Motherhood in ADHD – Parenting with ADHD, Productivity Tips, Brain based Science, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder Education to Help Moms with Adult ADHD - podcast cover

Motherhood in ADHD – Parenting with ADHD, Productivity Tips, Brain based Science, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder Education to Help Moms with Adult ADHD

Productivity, Parenting, and Education for Moms with Adult ADHD Are you overwhelmed by the never-ending to do list of motherhood? Are you burnt out and barely keeping your head above water? Are you confused and frustrated by how all the other moms make it look so easy? And somehow you're still floundering despite trying even harder... Your purse is as overflowing as your mind, you never feel like a good enough mom, and you don't dare have anyone over to visit to witness your messy home. You just want the best for your kids, but you can't figure out how to manage the chaos, both in your mind and in your house. Oh, I've been there, mama. Some days, I'm still there. Parenting with ADHD is hard! We want to be structured for our kids, yet we can't seem to stay consistent even for ourselves. But I'm letting go of everyone else's perception of a "good mom" and stepping into loving who I am a little more each day. Will you join me? Whether you have ADHD like I do, or think you might, here is your permission slip to let go of the pinterest worthy visions of organization and structure fit for everyone else. Let's do life like our brains do life: creatively, lovingly, and with all your might. Moms with ADHD have a superpower of always trying their best, even when it doesn't pan out. How do I know? I have known about my ADD for over twenty years, and I want to share all of this hard-earned ADHD knowledge with you, making your adjustment a lot easier and faster than mine was. What does Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder look like in women? We'll dive into emotional regulation, motivation, executive function, hormones, medication, and natural treatments. Women with ADHD share their diagnosis stories with us, whether inattentive, hyperactive or combined, from childhood through adult diagnoses. We also talk about ADHD's so-called friends like depression, anxiety, addiction, disordered eating, other learning differences, and what I've learned through therapy and CBT. Science is my jam and learning about how our brains work through the lens of scientific research helps us understand who we are. ADHD is not just for little boys; it looks different in girls. Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder is a neurological medical condition, not an excuse for lazy, stupid, unmotivated people to not live up to our potential. Let's agree to throw that thought in the trash. Once we understand how our brains work, we can dive into the practical strategies like structuring our day, minimalism, money, nurturing our relationships, daily rhythms, using a planner, and improving our sleep. I want to help you build your version of a joyful family life. We talk about everything from ADHD to Zebras, because that is how Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder works: to us, our thoughts are clearly connected, but non-linear to everyone else. I want you to love being a zebra in a world full of horses. We were born as unique, gorgeous creatures, not meant to blend in with the usual nor mundane. When we embrace who we are and how our brains work, we can figure out how to live out lives successfully and in turn, lead our families well. At the end of the day, we just want to be good moms. Spoiler alert: you are already a great mom. If you're ready to see that with your own two eyes, hit play and listen in as we love ourselves a little more each day of our ADHD lives. ADHD does NOT mean you're doomed to be a hot mess, mama! You CAN rewrite your story from shame spiral to success story, and I'll be right here beside you to cheer you on! With love, Patricia Sung, a fellow mama with ADHD Free Resources and Transcriptions at: motherhoodinadhd.com Connect with Patricia Sung on Instagram: www.instagram.com/motherhoodinadhd Join like-minded mamas in our Successful Mama Meetups online community: https://www.patriciasung.com/meetup Sign up for community, courses, coaching, and tons of free resources to learn about ADHD: www.patriciasung.com

Episodes

E027: Meet the Teacher: How to Tell Your Child's Teacher about their ADHD

If you have a child who needs a little more one-on-one time and attention from his/her teacher than your average bear, then this episode is for you. Start the year off right with a quick meeting with your child's new teacher to get to know each other, set expectations, and get your kiddo the help they need to be successful starting in September. Find the info & items mentioned in my podcast here: https://www.patriciasung.com/show-notes I also put together a free list of my favorite resources for...

Aug 29, 20198 min

E026: Build a Supportive Partnership with Your Child's Teacher: Tips for Back to School

Your child's teacher may spend more time with your child than you! What an incredibility influential person in your child's life, like them or not! How can you leverage that relationship into the best situation for your child? After years as a middle school teacher, I share how I wish parents would work with teachers to create the best environment for our little ones to learn, regardless if they are in Preschool, Elementary, Junior High, or High School. Grab your notebook & get ready to take som...

Aug 23, 201919 min

E025: Get Ready for the First Day of School: Transitioning Back to School for ADHD -- Let the Preparation Begin!

Transitions are rough for ADHD. Back to School season brings a mountain of new details to absorb, way too many forms to keep track of, and deadlines swarming like flies. So I created a BTS preparedness list for the craziness to create calm in September. That means that we can use our BTS energy to tackle the unpredictable that inevitably comes with a new school year. And if the school year has already started for you, listen in; these tips can be used to make any part of the school year feel in ...

Aug 15, 201922 min

E024: How to Pay Your Bills On Time: Wise Money Management for ADHD

Have you heard these before? Your electricity will be cut off next week! Late fee! Who's been there a time or seventy three? Managing our money is a huge struggle for the ADHD brain. In this series, we straight talk strategies to keep ourselves in control of our dollars and out of trouble! Let go of the fear and stress that we get from even thinking about our bills by building a system to keep our bills from falling through the cracks. We don't have to be a bill-paying kung fu master; our goal i...

Aug 08, 201911 min

E023: How to Stop Overdrawing Your Bank Account: Wise Money Management for ADHD

Are you tired of Declined!, Overdraft Fee!, Money slipping through our fingers like sand? Managing our money is a huge struggle for the ADHD brain. In this series, we are straight talking strategies to keep ourselves in control of our dollars and out of trouble! After years in the banking industry, I've seen my share of overdrawn accounts and fees. I share my tried and true tricks and tips to keep your account above zero. Have a listen to see which ones will work for you and then set up that bac...

Aug 01, 201911 min

E022: How to Save Money in Your Savings Account: Savings First - Wise Money Management for ADHD

Budgets, bills, and impulse buys, oh my! Managing our money is a huge struggle for the ADHD brain. In this upcoming series, we're going to straight talk strategies to keep ourselves in control of our dollars and out of trouble! Let's talk practical steps that you can do today to set up your future self for success. Creating a plan to build your savings account can be set it and forget it, KISS. Let's do these now and check off your adulting for the day! Find the info & items mentioned in my podc...

Jul 25, 201916 minEp. 22

E021: How to Build A New Habit, Even When It Feels Too Hard

Why does it take so dang long to learn anything (and I mean, everything) new?!? When we are learning a new skill, we want it to be automatic. But it's not! It takes a long time to solidify any new routine, habit, skill, etc. Instead of getting frustrated at ourselves or our kids, let's view it like potty training. Together, let's make a plan on how to get it done with motivation, patience, and persistence. We're going to implement, Mama! All good things are worth the wait. And the good news is t...

Jul 18, 201910 minEp. 21

E020: Overwhelmed by Big Projects? Try Baby Steps and Persistence! Itty Bitty Project Wins

Big projects are so overwhelming! Add in ADHD and the task seems insurmountable. Today we are breaking down how to eat that elephant in small bites and reminding ourselves to celebrate when we've finished something, no matter how small. YAY! We don't have to change the world in one day; we can change it over time! Because you are persistent, hard-working, and grinding out the tough stuff because you have a plan in place. You can do this! Find the info & items mentioned in my podcast here: https:...

Jul 11, 201913 minEp. 20

E019: Traveling with Small Children: Air Travel Tips and Tricks for Babies, Toddlers, and Preschoolers

Let's do scary things together! This episode is all of my tried and true tips, tricks, and opinions on how to air travel with your tiny humans, from birth through age 4. It is so worth all of the tantrums, crying (both you and your children), jet lag, and delayed airplane flights in order to create amazing family memories. Because let's be honest...we're dealing with the crying and tantrums anyways, so we may as well do it somewhere fun with panoramic views, am I right? So book that plane ticket...

Jul 04, 201937 minEp. 19

E018: How to Prioritize and Let Go of Perfectionism; Developing a Balance Mindset

Chasing "work-life balance" has only appeared in the hot topics list for the last 30 years or so. Is finding a balance between the weight of motherhood, the stress of work, and seeking a joyful life even possible? Let's flip the conversation and discuss how we can pursue a balance mindset! Release the overwhelming and exhausting goal of to-do list perfectionism and we'll focus on pursuing your priorities that truly matter. Find the info & items mentioned in my podcast here: https://www.patricias...

Jun 27, 201916 minEp. 18

E017: Do You Have ADHD? How to Get an Adult ADHD Diagnosis and Find the Right Doctor to Help You

Now that I've been doing this podcast for a minute, this question comes along often. Do you want a five question quiz that tells you a definitive yes/no answer? Well, our brains are a little more complex than that. I'm no doctor, but let me point you in the right direction and help you figure out the right doctor that can help you find out if you have ADHD. Getting the right diagnosis from a qualified and experienced professional is the first step in your journey to healing and a joy filled life...

Jun 20, 201916 minEp. 17

E016: What's it like inside an ADHD brain? How do you explain ADHD

My good friend asked me to explain what is it like to have ADHD, so I'm doing my best to explain the chaos inside my brain. How can I concentrate on anything with this level of commotion? Good question. Sometimes I wonder myself, ha! I also share a few ideas on how to calm the storm inside, like ADHD medication, routines, life skills, white noise and a whole lot of trial & error.

Jun 13, 201914 minEp. 16

E015: Take Care of Yourself: Try Something New! An unconventional ADHD treatment

"You learn courage by couraging." Mary Daly. I started swim lessons this week at the ripe old age of 37. After I explain how I impulsively got myself into this mess, I want to show how we can role model bravery for our kids, and how this situation parallels the new and scary things we ask of our kids quite often. How can we overcome what's holding us back? Especially fear! What if I look stupid? What if I am terrible? Let's let go of our perfectionism, step out of our comfort zones, embrace brav...

Jun 06, 201919 minEp. 15

E014: Take Care of Yourself: Work in that Workout: Exercise is a powerful ADHD treatment

Who has time for exercise? You, successful mama, you do. Let's look at why movement is helpful for the ADHD brain, and how you can use exercise as part of your well-rounded ADHD treatment plan. We'll overcome the hurdles holding you back and get that workout on the calendar. The first step to making exercise a priority is having a plan so that the big goal is broken down into manageable and doable baby steps. Find the info & items mentioned in my podcast here: https://www.patriciasung.com/show-n...

May 30, 201920 minEp. 14

E013: ADHD Book Review: The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown: A raw and honest look at shame and how we can overcome the negative self talk

Brene Brown, how do I love thee? Let me count the ways! Honestly, she kinda lost me in the beginning of the book, and then it came full circle and I figured out why all that discussion at the front end was life-changing. As a shame researcher, Brene gives practical advice on how identify, and subsequently counter, shame. A must-read for all who are struggling with shame-ridden secrets rotting away at our insides, which I am pretty sure is 99% of us. Find the info & items mentioned in my podcast ...

May 23, 201911 minEp. 13

E012: Take Care of Yourself: Making Time for Me Time when you are a Busy Mom with ADHD

We moms are the worst at taking time for ourselves. Well, as the saying goes, you can't pour from an empty cup. And you surely can't pour from an empty cup for the next 18 years and expect great results. So let's figure out what re-energizes you and overcome the obstacles that are keeping you from spending some time on yourself. Self-care is not a bad word. And because you need a little me time to preserve your sanity, sweet mama. Find the info & items mentioned in my podcast here: https://www.p...

May 16, 201915 minEp. 12

E011: Is ADHD an Explanation or Excuse? It's not the easy way out.

ADHD explains a lot of why we do what we do and why we are the way we are. But there is a fine line between explaining why we do (or don't do) something, and allowing ourselves to use that explanation to habitually excuse ourselves from improving. Are you struggling with this like I am? Just a little self-conviction this week. Find the info & items mentioned in my podcast here: https://www.patriciasung.com/show-notes I also put together a free list of my favorite resources for ADHD mamas; snag t...

May 09, 20196 minEp. 11

E010: How to be Less Late: An ADHD Guide for improving timeliness when you are time blind

While obviously the goal is to be on time, let's take some baby steps and be a little less late. We will look at why we are frequently running late, discuss executive functions involved in the project of leaving your house with kids in tow, find our motivation to make changes, and walk through a few skills, like counting up the minutes you truly need to walk out that door calmly with everything you need. If you're as time blind as I am, you'll want to ask for help in completing this homework, si...

May 02, 201922 minEp. 10

E009: Why Can't Other People Understand ADHD?!? It's beyond frustrating!

It's ridiculously hard for people to understand what they can not see. So what can we do to help our loved ones understand what's going on in our ADHD brains? Spoiler Alert: It is not an easy answer. Find the info & items mentioned in my podcast here: https://www.patriciasung.com/show-notes I also put together a free list of my favorite resources for ADHD mamas; snag that there, too.

Apr 25, 201913 minEp. 9

E008: My Arriving Home Routine: Easy Routines for Moms with ADHD for Calm Evenings and Smooth Mornings

Today I'm explaining what I do when I walk in the door after a long day. Before the chaos begins, I take a few minutes to sort the clutter of backpacks, diaper bags, lunch boxes, and work bags, and prepare for the next day. This gives me less to do before bed, and keeps the to do list short in the mornings. Find the info & items mentioned in my podcast here: https://www.patriciasung.com/show-notes I also put together a free list of my favorite resources for ADHD mamas; snag that there, too....

Apr 18, 20197 minEp. 8

E007: 9 Tidying Habits of Naturally Organized People: Developing the Habit of the Constant State of Tidying and Organizing

I study naturally organized people like it's my job. In this episode, I share 9 ways I've implemented their habits of constantly tidying into my life, which help keep my house relatively organized and most tasks accomplished in a timely fashion. Find the info & items mentioned in my podcast here: https://www.patriciasung.com/show-notes I also put together a free list of my favorite resources for ADHD mamas; snag that there, too....

Apr 11, 201915 minEp. 7

E006: Hugs After Sad News: It's okay to have a hard day!

Forgive my stuffy nose as I tearfully send you big hugs if you are having a hard day, too. When your best friend is moving away, it's just as hard in your 30's as it was when you were a child. Let's wallow for a bit and then put on our big girl pants together. We can do hard things, mama.

Apr 04, 20196 minEp. 6

E005: ADHD Book Review of The Disorganized Mind by Nancy Ratey, A practical guide to ADHD self coaching

A podcast of encouragement and strategy on how to make your motherhood with ADHD better day by day. Patricia recommends and shares her thoughts and opinions of The Disorganized Mind by Nancy Ratey. If you're ready to get started with ADHD coaching but aren't ready to invest your dollars, this may be a good place to start. Find the info & items mentioned in my podcast here: https://www.patriciasung.com/show-notes I also put together a free list of my favorite resources for ADHD mamas; snag that t...

Mar 28, 201911 minEp. 5

E004: First Steps for moms with ADHD attention deficit disorder, Part 4

A podcast of encouragement and strategy on how to make your motherhood with ADHD better day by day. Today on Motherhood in ADHD, we are discussing first steps. In Part 4, Patricia shares a rapid fire list of strategies and ideas you can use to make positive changes quickly. Find the info & items mentioned in my podcast here: https://www.patriciasung.com/show-notes I also put together a free list of my favorite resources for ADHD mamas; snag that there, too....

Mar 21, 201912 minEp. 4

E003: First Steps for moms with ADHD attention deficit disorder, Part 3

A podcast of encouragement and strategy on how to make your motherhood with ADHD better day by day. Today on Motherhood in ADHD, we are discussing first steps. Part 3 covers being honest with yourself, as it will allow you room to grow. Tough to do, but true! Find the info & items mentioned in my podcast here: https://www.patriciasung.com/show-notes I also put together a free list of my favorite resources for ADHD mamas; snag that there, too....

Mar 14, 20198 minEp. 3

E002: First Steps for moms with ADHD attention deficit disorder, Part 2

A podcast of encouragement and strategy on how to make your motherhood with ADHD better day by day. Today on Motherhood in ADHD, we are discussing first steps. Part 2 discusses outlining what your success story will look like with vision boards and goal setting. Find the info & items mentioned in my podcast here: https://www.patriciasung.com/show-notes I also put together a free list of my favorite resources for ADHD mamas; snag that there, too....

Mar 07, 201914 minEp. 2

E001: First Steps for moms with ADHD attention deficit disorder, Part 1

A podcast of encouragement and strategy on how to make your motherhood with ADHD better day by day. Today on Motherhood in ADHD, we are discussing first steps. In Part 1, I'm explaining why it's so important to obtain a professional diagnosis of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, understand how your ADHD brain functions, and find a few cheerleaders to keep spirits up. Community and connection are vital for women with ADHD. Find the info & items mentioned in my podcast here: https://www.pa...

Feb 28, 201913 minEp. 1