Nicholas Bayerle has found a way to build his business around his life, instead of his life around his business. Coining the "3-Dimensional Businessman", he has started the Billion Dollar Brotherhood – a mastermind for value-driven entrepreneurs to grow their businesses and make a lasting impact on society. In this interview, Nicholas shares how he went from living at the poverty line to growing a successful business, including the personal development secrets he picked up along the way. Join th...
Oct 04, 2021•52 min•Ep. 121
In today's episode, Sathiya explains the underlying principles that guided his decision to move to Jamaica, and how it always comes back to freedom. You have a calling, dreams, and goals in life that will be better accomplished with freedom from sexual misbehavior. Furthermore, as you achieve freedom in these areas, you must also take small steps towards your dreams/goals/calling, and watch God bless it in the process. If you're looking to take some risks in life and step further into the callin...
Oct 01, 2021•22 min•Ep. 120
If you assess the life of someone who has been successful in a certain area of life long-term, it is because they have harnessed the power of positive feedback loops. Today's episode explores this concept in greater detail, with real-life examples. If you can apply this concept to your recovery journey (or any other area of life), the results will eventually speak for themselves. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (UR...
Sep 30, 2021•18 min•Ep. 119
Traditionally, we learn to condemn and shame ourselves for having bad thoughts, temptations, etc. Yet the experience of Jesus paints a different picture. He was tempted in every way, yet without sin. Understanding how this is possible offers us critical insights for living sinless, shameless, and without condemnation. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and...
Sep 29, 2021•21 min•Ep. 118
Today's episode explains in greater detail WHY relapse is a part of recovery. The question at hand is "Can I recover without a relapse?" and the answer is a resounding yes, however, don't forget that relapses happen externally and internally. The goal for a full recovery is to no longer slip in both arenas, and this takes time. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly in...
Sep 28, 2021•16 min•Ep. 117
Ricardo Camara helps business leaders and teams restore and strengthen interpersonal relationships with colleagues and clients. His clients typically experience a personal and professional transformation through his coaching programs that utilize unique Relationship Intelligence (RQ) methodology, tools, and biblical principles and teachings. In today's episode, we discuss why conflicts exist in the first place, actionable steps towards resolving those conflicts, and Ricardo's absolutely wild sal...
Sep 27, 2021•52 min•Ep. 116
Leadership, leadership, leadership. This is a subject that often comes up, as poor leadership is the first domino to fall in a chain of events/thoughts that end as as lip. Growing as leaders is a mandate for the recovered man and today's episode explains why and how. 53 - Every Man Is A Leader Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing u...
Sep 24, 2021•15 min•Ep. 115
Restoration is for the self. Reconciliation is for the relationship. Knowing the difference is critical in the recovery process, especially as you experience healing from wounds of the past. Today's episode gives you clear advice on how to approach the recovery process in both regards, as only one of these concepts is necessary to experience full freedom from sexual misbehavior. 60 - Who Should I Tell About My Porn Addiction? Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The...
Sep 23, 2021•19 min•Ep. 114
Warning, you are about to listen to a subject that is rather touchy for the host! Today's episode explains why "What can I get away with?" is a horrible question to ask in general, but particularly in relationships. There is a better alternative that is bound to lead to better decision-making and more fulfilling relationships. Sathiya uses his own personal experiences to explain both the classic mistakes and the alternatives that you can begin applying today. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sath...
Sep 22, 2021•28 min•Ep. 113
Inspired by a recent interview featuring John Mark Comer and Carey Nieuwhof, Sathiya unpacks the statement, "Your strongest desire is not the same as your deepest desire." We are regularly tempted to cater to our strongest desires, as they are often the loudest and most present. While they are tempting, it is the fulfillment of our deepest desires that truly bring satisfaction in life. Today's episode explains this concept in more detail while offering some practical ways for you to apply it to ...
Sep 21, 2021•15 min•Ep. 112
Dan Martin is Director of Training and Partnerships for pureHOPE. He is a frequent conference speaker and guest teaching Pastor on topics addressing Family, Parenting, Marriage and Technology. In today's episode, Dan talks with Sathiya about the detriment of purity culture, redefining healthy sexuality, practical ways for having conversations with your kids about sex, and many other subjects. It is a very rich interview. If you struggle with any kind of religious shame around sex, this episode i...
Sep 20, 2021•50 min•Ep. 111
Saying "no" to bad things easy. Saying "no" to good things is hard. Yet the greatest rewards can only be harnessed when we are willing to sacrifice the good things in our lives. Today's episode anecdotally explains why sometimes ending a good relationship makes sense if it means you get the chance for something great. It is God's delight to honor these sacrifices, especially when the motives for doing so are godly in nature. If you are in any role that involves providing relationship advice, or ...
Sep 17, 2021•18 min•Ep. 110
If you've been sexually active with someone from your past, it can be hard to move on psychologically, emotionally and/or sexually. Today's podcast provides you with practical ways to deal with ex's, ensuring that you leave the baggage behind as you move on with your life and enter new relationships. It doesn't matter what your past is, moving on is feasible for everyone. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at ww...
Sep 16, 2021•26 min•Ep. 109
Today's episode explores the triune brain model and how it helps us understand our behavior, and ultimately, ourselves. The brain is a beautiful thing, and when its power is correctly harnessed, we make good decisions and lead ourselves in a way that is godly and composed. If you struggle with anxiety, rushes of urges or temptations, or anything else that stops you from concentrating on a regular basis, this episode will be extremely insightful for you. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam...
Sep 15, 2021•15 min•Ep. 108
Recently there has been a revolt against 'purity culture'. Today's episode explores the validity of this rebuttal and some of the complexities that surround it. While purity culture has caused significant harm over the years, we must ensure our response does not swing too far the other way at the expense of godly standards and virtues. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive w...
Sep 14, 2021•25 min•Ep. 107
For 24 years, Kirk served on the frontlines of ministry to men through his work with Promise Keepers Canada - Impactus. He is the author of "The Seasons of Fatherhood: Why Dads Matter At Every Stage of Life." Kirk has taught thousands of men to find hope, freedom, and purpose in Jesus. In today's interview, Kirk shares why he left Promise Keepers when it was doing well, how to juggle spiritual life with the demands of family and marriage, and why prioritizing sabbath will change your impact as a...
Sep 13, 2021•47 min•Ep. 106
Today's episode explores Psalm 23:4b and the significance it holds for us in seasons of challenge and trial. The comfort of God is available to us at all times - sometimes as guidance, other times as correction. As a Christian culture, we have become resistant to correction, but when it is done properly, there is nothing more comforting. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive...
Sep 10, 2021•19 min•Ep. 105
One of most vulnerable times for men is the night. A rush of urges, a swell of temptations, and racing thoughts often become the springboard into relapses. Today's episode addresses the conditioning of our brains that happens around nightlife and sleep, and some practical ways to rewire your brain to handle the night with ease. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly in...
Sep 09, 2021•18 min•Ep. 104
It's not secret that anxiety levels are at an all time high and it is causing problems relationally, physically, and spiritually. Today's episode dives into some of the environmental factors that are driving anxiety prevalence while offering an approach to find personalized solutions. If you have been experiencing anxiety lately or have had a long-term struggle, this episode is for you. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addict...
Sep 08, 2021•19 min•Ep. 103
The mindsets you carry around recovery matter BIG time. Many of the errors men make on the road to recovery boil down to poor thinking. Today's episode uses a metaphor to explain some of the most crucial paradigms that you must possess to achieve complete freedom from pornography. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my news...
Sep 07, 2021•22 min•Ep. 102
Doug & Jorge are from Castimonia – an organization that helps men recover from sexual brokenness. Having both been through multiple affairs, near marriage breakdown, and deep porn/sex addiction, both Doug & Jorge know what it's like to struggle. They also know what it's like to experience redemption through transparency, community, and having expert guidance along the way. In today's interview, they explain their stories, how to heal marriages that have been broken by porn/sex addiction,...
Sep 06, 2021•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 101
Today marks the 100th episode of The New Man! Hard to believe how far it has come in such a short time. We look back at 5 highlights of the podcast that will make a notable difference in your life. Here's to the next 100! 1 - Picking The Right Spouse Series 2 - Interview w/ Jerrad Lopes 3 - Interview w/ Dr. Joe Martin 4 - Who Should I Tell About My Porn Addiction? 5 - Attachment Theory Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly i...
Sep 03, 2021•24 min•Ep. 100
Hearing God's voice is a critical piece of the recovery journey for the believer. The nudges, prompts, wisdom, and correction of the Holy Spirit goes a very long way to refining and restoring the heart of man. Today's episode details why hearing God's voice is imperative for recovery, and a few practical steps you can take to try it. Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newslett...
Sep 02, 2021•21 min•Ep. 99
In a society that reduces value for marriage by the day, you may have wondered – what's the point? Why can't I just shack up with my girlfriend? Why can't we get married later? Why even get married at all when the divorce rate is so high? These are questions that we tackle in today's episode. There are really two fundamental reasons to get married apart from the spiritual and moral aspects, commitment and safety. Whether you're single and hoping to be married one day, or you are in the thick of ...
Sep 01, 2021•20 min•Ep. 98
Let's be real, we're all dudes and therefore we all have penises. In today's society, pornography is not only the primary 'educator' for sex, it also teaches men about their own anatomy – for better or mostly, for worse. Today's episode outlines three surprising facts about your junk that to be frank – are extremely liberating. If you've ever wondered about size, shape, ED and the like, this is the episode for you. The Penis Book by Aaron Spitz, MD Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn A...
Aug 31, 2021•24 min•Ep. 97
Ian Henderson is the founder of The Naked Truth Project, an organization that raises awareness about the harmful effects of pornography in the United Kingdom. He is a gifted communicator and regularly speaks at conferences nationally and internationally. In today's interview, Ian shares about how he dealt with the devastating news that his father had been arrested for having child porn, how he used it to further his calling, and some of the cultural dynamics they experience around sexuality in t...
Aug 30, 2021•49 min•Ep. 91
In today's rather philosophical episode, Sathiya discusses what it means to be a man. While society and culture are constantly trying to redefine manhood and the like, the reality is there are first-principles that truly define a man. We look at three of them today and what it looks like to actively apply them in your life. Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www....
Aug 27, 2021•21 min•Ep. 95
Today's episode explores trends among different generations in our society, and how it impacts porn viewership. Understanding the motives, values, and needs of each generation is quite insightful and provides intel regarding the most effective solutions. Certain programs/systems that worked for older generations may not necessarily work for younger generations. We unpack all of this and more, using recent studies and surveys. Enjoy! Covenant Eyes Porn Stats The Center for Generational Kinetics -...
Aug 26, 2021•29 min•Ep. 94
In Canada alone, there were a whopping 5 MILLION breakups in 2020. Factor in the continuing dynamics in 2021, and it is clear that a lot of people experienced heartbreak, disconnect and loneliness in the last 18 months. Today's podcast explores practical ways to respond to breakups. If you endured any kind relational hardship since the start of the pandemic, this episode is for you. Survey - 5M Breakups in Canada in 2021 https://www.finder.com/ca/divorce-statistics Download The Ultimate Recovery...
Aug 25, 2021•17 min•Ep. 93
Today's episode is a review of the book "The Body Keeps The Score" by Dr. Bessel van der kolk. This riveting read unpacks a life's work dedicated to helping trauma victims recover. Many who struggle with porn addiction also have had trauma and abuse histories, which is why today's episode highlights the salient points of the book for someone in recovery. If you have experienced trauma and suspect it is playing a role in your recovery experience, this episode is worth a listen Buy The Body Keeps ...
Aug 24, 2021•27 min•Ep. 92
