The KS team put a questions box in their stories over on Instagram asking if you guys had any questions around the upcoming holiday of Valentine's Day! So tune in as Alana, Paris, and Rusti tackle these amazing questions! They talk about ways to spice your Valentine's Day up, how you can celebrate if you're long distance, gifts ideas for him & her, and so much more! Make sure you're following them on Instagram @kingdomsexuality! Come join the community of like-minded believers who are also j...
Jan 31, 2022•31 min•Season 4Ep. 9
Welcome back to another episode of the Kingdom Sexuality podcast! This episode is extra special because Alana and Paris have the opportunity to chat with Rusti (our newest KS team member) and introduce her to all of you! You'll get to hear Rusti share her beautiful sextimony and encourage those of you who maybe feel easily replaceable, or like they have a void in their life. Get excited to hear from Rusti more! She has such a heart for this ministry and is going to bring a new angle to the podca...
Jan 24, 2022•28 min•Season 4Ep. 8
The sexual relationship thrives when a marriage is safe, honest, and full of selfless love. But what does a thriving sex life look like in a Christian marriage? Or should we even be asking that? Maybe instead we need to dig into the word and see what the Bible says marriage and intimacy needs to look like. So get comfy and join Paris and Alana as they get back to the basic fundamentals and go through 4 important cornerstones that a thriving sex life always includes! (4 core points shared by @eve...
Jan 10, 2022•32 min•Season 4Ep. 7
You want a bomb, spicy, solid, exciting marriage for 2022? We love it. But maybe you’re in a place where you have no idea where to start. Maybe there’s some deep pain, insecurities, or just an overall feeling of being ‘lost’ within your own marriage and you're not sure how to get from point a to b. So tune in Alana and Paris dive into 5 super practical ways you can up the emotional connection in your marriage. Follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see weekly sex positions, couples challeng...
Dec 27, 2021•35 min•Season 4Ep. 6
BONUS EPISODE! Since Alana and Paris now put out episodes bi-weekly they realized that you were only going to get one podcast episode before Christmas, and that didn't seem okay. So here's a special bonus episode chatting about a topic that YOU requested! Alana put a questions box on Instagram asking for Christmas episode suggestions and many of you were wanting tips for how to stay intimate with your spouse during the business of the holiday season. So if you're wondering what remaining intimat...
Dec 20, 2021•18 min•Season 4Ep. 5
The Christmas season is upon us! Which means that life might be getting a smidge chaotic. Maybe you're staying at your in-laws over the holidays or have piles of family coming up to visit- this episode is hopefully going to help you become more intentional about carving out time with your spouse despite what's going on around you. Links mentioned in the episode: -The Next Right Thing with Emily P. Freeman -"Not Your Mama's Holiday Traditions" Kingdom Sexuality episode Follow us on Instagram? Che...
Dec 13, 2021•23 min•Season 4Ep. 4
Every couple goes through crises in their marriage, whether it's big or small. But are we equipped to stay connected when life gets shaky? Is our first response to choose connection with our spouse when our negative emotions come bubbling up or do we disconnect from them- creating a gap between us? Listen in as Alana and Paris discuss some roots of crisis that often show up in our marriages and some reminders for you to stand on when you’re in the thick of it. This episode is packed FULL of valu...
Nov 29, 2021•33 min•Season 4Ep. 3
Does sex ever feel more like something you have to check off a list and less like something you look forward to? Join in as Alana and Paris as they chat about why sex might be feeling like a chore and some really practical ways for how you can work towards changing that!! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connect questions, and so much more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Nov 15, 2021•23 min•Season 4Ep. 2
They’re back! After taking a break for a few months Alana and Paris are back behind the mics. In this weeks episode they fill listeners in on what’s been keeping them busy, how the podcast schedule is changing, and they also answer YOUR questions asked on Instagram! Be sure to follow them on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connect questions, and so so much more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Nov 01, 2021•30 min•Season 4Ep. 1
Have you ever gone through a bit of “dry spell” sexually in your marriage? Maybe it’s been weeks or months since you and your spouse have been intimate. Please know that you’re not alone! Seasons of sexual slumps can be pretty discouraging, but our prayer for your marriages is that you’ll come through these seasons even stronger and more prepared for what’s ahead! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connect questions, and so much m...
Aug 30, 2021•26 min•Season 3Ep. 21
Alana and Paris asked YOU what other questions you had around Purity Culture and they compiled them into this episode. They go through the lies and hit them hard with the truth of what God intends for your marriage. They tackle lies like "losing your virginity deems you as unworthy of a godly relationship" and "sex will be automatically amazing if you remain a virgin before you get married". Big stuff. Don't follow Kingdom Sexuality on Instagram yet? Come join the community @kingdomsexuality! Yo...
Aug 23, 2021•28 min•Season 3Ep. 20
In their last episode, Alana and Paris shared what the bible says in regards to women’s bodies and how purity culture twists what the bible says to put shame and confusion on so many of us. In today's episode they dive a little deeper into this and encourage us to ask ourselves what other lies we’ve come to believe, maybe without even realizing it, around sexuality. Don't follow Kingdom Sexuality on Instagram yet? Come join the community @kingdomsexuality! You'll see when new episodes are releas...
Aug 18, 2021•25 min•Season 3Ep. 19
Join Paris + Alana as they tackle + debunk the lies that the 'purity culture narrative' has spoken over our generation of women; specifically in the area of modesty, how we conduct ourselves, + in our sexuality. Let's bring this back to biblical truth shall we?! Be sure to follow @kingdomsexuality on Instagram to see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, and so much more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Aug 09, 2021•31 min•Season 3Ep. 18
Contrary to what culture screams at us, it's quite common for husbands and wives to have varying sex drives. Someone has a higher libido, someone's is lower and maybe it's starting to cause some friction within your marriage. This episode is for YOU! Grab your coffee and listen up as Alana and Paris share their own experiences in this, and share how having a mismatched libido is extremely common. If you’re listening to this and feel alone, please know first and foremost that you are not! Handlin...
Jul 26, 2021•31 min•Season 3Ep. 17
Do we just lose ourselves in the name of motherhood? Can we still have passions + hobbies? How do you cultivate an even DEEPER marriage + intimacy through parenthood? What about everything the world screams at us, how do we see the truth through it all? Well hun, it's time for this chat, and we are so excited to share some raw and simple truths to clear the fog + questions. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jul 19, 2021•24 min•Season 3Ep. 16
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Kingdom Sexuality! This little passion project turned ministry began just a short year ago. We both feel so incredibly grateful to all of our incredibly supportive listeners and followers. To those of you who have been around since this began- thank you for sticking with us! And to those of you who are new to following- welcome here! We're so overwhelmed at how receptive you all have been, and we know that this ministry would be nothing without the incredible work of the Lord. Hi...
Jul 14, 2021•43 min•Season 3Ep. 15
Alana takes the reins on this casual episode and goes through some fun anniversary traditions shared by followers! Relive, retreat, and reflect on the wonderful years you’ve shared together! So for your anniversary- put expectations aside, get a babysitter for the kiddos, and just enjoy some much needed quality time with each other. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connect questions, and so much more! And feel free to share your...
Jun 28, 2021•17 min•Season 3Ep. 14
Mindset. Body Image. No sex drive. Pregnancy friendly sex positions. Postpartum intimacy cultivation. You asked the questions, + Paris interviews Alana as she journeys through her second pregnancy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jun 14, 2021•35 min•Season 3Ep. 13
You're not going to want to miss this episode! Alana takes the reigns and dives into what talking in the bedroom can look like and how it can be really helpful in taking your intimate life with your spouse to the next level. They go into more that just talking ABOUT sex with your spouse but actually talk about what talking DURING sex looks like in a healthy, God-honouring way! Maybe it's something that you've never thought to incorporate into your love making, but saying beautiful words- or even...
Jun 07, 2021•28 min•Season 3Ep. 12
Paris & Alana go into 3 common sex positions but go into the technique, tips, + tricks to take these most common sex positions from 'good' to 'fantastic'. With variations, technique explanation, CAT, angles, & lots of communication + lube, we hope this blesses your marriage! We do mention Coconu as our fave, trusted lube brand that we adore! Check them out here for a discount code on an ethical, all natural & safe lube! https://coconu.com/?rfsn=5697652.af1ccd&utm_source=refersion...
May 31, 2021•35 min•Season 3Ep. 11
You're not going to want to miss this incredible, information-packed episode with Rosie Makinney from @fightforloveministries. Rosie dives right into how the spouse who's been hurt by their spouses pornography usage can find healing despite the grief, betrayal, and broken trust that comes with this issue. Not only does she go into some of the science behind what's going on in the spouse who's watched porn's brain- but she chats about body image and why there's absolutely no need to compare ourse...
May 24, 2021•38 min•Season 3Ep. 10
Let's get this straight: Porn is not a men's only battle. In this episode, Authentic Intimacy's Joy Skarka shares her raw & redemptive story in her own battle with porn, masturbation, shame, and coping from sexual assault, turned to equipping and leading women towards freedom through Christ coming from similar back-stories. This is an episode you do NOT want to miss. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
May 10, 2021•26 min•Season 3Ep. 9
Healing from pornography involves both parties-the person who struggles with it, and those who it affects. In this episode, Paris & Alana interview Tim Busse for part 2 of this series. Tim dives deep into porn culture vs gospel culture and what each serves in terms of mentality & morals, healing from porn (both the user & those affected), dealing with the aftermath of porn & broken trust, as well as huge steps towards ultimate healing from addiction. This is an episode that cover...
Apr 26, 2021•51 min•Season 3Ep. 8
The first episode of the long awaited pornography series is here! You're not going to want to miss this information packed episode where Alana and Paris interview Pastor Tim Busse to tackle the subject of porn. They get into a bit of Tim's story, the root of why people get drawn into watching pornography, how to find someone to keep you accountable, how secrecy is linked to shame, how to get out of the cycle, and so much more! This episode is longer than usual ones, but they didn't want to leave...
Apr 19, 2021•46 min•Season 3Ep. 7
We put a questions box in our Instagram stories asking for some "Get To Know Us" questions and we got SO many incredible ones! A good bulk of the questions were around how the podcast came to be, why we started this, and why we want to talk about sexual intimacy! So we decided a nice way to tackle all of those questions was to give our testimonies... with a twist. Cue... our SEX-TIMONIES! If you're not already be sure to follow us on Instagram @KingdomSexuality to see weekly sex positions, live ...
Apr 12, 2021•27 min•Season 3Ep. 6
In this episode, Alana & Paris speak some big, freeing, & healing truths on forgiveness. This is a precursor episode heading into our pornography series, so be sure to catch this before we go into BIG stuff. Tune into this to be encouraged & set your feet on the healing journey towards kicking shame & deep roots to the side & walking in our gift of freedom through forgiveness through the Father! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Apr 05, 2021•21 min•Season 3Ep. 5
Join Alana and Paris as they end of their premarital series tackling a big question: "but what if we've already had sex before marriage??". They go through 3 main points 1. Boundaries and Repentance, 2. Guilt and Shame, and 3. God is our Father not a Punisher. Alana and Paris drive home the heart of who God is, and how EVERYONE is redeemable. Regardless of the lines you've crossed or how far you've done, or how many people you've been with- His grace IS fully sufficient for you! God will ALWAYS ...
Mar 29, 2021•51 min•Season 3Ep. 4
Engaged & heading into marriage? Is your upcoming wedding night leaving your mind frazzled with questions about sexual intimacy? Grab your fave hot drink & feel like you're part of a living room chat with Paris & Alana as they interview Kyler & Britt from "Love Your First Year" ministry. From walking you through wisely preparing your future marriage together and not falling into the common rut of the wedding day being THE ultimate focus of your engagement & losing track of yo...
Mar 22, 2021•35 min•Season 3Ep. 3
You're going to need to buckle up for this episode. Engaged, dating, married? This episode will have something for you! Kyler and Britt from "Love Your First Year" do a fantastic job at answering some of our big questions around the premarital season. Like, how far is too far? How do you make boundaries? Where's the line? And, how can couples prepare for intimacy within marriage while dating without crossing boundaries? Make sure you're following us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality so you can see ...
Mar 15, 2021•26 min•Season 3Ep. 2
Setting boundaries? Leaving & cleaving? Our roles as future spouses? Being unequally yoked? What to read, who to surround ourselves with, & counselling? There is a LOAD of your questions in here as you prepare for marriage, & Paris & Alana walk you through this & more importantly, walk you through it with God's direction & the mindset of excitement, intention, & preparation for this next season of life! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 08, 2021•30 min•Season 3Ep. 1
