There’s nothing that turns me off more than when someone does this… When anyone tells me they’re going to do something or stop doing something, making major promises, and then NOTHING ever happens, as though it was never discussed in the first place. I call this “Promise Ghosting,” many psychologists would call it gaslighting. Even if someone made a promise and chose not to follow through (as it is a choice), but at least owned it by acknowledging it and then following through…I can work with th...
Feb 16, 2022•30 min•Ep. 386
True story… so embarrassing. It’s incredible how our beliefs directly impact our lives, even when those beliefs aren’t even true! One of my core limiting beliefs that I picked up from observing my mom running her company daily for decades, is in order to be successful you have to sacrifice pleasure, quality down time, and your sanity. Because of this deeply ingrained belief, I made everything 100 times harder on my self when starting my business. I really thought the harder I worked the more mon...
Feb 14, 2022•33 min•Ep. 385
This is going to piss the “Instagram Gurus” off, but most of them are full of hype. If I see one more dang Instagram Reel telling people to post one reel a day, two feed posts, 12 stories, plus go live every day, in order to grow your following and business….I’m going to lose my mind! Posting just to post is not a profitable strategy to scale your business using any social media platform. The magic formula I use and teach to hundreds of thousands of people, which I’ve tested on repeat for the la...
Feb 09, 2022•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 384
Hard truths you need to hear if your goal is to have a 6, 7, or 8 figure business. Please know, everything I say to you is because I actually give a crap and I want you to succeed, whether you’re paying me or not. Most coaches, teachers, friends, family, and mentors won’t tell you the HARSH TRUTH because they don’t want you to get upset with them, they don’t want to burst your bubble, or they simply don’t care enough to have these uncomfortable conversations. But I’m willing to risk you hating m...
Feb 07, 2022•32 min•Ep. 383
Your desire for wanting more isn’t greed or selfishness; it’s a desire to live your most fulfilling life. Which by the way is your birthright. You don’t need to be MORE of anything to be worthy of having the best and getting it. This is wisdom that took me MAAAANY years to finally understand then MAAAAANY more to believe and embody. One of my Divinely Driven missions is to help you honor, own, and live your Most Exceptional life! (That’s what the ME stands for in ProjectME by the way.) Do you fi...
Feb 02, 2022•57 min•Ep. 382
Nothing messes up my mojo more than when I do this… When we want something to work so badly we can taste it, and yet nothing feels likes it’s working in our favor, week after week after week, our energy spirals into Stucktown, USA. I spent a solid 18 months in this town, and the longer I stayed the further away my dreams felt. Then I would scroll or meet someone who had a similar business to me, who was “crushing it,” and I would be so jealous and judgey of them…also not a pretty energy to live ...
Jan 31, 2022•38 min•Ep. 381
Is TikTok truly a good fit for you and your business? Ever since the platform launched, I’ve asked my self this question at least 100 times. Last thing I have the time and energy for is to spend more time creating content, unless I know for sure it’s going to pay off BIG TIME (and I love creating content, but this isn’t a hobby over here). You know I’ll always give it to you straight and tell you what the catch is….cuz there’s always a catch to everything. Truly this advice applies to any platfo...
Jan 26, 2022•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 380
You really don’t need to learn more, you need to do more with what you’ve learned. But your brain will try to convince you otherwise…because it is safer to be the student than is it to be an executor. If you want to make that lifestyle changing cash before the seasons change again…then we’ve gotta get you DOing babe. You will NEVER know enough or be skilled enough to remove the fear, vulnerability, and anxiety of doing the damn thing. How did I end up with a MAJOR top rated worldwide podcast? By...
Jan 24, 2022•33 min•Ep. 379
“You’re crazy if you think this will work, this was a huge mistake.” As I was sitting in the Southern California sun this past Sunday, enjoying an overpriced kale-avocado wrap at a cute cafe, my brain should have been blissfully happy…instead it was LOUD and NASTY. This inner bully of mine gets so intense when I’m going after new and bigger things, I start thinking I’m schizophrenic. The voice is my head is so loud and clear…then my higher self starts talking back to it (as I’ve trained it to do...
Jan 19, 2022•34 min•Ep. 378
You’re being a control freak and may not even realize it. When my longtime Manifestation Guide said to this to me, I was SHOOK….“You don’t think you’re God do you?” Me: “ummmmm no of course not.” Tony: “Your behavior says otherwise.” (all said is a calm beautiful Lebanese accent) This conversation occurred after I came to him in a dramatic crisis probably for the 13th time that nothing was working in my business, and I’ll have to go back to Corporate Life if clients don’t come in soon. You see, ...
Jan 17, 2022•37 min•Ep. 377
Looking for the fast and easy way will leave you frustrated and broke. When I started my first business 14 years ago, of course my ego wanted the get the clients fast, the money fast, the success fast…all this did was cause me a crap ton of anxiety, pressure, and frustration…which ultimately delayed my success by YEARS!!! When we don’t keep our egos in check and allow them to be in the drivers seat, we end up making desperate decisions, then become completely unhinged and unfocused. This insanit...
Jan 12, 2022•35 min•Ep. 376
Starting fresh is impossible if your old behaviors don’t change. There are so many platitudes this time of year that give me a rash. I used to buy into them, until I finally realized they are denial doctored up in catchy phrases. “New Year New You” “This will be MY YEAR to ______” “New beginnings require a fresh start.” We are never starting over or starting fresh. We are simply moving forward in a divinely planned progression of lessons. Once those lessons are mastered, new people, places, and ...
Jan 10, 2022•33 min•Ep. 375
It sounds crazy but this is a true story… In order to have the kind of wealth and lifestyle that I enjoy today, I had to lose 2.5 million dollars. I got scammed out of most of my life savings when I was 30. I had an employee steal from me for a full year before I realized it, and never could recover a penny. I hired a couple of bogus con high-ticket coaches who were a waste. I wasted countless hours and years of my time that I can never get back, by being stubborn, cheap, and fearful >>>...
Jan 05, 2022•31 min•Ep. 374
To have great success you must let go of the old you. This is one of a few things I wish someone taught me earlier in life. The person who got you to this point in your life today, can not and will not be the same person to take you to the next level in your story. If you stay clinging onto to your old stuff with little to no willingness to let everything you know go…the climb to the top is going to be damn rough…in fact, pretty damn impossible. The Tiffany who went from 17K a year to 100K a yea...
Jan 03, 2022•35 min•Ep. 373
My Annual New Year’s Eve Manifestation Ritual: People have intense feelings around New Year’s. Some people are obsessed with this celebration of time, and others find it to be filled with pressure and even triggering. I chose to look at it as an excuse to realign my energy for the abundance I want to be attracting into my life today. No need to look at it like you are setting your 2022 goals, or your intentions…look at it as a fun way to get into the “Abundance Zone” just for today, for this min...
Dec 29, 2021•39 min•Ep. 372
The greatest act of neglect is to settle for less. Many of us where taught in childhood to “suck it up,” and to “just be happy you have a roof over your head.” This creates a sense of shame for wanting anything more than the bare basics, because after all there are starving children in Africa (who heard that one growing up?). My childhood on the outside looked pretty damn privileged, and in many ways it was. I had the private piano lessons, dances classes, a nanny, and got a brand new car when I...
Dec 27, 2021•44 min•Ep. 371
If writers block is preventing you from posting…keep reading. You are never at a loss for words when you speak to your bestie are you? If fact, you could probably talk to her or him non-stop for hours. I want you to start seeing your ideal client as a best friend of yours, but in order to truly embody that feeling, you have to build a deep relationship with them first. The reason why I am NEVER at a loss for what to share, say, write, or create for you guys is because I make it my priority and p...
Dec 22, 2021•38 min•Ep. 370
Right after I became a Millionaire, I lost almost EVERYTHING I had saved in 3 months. I had a goal that I wanted to have a million dollars in the bank by the time I was 30 years old. Now, I didn’t quite know how I was going to achieve it, given I was working my corporate career at the time…but I was determined to make it happen. When the “Old Tiffany” (as I refer to her), said that, it meant I would work my self to the bone if that’s what it took to achieve a goal. Based on what I was taught in ...
Dec 20, 2021•30 min•Ep. 369
Doing things without any intention is like taking a road drip with zero destinations. It’s so funny how we show up differently for other people’s goals than our own. If your kid or a friend’s kid said they really wanted to make the basketball team, guaranteed you would kick into ‘plan of action’ mode and map out the next necessary steps to make that a reality for them. If you didn’t know boo about sports, you would ask people, go to Google town, post about it on social, talk to the basketball co...
Dec 15, 2021•46 min•Ep. 368
Posting and feeling like no one is watching or reading, gets old real quick. Then inevitability you end up in a scroll hole, seeing dozens of other people in your same niche going viral on repeat, leaving you second-guessing yourself and feeling more defeated than ever. I’ve been in that spot too, but there is nothing productive that comes out of focusing on what we don’t have, and what everyone else seems to have. When my views or engagement is down (which it was crazy low two weeks ago), I alw...
Dec 13, 2021•34 min•Ep. 367
You only see what people want you to see. Quite frankly all of us do it…we could of had a major fight with our partner, and run into someone at the grocery story…they ask us how we are doing and we say, “oh I’m doing great thank you.” Meanwhile the truth is that your entire life feels like it’s crumbling. It’s no different on social media, it’s just easier for people to lie or highlight only the pretty parts of their world. The basic boss babe who makes it look like all she does is travel in 5 s...
Dec 08, 2021•32 min•Ep. 366
Stop using overwhelm as a permission slip to do nothing. I know this sounds harsh, but in order to wake you up from subconscious limiting patterns that are getting in the way of you having the life and cash you crave, hard things must be said. It all seems like too much, you don’t know even where to begin, you feel your brain has 1000 tabs opens on a run down operating system….I’m not trying to say you don’t feel this way, what I’m trying to tell you is this way of looking at things IS NOT WORKI...
Dec 06, 2021•29 min•Ep. 365
Stop putting all of your eggs in one basket with your marketing strategy. You wouldn’t invest all of your savings into one stock, so why would you pour all of your time and energy into social media platforms that you have ZERO control over? I know….you have limited time and energy, so the thought of focusing on another lead generator for your business is enough to make you say “SCREW IT ALL!” In running two million dollar businesses, plus my passion for luxuriating, I don’t do anything that does...
Dec 01, 2021•53 min•Ep. 364
If you don’t you this, you will never make it to you goal! As someone who was raised in a very controlling and abusive environment, I was taught from an infant to rely on other people to determine my worth, my value, and my capabilities. As I messily navigated my teen and adult life, I would turn my self inside out at my internships and jobs in order to get the accolades, the awards, and the promotions…..when I got them I was on MAJOR HIGH, and when I didn’t I was left with suicidal thoughts. Th...
Nov 29, 2021•34 min•Ep. 363
My guess is you wouldn’t dread creating content if it was making you 50-120K a month would you? In fact, if you knew the key to getting a crap ton of clients excited to buy your high-ticket offers was learning how to create highly profitable content….you would hand over your credit card, sign up, and show up with bells on. No it isn’t as simple as writing a post a day, and droves of people magically appear in your DMs, but it is an imperative skill if you want to generate consistent clients and ...
Nov 24, 2021•28 min•Ep. 362
We are being attacked by thongs, side boobs, and now “vag cleavage.” It breaks my heart when I see women acting thirsty on social media, falling for the good ole’ “sex sells.” Without a doubt, if I showed more skin on Instagram, and had more sultry seductive photos, I would have at least 30% more followers and views…but what at what cost? These types of followers and engagement don’t get you more money; these aren’t the people who are going buy your high-ticket programs or invite you to be on th...
Nov 22, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 361
You’ve already told yourself this one haven’t you??? None of us do New Year’s resolutions anymore, which was so 2007. Instead we set intentions, which is really the same thing in disguise. This is the time of year that I refer to as the “November Crazies.” It’s when the overwhelm and reality sets in that you haven’t achieved all that you had hoped to this year, combined with it being holiday-time, and all you really want to do is bury your head into Hallmark Christmas movies, wine, blankets, and...
Nov 17, 2021•35 min•Ep. 360
It felt like gut punch and humiliation rolled into one! “Your audience size doesn’t meet our requirements, so we will have to politely decline your request to have her on your show.” I’ve received a version of this response at least 8 times since starting my podcast. At first, I was pissed and offended. Like you are telling me that my show and social media audience isn’t worth your time for you to get free publicity for your business on my fantastic show?!!! Then it quickly turned into shame. “W...
Nov 15, 2021•31 min•Ep. 359
At least 10% of your email list should convert into cash. “But Tiffany I only have 50 people on my email list!” That’s great!!!! So, at least 5 of those people will be buying from you using my proven strategy. It’s amazing how much time, energy, and effort most people put into growing their social media audiences, ONE FLIPPIN’ PERSON AT A TIME, when only 3% of your total social audience will convert to buying from you, versus the 10% conversion rate of your email list. If you didn’t realize that...
Nov 10, 2021•36 min•Ep. 358
The biggest bitch I’ve ever met…true story. “You have no idea what you’re doing, you’re a total fraud!” “Who do you think you are that people will pay you that much?!” “If you really cared about people, you would help them for free!” Seriously if someone said this to you or your best friend while walking down the street, what you would say back? Listen, I’ve met my share of haters, but there is no bigger bitch than the nasty bully inside my own brain. Anytime I’m manifesting a new level of wealt...
Nov 08, 2021•35 min•Ep. 357
