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Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

Dr. Morgan Andersonwww.drmorgancoaching.com
Are you ready to take the mystery out of having great relationships and to gain the knowledge you need to step confidently into the next level of your life? Welcome to the Let’s Get Vulnerable podcast where your host, Dr. Morgan Anderson, gives you real talk on all things dating, relationships, and sex. Dr. Morgan is a relationship coach, psychologist and creator of the E.S.L relationship method. She brings humor, truth and knowledge to the complex world of dating and relationships. Podcast episodes will provide you with tangible strategies that you can implement immediately to improve your life and attract the exact relationship you desire. Episodes will feature expert advice from your host and psychologist, Dr. Morgan Anderson, interviews with incredible people offering you their stories and wisdom, and LIVE coaching sessions where you will have an exclusive glimpse into the growth process as it is unfolding. Episodes are recorded in a live format to give you the feel of a live talk show; episodes are non-scripted and unedited. The content of the episodes is bound to make you laugh, cry, improve your relationships and go confidently after your dreams like never before. So what are you waiting for? Let’s Get Vulnerable! If you enjoy listening to this show, it would mean the world to us if you would write a 5-star review for our show. This act of giving back will help this show grow so that it can be found by others who will benefit from the content. Thank you in advance for taking the time to leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! If you’re not part of the Dr. Morgan community on social media yet, make sure you go follow her for daily inspiration, tips, and knowledge to improve your life and relationships! INSTAGRAM: @drmorgancoaching FACEBOOK: @drmorgancoaching Website: www.drmorgancoaching.com
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Episodes

EP 295: How to Set Goals for 2023: My Secret Method that makes Achieving Goals Easy

Do Goal setting the right way! Too many people set goals only never to achieve them. Most people are doing it all wrong. NOT YOU! Not this year! Tune in to this episode for: -How to set goals that actually come true -What’s actually most important about goal setting -WHY you probably haven’t achieved long term success in the past 2023 is your year. It’s time to be honest about what really matters to you. If a great new relationship, your ideal relationship, is part of your dreams for 2023 I want...

Jan 02, 202329 min

EP 294: Borderline Personality Disorder and a Dysregulated Attachment System

If you’ve ever been curious about clinical definitions for relationship dysfunction, you’re gonna love this episode Inside of this episode: -The Diagnostic Criteria for Borderline Personality Disorder -Examining the attachment style overlap with BPD -The importance of acknowledging that change is possible (no matter your past) Aaaaand so much more! We cover anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment patterns in relationship to Borderline Personality Disorder. We talk about some of the most p...

Dec 28, 202227 min

EP 293: Embodying Secure Attachment: Are Butterflies Required for a Great Relationship?

This episode is brought to you by some incredible audience questions! On today's episode we dive into: What is Secure attachment anyways? (What are the thoughts, behaviors, and emotions associated with a healthy relationship) Can you have a great relationship without butterflies? What to do when you’re not attracted to someone who is giving you all green flags Aaaaaand so much more! Today’s episode will support you if you’re learning to experience healthy relationships for the first time, and yo...

Dec 26, 202240 min

EP 292: The Power of Embracing Feminine Energy

Today’s episode is waaaaaay overdue. I am talking about Feminine Energy today, in a way that I have never talked about it before. Inside of this episode I dive into: The importance of Polarity in relationships Why so many women struggle with Feminine energy How to access your feminine energy more easily I think this episode will give all of you plenty to think about. And of course, I give you tangible actionable advice that you can apply today. If you feel like you’re struggling with embracing y...

Dec 21, 202221 min

EP 291: The 6 Human Needs and Healthy Relationships

Do you know the Six Human Needs? Inside of this episode I dive into: The Six Human Needs we all have (consciously or unconsciously) Why the need for Significance can really mess up your relationships if you’re not careful Healthy Ways to Meet our Needs in Relationships You won’t want to miss this one! Make sure you take notes and ask yourself, what are the top two needs that I am currently driven by? Am I meeting those needs in healthy ways? Of course if you need help in your relationships, I wa...

Dec 19, 202229 min

EP 290: Outgrowing a Friendship Communication Guide

Oooof this one is a tough topic! I get asked this alot: “how do I move on from a friendship that is no longer serving me? “ Inside of today’s episode I talk about how to approach this challenging scenario. We dive into: -How attachment styles can show up in friendships -The process for feedback (example language you can use) - What to do if the friendship truly is not serving you, and you need to move on I’ve been through this a few times myself, and I know it hurts. I also know that assertive i...

Dec 12, 202220 min

EP 289: Protest Behaviors & What to do Instead

Back by popular demand- Another episode on protest behaviors! Inside of this episode: -I discuss common protest behaviors (in plain english so you can recognize them) - I explain WHY protest behaviors happen -We dive into what you can do instead, and I give you actionable advice that you can apply to your life right now If you’re ready to get a head start on 2023, and welcoming in a healthy relationship is part of the vision you have for your life- I’d like to invite you to join me inside of: Em...

Dec 07, 202230 min

EP 288: Guided Affirmations for Great Relationships

The dating pep talk you didn’t know you needed! Save this episode for anytime you need to be reminded that you are a magnet for healthy love and your person is already on their way to you. Inside this episode: -A dating mindset complete reset -My absolute favorite healthy love affirmations for rewiring your brain -The science behind affirmations and exactly why they help If you’re ready to do the deep inner work to intentionally show up for the relationship you know you deserve, don’t wait till ...

Dec 05, 202215 min

EP 287: How to Be Out of Alignment, Anxious, and Unfulfilled

Did I get your attention? Sometimes it is helpful to think about what NOT to do. It’s a great way to catch ourselves in the ways of being that no longer serve us. Inside of this episode I talk about: -4 ways to sabotage your happiness -Powerful questions to ask yourself for a happier life -What to do if you want to be in alignment Guess what?? NOW is a great time to begin the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program! We have some JUICY Black Friday bonuses only available until December 1st. When you join ...

Nov 30, 202218 min

EP 286: 4 Factors that Make Us Susceptible to Toxic Relationships

You won’t want to miss this episode! I cover the four things that make anyone susceptible to a toxic relationship. These are four factors that once we are aware of them, it will forever change how you think about relationships! Inside of this episode: -How your past experiences in relationships are impacting your present relationships -Why unhealthy relationships can feel “addicting” -How to start to rewire your brain for healthy love If you loved this episode, you will love the Masterclass I ho...

Nov 29, 202226 min

EP 285: How to “Fight Fair” : What You Need to Know for Healthy Conflict

I got really really vulnerable in this episode! I am giving you an example of conflict that I experienced with my partner. (aaaand it all started with a couch. LOL. ) Luckily there is a happy ending and of course, I worked it out with him. But hey there were some juicy learning lessons that I needed to share with you from this experience! Tune in to this episode for: A real life example of what to avoid in conflict The truth about WHY we fight with our partners What to do to prevent unhealthy co...

Nov 23, 202216 min

EP 284: The Formula for a Healthy Break-Up

It’s that time of year again– If you’re single, you’re REALLY aware of it. And if you’re still recovering from a break-up, I wanted to make sure you had everything you need to start the healing process. Inside of this episode I talk about: The mindset shifts you need for releasing the past How to get to forgiveness more quickly The # 1 thing people get wrong about break-ups Aaaaand so much more! Also! You don’t want to miss the LIVE (and FREE!) Masterclass I am hosting tomorrow on 11/22/22! It i...

Nov 21, 202223 min

EP 283: Breath Work, Intentional Relationships, and Creating What You Desire with Special Guest Samantha Skelly

I love this episode so much. Samantha Skelly got VERY REAL as she shared about her journey in her relationship, and she gave tangible advice on how to deeply connect with your partner. There’s a lot of juice in this episode! A few things we dive into: -Breathwork (what is it, and why you need it in your life!) -Her journey to creating her current partnership and the practices that help deepen their love -The key to being a powerful woman in your career, and still managing to step into feminine e...

Nov 16, 202245 min

EP 282: “Why Am I Not Attracted to Guys Who Like Me?”: Real Talk with Dr. Morgan

Ooooof this episode is a tough pill to swallow if you’ve been stuck in repetition compulsion patterns!! As Taylor Swift said in her song Midnight Rain: “I broke his heart because he was nice…” Tune in to this episode for: -A deep dive into WHY we find ourselves not attracted to the nice guys -A wake-up call regarding your dating decisions -If you need help rewiring your brain for HEALTHY love that is emotionally available The truth is, I wasn’t attracted to nice guys for YEARS. And it caused me ...

Nov 14, 202219 min

EP 281: Tough Love: 2 Reasons You Are Single

Woot, woot! Another tough love episode from yours truly! I cannot wait for you to listen to this episode. I get very real in this one. I’m not holding anything back! Inside of this episode: I am calling out two common barriers to finding the love you deserve I remind you of the best dating mindset practices I get really vulnerable about how my relationship standards changed over time as I did the healing work (and how you can evaluate your own relationship standards) Aaaaaaand so much more! I th...

Nov 09, 202229 min

EP 280: Securely Attached Love with Special Guests Ginger and Scott

WHOA! We are making Let’s Get Vulnerable history! It’s our first ever episode with a couple! In today’s episode we will hear from Empowered.Secure.Loved Program Graduate, Ginger and her amazing partner, Scott. Inside of this episode: -We hear Ginger’s healing story and the work she did inside of the ESL program -Scott and Ginger share their love story, and how their relationship developed -I walk them through a fun couples ritual that anyone can do to improve their relationship This is the first...

Nov 07, 202258 min

EP 279: Apply Growth Mindset to Your Life (Bonus: Dr. Morgan Personal Life Update)

Ready for a Dr. Morgan life update?? This episode is packed with surprises from my personal healing journey! Inside this episode I dive into: -How to have growth mindset no matter what life throws at you -The importance of holding the vision -Showing up when you don’t understand the “how” I hope you love this episode! ALSO!!! I have a special announcement! During the Month of November- I am hosting a VERY special giveaway- To say THANK-YOU for Let’s Get Vulnerable reaching 2 Million Listens- you...

Nov 02, 202242 min

EP 278: 7 Books that Changed My Life

This is a short but powerful episode! Inside of this episode, I have a gift for all of my book worms out there! I share with you my top SEVEN favorite books of all time. I have to be honest though it was nearly impossible for me to narrow it down, there’s at least 20 more I’d like to add to the list, so we might need a part 2! Below you will find the titles of the books listed in the episode: Super Attractor By Gabrielle Bernstein Attached by Amir Levne You are a Badass by Jen Sincero Secrets of...

Oct 31, 202219 min

EP 277: Building a Healthy, Passionate, Thriving Relationship After Toxic Dating Patterns

I get this question A LOT- “What if I’ve never had a healthy relationship, and all I’ve ever experienced is unhealthy toxic relationships- how can I learn to become Securely Attached?” I have an answer for you inside of this episode! I walk you through the necessary steps for healing-and you don’t want to miss it. I discuss: -The importance of Awareness -How to Release the Past -The key for embodying Secure Attachment (no matter your past) If this episode inspired you to take action in your dati...

Oct 26, 202229 min

EP 276: Your Unconscious Might Be Sabotaging You: 4 Limiting Relationship Beliefs

Your unconscious relationship beliefs are SNEAKY If you’re not careful they will be in the driver’s seat of your love life, driving you- NOWHERE, fast. Inside of this episode I help you uncover some of your own unconscious relationship beliefs that may be sabotaging your love life. I discuss: -How your unconscious beliefs are formed -4 of the Most common unconscious limiting relationship beliefs -How to Start to Rewire Your Brain If this episode inspired you to take action in your dating life, I...

Oct 24, 202222 min

EP 275: Kelly Chase Interview: Understanding Attachment Theory, Becoming Secure, & Releasing the Past with Special Guest Dr. Morgan Pt. 2

PART TWO! Kelly Chase and I had such a powerful first interview, we needed to continue the conversation. We dove deep into topics such as securely attached sex, and situationships. Here is a total breakdown of what was covered: Avoidant Attachment and Its Difficulties [5:23] “People with avoidant attachment struggle with reassurance. There is a lot of uncertainty. Everything in the relationship is confusing, but the sex is good. ” The Shame in Needing Sex [13:42] “Women feel guilty about needing...

Oct 19, 202256 min

EP 274: Kelly Chase Interview: Understanding Attachment Theory, Becoming Secure, & Releasing the Past with Special Guest Dr. Morgan Pt. 1

You’re gonna love this LGV listeners! In this interview Kelly Chase, interviews me, Dr. Morgan! She asks me everything you all want the answer to. Here is a break down of the interview itself: Getting to know Dr. Morgan Anderson [2:13] “I knew from a very young age that I wanted to help people. Even from a young age I just wanted to help people and get to know people ” Dealing with Pain [7:58] “I knew that not dealing with the wound is going to hurt me again and again.” To the People Who Are Stu...

Oct 18, 20221 hr 7 min

EP 273: Healing Repetition Compulsion, Repairing Self-Worth and Breaking Free with ESL Graduate Ashley Cullitan

Whoa this interview gave me goosebumps! I know you all are gonna love it! E.S.L. Program Graduate Ashely got very vulnerable about her experience before, after, and during the ESL program. We discussed: The power of healing repetition compulsion Healing self-worth and learning how to be compassionate to yourself Ashley’s journey to loving herself and enjoying her alone time Aaaaand so much more! Don’t miss this value packed episode talking everything attachment theory, dating, and healing childh...

Oct 12, 202252 min

EP 272: Securely Attached Communication: No More Need Reading!

Inside of this episode I talk about: -The origins of “need reading” (and why it is so common) -Why poor communication damages our relationships -How to start to learn to communicate assertively (and in a securely attached way)

Oct 10, 202239 min

EP 271: ADHD and Your Attachment Style Part 2

Did Monday’s episode leave you with a ton of questions?! Inside of today’s episode I do my best to answer: What does ADHD / Attachment dysregulation look like in relationships? What are some simple things for learning how to regulate emotions? The impact on impulsivity on relationships (ADHD/ Attachment Overlap) Aaaaaand More! This episode is going to be important for those of you who are ready to make some changes to your relationships. I hope you take the emotional regulation tools and apply t...

Oct 05, 202231 min

EP 270: ADHD and an Anxious / Avoidant Attachment Style

Whoa! A topic we’ve never explored on LGV. Buckle up, this is a vulnerable episode. And I think it deserves a Part 2, so on Wednesday you will get an episode dedicated to helping us make sense of what to do with the information in this episode. Inside of today’s episode: -The link between ADHD and Insecure Attachment Styles -My own journey with ADHD and healing my attachment style -How your early childhood experiences impact ADHD and Attachment Styles Aaaand more! This is a great episode for con...

Oct 03, 202229 min

EP 269: The Bachelorette: An Attachment Theory Analysis

Confession: I never used to watch The Bachelor - or any of the dating shows. But somehow, I got sucked into Gabby and Rachel’s season! And you know I HAD to review it from an attachment theory lense Inside of this episode: What was going on with Rachel and Aven? Why did their connection fail? My opinion on Tino and Rachel’s dynamic (And why I think the Bachelor franchise needs to do better) Attachment theory perspective on Gabby and her ability to overcome a disorganized attachment style. If thi...

Sep 28, 202233 min

EP 268: Discussing Body Image, Healing, and Self-Love with Special Guest Ali Bonar

You are in for a treat! We have the one and only, Ali Bonar, CEO and Co-Founder of the company Oat Haus. Ali has always inspired me with her vulnerability, and her commitment to her own healing. Inside of today’s episode we talk about: -The negative impacts of disordered eating on our mental health, and relationships -Releasing shame and seeking help and support -Taking ownership of our own healing within our relationships Aaaaand so much more! More about Ali: Ali Bonar is CEO and co-founder of ...

Sep 26, 202248 min

EP 267: How to Enjoy Dating: Dating Mindset Shifts You Need Today

This episode is PACKED the dating advice you wish someone would have you given you in your early 20’s… Inside of this episode I discuss: How to decipher between your GUT and your attachment style Learning to develop self-trust as your dating superpower What to do when they are SO HOT that you’re worried you won’t make good dating decisions Are you ready to ENJOY dating? What if attracting your soulmate didn’t feel like work? What if you knew how to trust yourself in your dating decisions, and yo...

Sep 21, 202223 min

EP 266: No More Boring First Dates: 10 Questions to Ask

I have made a declaration! There will be no more boring first dates! You see what makes first dates boring is usually the fact that we’re not focused on truly connecting. And we’re not asking GREAT questions. Inside of this episode you will find: : -4 Essential Shifts for a Great First Date -10 Questions You can Ask any First Date -My guide to approaching intentional vulnerability when dating You don’t want to miss this one! It is packed full of pure dating GOLD! Also-if you are ready to be in t...

Sep 19, 202230 min
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