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Mr and Mrs Therapy | EMDR Therapy, Trauma, PTSD, Healing Trauma, Communication, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship

Timothy Olson / Ruth Olson - Inspired by Brene Brown, Mel Robbins, Tony Robbinswww.facebook.com
***TOP 1.5% PODCAST*** Is your trauma consuming you? Are you tired of constantly having anxiety or depression? Are you struggling to stop negative self talk? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? Are you fighting about the same things over and over again in your relationship? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? In this podcast, you will find tools and resources to help you better understand yourself and your relationships. You’ll learn how to manage or even eliminate the constant anxiety, negative self talk, and feelings of overwhelm that you’ve been experiencing. Our mission is to equip you to be healthy mentally and relationally and to bring healing to past trauma that might be still affecting you today. If you’re ready to say yes to being the best version of yourself, have fulfilling and healthy relationships, and have a better life, - then you are in the right place! Hey, we’re Tim and Ruth! We’re licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts with over 30 years of combined experience. We’ve seen time and time again how people have tried to will themselves to be happy, muscle through it, and have ended up even worse off than when they began. We’ve noticed that people have experienced deep pain, whether it’s others who have hurt them or situations and the world just beating them down, and often they have turned that into an internal dialogue where they are mean...like really cruel in how they talk to themselves. They have anxiety, feel depressed and overwhelmed, all the while their self talk is telling them ”I’m not good enough, I’m a failure, I’m worthless, I’m not loveable, I cannot trust anyone, I am powerless, I’m not in control.” How emotionally exhausting! We’ve realized that people want to get out of that place, they just don’t know how. They feel lost, alone, and without hope. Mental health & recurring toxic relationships can feel like an uphill battle, but you are not alone in this, that’s where we come in! We offer specific steps, practical tools, strategies, and insights that will help you to overcome these ongoing battles and help you win the war! There is hope, and there certainly is healing! We can’t wait to share it with you! If you are ready to finally find ways to overcome your anxiety, stop your negative self talk, stop feeling like a burden, break free from co-dependency and toxic relationships, and stop letting your past run the show... and if you’re looking for changes that can transform your life, like improved mood, increased confidence, healthier relationships, and healing from the past that has kept you stuck for too long - this podcast is for you! Bring your drama and your trauma and lets get healing! We’d love to connect with you over in our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mrandmrstherapypodcast/

Episodes

Ep 132 - Mending the Heart’s Bucket: Understanding Love and Emotional Fulfillment

In this poignant episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we delve into the metaphor of the heart as a bucket with a hole, exploring how unresolved emotional issues can prevent us from fully receiving and appreciating the love of friends and family. Just as water continually leaks from a bucket with a hole, no matter how much is poured in, our hearts may fail to retain love if we have unaddressed emotional wounds or voids. We'll discuss the psychology behind why we sometimes feel unloved or empty desp...

Dec 28, 202320 min

Ep 131 - Pt. 2 - You Can’t Pour From Empty, Heart-Centered Time Management with Lissa Figgins

Welcome back to another enriching episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," where we continue our conversation with Lissa Figgins, the Founder of REDEEM Her Time Coaching and a beacon of guidance for busy Christian women solopreneurs. In this second part of our series, Lissa delves deeper into the challenges and triumphs of navigating busyness in midlife and entrepreneurship. Drawing from her own experiences as an empty-nest mom, mentor, and woman of faith, Lissa shares how she learned to balance her p...

Dec 26, 202326 min

Ep 130 - Pt. 1 - You Can’t Pour From Empty, Heart-Centered Time Management with Lissa Figgins

In this inspiring episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we're joined by Lissa Figgins, a woman who wears many hats – a life coach, podcaster, women’s ministry leader, and founder of REDEEM Her Time Coaching. Lissa shares her journey from overwhelming busyness to purposeful fruitfulness, revealing that the key to managing a busy life is not found in our calendars, but in our hearts. As a Christian Time Management Coach and Priorities Protector, Lissa delves into how disordered priorities can affect ...

Dec 21, 202331 min

Ep 129 - In His Footsteps: Reflecting on your Spiritual Walk

Welcome to a special episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" titled "In His Footsteps: Reflecting on Our Path." As we reflect on the past year, this episode invites you to look back through the lens of your Christian faith. We'll explore how your walk with Christ has influenced your experiences, decisions, and growth over the last twelve months. From moments of prayerful contemplation to acts of service inspired by Christ’s teachings, we’ll delve into the ways your faith has been both a refuge and a g...

Dec 19, 202312 min

Ep 128 - Deep Dive: Part 2 - Guided Questions for Your Year-End Review

Welcome back to "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" for Part 2 of our special series on year-end reflections. In this episode, we provide a structured and insightful guide to help you dive deep into your annual review. With a carefully curated list of thought-provoking questions, we'll assist you in exploring various aspects of your life over the past year. These questions are designed to prompt meaningful introspection about your personal growth, challenges, successes, and the lessons learned along the way....

Dec 14, 202324 min

Ep 127 - Reflect & Grow: The Benefits of an Annual Review

In this enlightening episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we explore the transformative power of conducting an annual review of your life. As we bid farewell to another year, it's the perfect time to pause, reflect, and grow from our experiences. We'll delve into the myriad benefits of this practice, from gaining valuable insights and clarity about your life's journey to setting informed and meaningful goals for the future. Discover how reflecting on your achievements, challenges, relationships, a...

Dec 12, 202318 min

Ep 126 - The Cost of Over-Apologizing: Recognizing and Overcoming Excessive Apologies

In this insightful episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we delve into the often-overlooked issue of over-apologizing. Learn why some of us feel the need to constantly say "I'm sorry," even for things outside our control or for everyday occurrences. We explore the psychological factors behind excessive apologies, including low self-esteem, fear of conflict, and the desire for approval. More importantly, we discuss the unintended consequences of over-apologizing, such as diminished self-worth, weake...

Dec 07, 202318 min

Ep 125 - Mastering the Apology: 10 Ways to Apologize Effectively

In this engaging episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we explore the art of apologizing through '10 Ways to Apologize Effectively.' Discover the key elements that make an apology sincere and impactful, from acknowledging the mistake and understanding its effects, to expressing genuine remorse and making amends. We'll delve into the nuances of effective communication, the importance of timing, and how to ensure your apology leads to healing and reconciliation. This episode is not just about saying ...

Dec 05, 202323 min

Ep 124 - The Art of Apology: Part 1 - How Not to Apologize

Welcome to Part 1 of our three-part series on "The Art of Apology" in "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy." This episode takes a deep dive into the common pitfalls of apologizing – the 'how not to' of apologies. We'll explore why certain types of apologies can do more harm than good, from non-apologies filled with excuses to those that shift blame or minimize the other person's feelings. Understanding these missteps is crucial in learning how to offer sincere and effective apologies. Join us as we analyze rea...

Nov 30, 202320 min

Ep 123 - Gratitude’s Ripple Effect: Enriching Relationships and Communities

In this heartwarming episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we delve into the profound impact of gratitude on those around us. Discover how expressing thankfulness not only enriches our own lives but also has a ripple effect, enhancing relationships and fostering a sense of community. We'll explore how gratitude can strengthen bonds, inspire kindness, and create a positive atmosphere in both personal and professional settings. Through engaging stories and expert insights, learn how a simple gesture ...

Nov 28, 202317 min

Ep 122 - The Power of Thankfulness: How Gratitude Shapes Our Lives

Dive into the transformative world of gratitude in this episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy." We explore the myriad ways in which thankfulness can positively impact our lives, both mentally and physically. From boosting mental health and enhancing relationships to improving sleep and increasing resilience, gratitude is more than just a feel-good emotion; it's a powerful tool for personal growth. Join us as we uncover scientific insights and practical tips for cultivating a gratitude practice in you...

Nov 23, 202312 min

Ep 121 - (Pt 2) Living in the Now: The Balance Between Future Goals and Present Moments

In this insightful episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we explore the delicate balance between planning for the future and living in the present. While it's essential to have goals and aspirations, we delve into the risks of becoming overly fixated on what's ahead, potentially missing the beauty and opportunities of the life unfolding right before us. We'll discuss practical strategies for staying grounded in the present, appreciating daily experiences, and how mindfulness can enhance our current...

Nov 21, 202322 min

Ep 120 - (Pt 1) The Future is Now: Aligning Daily Behaviors with Long-Term Goals

In this episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we delve into the critical practice of aligning daily behaviors with your long-term goals. Discover how focusing on the end goal can shape your choices and actions today, leading to a more fulfilling and intentional life. We'll explore strategies to maintain this focus, overcome distractions, and the psychology behind successful goal-oriented living. This episode is a roadmap for anyone looking to bridge the gap between their current self and their desi...

Nov 16, 202317 min

Ep 119 - A Brighter Day: 3 Simple Steps to Boost Your Mood

Are you seeking ways to lift your spirits and maintain a positive outlook? In our latest episode of 'Mr. and Mrs. Therapy,' we explore three practical and effective strategies to enhance your mood. First, we dive into the impact of social media on our mental health and discuss how reducing its usage can lead to significant improvements in your daily mood. Next, we highlight the often-overlooked connection between posture and mood, providing tips on how to adjust your posture for a more positive ...

Nov 14, 202324 min

Ep 118 - (Pt 5) ”They said what?!?”: Listeners Share Some Bad Advice They’ve Gotten

In this episode of 'Mr. and Mrs. Therapy,' we open the floor to our listeners' voices, sharing their encounters with dubious psychological advice. As we sift through submissions, we illuminate why these well-meaning yet flawed suggestions can be misleading and potentially detrimental. Join us for a candid discussion as we analyze these personal anecdotes, debunk the misconceptions, and provide insightful, evidence-based alternatives for those on a journey toward mental wellness. Remember to join...

Nov 09, 202323 min

Ep 117 - (Pt 4) ”They said what?!?”: Listeners Share Some Bad Advice They’ve Gotten

Part 4 puts the spotlight on our listeners. 'Mr. and Mrs. Therapy' delve into the psychological 'tips' you've encountered, breaking down why these popular snippets of advice don't always hold up under scrutiny. From the everyday advice that misses the mark to the widespread myths that need busting, we tackle it all with insight and empathy. Tune in as we sort through the submissions, discuss their implications, and offer grounded, practical alternatives for those seeking genuine psychological wi...

Nov 07, 202319 min

Ep 116 - (Pt 3) Debunking Bad Psychological Advice

In the third installment of our 'Psyche Misguides' series, we venture further into the intricate web of psychological misconceptions. This episode unpacks even more deeply ingrained beliefs, shedding light on their origins and the subtle ways they shape our perceptions. With a blend of expert analyses and real-life testimonies, we challenge the notions of 'Just Trust Your Gut Always' and 'Time Heals All.' Listen in as we deconstruct these myths, offering a richer, more nuanced perspective on men...

Nov 02, 202317 min

Ep 115 - (Pt 2) Debunking Bad Psychological Advice

Welcome back to Part 2 of our deep dive into the world of misguided psychological wisdom. As we continue our exploration, we delve into even more pervasive myths and misconceptions that permeate our daily conversations and cultural beliefs. From the dangers of promoting 'Always Positive Thinking' to the oversimplifications of 'Follow Your Heart', this episode aims to equip listeners with a clearer understanding and a critical lens to navigate the maze of well-intentioned yet potentially harmful ...

Oct 31, 202313 min

Ep 114 - (Pt. 1) Debunking Bad Psychological Advice

Embark on a journey as we dissect and debunk common pieces of bad psychological advice in our 4-part series, 'Psyche Misguides.' Each episode dives into widely accepted yet misguided advice, unraveling the misconceptions and potential harm entangled within seemingly benign suggestions. From the dismissive 'Just Get Over It' to the oversimplified 'Happiness is a Choice,' we tackle the narratives that often hinder personal and collective understanding of mental health. In this series, we feature e...

Oct 26, 202320 min

Ep 113 - (Pt 2) Holiday Harmony: Cultivating Joy and Connection

The journey towards a stress-free and heartfelt holiday season continues in Part 2 of our special holiday series. In this episode, we delve deeper into the essence of the holiday spirit, exploring the transformative power of establishing boundaries, prioritizing self-care, and embracing new, joyful traditions. Discover the fulfilling act of giving back and the profound impact it can have on your well-being and community connection. With a blend of expert insights, practical strategies, and inspi...

Oct 24, 202328 min

Ep 112 - (Pt.1) Holiday Harmony: 12 Tips that Will Prepare You for a Stress-Free Season

As the holiday season beckons, the anticipation of joy, gatherings, and festivities is often mingled with the stress of preparation and expectations. In Part 1 of our holiday series, we delve into setting realistic expectations, budgeting, and early planning to lay the foundation for a serene and joyful celebration. Discover actionable tips on mindful consumption, practicing gratitude, and effective communication to navigate potential hurdles with grace. Join us as we embark on this journey towa...

Oct 19, 202325 min

Ep 111 - Combating the Challenge: Dealing with Toxic Co-Parenting

Facing challenges in your co-parenting dynamic? We delve into the signs of a toxic co-parenting relationship and arm you with strategies to manage and mitigate conflicts. From embracing parallel parenting to understanding when to seek legal advice, we guide you through the tough moments. Join us over at our Facebook Community here >>> Facebook Group You can also email us at [email protected] . Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to p...

Oct 17, 202322 min

Ep. 110 - Navigating the Journey: Tips for Ongoing Healthy Co-Parenting

Co-parenting is an evolving journey. Join us as we discuss strategies to maintain a positive co-parenting relationship over time. From using co-parenting apps and setting boundaries to seeking support and always putting your child first, we cover the nuances of ensuring a harmonious dynamic. Join us over at our Facebook Community here >>> Facebook Group You can also email us at [email protected] . Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended ...

Oct 12, 202319 min

Ep. 109 - Laying the Foundation: Setting Up Successful Co-Parenting

Embarking on the co-parenting path? Dive into this episode where we outline essential foundational strategies that pave the way for a successful co-parenting partnership. From effective communication to setting shared goals, discover how to begin this new phase with clarity and collaboration. Join us over at our Facebook Community here >>> Facebook Group You can also email us at [email protected] . Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended...

Oct 10, 202321 min

Ep 108 - The Power of Appreciation: Strengthening the Bonds of Relationships

In this heartfelt episode, we delve deep into the subtle yet transformative act of showing appreciation in relationships. Whether it's a simple "thank you" or a more profound acknowledgment of a partner's qualities, appreciation lays the foundation for trust, understanding, and deeper emotional connections. We'll discuss real-life examples, share scientific insights, and offer practical tips on how you can effectively convey gratitude to your partner. By recognizing and celebrating the small, ev...

Oct 05, 202317 min

Ep. 107 - This One Tip Can Make Parenting So Much Easier!

In today's episode, we delve into a time-tested strategy that has transformed countless households: the simple affirmation of "Yes, Mom" or "Yes, Dad" by children. It's more than just a rote response; it's about fostering an environment of respect, understanding, and active listening. Learn how this straightforward approach can shift the dynamics of communication, reduce resistance, and increase child compliance in the home. We'll discuss the psychology behind why it works, how to implement it e...

Oct 03, 202321 min

Ep 106 - Diving Deeper: The Equation to Happiness - Part 2

Back by popular demand, we return to further unpack the profound "Equation to Happiness." Building on our foundational understanding from Part 1, this episode delves into real-life applications and stories of those who've harnessed this formula to redefine their paths to joy. We'll navigate the common pitfalls that can skew the balance, and explore strategies to recalibrate when life's scales tip. Featuring candid interviews with experts and inspiring testimonials, we'll uncover how adjusting ou...

Sep 28, 202317 min

Ep 105 - ”Unlocking Joy: The Equation to Happiness”

In today's fast-paced world, where success is often measured in numbers and comparisons, how do we truly find happiness? Join us as we dive deep into the groundbreaking "Equation to Happiness." We'll explore how our personal and professional satisfaction isn't just about achievements or hitting lofty goals. Instead, it hinges on the delicate balance between our performance and our expectations. Through enlightening conversations with entrepreneurs, psychologists, and individuals from all walks o...

Sep 26, 202327 min

Ep. 104 -Trust Traumas: Journeying Through Life with Mistrust ”I Can’t Trust Anyone”

In this revealing episode, we delve deep into Jenny's life, a narrative many can relate to. Growing up in an environment where trust was a rare commodity, Jenny developed an all-encompassing belief that she couldn't rely on anyone but herself. From the playground to the boardroom, her trust issues manifested in various ways, affecting her friendships, romantic relationships, and professional bonds. As we trace the origins of her fears and dissect the pivotal moments of her life, listeners will g...

Sep 21, 202317 min

Ep. 103 -The Evolution of Perfection: A Lifelong Burden ”I Have To Be Perfect!”

Dive into the gripping narrative of Sammy, an individual who, from an early age, felt the immense weight of perfectionism. Through Sammy's experiences, we unveil the double-edged sword of striving for perfection - from the fleeting highs of momentary achievements to the overwhelming lows of never feeling "good enough". Listen in as we dissect the origins of Sammy's perfectionist tendencies, and the profound impact it had on relationships, mental well-being, and self-worth. This episode not only ...

Sep 19, 202330 min