and the next steps, then you will take action. Thinking that you need to be something other than who you are to make major cash and impact online. (ie. a type A over-achiever, an extrovert, well-connected, super confident, well...
Mar 23, 2022•33 min•Ep. 396
We always see and hear what we need to at just the right time. This year, the year that includes my angel numbers “22,” was supposed to be my magical year… My ego is pissed off about it, feeling gypped, like “you teach this manifestation stuff Tiffany, yet your year looks insanely intense so far.” (Said in nasty bitchy 70 year old smokers voice) These empath spidey senses of mine tell me that you’re also not exactly thrilled with how your 2022 is unfolding so far. You’ve even been beating yourse...
Mar 21, 2022•29 min•Ep. 395
You get to really see who someone is when they are at their lowest. It’s easy to believe in yourself and have hope when all is working in your favor. But when you get hit with blow after blow, and are knocked down, you have dig really damn deep to find a sliver of hope. Some of you are feeling knocked down right now, and some of you are riding high. In a matter of an hour these feelings can drastically shift. This is why you always hear me say, “if you want success, you have to show up regardles...
Mar 16, 2022•31 min•Ep. 384
The amount of time we waste doing this is pure insanity. If over-thinking and over-analyzing burned calories, I would be a famous bikini cover model…who feels me on this?? I spent TEN YEARS day-dreaming, analyzing, wishing, hoping, and obsessing over starting ProjectME with Tiffany Carter the brand and the podcast…..if I spent on average even 15 minutes a day thinking about what I wanted to do and have, that would be equal to 54,750 minutes or 2,281 DAYS!!!!! Imagine if even a quarter of that ti...
Mar 14, 2022•41 min•Ep. 393
“What results can you guarantee?” Another one of my favorite questions to answer… My clients who asked me this during an application call or in my DMs before they decided to work with me now laugh when people ask them the same ridiculous question. When it comes to business and life in general, there are very few guarantees. Believe me, as someone who is highly motivated by remaining safe and secure at all times, I would love nothing more than to have a daily guarantee that all of my hard work, t...
Mar 09, 2022•30 min•Ep. 392
The Syndrome that is keeping you STUCK. It’s not entirely your fault, so please give yourself some grace around this blind spot I’m about to share with you… You want to get consistent clients and cash online, and see real life-changing growth in your business like NOW except… It feels like you are taking in so much information, have “tried” so many things, and nothing is really converting aside from Coach Sara trying to sell you her shiz in your DM’s. Then you start doubting your dreams, yoursel...
Mar 07, 2022•34 min•Ep. 391
Doing the “right” thing is based on bullsh*t. I’m not talking about integrity, ethics, or human decency here…I’m taking about what we’ve been programmed to believe is the “right” the “smart” the “safe” life path. Get good grades, go to college, get a job in Corporate America and keep climbing that ladder...the American Dream. With the silent, unwritten promise of “if you do, you will have a great life and be financially solid.” SAYS WHO?!! Since when does a one-size fits all approach work for an...
Mar 02, 2022•19 min•Ep. 390
Pure craziness… This was repeated at least 27 times a day in the last three weeks. You know how you watch highly successful people online, and it seems like everything comes so easily and effortlessly for them? Meanwhile you are over here hanging on by a thread of sanity… This is something that made me feel like crap when I was thinking about starting a ProjectME with Tiffany Carter. Here I already had a multi-million dollar business, so I wasn’t new to the wildness of entrepreneurship…but this ...
Feb 28, 2022•29 min•Ep. 389
IF I had to start all over from scratch > Here’s what I would for sure do… It took me TEN YEARS to start this dream business and podcast. I got so stuck in fear, comparisonitis, analysis paralysis, not knowing where to even start and then getting overwhelmed and doing nothing. Time goes by fast, and before I knew it, one year of procrastinating on my dream turned into 3 then 5, then TEN!!! Then my excuses changed to, well “maybe I’m too late in the game, now there are so many people doing it....
Feb 23, 2022•34 min•Ep. 388
For the first 6 months of the year, she made NOTHING and was ready to give up. Pouring dozens of hours into posting content, creating freebies, sending emails, painstakingly editing Reels, buying courses, even joining high-ticket group coaching programs…. Still 6 months later, NOT ONE DANG DOLLAR to show for all of that work. While mindlessly scrolling to escape her feelings of defeat and frustration, she came across one of my videos…and something told her “that she had to reach out to this woma...
Feb 21, 2022•32 min•Ep. 387
