Newsflash, dating is hard! And just a year ago I could’ve used an episode like this. So today we’re talking about what to expect from a potential long-term partner and how to show up for them. Always with love, Lexi Keep up with me here, too: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexxhidalgo/?hl=en Moments IG: https://www.instagram.com/themomentspod/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lexxhidalgo YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZpEdIqyesP-XZn89i0yNpQ And orde...
Jul 15, 2025•38 min
People have been asking for this episode for sooo long and now it's time to share how to do what I do. But be warned, this might make you want to become a creator yourself, or leave the internet all together! Always with love, Lexi Keep up with me here, too: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexxhidalgo/?hl=en Moments IG: https://www.instagram.com/themomentspod/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lexxhidalgo YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZpEdIqyesP-XZn89i0...
Jun 13, 2025•38 min
Warning: this is a personal attack episode, and by personal, I mean I'm coming for myself. We're talking social media addiction. What are the impacts of a digital overload? How can you spot when it takes over? And then I share steps to help us break free ... at least for a while. Always with love, Lexi Keep up with me here, too: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexxhidalgo/?hl=en Moments IG: https://www.instagram.com/themomentspod/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lexxhidalgo...
May 30, 2025•40 min
Credit where credit is due, this episode was influenced by a TikTok that I couldn't stop thinking about -- just how toxic online language is and how it impacts our subconscious. So, your girl is sharing some techniques and language to reframe all that crap! Always with love, Lexi Keep up with me here, too: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexxhidalgo/?hl=en Moments IG: https://www.instagram.com/themomentspod/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lexxhidalgo YouTube: https://www.youtu...
Apr 30, 2025•36 min
You know how much I love digging into your questions. And this episode, you all delivered! I share some thoughts and advice, which tbh, even surprised myself by how direct I was speaking on. Whoops. Always with love, Lexi Keep up with me here, too: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexxhidalgo/?hl=en Moments IG: https://www.instagram.com/themomentspod/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lexxhidalgo YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZpEdIqyesP-XZn89i0yNpQ And order the journal that...
Apr 16, 2025•38 min
I've been slacking on a real life update episode for too long! So here it is -- big and small shares, including a HUGE milestone and a not so secret upcoming collaboration. And what would an update show be without me getting a little sidetracked? With love, Lexi Keep up with me here, too: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexxhidalgo/?hl=en Moments IG: https://www.instagram.com/themomentspod/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lexxhidalgo YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZpEdIqye...
Apr 07, 2025•36 min
I'm not gonna lie, this episode is something I needed. Real bad. We don't often hear the voice in our head and what it's saying, and how, if it's negative, is really hurting us. So here's an offering of reframes, adjustments and ways to be softer with yourself. With love, Lexi Keep up with me here, too: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexxhidalgo/?hl=en Moments IG: https://www.instagram.com/themomentspod/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lexxhidalgo YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/cha...
Mar 21, 2025•37 min
I wanted to know what was the best advice that you ever received...so I asked. And y'all came through! Today, we're going through some of your comments together because we all need a reminder :) With love, Lexi Keep up with me here, too: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexxhidalgo/?hl=en Moments IG: https://www.instagram.com/themomentspod/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lexxhidalgo YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZpEdIqyesP-XZn89i0yNpQ And order the journal that sparked it...
Mar 13, 2025•35 min
I used to think dealing with online haters would've gotten easier the longer I've been online. But it hasn't. So I'm sharing some tips and advice that helps me ignore and move past the haters. Spoiler, you guys help so much! With love, Lexi Keep up with me here, too: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexxhidalgo/?hl=en Moments IG: https://www.instagram.com/themomentspod/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lexxhidalgo YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZpEdIqyesP-XZn89i0yNpQ And ord...
Feb 28, 2025•36 min
Ok, you've been asking for it and today he finally makes his Moments appearance! Together, we're answering the questions that you wanted men to answer and it got us digging deep into our own relationship: working through early dating experiences, how men should approach women and partners to even start dating, and how to communicate needs all along the way. With love, Lexi Keep up with me here, too: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexxhidalgo/?hl=en Moments IG: https://www.instagram.com/the...
Feb 23, 2025•43 min
Whoooa! I asked what questions you all had for me and you came through with some BIG topics! Love, faith, insecurities :,) UGH so many vulnerable moments we dig into with this one! With love, Lexi Keep up with me here, too: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexxhidalgo/?hl=en Moments IG: https://www.instagram.com/themomentspod/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lexxhidalgo YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZpEdIqyesP-XZn89i0yNpQ And order the journal that sparked it all, so excit...
Feb 12, 2025•52 min•Season 2Ep. 48
I'm far from a perfect person. You know this if you've been listening. But that doesn't mean I don't try to get better even if it's hard. Ughhh, so hard!! Today, we're digging into to some tips that might help you get better, maybe even just a little bit. With love, Lexi Keep up with me here, too: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexxhidalgo/?hl=en Moments IG: https://www.instagram.com/themomentspod/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lexxhidalgo YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/U...
Feb 05, 2025•42 min•Season 2Ep. 47
Every now and then I get stuck. You already know this. But it usually happens when I start to pick up my phone, go to social media and compare my life versus someone else's. Here are a few reminders of how I get myself out of those moments. With love, Lexi Keep up with me here, too: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexxhidalgo/?hl=en Moments IG: https://www.instagram.com/themomentspod/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lexxhidalgo YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZpEdIqyesP-XZn...
Jan 29, 2025•30 min•Season 2Ep. 46
You've been asking me about my faith journey and to be honest, it doesn't feel like a real testimony. I haven't had this breakthrough or any kind of miracle, but I have changed. Now I need a little bible in my life like I need my morning coffee. Here's how it happened... With love, Lexi Keep up with me here, too: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexxhidalgo/?hl=en Moments IG: https://www.instagram.com/themomentspod/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lexxhidalgo YouTube: https://www.youtu...
Jan 27, 2025•33 min•Season 2Ep. 45
We've been talking a lot about things to change so far this year -- resolutions or what to leave behind. And today I want to share why I believe less is more (most of the time). Pleeease take it from me, someone who's tried everything to feel better about myself, my insecurities, and listen to what I've learned from the process. With love, Lexi Keep up with me here, too: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexxhidalgo/?hl=en Moments IG: https://www.instagram.com/themomentspod/?hl=en TikTok: htt...
Jan 15, 2025•34 min•Season 2Ep. 44
First of all, THANK YOU! Ugh I'm crying because you all sent the most loving messages about my engagement! Is there an episode with Gabe coming up? Maaaybe. Now, on to business. It's all the way 2025 and I'm giving you a list of things that we're leaving behind that were weighing us down and slowing us up. Let's go! With love, Lexi Keep up with me here, too: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexxhidalgo/?hl=en Moments IG: https://www.instagram.com/themomentspod/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tikt...
Jan 08, 2025•26 min•Season 2Ep. 43
We made it, babe. Happy 2025! If you're like me this time can be really overwhelming, especially when it comes to New Year's resolutions. New year, new me? Here's a list of a few things you can try out that I think might make 2025 a happier and healthier year. With love, Lexi Keep up with me here, too: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexxhidalgo/?hl=en Moments IG: https://www.instagram.com/themomentspod/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lexxhidalgo YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/chan...
Jan 01, 2025•29 min•Season 2Ep. 42
Do you find it absolutely impossible to buy gifts for people? Maybe the holidays freak you out because you can't stop thinking about how to give a thoughtful gift. Well, your girl has got you! Here's a quick guide on how to give the perfect thoughtful gift that your people will remember. We're talking handmade gifts, how to effectively thrift and why Pinterest is your friend. Find my amazon gift list here: https://www.amazon.com/shop/lexxhidalgo With love, Lexi Keep up with me here, too: Instagr...
Dec 04, 2024•32 min•Season 2Ep. 41
I love the holiday season, like maybe a little too much. But it comes with some baggage. Today, we're talking about things to keep in mind before the festivities start. Things like how to deal with family, and their politics, how to appreciate what you have and appreciate where other people are in life. With love, Lexi Keep up with me here, too: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexxhidalgo/?hl=en Moments IG: https://www.instagram.com/themomentspod/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lexxh...
Nov 27, 2024•27 min•Season 2Ep. 40
Today is a very special episode! I asked if you wanted to share journal entries with me to read on the pod and so many of you did. The idea is that yes, we can all feel alone, but it also feels so much less lonely knowing that we all go through similar struggles. So let's not waste time and get into it! In this episode, we'll talk about: Feeling lonely or lacking friends, especially when it comes to big life changes Swimming through feelings of being stuck in life Help! I just got to college and...
Nov 22, 2024•34 min•Season 2Ep. 39
If you're looking for a man instead of a boy, what questions should you ask yourself? I could talk about this topic F O R E V E R. Why? Because I've dated all the bad ones. So, here are some questions you should ask yourself when you start a new relationship with a partner. In this episode, we'll talk about: Why it matters where and how you met Why it matters who their friends are Why it matters how they treat their family Asking if your morals align (yes, it even matters if you vote similarly) ...
Nov 07, 2024•43 min•Season 2Ep. 38
I know there are things you might be tired of me saying but the truth is that we all need reminders. And today I'm sharing a list of reminders that I often tell myself and think that we all need to hear. In this episode we'll talk about: How to be more present Why journaling might be the key to all my problems Apologizing even when you don't want to Cherishing our loved ones And, blocking out the haters (which sometimes includes ourselves) With love, Lexi For hurricane relief and shelter help, c...
Oct 31, 2024•39 min•Season 2Ep. 37
There are things about me that always stood out that everyone would comment on...like my freckles. They probably didn't know how much I used to hate them. But something changed over time and now I see them as a beautiful thing. I want to share some other things that I've grown out of (mindsets, body acceptance, horrible boys) and how. In this episode we'll talk about: Working through insecurities Dealing with the desire to impress Understanding my need to prove myself to adults and older people ...
Oct 22, 2024•38 min•Season 2Ep. 36
Sometimes life is a fun trip or photoshoot with friends. Easy going and lots to enjoy. Other times, it takes everything inside of you not to just collapse. For me, these last few weeks have been a CHALLENGE. And today, without dumping too much, I want to share what's been going on and how I've been getting through it. Some of the things we'll talk about: How living in Florida this month has been terrifying (hurricanes AND tornados?!) How to care for animals during storms and what you can do My j...
Oct 16, 2024•43 min•Season 2Ep. 35
Something you may not know about me is that I've been alcohol-free for the past three months. It hasn't been easy. Basically, I started paying attention to my body and how I felt the days after I drank -- anxious, sad and just no energy. I've taken breaks before but I would always come back to drinking. So to better understand my relationship with alcohol, I brought on one of the smartest people I know onto the pod, Dr. Jessica Leon . Some of the things we get into here: A judgment-free conversa...
Oct 01, 2024•57 min•Season 2Ep. 34
There are things I hate to talk about. Things that I'd literally rather do anything else in the world than unpack. But I've learned the hard way that if I don't talk about the hard things, the challenges I've faced, I stay stuck. Charlie Webster is an author, podcast host and superstar journalist, and she says not only is it ok to talk about those hard things, but you have to! Some things we'll talk about this week: How to make space to process your trauma How your critical voice is a roadmap to...
Sep 25, 2024•1 hr 4 min•Season 2Ep. 33
I asked for your questions and they have been piling up in my DMs. Today is the day we start to dig in and answer them together! These honestly are my favorite episodes because, as you know I'm not a therapist, but I am someone who's gone through, and is going through, a lot of the same things. And sometimes you want to hear from people who can relate to you. Some things we'll talk about this week: How to deal with friendship jealousy (of all kinds) Making friends as an introvert with social anx...
Sep 16, 2024•39 min•Season 2Ep. 32
So, I may be notorious for starting things and not finishing them BUT, I'm sharing a list that even I can follow that makes my life better. And, I'm challenging you to try out a few of them for a week, report back, and let me know if they make your life better -- even if by 1%. Some things we'll talk about this week: How waking up an hour-to-30 minutes earlier can change your entire day Setting boundaries with your phone to improve your mental health Stimulating your mind through reading or list...
Sep 09, 2024•33 min•Season 2Ep. 31
If there's someone who's done so much, so young, it's Tay Lautner. I got a chance to sit down with her and ask all the things I've been dying to ask, including: Her experience as a nurse during COVID How she protects her mental health Her pivot from health care to her wildly successful blog and podcast And, how she dreams really big in her dreams and has brought those dreams to life Order the journal that sparked it all, so excited for you to experience the moments journal too💖 https://themomen...
Sep 02, 2024•54 min•Season 2Ep. 30
A little birdie told me that for a lot of people, college starts this week! Which is a super exciting time that comes with so much freedom and independence but can also be really scary. And it doesn't really come with a playbook...until now. I' sharing everything that I wish someone told me before my freshman year, so listen in and hear: How a clean personal space leads to a clear mind How to embrace your alone time and really get to know yourself How to build good relationships with your roomma...
Aug 26, 2024•49 min•Season 2Ep. 29