Today’s guest is truly AMAZING! It was an honor to have her on the show. Casey Williams is a graduate of the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program and I knew that you all needed to hear her story after I met with her in our 1:1 coaching sessions. She is SO vulnerable on the show, everything from how using alcohol as a numbing tool impacted her, to learning how to show up securely attached in dating for the first time; she keeps it honest and vulnerable! Inside of this episode: Casey’s vulnerable perso...
Apr 19, 2023•45 min
HIGH VALUE EPISODE ALERT!!! After a ton of requests from the audience, I am finally giving you the guide book on dating multiple people at once. You won’t want to miss this one! Inside this episode, you will be able to: Master the art of dating multiple people while maintaining a secure attachment style. Understand the crucial role of open communication in non-exclusive relationships. Learn how to avoid energetic leaks by clearing past connections effectively. Enhance self-awareness and adopt he...
Apr 17, 2023•36 min
Struggling with unhealthy relationships and deep-rooted shame, Andrea Ashley found solace in sharing her story through her podcast. Little did she know, this courageous act of vulnerability would not only grant her healing and self-discovery, but serve as an inspiration for her listeners, revealing that hope and happiness are possible after all. In this episode, you will be able to: 1. Embrace strategies for transforming attachment styles, leading to healthier romantic partnerships. 2. Find the ...
Apr 12, 2023•58 min
Inside of this episode, I encourage you to break free from the belief that all anger is bad, and I help you see that you can use it as fuel to make powerful and necessary changes in your life! In this episode, you will be able to: 1. Uncover the significance of addressing and managing anger for personal improvement. 2. Distinguish between constructive and detrimental anger to foster healthy emotional expression. 3. Identify the value of anger in building secure attachment styles and nurturing re...
Apr 10, 2023•24 min
Have you ever wished you could ask all the questions about healthy sex? Have you ever felt like you just don’t know how to talk to your partner about sex? Like when you want to express your sexual needs, no words come out? If you relate to any of the above, then you NEED THIS EPISODE! Dr. Nazanin Moali, from the Sexology Podcast, joins me on todays’ episode. As a return guest, she delivers so much value on today’s episode. We discussed: How to ask for what you want in the bedroom What to do if y...
Apr 05, 2023•38 min
Drumroll please…. Inside of this special interview we speak with program graduate, Yenny Bonilla! Y’all are gonna love this one! Yenny gets very vulnerable and shares: What life was like before “doing the work. Her favorite parts of the program. Her new belief relationship belief system I am so excited for Yenny as she continues her healing journey. She is such a great example of how much your life can change when you focus on healing. If Yenny’s story inspired you, and you’re ready to invest in...
Apr 03, 2023•43 min
Today’s episode is one you won’t want to miss! I am answering YOUR dating questions, and responding to all things you hate about dating! Inside of this episode I talk about: The real reason you’re upset he’s not picking up the bill on the first date How to communicate about your communication What to do when he asks for “space” I am giving you the tough love, and real talk that only a psychologist best friend could give you! And of course, if you haven’t yet, make sure you join the Successful Wo...
Mar 27, 2023•32 min
"Discover how rejection can be a powerful force to redirect your life in a positive direction!" Truth: Fear of Rejection is NORMAL. Inside of this episode: I start by normalizing the fear of rejection and explaining why it's important to not let it run the show. I discuss that in order to release fear of rejection, you will benefit from: belief work, and shifting from a scarcity to an abundance mindset. I discuss how when we can see that rejection is actually a redirection to what is meant for u...
Mar 22, 2023•30 min
“The Rent to live in Reality is High” One of my friends said this to me years ago…and it never stuck until now. The fact is it is so easy to stay in a distorted, anxious/avoidant attachment version of reality when dating We must intentionally rewire our brains for healthy love. Inside of this episode: I teach what Reality Testing is, and WHY you need it I explain in three simple steps how to do reality testing I share how this can dramatically improve your dating life You don’t want to miss this...
Mar 20, 2023•18 min
Dating doesn’t have to be miserable!!! Inside of this episode, you will discover the coping behaviors that can help you build resilience and regulate your nervous system while dating. Inside of this episode, I will give you actionable advice on how to regulate your emotions, and practice self-compassion. Trust me, with the right tools, you can shift your mindset and enjoy dating more. In this episode, you will learn the following: 1. Learn how to regulate your nervous system while dating to make...
Mar 15, 2023•29 min
This is not your average “Dating How To” This is for women who are seeking the real deal. When you know you are READY for a serious, life partner, emotionally mature kind of connection. Inside of this episode, I teach you how to: Create a dating profile that gets the results you want Leverage your time and energy (so you’re not wasting time on the wrong people) Dating routines (and why you need them) I know you’re gonna get a TON of value out of this episode! If you’re ready to “do the work” I’v...
Mar 13, 2023•28 min
In this episode, I discuss the "Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse" : Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling. These “4 Horsemen” as originally taught by John and Julie Gottman, are exactly what you DON’T want in your relationship! Inside of this episode: You will learn how to combat these unhealthy conflict skills (what you should be doing instead) What healthy communication looks like in romantic relationships. How to practice self-compassion and appreciation to build and maintain se...
Mar 08, 2023•28 min
Buckle up, this is a value packed episode that will have all kinds of light bulbs going off for you! We discuss relationship development in this episode, from both healthy development, and what it looks like in a relationship with a narcissist. In this episode, you will learn the following: 1. What is the experience of being in a relationship with a narcissist like? 2. What is the cycle of a relationship with a narcissist? 3. What are the stages of healthy relationship development? Now that you ...
Mar 06, 2023•36 min
Today, we have a very special guest, a graduate of the ESL program; Emma Wellings. Emma Wellings is an international wardrobe stylist, founder of her own clothing line, Style on the Go, and graduate of the Empowered, Secure Love program. She is passionate about fashion, horse riding, working out, travel, and the arts. In this episode, you will learn the following: 1. How can you rewire your brain to trust yourself? 2. What strategies can you use to navigate relationships and overcome abandonment...
Mar 01, 2023•54 min
Pssssst- I have never opened up about this topic before on the podcast! I am choosing sobriety in 2023 and inside of this episode I walk you through WHY In this episode, we will discuss the following: 1. How can alcohol impact our ability to make intentional decisions? 2. What are the potential risks of developing alcohol dependence? 3. How can personal growth and inner healing work help us better manage our relationship with alcohol? I understand that not everyone has the same experience, but t...
Feb 27, 2023•28 min
Today’s guest episode is a powerful one! Lauren Zoeller doesn’t hold anything back in this interview. Sneak peak: "When you start to get into somatic work and really understanding the nervous system and understanding the four survival responses, you can really see where your body is in a moment to moment basis and then say, oh, wait a second, I'm in a lot of activation right now. I can resource safety, that's the goal." - Lauren Zoeller Lauren Zoeller shares her personal story of hitting rock bo...
Feb 22, 2023•49 min
In this episode of the Let's Get Vulnerable podcast, I will help you discover the courage to set boundaries, confront your inner beliefs, and ultimately break free from the unconscious distancing strategies that impede your journey to securely attached love. In this episode, you will learn the following: 1. How to identify four signs of an avoidant attachment style 2. How to easily navigate setting boundaries in relationships 3. The truth about having a successful career and a great relationship...
Feb 20, 2023•20 min
Do you ever feel overwhelmed by fear of abandonment? To cope with fear of abandonment, one should focus on self-soothing, slowing down emotional investment, and gathering data on people to determine whether or not a relationship is worth the investment. Doing this can reduce fear of abandonment as it creates a relationship built on reality and data. In this episode, you will learn the following: 1. How can we overcome the fear of abandonment? 2. What is the link between abandonment and survival ...
Feb 15, 2023•34 min
In this episode of the Let's Get Vulnerable podcast, I dive deep into the science of Attachment Theory to help listeners understand WHY we sabotage relationships and how to move towards secure attachment. I explain how secure attachment helps not only in your dating life, but with your mental health as well. Here's what I cover: 1. What is the relationship between emotional dysregulation and attachment system dysregulation? 2. What is the impact of secure attachment on depression and generalized...
Feb 13, 2023•34 min
You will not believe who today’s guest is! The one and only, Dr. Jessica Griffin, previous co-host of Lifetime’s Married at First Sight, renowned relationship expert, and clinical psychologist. After a lifetime of studying relationships and coaching couples, Dr. Jessica Griffin unexpectedly finds true love in an ironic twist of fate, and now recounts her story of finding lasting love and offers invaluable advice in her new book, 'Relationship RX: Prescriptions for Lasting Love and Deeper Connect...
Feb 08, 2023•47 min
In this episode, I guide you through the process of breaking free from an addiction to chaos in relationships, empowering you to take control of your life and create a compelling future for the next generation. What better legacy to leave than healing, and great relationship, am I right?? Here's what I cover: What is the addiction to chaos in relationships and how can we move out of it? How can we identify if we grew up in a dysfunctional household? What are the powerful benefits of taking radic...
Feb 06, 2023•25 min
"Discover Kirsten's powerful journey of finding love, with the help of Dr. Morgan and a willingness to become securely attached!" "I had to find myself and figure out what that was before I could even be ready for a relationship like this. So I think it's just crazy how the timing happened with it all, because I literally met him two months after the meeting with you." - Kirsten Durand Kirsten Durand is a successful business owner, streamer, and content creator who gained viral fame with her fia...
Feb 01, 2023•48 min
"When we can learn to come back to the truth of who we are, I feel as if everything just becomes a bit more simple. The kindest, most loving thing to do for ourselves is often the thing we don't want to do - but it's worth it to create stability, safety, and love." - Susie Moore Susie Moore is a world renowned life coach, author and host of the top rated Apple podcast, Let it be Easy. She is a sought after expert for media outlets and has been featured on the Today show, Good Morning America and...
Jan 30, 2023•54 min
ooooooof ! This is a top requested episode! Inside of this episode we discuss: -Why setting boundaries is so hard -Scripts for boundary setting -How to begin to redefine relationships Aaaaaand so much more! You don’t want to miss this 💕 We’ve all had to learn to set boundaries and this episode will support you in becoming a boundary pro! Did you know the ESL program will help you with more than just your relationships, it will also help you with body image, creating wealth, your family relation...
Jan 25, 2023•30 min
This is a juicy one! Don’t miss this episode. Inside: I talk about a post that triggered me recently I go into detail about Independent Women who are ALSO securely attached! I talk about elevated consciousness and the power of optionality So many women are struggling with the idea of being securely attached AND self reliant. I need you to know you get to have BOTH! Did you know the ESL program will help you with more than just your relationships, it will also help you with body image, creating w...
Jan 23, 2023•18 min
This is a very important episode. This topic has come up SO MANY times before. And I am finally going deep into my own personal story regarding how I was able to heal my body image. Your relationships are directly impacted by your body image, and I know this episode will help you on your healing journey! I dive into: -Separating self-worth from how your body looks -Where our body image develops from -How I worked on healing my relationship with how I look (and what I focus on instead of how I lo...
Jan 18, 2023•50 min
This is one of those episodes where you might need a tissue close by! I am so humbled to have Carla Moule on the podcast. She is an amazing graduate of the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program, who dramatically transformed her life while doing the program. Inside of this episode: -Carla tells us what life was like for her before the program -She opens up about past relationships, unhealthy belief systems, and old ways of being -We dive into what life is like for her now, and some of her major breakth...
Jan 16, 2023•57 min
Resentment, guilt, shame, anger… Holding on to these emotions is like wishing death upon someone else, and then drinking the poison yourself. Inside of this episode: -I discuss the negative impacts of holding onto Forgiveness -I take you through a guided meditation to release whatever you’ve been holding on to -I talk about what we can feel instead of guilt, shame, anger (and how to connect to what you want to intentionally create by choosing a different fuel source) Don’t miss this one. It will...
Jan 11, 2023•30 min
After two years of hard work, my first book is launching on 1/10/23. I can’t believe it! That’s TOMORROW! I felt like I needed to give you all a backstory on how this book came to be. This episode is a walk through my past relationships, and I take you to my “rock bottom” moment where everything changed for me. I hope this one is inspiring for you, and that it reminds you that you are never “too broken” to change your life. In case you didn’t know, you can purchase my new book: “Love Magnet” on ...
Jan 09, 2023•45 min
Dating can feel SO HARD And so many people I coach get in the dating scene, only to get out of it quickly And you say things like: “I’m just gonna focus on me” “I don’t have time to date” What I hear is: Dating is painful. It drains my energy…I don’t want to get hurt again. Inside of this episode I give you: -My take on making dating sustainable (aka: making it enjoyable so you can do it over long periods of time) -The magical question you need to ask yourself on dates -Ways to apply your knowle...
Jan 04, 2023•30 min
