Gaslighting. It can make you think you’re losing your mind. It steals trust, happiness and more. It happens most often in romantic relationships. We can experience it at work, school, within families and through autism research. Would you know if you’re being gaslighted? Hear about this serious form of abuse whether you're autistic or not. Support the Show! Rate and review the podcast. It helps make this content available to more autistics. It only takes a few seconds to rate, less than a m...
Jan 26, 2022•18 min
Manipulators create triangles in relationships to control and confuse. Would you recognize this common method of abuse? An autistic person's best characteristics can leave them vulnerable to this kind of emotional abuse. It's subtle and easy to miss. Abusers create a triangle with two other people who are fooled and manipulated into believing in a false reality. It's sneaky so a victim may not even realize it's happening. Not all triangles are unhealthy. Listen to learn how t...
Jan 11, 2022•17 min
Do you recognize the messages about love and relationships that make people vulnerable to abuse? Movies, books, family and more all paint an idealized picture of what love and commitment looks like. Fictional versions of love can keep us from seeing reality. These examples may seem all too familiar. SUPPORT THE SHOW ON Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/theautisticwoman Contact me on Twitter: @anautisticwoman Linktree: https://linktr.ee/theautisticwoman Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% G...
Jan 03, 2022•16 min
Are autistics susceptible to domestic violence? Autistic traits can make a person more vulnerable to emotional and physical abuse. The primary way to be protected is through knowledge and preparation. This episode is the first of a series about domestic violence. Learn the signs that a person you meet or know may be more likely to commit an act of domestic violence either by using emotional, mental or physical intimidation. Contact me on Twitter: @anautisticwoman Linktree: https://linktr.ee/thea...
Dec 15, 2021•19 min
Do you have piles of self-help books that didn’t work? It’s not you! Have you heard that things happen for a reason? Is that a) a scientific fact, b) a spiritual concept, c) something people say when things go terribly wrong. You may have heard you can find true, lasting, mind-blowing love by following simple self-help advice. Are you buying it? Maybe you’re just not doing it right and need to read another book. Or you can listen to this episode! Contact me on Twitter: @anautisticwoman Linktree:...
Nov 29, 2021•9 min
Do you follow a request with an apology for asking? If you struggle with social communication you might think it's necessary. Hear an alternative way to ask for what you want. #ActuallyAutistic Contact me on Twitter: @anautisticwoman Email: [email protected] Linktree: https://linktr.ee/theautisticwoman Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link which helps the podcast) N...
Nov 15, 2021•4 min
Do you find yourself focusing on the worst possible outcome? This might explain it. Contact me on Twitter: @anautisticwoman Email: [email protected] Linktree: https://linktr.ee/theautisticwoman Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link which helps the podcast) No credit card needed. Want to be a guest or know someone who would be a good guest? Fill out this form: https://tin...
Nov 06, 2021•10 min
Ever feel like you’re getting way too excited over something that hasn’t happened yet? It seems like your imagination goes wild and it feels great! Could it be a variation of rumination? Reactions to the news of something important can feel so good that the brain sees all kinds of possibilities. Pretty soon, a person can be planning their life around something that is mere speculation. Probably not perseveration, doubtful it"s rumination, is this a thing? Support the show NOW RATED IN THE T...
Oct 18, 2021•8 min
NEW EPISODE: Saying “I’m Autistic” - Who have you told you’re autistic? Were you believed? Revealing yourself to a few people can have some expected and unexpected reactions. Hear a perspective about both sides of the conversation. Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link which helps the podcast) No credit card needed. Want to be a guest or know someone who would be a good guest? F...
Oct 08, 2021•9 min
Therapists say you’re not autistic based on study results that just don’t add up. Hear about the real numbers that challenge years of faulty research. Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link which helps the podcast) No credit card needed. Want to be a guest or know someone who would be a good guest? Fill out this form: https://tinyurl.com/autguestspot Instagram: anautisticwoman ht...
Oct 01, 2021•4 min
If you’re autistic you might struggle with speaking up for yourself. Here’s what happened when I did and what can make it easier in the future. Promo music by scottholmesmusic.com Intro/outro by @anautisticwoman Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link which helps the podcast) No credit card needed. Want to be a guest or know someone who would be a good guest? Fill out this form: h...
Sep 24, 2021•8 min
NEW EPISODE! Is your stylus stuck in an endless loop and you like it that way? Tune into the newest episode “Music” on Meet My Brain and set it to continuous play. Volume up! You’ll like what you hear. Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link which helps the podcast) No credit card needed. Want to be a guest or know someone who would be a good guest? Fill out this form: https://tin...
Sep 02, 2021•15 min
Job Interview Questions-How comfortable are you with job interviews? Hear about the questions you may be asked and how to answer using this confidence-boosting method. Support the Podcast on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/theautisticwoman Job Interview Questions Link: https://tinyurl.com/JISQAutisticWoman Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link which helps the podcast) No credit...
Aug 18, 2021•19 min
Some jobs put a strain on autistic traits and sensitivities. Sampling a variety can help identify what works best for you. Sensory issues can make some work environments difficult. Going in too many directions at the same time can hamper productivity. Hear actual experiences that make a difference in finding the perfect fit. Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link which helps the ...
Aug 11, 2021•26 min
Autistics aren't limited to working in STEM careers. Autistic traits are valuable in law, psychology, medicine, teaching and more. Knowing what to look for can lead to a good match. First, you might have to kiss a few frogs. (Try different things) Here's a link to the US Department of Labor job information site which lists almost any job you can think of and tons more you've never heard of. Check out the current employment trends too. https://www.bls.gov/ooh/ Support the show NOW ...
Aug 04, 2021•13 min
Perfect hair, perfect clothes, perfect job, perfect life...do you struggle to be perfect? You might be setting yourself up for rejection. Is perfection possible? Hear why it can be destructive to your self-esteem and your relationships. Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link which helps the podcast) No credit card needed. Want to be a guest or know someone who would be a good gue...
Jul 23, 2021•15 min
It's something many autistics do--think and think and think. It's natural for us to analyze and find answers. Sometimes a good thing can be too much and cause stress and frustration. It's not pleasant. Listen to this episode to learn more about the types and causes of rumination. Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link which helps the podcast) No credit card needed....
Jul 07, 2021•25 min
It's almost here! Season 1 is complete and Season 2 is on its way! Are you ready for another great season? There are amazing episodes coming as the podcast celebrates 20,000+ downloads since January! Thank you for your support of Meet My Brain - A Field Guide to Aspergers. Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link which helps the podcast) No credit card needed. Want to be a gue...
Jun 09, 2021•2 min
How do you make an extreme male brain? Start with male-female stereotypes, add testosterone, mix in "scientific" research until you have a nice strong bias and serve! Voila! Find out if this is real science in the new episode: The Myth of the Extreme Male Brain Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link which helps the podcast) No credit card needed. Want to be a guest or k...
May 27, 2021•12 min
If you have ever encountered a bully at work, particularly a boss, this is the only way to handle one. This advice is different than what you’ve heard because standing up to a bully or confronting one is not the answer. What’s the best way to deal with a bully? Hear how this unconventional advice works. Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link which helps the podcast) No credit car...
May 21, 2021•21 min
Systematizing is said by some researchers to be one of the most important criteria for diagnosing autism. These scientists believe that people high in systematizing are low in empathizing. Is this true? This episode is the second of a 3-paet series about the Extreme Male Brain. Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link which helps the podcast) No credit card needed. Want to be a gue...
May 18, 2021•10 min
Is there an Extreme Male Brain? The first of three episodes looks at empathy and its role in the autistic brain. Learn why some researchers say autistics’ male brain is why we don’t understand peoples’ feelings. Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link which helps the podcast) No credit card needed. Want to be a guest or know someone who would be a good guest? Fill out this form: h...
May 10, 2021•10 min
Is writing easy for you? Every day we encounter written communication in many forms, from signs to reports, emails to text messages. This episode is a quick look at one thing that makes writing difficult for some–understanding the reader’s expectations. Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link which helps the podcast) No credit card needed. Want to be a guest or know someone who wo...
Apr 30, 2021•6 min
Do you live your life in extremes? Yes, no. Bad, good. Always, never? Black and white thinking might be the reason. The autistic brain is wired to see things as absolutes. Is it possible to create your own gray area? Hear how to embrace black and white thinking and use it to your advantage. Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link which helps the podcast) No credit card needed. Wan...
Apr 23, 2021•16 min
Special interests create a sensory experience for the autistic brain. They satisfy the autistic’s sense of wonder and love for learning. Yet special interests are referred to as “circumscribed” “obsessions” “preoccupations” “limited” “restricted.” Are they? Or is there something else going on? Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link which helps the podcast) No credit card needed. ...
Apr 14, 2021•13 min
93% of data is wrong and the other 7% is made up. When it comes to body language, we’ve accepted this kind of thinking for too long. Autistics understand body language and even have their own. The latest studies are showing that neurotypicals don’t understand autistic body language. Take a look at how new research is redefining the way we see autism’s effects on body language. Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.suns...
Apr 06, 2021•15 min
Do some sounds get on your nerves and others lift your mood? Autistic brains are sensitive to sound. Sounds affect the nervous system of an autistic and can cause severe neurological symptoms such as pain, anxiety, incapacity and meltdowns. Dealing with these sounds impacts a person’s ability to communicate, work and enjoy life. Listen to the discord that is known as sound sensitivity. Please take a moment and rate/review the podcast. It takes seconds to rate it and just a minute to review it. B...
Mar 25, 2021•11 min
How does it feel to wake up autistic? What life sounds like when we open our eyes can set the tone for the whole day. Unrelenting and irritating noise wreaks havoc with our nervous system. Is anybody listening? Do you hear us? Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link which helps the podcast) No credit card needed. Want to be a guest or know someone who would be a good guest? Fill o...
Mar 19, 2021•4 min
What is visual thinking, also called “thinking in pictures”? This episode answers that question and tells you why visual thinking may be a superpower. Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link which helps the podcast) No credit card needed. Want to be a guest or know someone who would be a good guest? Fill out this form: https://tinyurl.com/autguestspot Instagram: anautisticwoman ht...
Mar 04, 2021•11 min
Do you feel like a fish out of water when someone speaks in idioms? Like you’re not on the same page? Don’t wait for pigs to fly! Hear how the literal brain understands idioms–straight from the horse’s mouth. Support the show NOW RATED IN THE TOP 0.5% GLOBALLY! -->Free 30-day trial for the podcast listeners! https://try.sunsama.com/xi4blkokndgk (affiliate link which helps the podcast) No credit card needed. Want to be a guest or know someone who would be a good guest? Fill out this form: http...
Feb 18, 2021•11 min
