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Mr and Mrs Therapy | EMDR Therapy, Trauma, PTSD, Healing Trauma, Communication, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship

Timothy Olson / Ruth Olson - Inspired by Brene Brown, Mel Robbins, Tony Robbinswww.facebook.com
***TOP 1.5% PODCAST*** Is your trauma consuming you? Are you tired of constantly having anxiety or depression? Are you struggling to stop negative self talk? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? Are you fighting about the same things over and over again in your relationship? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? In this podcast, you will find tools and resources to help you better understand yourself and your relationships. You’ll learn how to manage or even eliminate the constant anxiety, negative self talk, and feelings of overwhelm that you’ve been experiencing. Our mission is to equip you to be healthy mentally and relationally and to bring healing to past trauma that might be still affecting you today. If you’re ready to say yes to being the best version of yourself, have fulfilling and healthy relationships, and have a better life, - then you are in the right place! Hey, we’re Tim and Ruth! We’re licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts with over 30 years of combined experience. We’ve seen time and time again how people have tried to will themselves to be happy, muscle through it, and have ended up even worse off than when they began. We’ve noticed that people have experienced deep pain, whether it’s others who have hurt them or situations and the world just beating them down, and often they have turned that into an internal dialogue where they are mean...like really cruel in how they talk to themselves. They have anxiety, feel depressed and overwhelmed, all the while their self talk is telling them ”I’m not good enough, I’m a failure, I’m worthless, I’m not loveable, I cannot trust anyone, I am powerless, I’m not in control.” How emotionally exhausting! We’ve realized that people want to get out of that place, they just don’t know how. They feel lost, alone, and without hope. Mental health & recurring toxic relationships can feel like an uphill battle, but you are not alone in this, that’s where we come in! We offer specific steps, practical tools, strategies, and insights that will help you to overcome these ongoing battles and help you win the war! There is hope, and there certainly is healing! We can’t wait to share it with you! If you are ready to finally find ways to overcome your anxiety, stop your negative self talk, stop feeling like a burden, break free from co-dependency and toxic relationships, and stop letting your past run the show... and if you’re looking for changes that can transform your life, like improved mood, increased confidence, healthier relationships, and healing from the past that has kept you stuck for too long - this podcast is for you! Bring your drama and your trauma and lets get healing! We’d love to connect with you over in our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mrandmrstherapypodcast/

Episodes

Ep 102 - Mastering Life’s Challenges: 10 Positive Coping Skills You Need

Life can be unpredictable, presenting us with challenges and stressors at every turn. But what if you had an arsenal of effective, positive coping skills to navigate these moments? In this episode, we delve into 10 essential coping techniques that not only help you weather the storm but also thrive amidst it. From mindfulness practices to cultivating gratitude, we'll guide you on harnessing the power of these skills to transform your perspective, enhance resilience, and lead a more balanced life...

Sep 14, 202321 min

Ep. 101 - If You Are Using One of These 10 Negative Coping Skills, STOP Right Now!

Join us in this revealing episode of the 'Mr. and Mrs. Therapy' podcast, where we dive deep into 10 commonly used, but negative coping mechanisms. While these might offer temporary relief, in the long run, they often exacerbate the issues we're trying to manage. We'll explore why these coping mechanisms are so enticing, the harm they can cause, and healthier alternatives we can adopt. From self-harm to emotional eating, it's time we understand these behaviors and equip ourselves with better tool...

Sep 12, 202323 min

Episode 100!!! - Behind the Mic: Our Journey So Far

Celebrate a milestone with Tim and Ruth as they take you on a heartfelt journey down memory lane for the 100th episode of "Mr. & Mrs. Therapy Podcast". This special episode provides a candid look behind the scenes, revisiting the highs, the lows, and everything in between. From the birth of this podcast idea to the inevitable tech hiccups and those hilarious bloopers we all secretly love. Laugh with us as we share those 'oops' moments and the learning curves that shaped our podcasting advent...

Sep 07, 202317 min

Ep 99 - Flipping the Script: Solving Your Own Problems Through Friendly Advice

Tune in to this insightful episode as Tim and Ruth of "Mr. & Mrs. Therapy Podcast" unravel the enigma of external advice and its profound impact on our internal dilemmas. Drawing from their vast experience, they discuss the age-old technique of asking, "What would you advise a friend?" and how this can be a transformative tool for self-discovery and problem-solving. Through engaging stories and in-depth analysis, they illuminate how we often possess the solutions we seek, hidden just beneath...

Sep 05, 202321 min

Ep. 98 - ”I didn’t mean it!” - The Importance of Allowing Others to Clarify in a Healthy Relationship

In today's episode, we delve into the often misunderstood world of changing one's mind. Why is it so hard for us to let others (and even ourselves) pivot in thought or decision? Through engaging discussions and insightful interviews, we'll uncover the cognitive, social, and emotional aspects of changing our minds and why allowing this flexibility can lead to healthier, more dynamic relationships and personal growth. Join us over at our Facebook Community here >>> Facebook Group You can ...

Aug 31, 202323 min

Ep. 97 - You Talk Too Much! Navigating Internal vs. External Processing

In today's episode, we delve deep into the world of internal and external processors. What does it mean to process information internally versus externally? How does this impact our relationships, decision-making, and daily lives? Whether you mull things over silently or think out loud, understanding these processing styles can pave the way for better communication and understanding. Join us as we unpack the nuances, challenges, and strengths of each processing style, and share stories and insig...

Aug 29, 202327 min

Ep. 96 - Conquering The Web of Worry: Strategies to Combat Rumination

In this episode, we delve into the perplexing issue of rumination – the persistent, distressing thoughts that can overpower our mental and emotional well-being. Using metaphors from nature, we explore the destructive nature of rumination and how it closely resembles the wild growth of the kudzu plant. This discussion also unravels the neuroscience behind rumination and sheds light on why it is not always the content but the act of worrying that's most significant. Discover effective therapeutic ...

Aug 24, 202325 min

Ep 95 - 3 Methods to Overcome Tension, Stress, & Dread- Anxiety Symptoms Cluster 2

In this episode of 'Mr. and Mrs. Therapy,' we tackle the Cluster 2 Anxiety Symptoms...TENSION, STRESS, & DREAD. We continue to use the techniques provided by Margaret Wehrenberg, PsyD, in her book "The 10 Best-Ever Anxiety Management Techniques". She outlines 3 typical clusters that anxiety symptoms usually fall into: Cluster 1: Distressing Physical Arousal Cluster 2: Tension, Stress, and Dread Cluster 3: The Mental Anguish of Rumination Today we will give you the 3 Methods to combat Anxiety...

Aug 21, 202325 min

Ep. 94 - Physical Symptoms of Anxiety Too Much to Handle? 3 Methods to Combat Them

In this episode of 'Mr. and Mrs. Therapy,' we use the techniques provided by Margaret Wehrenberg, PsyD, in her book "The 10 Best-Ever Anxiety Management Techniques". She outlines 3 typical clusters that anxiety symptoms usually fall into: Cluster 1: Distressing Physical Arousal Cluster 2: Tension, Stress, and Dread Cluster 3: The Mental Anguish of Rumination Today we will cover Cluster 1: Distressing Physical Arousal and the 3 Methods to combat them. If you've ever grappled with anxiety or are s...

Aug 17, 202317 min

Ep. 93 - Anxiety in Everyday Life: The Hidden Impact on Our Day-to-Day

Most of us know the feeling: that gnawing sensation in our stomach, the racing thoughts, the heightened alertness. But how exactly does anxiety influence our daily actions, decisions, and interactions? In this episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we delve into the pervasive impact of anxiety on our everyday lives. From the way we approach challenges at work to our interactions with loved ones, anxiety has a ripple effect that touches various facets of our existence. We'll explore the subtle ways i...

Aug 15, 202322 min

Ep. 92 -Understanding Anxiety: Different Types and How to Tell Them Apart

Anxiety disorders are common but often misunderstood. With symptoms that overlap and intermingle, it can be challenging to pinpoint exactly what's going on. In this episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we break down the complexities of different anxiety disorders and guide you through the process of telling them apart. From Generalized Anxiety Disorder to Panic Disorder, Social Anxiety, and more, we'll explore the unique characteristics of each. We'll discuss the signs, symptoms, and underlying tr...

Aug 10, 202318 min

Ep. 91 - Unraveling Generalized Anxiety Disorder: A Deep Dive into its Diagnostic Criteri

Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) is a term we often hear, but what does it really entail? In this insightful episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we embark on a comprehensive exploration of the diagnostic criteria that defines GAD. With so many experiencing symptoms of anxiety, it's crucial to distinguish between everyday worries and a clinical disorder that may require intervention. Through our discussion, we'll break down the specific criteria that professionals use to diagnose GAD, shedding l...

Aug 08, 202317 min

Ep. 90 - (Pt. 4) Embracing Life’s Challenges: 4 Practical Strategies for Transformation

Life is filled with complexities, and facing challenges is an inevitable part of our journey. In this insightful episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we guide you through practical and transformative strategies to help you embrace life's challenges with grace and resilience. We understand that challenges often feel overwhelming, and the natural response may be to avoid or fear them. But what if you could shift your mindset and see these challenges as opportunities for personal growth, deeper conne...

Aug 03, 202320 min

Ep. 89 - (Pt. 3) Embracing Life’s Challenges: The Power of Perspective

In this insightful episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy", we delve into the powerful concept of embracing life's challenges through the transformative lens of perspective. Life is full of unexpected twists and turns, and while we can't always control what happens to us, we can control how we perceive and react to these events. Join us as we discuss the remarkable power of perspective and how shifting your viewpoint can turn seemingly insurmountable challenges into valuable opportunities for personal...

Aug 01, 202317 min

Ep. 88 - (Pt. 2) Embracing Life’s Challenges: Acceptance - It Is What It Is!

Life is filled with challenges—some big, some small. But it's not just the challenges we face, but how we respond to them that truly shapes our lives. In this inspiring episode, "The Art of Acceptance: Embracing Life's Challenges," we delve into the transformative power of acceptance. Acceptance is more than resignation—it's a conscious choice to face reality as it is and find strength and growth within that reality. But how do we practice acceptance when faced with life's trials and tribulation...

Jul 27, 202318 min

Ep. 87 - (Pt. 1) Embracing Life’s Challenges - It Starts With Awareness

Welcome to our newest episode, "Awakening Awareness: Understanding Life's Challenges". Life is a series of ups and downs, and the key to navigating this rollercoaster is awareness. But how do we cultivate this awareness to better understand and navigate life's challenges? In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of awareness. We explore how awareness allows us to see the realities of our circumstances, the nature of our reactions, and the path to personal growth and healthier rela...

Jul 25, 202318 min

Ep 86 - On the Bright Side: 10 Proven Ways to Cultivate Optimism

In this uplifting episode, we will take you on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth as we delve into "On the Bright Side: 10 Proven Ways to Cultivate Optimism". Optimism isn't just a personality trait—it's a mindset that can be fostered and strengthened, regardless of life's circumstances. Today, we're going to share 10 evidence-based strategies to help you develop and nurture your optimism. From harnessing the power of positive affirmations and fostering gratitude, to embracing a gro...

Jul 20, 202322 min

Ep. 85 - Brighter Days Ahead: Unleashing the Power of Optimism

Welcome to another episode, where we embark on a journey of exploring the boundless benefits of optimism. Having an optimistic outlook isn't merely about having a 'glass half full' attitude—it's a powerful force that can fundamentally transform your life. In this episode, we delve into the myriad ways optimism can enhance your mental and physical well-being, nurture your relationships, and boost your resilience in the face of adversity. We will shed light on how optimism can be a catalyst for pe...

Jul 18, 202318 min

Ep. 84 - Adult Tantrums: Unraveling the Causes and Paths to Control (Pt. 2)

Welcome back to the second part of our deep dive into adult tantrums. If you've ever found yourself in the midst of an emotional storm, unable to calm the raging seas, this episode is for you. In this continuation of our exploration into adult tantrums, we shift our focus towards managing and controlling these emotional outbursts. We understand that these moments of intense emotion can feel overwhelming, but with the right tools and strategies, they can be effectively managed. We will discuss pr...

Jul 13, 202327 min

Ep. 83 - Adult Tantrums: Unraveling the Causes and Paths to Control (Pt. 1)

In this enlightening episode, we dive deep into the often-overlooked phenomenon of adult tantrums. Much like a child's outburst, these intense emotional eruptions can derail conversations and relationships. But where do they come from? We'll explore the origins of these outbursts, tracing them back to unmet needs and unresolved childhood experiences. Our discussion will break down the psychological underpinnings of adult tantrums, exploring how they serve as defense mechanisms and responses to p...

Jul 11, 202313 min

Ep. 82 - Overcoming Depression:10 Tips for Managing and Treating Depression

In this final episode in our series on depression, we turn the spotlight onto how to treat . We take you through the top 10 strategies that mental health professionals recommend for managing and overcoming this pervasive condition. From exploring various forms of psychotherapy, the role of medication, to the importance of lifestyle modifications, and the promise of emerging treatments, this episode provides a comprehensive look at the arsenal available in the fight against depression. We also di...

Jul 06, 202325 min

Ep. 81 - Living with Depression: Unmasking the Daily Impact of Major Depressive Disorder

In this episode, we take a look at how Major Depressive Disorder (MDD) impacts daily life. Depression is far more than feeling down; it's a serious condition that affects every facet of an individual's life. From the persistent feelings of sadness and hopelessness to the physical symptoms like fatigue and sleep disturbances, we delve into how MDD alters an individual's day-to-day experiences. We will also discuss the social implications of living with depression, such as its effect on relationsh...

Jul 04, 202315 min

Ep. 80 - Decoding Depression: A Deep Dive Into Additional Depression Diagnosis

In the follow-up to our comprehensive episode on Major Depressive Disorder (MDD), we delve into the important concept of differential diagnosis in the context of depression. Building on our previous discussion, we'll explore how clinicians distinguish MDD from other mental health disorders, physical conditions, and normal life experiences that can mimic depressive symptoms. From mood disorders to chronic illnesses and even nutritional deficiencies, understanding the process of differential diagn...

Jun 29, 202310 min

Ep. 79 - Decoding Depression: Major Depressive Disorder Diagnostic Criteria

We are starting a series on depression. In this episode we delve into the intricacies of Major Depressive Disorder (MDD). We aim to demystify this complex mental health disorder, providing listeners with a clear understanding of the diagnostic criteria as defined by mental health professionals. Join us as we discuss the key symptoms, how they manifest in daily life, and the differences between feeling 'down' and living with MDD. We'll also touch on how MDD impacts an individual's emotions, behav...

Jun 27, 202312 min

Ep. 78 - Fight or Flight, Freeze and Fawn - 6 Tips to Manage Your Trauma Response

In today's episode we are doing Part 2 of Fight or Flight, Freeze or Fawn as we continue discussing Trauma Responses. In the last episode we discussed more in depth each of those Trauma responses. Today we are moving forward with 6 Tips to help you have a healthier response to stress: 1. Awareness 2. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) 3. Mindfulness 4. Somatic Therapies 5. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) 6. Self-Care Tune in to gain insights into these trauma responses, disc...

Jun 22, 202314 min

Ep. 77 - Fight or Flight, Freeze and Fawn - Understanding Trauma Response

In this episode, we delve deep into the four universal responses to threat: fight, flight, freeze, and fawn. This lesser-known quartet governs how we respond to stressful situations, with roots in our evolutionary past and profound implications for those healing from trauma. We examine how these reactions shape our behavior during crisis situations, the links to PTSD, and how understanding your dominant response type can aid in personal growth and foster healthier relationships. Tune in to gain ...

Jun 20, 202321 min

Ep. 76 - (Pt. 4) Unmasking Imposter Syndrome: 6 Tips To Overcome Feeling Like a Fraud

Welcome to Part 4 of our deeply engaging series on Imposter Syndrome, "Imposter No More: 6 Practical Tips to Overcome Imposter Syndrome". In this episode, we roll up our sleeves and tackle Imposter Syndrome head-on, providing you with a detailed roadmap to banish self-doubt and step into your power. Whether you're a high-achieving professional, a diligent student, or a determined dream chaser, these practical tips are crafted to help you conquer Imposter Syndrome and lead a more fulfilling, conf...

Jun 15, 202313 min

Ep. 75 - (Pt. 3) Unmasking Imposter Syndrome: Do I have Imposter Syndrome? 9 Signs That You Might

Welcome to Part 3 of our series on Imposter Syndrome. We're diving headfirst into the swirling currents of Imposter Syndrome, dissecting it from all angles to give you a comprehensive understanding of this pervasive phenomenon. Why does success often feel unearned, despite all the hard work you've put in? Why does the fear of being "found out" loom so large, even when your achievements are clear and tangible? Join us as we explore these questions and more, seeking to demystify the experience of ...

Jun 13, 202323 min

Ep. 74 - (Pt. 2) Unmasking Imposter Syndrome: Confront Self-Doubt and Embrace Success

Today we continue with the 5 types of Imposter syndrome that we started in the last episode: 1. The Perfectionist 2. The Expert 3. The Natural Genius 4. The Soloist 5. The Superman or Superwoman We are in a series where we delve deeper into the complex phenomenon of imposter syndrome, a psychological pattern of doubting one's accomplishments and fearing being exposed as a 'fraud.' We explore the impact of imposter syndrome on individuals' mental and emotional well-being, and the hidden price the...

Jun 12, 202316 min

Ep. 73 - (Pt. 1) Unmasking Imposter Syndrome: Confront Self-Doubt and Embrace Success

Today is the first day on our new series on Imposter Syndrome. Have you ever felt like a fraud, worried that you'll be exposed for not being as competent as others believe? Do you constantly feel anxious because you're just waiting for the moment when people figure out that you're not who they think you are? Is all of this causing depression, anxiety, shame, and guilt? You are not alone! Welcome to our latest episode where we delve deep into the intriguing world of Imposter Syndrome. As experien...

Jun 06, 202316 min