In this episode, Theophilus shares about what it means to be a threat and what he's found to be the most effective way to be one. Our roles as fathers isn't just a surface-level thing. It's a deeper journey for ourselves and for our children. The recommendations he gives is from what he's done in his own life and the results he's seen are evident in his physical world. From there, Theophilus shares about the art of making memories. How it's far simpler than we think & certainly overcomplicat...
Apr 10, 2023•41 min•Season 2Ep. 31
In this episode, Theophilus follows up on the conversation last week answering the question of "where do I even start?". In wanting to be more of a presence, leader & of a threat, the mind immediately thinks of all the areas that need to be recalibrated. Some more daunting than others but in its totality, too much burden to bear. In looking at all of it, many fall back into old ways, zones of comfort & security, only to find themselves back at square one. The beautiful thing is, as I've ...
Apr 03, 2023•38 min•Season 2Ep. 30
*WARNING* Explicit details and firsthand accounts from child sex predators. Listen with headphones and/or not in the presence of children unprepared for this conversation. In this episode, Theophilus talks about the details & information revealed by child sex predators on how/who they target, isolate and tell-tale signs to look for in children who may be or about to be a victim of such a terrible thing. With the prevalence of technology, the younger inception of the use of screens & onli...
Mar 27, 2023•50 min•Season 2Ep. 29
*WARNING* Mentions of serial killers & some details related to their horrific crimes as well as mentions of the slippery slope of pornography. Avoid listening with children in vicinity. In this episode, Theophilus talks about two different demographics of society and how it all relates back to one place - family background. Referencing another book by Malcolm Gladwell, Outliers: The Story of Success, Theophilus talks about the importance of foundational principles of a firm, secure & nob...
Mar 20, 2023•1 hr 9 min•Season 2Ep. 28
In this episode, Theophilus shares about some of the biggest lessons he learned through his 36th year on this planet. Culturally, this year was a big one because it was the Chinese horoscopic Tiger Year. He shares about the struggles overcome, lessons learned, people met along the way, memories created, and new adventures to come. All of his sharings have one thing in common; GOD is doing a thing. This episode would not be possible without you, the listeners, no matter where you are tuning in fr...
Mar 13, 2023•52 min•Season 2Ep. 27
In this episode, Theophilus elaborates on the Inverted U Curve concept by Malcolm Gladwell and how it applies to so much of our lives. Everything in life falls into this and as such, fatherhood along with it. This concept is incredibly insightful and practical for us to find where life is at its best and optimal. This is where God intended life to be. I always recommend people come with an open-mind into everything and that's certainly the case with this topic. You and I may not believe the same...
Mar 06, 2023•42 min•Season 2Ep. 26
In this episode, Theophilus shares about disabilities. What does it mean? Why is it such a big deal? Does it actually hinder us? You may be surprised to learn some fun facts about successful people with disabilities and these revelations are sure to change your perspective & understanding of it in the world around you. Whether you believe it or not, we all deal with a certain level of disability in our lives in one shape or another, the sooner we understand we are all imperfect & disable...
Feb 27, 2023•43 min•Season 2Ep. 25
In this episode, Theophilus' son Davion joins him for heart-to-heart conversation about life from the perspective of a 7 year old. He shares about his life at home, at school, on the jiu-jitsu mat and everywhere else a 7 year old finds himself. We talk deeply about the meaning of life and what it means to be alive. Come join us as we share this special father & son moment together. For the video version of this podcast, please go check out our Patreon page right here ....
Feb 20, 2023•50 min•Season 2Ep. 25
In this episode, Theophilus talks about the urgency, we as fathers, have for quiet time and spaces of solitude in a busy, distracting world. Inspired by a fellow Noble Father, Dan and his experience out in the wilderness to disconnect from the world and reconnect with himself. May this episode serve as a call-to-action for all you fathers out there looking to take your life back into your own hands to return to where the journey is meant to originate from, your heart. Next week, I will share abo...
Feb 13, 2023•39 min•Season 2Ep. 24
In this episode, Theophilus shares about the David vs. Goliath struggle of the example of fatherhood. Using 3 stories from the Bible of obscure people, their miniscule existences and how God used them to do amazing & great things. This example is all we need to face up the goliaths we encounter in life. There are no logical answers or solutions to illogical problems. His ways are above our ways and as you'll see in these examples, the lowest of the low will be the greatest of them all. First...
Feb 06, 2023•42 min•Season 2Ep. 23
In this episode of the Noble Father Podcast, we're exploring work-life balance as it relates to fathers. In a world where dads are often expected to be providers, it can be difficult to prioritize family time and maintain a healthy work-life balance. Join me, Theophilus, as he shares about his experiences and challenges, and learn about strategies for finding balance and prioritizing what's important. Whether you're a stay-at-home dad, a working dad, or somewhere in between, this episode is for ...
Jan 30, 2023•50 min•Season 2Ep. 22
In this episode, Theophilus shares some Bible verses as it pertains to fatherhood and their application to our roles & responsibilities. This was both enlightening and insightful for myself in understanding how important it is for us as fathers. This is ageless information and one in which, no matter that struggle and pressures of the world, we must push beyond and be the fathers we are called to be. May this episode embolden you to take immediate action to take back your role as that father...
Jan 23, 2023•40 min•Season 2Ep. 21
In this episode, Theophilus shares about love as best he can, which is also talked about in the episode. We like to think we know all there is to know about love but in reality, we will never know fully. This can either be incredibly discouraging or it can incredibly liberating. My hope is that you come with an open mind, an open heart and a willingness to think critically about yourself as a father as it pertains to love.
Jan 17, 2023•49 min•Season 2Ep. 20
In this episode, Theophilus encourages his listeners to return to their truest authentic selves and how the world (and the great deceiver) strives to pull you further away from inherent truths. When we stop living authentically and adopt external standards for ourselves, we undergo journeys with life-altering, oft devastating results. Especially in our world with infinite pronouns and blurry truth backed by flimsy experts & science, we must stand unwavering as Noble Fathers to show our child...
Jan 09, 2023•52 min•Season 2Ep. 19
In the very first episode of 2023, Theophilus talks about the importance of habit stacking or what he likes to call Plus-2 Habits. He also presents a method of critical analysis for better understanding ourselves and how to solidify building consistent/persistent habits. He also discusses how to mind map the entire process to understand the detriment/benefit of negative/positive habits we have or want to adopt. Special shoutout to Perry Tomlinson on launching his new YouTube channel called Sober...
Jan 03, 2023•32 min•Season 2Ep. 18
Theophilus caps off the year 2022 with a bang! After providing an update on his holiday season and wishes for the new year, Theophilus shares his priorities as it pertains to the 7 domains of wellness (physical, mental, emotional, social, spiritual, environmental & vocational). He ranks them based on his opinion and priority but then shares his goals for each of those for the year to come. For each one, he shares a Bible verse, an insightful quote, and his warning to fathers for overlooking ...
Dec 26, 2022•1 hr 7 min•Season 2Ep. 17
In this episode, Theophilus kindly reminds his listeners to squeeze the most out of the Christmas Season. He also gives his reflection from exactly one year and how far he's come in all 7 domains of his own wellness. From COVID at the start of the year to writing & launching a book, to the launch of the Noble Father eco-system to BJJ gradings & back under thick layers of ice. This year has been one of the most epic; as he knew it was going to be. As this episode talks about reflection &a...
Dec 19, 2022•1 hr 19 min•Season 2Ep. 16
In this episode, Theophilus talks about his & his son's experience in their first Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu grading with Grandmaster Marcus "The Encyclopedia" Soares. He also shares some words of wisdom shared by Duane, the pastor of his church on the premise of God commanding us to occupy the land he calls us to. The grading experience along with the first 3 months of our journey tied well with this sharing. We have no idea what or how God intends to use these new interests and areas of growth, b...
Dec 12, 2022•47 min•Season 2Ep. 15
We have just launched a Patreon page! Come check out the many different ways you can become a member, its amazing perks, & support our continued work. This video podcast is to introduce the Patreon page, the tiers/perks, and give a shoutout to those who helped. Looking forward to expanding this podcast, community and our offerings to fathers all over the globe. The page can be found here: https://www.patreon.com/noblefather
Dec 06, 2022•17 min•Season 2Ep. 14
In this episode, Theophilus talks about who we are as human beings. We are a complex system encompassing the physical, mental, emotional, social & spiritual . Our lives are a direct representation of how we steward those 5 dimensions. Neglect one and the rest eventually fall apart. Understanding this as a Noble Father will dictate the lives we live and the example we set for our children for generations to come. That is my firmest belief.
Dec 05, 2022•1 hr 3 min•Season 2Ep. 14
From the bottom of my heart, I'm so grateful for this opportunity to speak to so many listeners all over the world. The Noble Father Podcast is currently at 31 episodes, 1.1k minutes, & played in 9 countries around the world. I'm more energized than ever as there are many more amazing things coming down the pipeline. Currently, I am working on a Noble Father Patreon that is community-centered and intentional; true to our mission. However, without you all, in the manner of support you've prov...
Nov 30, 2022•19 min•Season 2Ep. 13
In this episode, Theophilus gives a few very specific shoutouts to important people who have contributed to the Noble Father Podcast & Project. By no means is it comprehensive and if you were not mentioned, I am still greatly appreciative of you on this journey. This month of November I've witness many prayers being answered and in this place, I can't help but encourage you all with my stories. Last episode (my conversation with my daughter) marked the 6-month mark officially as a podcast. T...
Nov 28, 2022•47 min•Season 2Ep. 12
In this episode, Theophilus is wondering what to talk about when suddenly his playful 4-year-old daughter wanders by and we strike up a cute conversation. I ask her about her life as a 4-year-old tells it, what she thinks of life, and those closest to her. She's exceptionally articulate for a kid her age and she certainly has personality & spunk. The audio quality on this episode is a little bit off, as I'm working on getting it fixed, I also hope that if you're looking to get something out ...
Nov 21, 2022•37 min•Season 2Ep. 11
*WARNING* Brutally honest life-story. Language & content may not be suitable for children at varying points. Every now and again, the Noble Father Podcast interviews fathers and/or members from our Noble Father Community. This episode is a conversation with our resident Noble Grandfather, Jose Marrero. Jose Marrero is the epitome of a Noble Father, happily married, 2 daughters, 1 grandson, from Orlando, Florida. You certainly don't want to miss this story from his very own mouth. Come and he...
Nov 14, 2022•2 hr 59 min•Season 2Ep. 10
In this episode, Theophilus talks through a bullet point in an article on a Father's Impact on Child Development by a non-profit called Children's Bureau. The findings within are incredibly educational and enlightening of the epidemic of fatherlessness in our world. Come listen to Theophilus draw connections to his own life and between the points. Don't forget that you, as a father, play a major role that no mother on the planet can fill. Each half brings a dynamic & aspects the other cannot...
Nov 07, 2022•1 hr 7 min•Season 2Ep. 9
*WARNING* A loud cough is in this episode. In this episode, Theophilus talks about our actions/inactions as fathers. Our role as a Noble Father is not to be underestimated. Theophilus shares about the examples from his own life growing up, how they relate to the life he now has as a father. By no means is Theophilus a perfect example of what a Noble Father should be like, but it's persistence in striving for perfection we should all strive for. Join him in this journey....
Oct 31, 2022•44 min
In this episode, Theophilus talks about his unkempt lawn and how it relates to our personhood, lives & hearts. This realization helped give new perspective into life and our interpretation of it. The way Theophilus thinks now is what he calls "Mental Jiu-Jitsu" where simple everyday occurrences and surface-level happenstance matters hold deep philosophical meaning. There's a profound underlying theme in how a fulfilled life is to be lived and it can only start from one place; within each of ...
Oct 24, 2022•55 min•Season 2Ep. 7
In this episode, Theophilus draws on an analogy that came to him this week. So many of us pray for storms to subside and external things to happen so we can excuse ourselves & not change something internal; even though storms are unavoidable. Rather than hoping for the storm to subside, we should be preparing ourselves, asking for fortitude and facing the storm with courage to come out the other side. Only when we do this, do we persevere and are able to prepare for the next storm that, when...
Oct 17, 2022•42 min•Season 2Ep. 6
In this episode, Theophilus shares a high performance tool that can help fathers keep track of their progress through life in the different categories we all have. With this tool, we are able to understand our present situations better but also to see what changes need to be made for us to return to a well-balanced life. The mere fact is, who we surround ourselves with (one of the spokes in the wheel) has a direct impact on the results we see and plays an influential role in who we are becoming ...
Oct 11, 2022•46 min•Season 2Ep. 5
In this episode, Theophilus talks about a topic that's come up plenty this week, direction. Without direction, we're aimless in our pursuits, we'll lack focus in our actions & amount to little or meaningless results. This isn't only important to us as fathers, but also for our own children & the lasting legacies our example of leadership leaves behind. Theo talks about his own life, how he came to find his purpose, and the direction he's now taking. A life so rewarding and so on fire, on...
Oct 03, 2022•51 min•Season 2Ep. 4
