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Oh, That’s Just My Autism

Melissa Taciapodcasters.spotify.com
Join me (a woman in her 40’s) as I process the ins and outs of seeking, obtaining, and processing an autism diagnosis at the age of 41.
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Episodes

Ep 141: One Episode, Four Mini-Topics

When you have a little bit to say about a few different things, you throw all those topics into one episode. Enjoy the ride through four different trains of thought (plus maybe a few tangents...of course). For bonus content, join the Patreon: ⁠www.patreon.com/ohthatsjustmyautism⁠ Follow me on IG: @oh.thatsjustmyautism I love you all and appreciate your support!

Mar 03, 202524 minSeason 1Ep. 141

Ep 140: Oops, I Was Wrong!

My updated opinion on the absolute horror show that is Elon Musk. Thanks for listening and if you’re enjoying the pod, consider joining the Patreon! Just five bucks a month gets you into our Discord community and gets you two bonus episodes per month. Here’s the link to that: Patreon.com/ohthatsjustmyautism. You can also follow on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism or email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com.

Feb 05, 202517 min

Ep 139: I’m Back!

School had me so busy that I fell off from recording but guess what? I graduated! I’m back and hopefully better than ever. Here’s a little life update for you all and thank you for your patience while I navigated a very intense year! Thanks for listening and if you’re enjoying the pod, consider joining the Patreon! Just five bucks a month gets you into our Discord community and gets you two bonus episodes per month. Here’s the link to that: Patreon.com/ohthatsjustmyautism. You can also follow on...

Jan 20, 202526 min

Ep 138: Relaxation ADHD Style

Finally learning to embrace my hyperactivity and not look at it as a character flaw. Maybe people like me just find movement more relaxing than sitting still, and that’s ok! What does relaxation look like to you?

May 29, 202421 minSeason 1Ep. 138

Ep 137: A Chat About Autism, Comedy, and Late Diagnosis w/Autistic Comedian Mike Brody

If you know me, you know I'm all about busting those autism myths! One misconception about autistic people is that we aren't funny and don't understand humor or sarcasm. What better way to bust this myth than to have an autistic comedian on the pod?? Mike Brody has been doing stand-up for over twenty years and just received his ASD and ADHD diagnoses last year, in his mid-forties. He's been successfully making people laugh for a while now, so I guess the proof is in the pudding here. I hope you ...

Apr 24, 20241 hr 25 min

Ep 136: Haters Gonna HateHateHateHateHate

To quote the great Taylor Swift - I'm just gonna shake it off. Support the Pod for as little as 99 cents per month: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/justmyautism/support Visit the OTJMA Store: https://6c5b48-4.myshopify.com/ Join the Patreon: www.patreon.com/ohthatsjustmyautism Follow me on IG: @oh.thatsjustmyautism I love you all and appreciate your support!...

Apr 13, 202420 min

Ep 134: Introducing *Keeping it Weird* Podcast with CoHost Courtney!

I have been teasing this for a while and it’s finally here! Yes, a new podcast! My good friend Courtney (known on the socials as @courtneyadhd) and I are joining forces and it’s going to be amazing. Our first episode is going live on Saturday, April 6th. Links to all the places you can watch and follow are linked below! We will be going live while we are recording so be sure to tune in and be part of the action yourself! I know I’m using a lot of exclamation points but I’m really excited! Find a...

Mar 31, 202415 minSeason 1Ep. 134

Ep 133: OMG Sarah Hendrickx was on my podcast!

Yes, I got my autism diagnosis from a psychologist, but in reality my own self-diagnosis came long before that. I credit Sarah Hendrickx with giving me my biggest "aha" moment. I remember watching her YouTube video "Women & Girls & Autism: What's the Difference?" (linked HERE ) with my jaw dropped the entire time because it was SO relatable. Was she talking about me?? The resemblance was uncanny. When I asked her to be a guest on my pod she accepted and the rest is history. So sit back a...

Mar 01, 20241 hr 3 min

Ep 132: I'm So (Platonically) Into You

Ever find a person who you are SO into...but not in a romantic way? It feels like a crush without the romance. Yes, platonic crushes are a real thing! I suspect that this is a phenomenon that affects us neurodivergent folk a little more because when we find something (or...someone) interesting, we go all in. And that's ok! (I also take a verbal sidequest and talk about actual crushes and how those are ok too, even if you're in a relationship). As promised, here is the info for the new "Keeping i...

Feb 12, 202424 min

Ep 131: A Chat With Autistic Drag Queen *Onda Spectrum*

She's fierce, she's fabulous, she's Onda Spectrum! Clever drag name aside, this lovely Australian human is super interesting, substantially talented and an amazing interviewee. I had such a fun time talking with Onda about what it's like to be an autistic drag queen, but that's not all we got in to. We took a journey through so many topics (we both have ADHD so, of course we did) and I just know you all are going to love Onda as much as I did. To find Onda Spectrum go to your local (Australian) ...

Feb 05, 20241 hr

Ep 130: The Break Room Sure Doesn't Feel Like a Break

How are school and work and life going?? Some parts are going great, other parts are hitting the fan. To sum it up, I'm busy but happy, stressed to the max but finding time for gratitude, and (most importantly) avoiding the break room at all costs. Sometimes self care looks like eating in your car all alone.

Feb 01, 202420 min

Ep 129: A Chat With Author & ED Recovery Coach Livia Sara of the "Liv Label Free" Podcast

Kicking off the new year with one of my favorite interviews yet! Livia Sara is the host of "Liv Label Free", a podcast about Autism and Eating Disorder Recovery. Livia tells about her own experience with an eating disorder, her eventual autism and ADHD diagnosis, and how learning about her neurodivergence has helped her in her recovery. She now helps others as an ED recovery coach and has authored two books: Nourishing Neurodiversity and Rainbow Girl. This is a great conversation packed full of ...

Jan 02, 202459 min

Ep 128: Boundaries, Expectations, and Learning to Say No to Yourself

Boundaries are often discussed in terms of relationships with others, but what about learning to set boundaries with yourself? Sometimes we can put more pressure on ourselves than anyone else does. Learning to say no to yourself is just as hard - but just as important - as learning to say no to others. Support the Pod for as little as 99 cents per month: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/justmyautism/support Visit the OTJMA Store: https://6c5b48-4.myshopify.com/ Join the Patreon: www.patre...

Dec 24, 202326 minSeason 1Ep. 128

Ep 127: Ignorance is Bliss?

When does self-preservation become selfish? How much ignorance is too much when your mental health and well-being are at stake? And how does being autistic play in to my inability to cope with the injustices of the world?

Dec 13, 202325 minSeason 1Ep. 127

Ep 126: Breaking Down "The Big Bang" w/George from Unpacking Neuroqueerness Podcast

Today I welcome George from Unpacking Neuroqueerness where we will be discussing the good, the bad, and all the in-between when it comes to the show The Big Bang Theory. George and I are both big fans of the show, and both heavily relate to the Sheldon character, but also realize that there are many problematic aspects when it comes to TBBT. Here we will be breaking it all down and talking about it. Enjoy! Support the Pod for as little as 99 cents per month: ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/s...

Dec 07, 20231 hr 19 min

Ep 125: Life Update!

Helloooo everybody…it’s been a while. I was struck down with the flu and haven’t posted an episode in almost a month! It seems like a good time for a little life update so tune in to see what’s been going on with me and my lil AuDHD brain lately :-)

Dec 06, 202325 minSeason 1Ep. 125

Ep 124: The ADHD Tax

Fines, overdraft fees, and bad credit, oh my! These are just a few of the things that are associated with the dreaded "ADHD tax". Support the Pod for as little as 99 cents per month: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/justmyautism/support Visit the OTJMA Store: https://6c5b48-4.myshopify.com/ Join the Patreon: www.patreon.com/ohthatsjustmyautism Follow me on IG: @oh.thatsjustmyautism I love you all and appreciate your support!

Nov 13, 202322 min

Ep 123: Identities, Labels, and Trying to Accept What I Can't Change

I've got a very personal, vulnerable, and LGBTQ-centric episode for you today. This week I am talking about my partner coming out as non-binary, and how their transition has changed the way the world perceives us as a couple, and me as a lesbian woman. Being partnered with a male-presenting person has at times felt threatening to my identity, and I have been struggling to figure out how to be ok with that. Support the Pod for as little as 99 cents per month: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

Nov 05, 202336 min

Ep 122: Practicing Assertiveness & Standing Up For Myself

Am I “easygoing”…or just a gigantic, people-pleasing pushover? A recent encounter with a bully-ish coworker has me thinking about all the ways I haven’t stood up for myself in the past. I discuss how I think this is related in many ways to being autistic and how I’m trying to find my footing when it comes to standing up for myself. Support the Pod for as little as 99 cents per month: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/justmyautism/support Visit the OTJMA Store: https://6c5b48-4.myshopify.co...

Oct 25, 202329 minSeason 1Ep. 122

Ep 121: Autism & Embarrassment

Do you have a "most embarrassing moment"? When was the last time you felt embarrassed? If you're anything like me, you won't be able to answer these questions because embarrassment really isn't a thing you feel, at least not easily and not often. Is this related to autism, or is it just a "me" thing? I also discuss the first cousins of embarrassment: shame & self-consciousness. Support the Pod for as little as 99 cents per month: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/justmyautism/support V...

Oct 13, 202321 minSeason 1Ep. 121

Ep 120: Relaxation, Prioritization, & the ADHD Brain

Prioritizing one task above another is hard when all tasks feel important. Relaxing is hard when your brain never stops thinking. Finding balance is hard! Visit the OTJMA Store: https://6c5b48-4.myshopify.com/ Join the Patreon: www.patreon.com/ohthatsjustmyautism Follow me on IG: @oh.thatsjustmyautism I love you all and appreciate your support!...

Oct 05, 202332 minSeason 1Ep. 120

Ep 119: Avoiding the "Brain Grab"

What is the brain grab? Just listen, you'll totally get it. Get 10% off Loops: www.loopearplugs.com/OTJMA Visit the OTJMA Store: https://6c5b48-4.myshopify.com/ Join the Patreon: www.patreon.com/ohthatsjustmyautism Follow me on IG: @oh.thatsjustmyautism I love you all and appreciate your support!...

Sep 18, 202320 minSeason 1Ep. 119

Ep 118: Trying to Escape the Black Hole of Executive Dysfunction

I'm stuck. I've fallen and I can't get up. The executive dysfunction black hole is sucking me in and I can't get out. I just want to get stuff done! Send help, friends. Get 10% off your Loops order: www.loopearplugs.com/OTJMA Visit the OTJMA Store: https://6c5b48-4.myshopify.com/ Join the Patreon: www.patreon.com/ohthatsjustmyautism Follow me on IG: @oh.thatsjustmyautism I love you all and appreciate your support!...

Aug 31, 202325 minSeason 1Ep. 118

Ep 117: Being An Unconventional Human In A World That Is Obsessed With Convention

Trying to fit myself into a conventional role in society has got me feeling some type of way. Can we agree that the rules on how things are "supposed" to be are dumb? Can I just be my artsy, quirky self and not worry about it? Try Loops! For 10% off your order visit www.loopearplugs.com/otjma Visit the OTJMA Store: https://6c5b48-4.myshopify.com/ Join the Patreon: www.patreon.com/ohthatsjustmyautism Follow me on IG: @oh.thatsjustmyautism I love you all and appreciate your support!...

Aug 22, 202340 minSeason 1Ep. 117

Ep 116: Thoughts On the DSM & Adult ASD Diagnosis w/Dr. Christina Stai

If you listened to my episode on the DSM, you know my thoughts about it/the diagnostic process. Now it's time to hear from an actual clinician who conducts ASD assessments for adults. Dr. Stai gives some interesting insights into the diagnostic process from a psychotherapists point of view, plus gives some tips for those seeking an assessment. Oh, and I might add, Dr. Stai is neurodivergent herself! You can find Dr. Stai on Instagram @dr.christina.stai or Twitter @DoctorStai If anyone is wanting...

Aug 16, 202357 min

Ep 115: Laughing…It’s Harder Than It Looks

They say “laughter is the best medicine” but does laughing on the inside count? I’m not sure if I even know how to laugh, or if I’m doing it right? Shouldn’t this come naturally?? Visit the OTJMA Store: https://6c5b48-4.myshopify.com/ Join the Patreon: www.patreon.com/ohthatsjustmyautism Follow me on IG: @oh.thatsjustmyautism I love you all and appreciate your support!...

Jul 28, 202319 minSeason 1Ep. 115

Ep 113: I'm Even More Awkward in England

A little update on my recent trip to London! Lots of fun, new experiences, confusion, and awkwardness. Magic Mind: www.magicmind.com/mjtacia Use Code: MELISSA20 Visit the OTJMA Store: https://6c5b48-4.myshopify.com/ Join the Patreon: www.patreon.com/ohthatsjustmyautism Follow me on IG: @oh.thatsjustmyautism I love you all and appreciate your support!...

Jul 05, 202334 min

Ep 112: Why the DSM is Not a Good Diagnostic Tool for Autism

Rant alert! This tool that is supposed to help practitioners diagnose autism is (in my opinion) actually doing the opposite. There are so many reasons why this tool is a hinderance and is causing so many of us to slip through the cracks when it comes to obtaining a diagnosis. Visit the OTJMA Store: https://6c5b48-4.myshopify.com/ Join the Patreon: www.patreon.com/ohthatsjustmyautism Follow me on IG: @oh.thatsjustmyautism I love you all and appreciate your support!...

Jun 28, 202332 min
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