Where the sexual and spiritual come together. Sex and relationship coach and vaginal weight lifter Kim Anami gives you the sex education and orgasms you never had. www.kimanami.com
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Dating humans is so passé. Date gods instead. If you want an Anami-style injection into your love—and especially dating life—this episode is for you: 10 rules for dating Anami-style to become a dating god. Stake your claim. Choose. Plant that flag. The best pickup line I’ve ever heard Filler and fluffer dating vs. finding “the one” When to text, call or get on a plane Meeting people in the wild How much to talk about your exes during dating. Or ever. Shoot your motherfucking shot Finding gods in...
Apparently, there’s a new term for “not giving a shit” as a seduction strategy: Being “nonchalant.” “I don’t care if you like me. Maybe I like you, maybe I don’t. I’m here. Sorta. But…I could be anywhere else, with anyone else, doing anything else.” Wow. What a turn on. Be still, my beating heart. *Woman faints from all the emotions this stirs in her* In this episode: Normalize love bombing The Neil Strauss and Dan Bilzerian “school of dating” for cowards and retards Indifference as a seduction ...
It's always their fault. Everyone’s got a narcissist story these days. IT’S ALWAYS THE FAULT OF THE NARCISSIST! Someone said to me a few years ago that a narcissist is essentially someone who hasn’t healed their trauma. And they aren’t interested in healing it. But what if this isn’t about how evil and awful the narcissist is? What if it’s about you and the 8000 red flags and signs you ignored, telling you this wasn’t right? In fact, that’s the only thing it’s about: How you chose wrong and how ...
In a conscious, Anami-style relationship, the only acceptable answer to any invitation from your partner is: F*CK YES!!! Would you like to learn how to have better sex? F*ck yes! Do you want life-changing G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms? F*ck yes! Would you like to be able to become a multi-orgasmic man, fuck for three hours straight and learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation? F*ck yes! Most relationships are held together by their collective—and TACIT—that is, unspoken—agreement to st...
In today’s episode we interview a couple who have had the most dramatic—and fastest—turnaround I’ve ever seen. They were in a *beyond* sexless marriage. They were intimate 2 or 3 times— a year. In the span of a few hours they did a massive 180 and they’ve been full speed ahead ever since. It’s never too late. If it’s possible for them, it’s possible for you too. In this episode we’ll talk about the two most important things they did . Also: The power of “all in” Sex 2-3 times a year for over a d...
As in, our genitals are oracles. When they speak, they reveal our innermost truths. We can have conversations with our own genitals. What’s even more fun, is having them with our partner’s genitals. In today’s episode I speak with Well-F**ked All Stars and Coming Together Alumni Carla and Pracarsh about their relationships with each other’s cock and pussy: How they grow and shift and change, depending on how much they open and how well they are loved. And when asked, what they have to say. In th...
One of my absolute most favourite concepts in ALL of my work is the idea of: Fuck them until you change them. Our sex acts have the power to transform us. But only when they hit a certain level of Anami gourmet-style sex. The big barometric question I always ask people about their sex lives, and the way you can tell whether you’re having Anami-style gourmet sex or plebeian junk-food sex, is: Does sex change your life? Do you feel energized, rejuvenated, euphoric, healed, transformed and like you...
A few weeks ago I put up an Instagram post comparing the male models of the 90s to male models in 2025. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DU_J5P8EVHN/?igsh=dDU0Y2xjbW1qNmY1 It went mega-viral. Putting them side-by-side made the differences SO much more dramatic. Juxtaposing these legendary men with imposing jawlines and ravishing bone structure with the mincing, fairy-like, pre-pubescent unf**kable boy-children. What happened? Where did all the testosterone go? In this episode: The old Rat Pack vs....
Hell hath no fury like a woman underf**ked. When you have an underf**ked woman on your hands, you’ll know it. Because she’ll MAKE you know it. It will be loud and clear. Her underf**ked behavior is a cry for help. A cry, which distinctly says “F**K ME.” Men THIS is your job. THIS is your raison d’être. So… how do you f**k her? Do her moods merit different techniques? Indeed they do. I’ve got you. In this episode: Signs your woman is underf**ked Which orifice and when? Sex is medicine. Oral is me...
Being a well-f**ked couple isn’t all fun and games, you know. There are some serious issues that come to pass, and I’m here to help you through them. In this episode: The 5 biggest well-f**ked couple problems Navigating life and hotel rooms with a prolific squirter Which private island to have your sex weeks at What to do when people keep throwing cash at you Dumping your underf**ked friends: it’s okay. You’ll find new, well-f**ked ones in Anami Land Setting and keeping the bar high: your moral ...
Someone alerted the “All women need HRT!” community that I put up an apparently oh-so controversial post: That I don’t take HRT. They came RUNNING. A gang of underf**ked orcs, rabid, foaming at the mouth, grunting and panting, clambering over the hills and mountains to arrive at my page and tell me HOW DANGEROUS IT WAS THAT I WASN’T TAKING HRT AND I WAS SO LUCKY THAT I DIDN’T HAVE SYMPTOMS AND JUST WAIT UNTIL MY VAGINA FALLS OFF. In true Anami-style, I took down each of these underf**ked orcs on...
Listening to the wisdom of the body and healing thyself is the ultimate flex. Not your peptide and supplement stack. In an era of every biohacker selling their supplements and peptide stack, every integrative and regular physician flogging their HRT and TRT, I’m not even remotely interested in their offerings. What’s always fascinated me, is the idea that I can source this healing power from within. Taking a pill or a drug? Not a flex, in my world. It’s the opposite—dependency and a cop-out. The...
My vagina does amaaaaaazing things. Sometimes people see me doing phantasmagorical things like: Dead hangs ab exercises, whilst also lifting 11lb. With my vagina Lifting pieces green coconuts, bunches of mangos and Venetian chandeliers. With my vagina. Of course, we want women to realize that the BASELINE is not peeing their pants and vaginas falling onto the floor—yes, vaginal “prolapse” effects 50% of women after childbirth—but that the BASELINE for ALL vaginas, everywhere is to: Shoot ping po...
For 50 years, Sonja hadn't enjoyed sex. She didn't get what the big deal was. But she was hopeful there was one. She took Vaginal Kung Fu and within weeks had an avalanche of orgasms: G-Spot, squirting, cervical, anal, nipple and full-body. Making up for lost time. She proves The Anami Guarantee that EVERYONE CAN. At any age and every stage. In this episode: Waking up and de-numbing the vagina Sexually dead after menopause? Bullshit. Just getting started. What if his cock doesn’t reach my cervix...
I often say that my vagina created my life. I've learned how to tap into the power of my sexual, pro-creative energy and use that to “birth” my life and projects with. And so can you. In this episode: The fastest way to achieve creative genius What it really means and looks like to “magnetize with feminine energy” Using your vagina and sexual flow to manifest in your life “My vagina is my doctor and business advisor” How to do Anami salons as a solo person. People always ask if they need a partn...
Look ma! No hormones! These kinds of stories are my favorite. The ones that showcase the direct impact that being well-fucked, awakening your vagina and activating your sexual energy has on your life. Milena had PCOS and was experiencing “peri-menopause” symptoms in her 30s. She was, of course, bombarded with the allopathic narrative of “There is no cure for you. All you can do is learn to manage your symptoms with drugs. Forever.” No thanks. I’ll pass on the snake oil. She found my work, and da...
We need love too! It’s really hard being in this category. Seriously, it is. A lot of hard work. Like, every day. Hours spent surfing, swimming, going to the gym, running, fucking, doing inner emotional processing, clearing blocks and having orgasms. Being a visible minority like this is tough, but there are a lot of benefits. I'l tell you all about it in the episode: Being fit and well-f**ked as the ultimate status symbols Where did all the “fat acceptance” people go? My primary love languages—...
Study bros, hormone hoes and biohacking bitches vs. my orgasms. “OH LOOK A NEW STUDY CAME OUT AND NOW HRT IS REALLY ACTUALLY SAFE!” “Look at my peptide stack!” “I need all these machines and tests to tell me what’s happening in my own body” “I give my blood away in an ancient ritual every month to a stranger to be DNA and data-farmed and I call it empowerment!” Not even remotely interested. I f**k and heal myself instead. In this episode: Is “biohacking” just…taking drugs? Are all the “study bro...
This episode provocatively questions the popular notion of "safety" in relationships, proposing that true love is inherently risky and requires deep vulnerability. Kim Anami illustrates how intense, raw sexual and emotional connection, rather than safety, acts as a powerful medicine for the soul, drawing on literary insights and personal experiences. She argues that embracing courage and mutual surrender leads to transformative growth, while prioritizing safety often results in stagnation and unfulfilled desires.
Is heart-fluttering chemistry necessary or is it "toxic"? Lately, I’ve heard some people say that chemistry is DANGEROUS! TOXIC! Run away! Red flag! Ridiculous. Tell me you’ve never had life-changing sex before without telling me. Chemistry is the reaction. The friction, the spark. You need it in order to create any kind of growth. “Meh” isn’t chemistry and “meh” isn’t going to change your life. In today’s episode: What is chemistry? Why it’s essential in every important relationship in your lif...
In this episode, Kim Anami challenges conventional dating, explaining her philosophy of immediate, intense, and intuitive connections that negate the need for "talking stages." She critiques modern dating's reliance on algorithms and superficiality, advocating for a "Shakespearean" approach to love defined by courage, radical honesty, and bold declarations. Anami reinforces her stance with personal anecdotes and real-life examples of couples who embraced profound connections from the start, urging listeners to pursue "big love" and eschew manipulative games.
“Be ready at 8. I’ll pick you up. Wear a cocktail dress.” Is music to a woman’s ears. And her vagina. IT NEVER GETS OLD. Be a man with a plan. Take the lead. Initiate. Be bold. You can—and ought to—do this throughout your relationship. This applies to early stages all the way through 30 years of marriage. Be the man so that she doesn’t have to be. I’m speaking with Well-F**ked All Star Jim in today’s episode: Orgasm without ejaculation and sexual mastery earns your woman’s respect One of the mos...
In this episode, Prakash recounts his profound journey of sexual and personal transformation, beginning with healing his circumcision trauma through his wife's love and the practice of conscious self-pleasuring. He explains how his cock became a sentient guide, reflecting his life's alignment and even growing physically. The discussion delves into the power of polarity, non-verbal genital communication, and how embodying masculine energy extended to improving family relationships, fostering creative projects, and embracing radical responsibility in all aspects of his life.
I’ve forever been a champion and aficionado of the re-emergence and love of all things holy, fuckable and wild: The alpha male. There’s been so much noise and distortion over the past decades on “toxic masculinity”. The only thing toxic about masculinity is the absence of it. In this interview with Ben, our Well-F**ked All Star we also spoke to last week in part 1 of our conversation, he speaks on his journey to define and embody the modern alpha male. In this episode: 9 qualities of the modern ...
Forgettable to formidable—how a once underwhelming 🍆 became a bedroom and life force majeure. ** The cock is the ultimate barometer of the man. When a man is fully occupying his masculine power and his sexual self, we see this reflected in her erection: Strong. Unwavering. Solid. Rising to its full potential. Bursting at the seams. When a man is shying away from his true nature and strength, we also see this in a cock that limp, lifeless, un-occupied, soft and weak. Like begets like. Strong, se...
These are the essential skills that every man needs to be a well-f**ked man, and to create a well-f**ked woman. The good news? They are all learnable. From cock size (yep, adjusable), to marathon sex to mastering the mighty and elusive female orgasm, it’s all here. My Sexual Mastery for Men 8-week online salon is the ultimate guide to living, loving and f**king in a male body. We cover: Orgasms without ejaculation: every man can How to last longer in bed and have complete control Organically gro...
My vagina makes money. In this episode: How I went from hand-to-mouth to creating my business empire The relationship that changed everything for me The biggest thing I did in my business to make it rain down in cash Why being a well-f**ked woman is your biggest money maker What the universe wants from you in order to become mega-rich Everything you need to master your sexual healing, self-expression and yoni cash manifesting skills is in my Well-F**ked Woman Salon, which is open now and closes ...
“An increase in wetness to tsunami proportions.” ~ Joanne “Now all I have to do is talk to him on the phone and I’m dripping to my knees.” ~ 61-year-old Michelle “I am constantly aroused and wet. I love my juices and can have an orgasm without touching myself.” ~ Tia How do you like them tsunamis? This is the normal state of vaginas for EVERY woman. One of the Anami cardinal rules is: No Lube for Women. Because all women, at EVERY stage of their lives, are capable of producing their own natural ...
Every woman has a high libido. Every woman—once sensually switched on—is an endless well of insatiable desire and pleasure. I guarantee it. What does it take to switch her on and make her come alive? In today’s episode we talk all things libido boosting. I assert that once awakened, women are actually more sexual than men, with greater appetites and MUCH greater stamina. Well-F**ked All Star Teresa joins me and we talk: Living at an 8 or 9 sexual simmer as a woman’s natural state The connection ...
How do you actually achieve things while you’re in your feminine energy? How do you especially do this in a situation, like a job or workplace that is typically dominated by men? Annette, our Well-F**ked All Star articulates it so well. She works as a CEO in high-level positions and she’s found how the more she’s connected to her feminine—and her sensual, wet and orgasmic, no-panties wearing self—she’s more successful and achieves more than ever. In this episode: Leading from the heart and femin...
