In this episode, Theophilus connects the dots between the book Start With Why by Simon Sinek, the importance of setting intentions in fatherhood, and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. The intention & judgments we bring into anything plays a huge part of what results we see in life especially as fathers. Just another example we have to set as fathers for our children in the way we do life.
In this week's episode, Theophilus is traveling on a business trip but he speaks about the topic of proactivity or reactivity as it relates to life & fatherhood. Both of these places dictates the results we see later on in life. As they say, the best time to plant a tree is 40 years ago, and the next best time is now. Your decisions now in proactivity, dictates the results you see and limits the amount of reactivity you have to take. Consider this for yourself this week. Are you more proacti...
Welcome to Season 2! With the start of the new school year (late start in Canada), Theophilus is starting off episode 1 with a bang. In this episode, Theophilus talks about the subject of holes we have in our being that we try to fill with surface-level, external things. This concept of not fully facing up to our issues and in turn attempting to fill with things is a common practice not just in fathers. It might not amount to much but over time, a little bit causes us to deviate from the path. T...
Every month on Noble Father Podcast, Theophilus will interview a father from the Noble Father Community. This particular episode, Theophilus talks to Aaron Griffin, a father of 3, from Indiana. He was the very first father to signup for the Noble Father meetups & now a valued member of the community and has his own podcast called What Griffs Podcast. In this conversation, we reflect upon on our own upbringings, current family situation, and what keeps us going. These conversations are raw, u...
In this episode, Theophilus talks about one of his favorite topics to dive into. Noble Father is all about ALIGNMENT. Theophilus breaks down the different "wheels" that make up alignment in this life that all fathers should be aware of. Not just for themselves, but also for their children, and the betterment of the world around them. Because when one wheel falls off, the rest start to compensate, and eventually, the damage is fatal & irreparable.
In this episode, Theophilus shares about his life's greatest pain that God has used to turn into a superpower that he uses daily to help others. These unique experiences makes us standout and be able to reach certain people who are looking for others going through the same struggles. Theo also recommends looking deeper at the problems we face that cause the same sort of pain, to address them head-on; he shares a recent experience that taught him a great lesson.
In this episode, Theophilus records in flow state. Without prep, hitting record and going into the topic of Identity. When you know your true identity, you're released to pursue your destiny. Many of us carry what others have falsely said, claimed or projected about us as our identity, taking us off the path towards true destiny. As fathers, we must demonstrate how to get rid of the old, remember it never defined us, and claim our rightful place putting on the prized cloak & signet ring. We ...
In this episode, Theophilus taps into his inner high school skills and does a first-half book report on a recommended book given to him by his friend, Andy Menjivar. The book is called Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us by Daniel H. Pink. The incredibly applicable insights can be distilled & applied by people from all walks of life, whether they're parents, employees or billionaire entrepreneurs. As you'll see, motivation is such a key part of our existence so not just any k...
In this episode, Theophilus talks about the premise of "reaping what you sow." Not just as fathers, but life is about what we sow. Nothing good happens from nothing being sowed. Or like Tony Robbins famously said, "By changing nothing, nothing changes." Theophilus also gives lessons he's learned in the past and also tips for how you can change the results you're currently seeing in your life; from his own experience.
In this episode, Theophilus shares about his recent outing with his family and lessons he's learned about opportunity & time through the journey of fatherhood. Theophilus breaks down time into digestible perspective and provides his tips on how to better utilize it. But also, if you're looking for a sign to take the opportunity, assume the risk, and chase after something, here it is. There's no time like the present and there may not be a chance or opportunity as good as this one available t...
In this episode, Theophilus shares about the most profound improvement he made in his own life and how it impacted his life, his faith, his family, and his business. The mind is a muscle of its own and if we leave it neglected, the thoughts of all varieties and of all spectrums will overwhelm us. Increasing our awareness of the negative around us and within, we will only be met with negative results. This is no way to live for any sane human being, let alone a father with an audience of onlooker...
In this episode, Theophilus talks about masculine vulnerability, the effects of it, and how we all have a part to play in breaking that norm. Whether you're a father, mother, son, daughter, friend, or stranger, we have an opportunity to take off the falsehood and show up authentically to the benefit of everyone around us. Our world needs more of our authentic selves.
In this episode, Theophilus talks about Carl Jung's famous quote, "The greatest burden a child bears is the unlived life of the parents." Whether you see yourself as the child or the parent in the quote, we must be conscious how we proceed in life. God intended a special life for us because He knew us and planned us before we were even formed. Theophilus shares about his own life and his observations of things he's witnessed in the course of it. Happy 4th of July to my American listeners!...
*TRIGGER WARNING* - Mentions of the Roe vs. Wade debate are in this episode. Rather not have this come up as you're in the car with your kids. Nor do I mention it to stir up anything and if you've found offence in something I shared, know that I had no intention of anything other than of love & getting my thoughts off my chest. In this episode, Theophilus explores the concept of context in our world and why it is so critical to harmony in all areas of society. There are no shortages of divis...
In this episode, Theophilus shares about personal experiences old & new as it relates to actions & inactions of parenting. Some of the experiences directly affect Theophilus to this day at the age of 36 and some are from his own journey as a father himself. The key to raising strong, independent children starts at a young age with leadership from present fathers not solely focused in the now but on eternity. Links mentioned (Father's meetup): HERE...
In this episode, Theophilus covers the second part of the series on the Importance of Fathers in Society. In particular, he discusses how matriarchies and an imbalance in the family household can create eventual patriarchies and eventually anarchy. Also discussing how a healthy child is produced by a unified, balanced household where parental duties are mutually shared, respected & complimenting one another. Registration link to the Noble Father's Weekly Zoom Meetup: Link here...
*VOLUME WARNING ON THE INTRO TO ACTUAL EPISODE - WILL BE FIXED NEXT EPISODE* In this episode, Theophilus talks about the importance of fathers and father-figures in society. One of the greatest examples of this from the plains of South Africa at the Pilanesberg Game Reserve. See how the removal of old male bulls brought about an unfortunate circumstance for the entire ecosystem of the reserve. Also, an analysis of research done on children living in fatherless homes. Links for resources mentione...
In this episode, Theophilus speaks about the importance of keeping wise company especially as fathers. He provides examples and experiences from his own life. You'll love this episode if you're looking to improve your own network as he provides resources and recommendations for where to find it locally & online. If you're interested in joining the mentioned Noble Father's meetups & the group itself, here's the registration link for the meetings on Thursdays at 4pm PST/7pm EST: https://us...
With the recent tragic events in Buffalo, Laguna Woods, & Uvalde, Theophilus expresses his thoughts & causal links that contribute to the state of the world we live in. Any loss of life is a terrible one. But we are all to blame for what we are currently seeing unfold before us. Fathers, especially, have to take back their rightful roles in the leadership, guidance, & care of their families. Or else, we'll only create more bullies, shooters, & children that end up being fringe me...
In this episode, Theophilus talks about a movie called Like Father Like Son and the lessons afforded from this film. The struggles Fathers face between providing for the means of the family or the time & role only they can fulfill. This episode contains spoilers for the movie so if you're interested in watching it first, please do so.
In this episode, Theophilus shares about a very human experience he had this past week. Being so heavily invested into helping others, doing his best to make an impact, he completely forgot to self-care and couldn't even show up for himself. He's also sharing the lessons he learned, revelations he discovered, and the insight that he obtained through the experience.
In this episode, Theophilus shares his thoughts about the costs of anything free. He also explains why it's important and imperative for fathers to invest in themselves first and foremost. The costs of free is way more expensive than you think and tragically, imagine what this can do to a family in the long run.
In this episode, Theophilus discusses risk and how it affects our lives (not just from the perspective of a father). He talks about how we face, tolerate and take risks in every day situations. Because simply, a father must show his offspring how to do all that in their own lives. Theophilus also shares the 3 vital ingredients necessary for commitment, how it all starts with fathers and why we must face calculated risks head-on.
In this episode, Theophilus opens up about real-time struggles of inconsistency in his life and how it affects his marriage, parenthood, and living his life purpose. He also shares some Biblical verses on fatherhood and the importance of raising children in the way they should go. Because a father is not just a bank account to withdraw from, chauffeur, or a piggy for piggybacks, he is a leader that directs his family. However, as strong as a leader is, his wife & partner has an important rol...
In this episode, Theophilus shares about his grandfather, father and his own journey in fatherhood & into entrepreneurship, and ultimately to being present. He also shares tips on how to be present and why we must be present with ourselves first to be fully present with those around us.
Here's the very first episode of the Noble Father Podcast with me, Theophilus Zhuang! In this episode, I talk about: The birth of the idea to podcast How the name came to be from identity to podcast to vision of a community Being a present father through entrepreneurship An invitation to join our Noble Father community on Facebook & weekly Zoom meetup Huge shout-outs: Echo Shan (my wife) : Without you, none of this would be possible. We've been through a lot together and wouldn't be here tod...
