This one is for the long distance lovers out there! Finally, after numerous requests for advice for couples doing their relationship long distance, we decided to tackle it! We put up a questions box in our stories over on our @kingdomsexuality Instagram account, asking YOU: how to do remain intimate and connected with your spouse if you're doing the long distance thing? So this episode is us sharing that list with you! Advice and tips from couples who have experience doing months of long distanc...
Mar 01, 2021•21 min•Season 2Ep. 23
This is an unscripted, raw, and in the moment Q&A as Paris & Alana work through YOUR questions on intimacy, sex, & marriage. It gets good so if you need a laugh today, tune in. If you need position advice, tune in. If you need pre-marital advice & encouragement, tune in...just...tune in ;) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 23, 2021•32 min•Season 2Ep. 22
We put a questions box on our Instagram account looking for questions for today's episode and you guys SHOWED UP! Join us in this casual chat style episode where we answer as many questions as we can in 15 minutes! We chat everything from oral sex to favourite love making songs, and so much more! Enjoy episodes like this? Be sure to let us know and we'll sprinkle them in more often! Have a question for a future Q&A- DM us on Instagram of email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com! If you're not ...
Feb 15, 2021•21 min•Season 2Ep. 21
There's seasons of life where sex is NOT an option, so how do we navigate these seasons while still actively guarding, blessing, & pouring intention over intimacy in our marriages? Paris & Alana share everything from positions & techniques, both sensual & sexual (but not intercourse!), to mindset & scripture on the subject to encourage & empower you in seasons of abstinence. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 08, 2021•34 min•Season 2Ep. 20
Join Alana and Paris as they have a casual chat around a follower topic suggestion: what healthy sexual habits look like! They chat through how it's important to make sex a priority, communicating sexual desires, and how to avoid sexual ruts. Have you seen the new website?? Head over to www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and check out what's happening! Subscribe and you'll get Kingdom Sexuality's monthly newsletter! And if you haven't already- join the community over @kingdomsexuality! You'll see ...
Feb 01, 2021•21 min•Season 2Ep. 19
We hear you, Valentines CAN be overrated, but with the way we are spinning things on it, it is UNDERrated ;) No matter your take on valentines, or if even your spouse isn't on the same page on it as you are, we have some fun tips to set your marriage up for success & the celebration of intimacy this February! Join the community over @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly challenges, sex positions, live videos, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion for Paris and Alana? Feel free to shoot th...
Jan 25, 2021•14 min•Season 2Ep. 18
What does sexual confidence even look like as a godly woman? In this episode, Paris & Alana confront huge myths the enemy condemns us wth in the confidence realm, such as false confidence & idols, to hiding from our full calling to truth. Paris & Alana open this heart felt message with God's powerful truths over us a women to direct & encourage us to walk fully in sexual confidence & freedom within marriage. Join the community over @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly challen...
Jan 18, 2021•15 min•Season 2Ep. 17
We so often hear that this is what makes a marriage go from good to great- the level of communication they have. So how does a couple go about having awesome communication? Especially when it comes to talking about sex!? How often are you communicating with your spouse about your sex life? Often? Seldom? Never?? It's about time we normalize talking about our intimate life with our spouse. Join Alana and Paris as they chat through 5 tips to help you begin talking about sex with your spouse! They ...
Jan 11, 2021•20 min•Season 2Ep. 16
We all have indoctrination & influence when it comes to our mindsets around sexuality. This often becomes apparent within marriage & can be a very difficult reality to navigate through as a couple. Paris & Alana tackle mindset around sexuality & embrace the beauty of "not conforming to the patterns of this world but transforming by the renewing of your mind..." & give practical steps in implementing & addressing this topic. Join the community over @kingdomsexuality! You'l...
Jan 04, 2021•34 min•Season 2Ep. 15
It's almost 2021 and Alana and Paris are keeping the theme on strong for intentionally incorporating sexual goals within our marriages. They talked through spicy Christmas traditions in past episodes and now with New Years coming in hot, it’s about time to sit down together as a couple, and create sexual goals within your marriage. Whether you are a new year's resolution kind of couple or not, creating intentional sexual resolutions, whether year by year, short term, long term, or all of the abo...
Dec 28, 2020•23 min•Season 2Ep. 14
Holiday Episode number 3 is here! And we’re ramping up to Christmas, which means this season is probably already so full for you!! So cue this very timely episode! The question we're answering in today's episode is: How do I "keep my love on" with my husband when busy seasons roll around? It's a great question that we decided to sum up in 5 points: 1.) Be on the same team 2.) Take time as a couple to unplug and play 3.) Steal time away- just the two of you 4.) apologize right away, and ultimatel...
Dec 21, 2020•18 min•Season 2Ep. 13
Do you have sexy holiday traditions JUST for the two of you?! Like snow stripping, Christmas leftovers in bed in the buff....mhm. Paris & Alana have you covered with this animated episode full of ideas & sexy fun! Join the community over @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly challenges, sex positions, live videos, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion for Paris and Alana? Feel free to shoot them an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com or DM them on Instagram! Learn more about your ad c...
Dec 14, 2020•13 min•Season 2Ep. 12
The "Season of Giving" is here and so is Kingdom Sexuality's first ever holiday episode. Join Alana and Paris as they discuss what giving of yourself, or being selfless, looks like in the daily life as a woman, but also what does that look like as a wife, and as a lover? How can we love our husbands and even make love to them with selflessness as the forefront of our minds? This Christmas season Paris and Alana really want to challenge you to give your spouse the gift of selflessness. That, even...
Dec 07, 2020•20 min•Season 2Ep. 11
In this episode, we asked Jody to come back and get deeper on the topic of navigating through singleness & sexuality as a believer. Soul ties. Mental, spiritual, & emotional bondage with past sexual encounters. Blood covenants. Preparing yourself through relationship with friends, family & God before marriage. Jody gives us huge truths and vulnerability as we dive into this realms of traumatic sexual pasts & preparing for future freedom. Follow Jody on Instagram @jodynagyl And if...
Nov 30, 2020•25 min•Season 2Ep. 10
Whether you're single or married- you're going to want to listen to this incredible episode! We had an amazing time picking the brain of our beautiful guest, Jody Nagyl. We chat about how singles can steward their season of singleness wisely, how single people can navigate sexual desires honorably, and how married women can support and walk alongside our single friends in an empowering, encouraging way! Follow Jody on Instagram here: @jodynagyl - and be sure to follow along with Kingdom Sexualit...
Nov 23, 2020•32 min•Season 2Ep. 9
Did you know there's multiple orgasmic spots in a woman? God created us so incredibly, ladies! In this episode, Paris + Alana go over clitoral + g-spot orgasms, techniques on orgasm, & chat the real + raw on this hot topic. Join the community over @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly challenges, sex positions, live videos, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion for Paris and Alana? Feel free to shoot them an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com or DM them on Instagram! Learn more about you...
Nov 16, 2020•18 min•Season 2Ep. 8
Men and women's bodies are vastly different from one another. So naturally, they each require different things to achieve an orgasm. But why doesn't anyone ever talk about this?! Alana and Paris both share how they went into marriage assuming that reaching climax would just happen to women like it does to men. Nope. But what a gift, that as husband and wife that you get to learn how to get her there together. And that's one of the biggest things Paris and Alana hope you take away from this episo...
Nov 09, 2020•18 min•Season 2Ep. 7
Postpartum is a season of life that can leave women feeling one of two things: "what's the big deal?! I LOVED this season!" or, "this terrifies me beyond words." We have covered postpartum, ways to prepare yourself for it through a support network, caring for your mentality, being grounded in Jesus, hormone prep, intimacy with your man WITHOUT having sex, & amazing food & supplements to keep your body nourished & upbeat. However, sometimes this season just hits HARD, fast, & furi...
Nov 02, 2020•26 min•Season 2Ep. 6
What does intimacy during the postpartum season look like? How is it possible to keep heat in the sheets during this new stage in life? And why are so many new mamas going into the "fourth trimester" feeling unprepared? Alana and Paris chat about this and so much more in this highly requested postpartum episode! Listen till the end to hear them share 5 tips for keeping the connection and intimacy alive during this postpartum season. Have any other topic suggestions? Questions? Or want to make su...
Oct 26, 2020•31 min•Season 2Ep. 5
Expecting mamas- this one is for you! We all know that our bodies go through so much during the magical 9 months of growing another human! But slightly less talked about is how intimacy with our husbands can be impacted during that time. Between raging hormones, morning sickness, discomfort, and physical changes to our bodies- it can be easy to throw intimacy on the back burner. But there are so many other ways we can keep that connection going with our husbands, even if sex isn't an option! Joi...
Oct 19, 2020•37 min•Season 2Ep. 4
Feel in the dark about understanding how ovulation & conception actually works? Do you know as women we typically only have a 24 hour window to conceive every month, providing our cycles are healthy & monthly? If that's came as a shocker, or you're wanting to educate youreslf on your cycle as a woman come hang with Paris for 18 minutes as she debunks some big misconceptions around this topic, covers a series of ovulation & natural fertility boosting tips & tricks, & walks you...
Oct 13, 2020•19 min•Season 2Ep. 3
Here at Kingdom Sexuality we know that we can only disciple as far as we've experienced, which is why we're SO excited to do interviews! In Canada, roughly 1 in 6 couples experiences infertility- so this is a big topic that we want to cover! So listen along as Alana interviews her good friend, sister-in-law, and co-blogger Melinda on her and her husbands infertility journey and how it impacted their intimate life and what they did to keep their connection during that time. You can follow along w...
Oct 05, 2020•18 min•Season 2Ep. 2
Welcome to the Womanhood Diaries, where Paris & Alana talk openly about the real, raw & vulnerable aspects of being women. In this episode, Paris takes menstrual talk to a fun level: debunking PMS, what a healthy monthly hormonal cycle looks like, cleanliness, hormone friendly menstrual products, hormones, & the effect of environment on hormones. Paris believes knowing HOW your body was created to function hormonally, cyclically, & well starts with debunking myths, sharing truths...
Sep 28, 2020•30 min•Season 2Ep. 1
We briefly mentioned love languages in our Q&A episode but decided it was time to devote an entire episode to this!! Do you know what your love language is? How about your spouses'? Join along as Alana and Paris share theirs, chat about the importance and purpose of them, and share 3 fun ways to love your spouse and vice versa with each of the 5 love languages! Do the quiz here: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sep 21, 2020•27 min•Season 1Ep. 11
Paris & Alana each write 3 intimate, intentional questions down to ask one another, the catch? Neither of them know the questions they're about to be asked & answer on the spot! Join them to hear about how they're prepping now for future sex talks with their children, love languages, favourite sex positions, & more! Come hang with us on IG @ https://www.instagram.com/kingdomsexuality/?hl=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sep 14, 2020•24 min•Season 1Ep. 10
Join Paris and Alana as they dive into the big giant topic of shame. This isn't your fluffy, light & easy conversation- but dealing with shame & guilt we're feeling from the past, or maybe even the present, is imperative. It's time to take a look inward, and see if the shame we might be dealing with is keeping Jesus at arms length or not. Because He's there, willing and waiting to wipe your slate totally clean if you ask Him to. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @KingdomSexuality and joi...
Sep 07, 2020•34 min•Season 1Ep. 9
Grab your cup of cup of coffee & cozy up as Paris & Alana have a really chill, real life chat around prioritizing sex in marriage! We know that we all go through different seasons in our sex lives- could be due to busyness, pregnancy/postpartum, kids, stresses, or so many other things. But making the time to make love despite the craziness of life is so worth it and so important. Be sure to follow us on Instagram if you're not already! @KingdomSexuality Join the community and follow alon...
Aug 31, 2020•31 min•Season 1Ep. 8
Intimate impromptu questions, anyone?! In today's episode, Alana & Jeff write out a series of intimate questions & Alana interviews Paris & Neil...the catch? Neither Paris nor Neil have any idea what questions they are answering! You are bound to get a good laugh or two as you get a full on real life view on the good, the crazy, and the intimate. Our hopes are that you also gain some laughs, perspective, reflection, encouragement, and relatability as you get a glimpse into the lives ...
Aug 24, 2020•24 min•Season 1Ep. 7
We're Paris & Alana, friends with a passion for spilling truth around intimacy. In this episode, we begin our series on purity! We chat about how it's important to know why you're saving yourself for marriage, ways to get out of vulnerable situations, & why having a strong community around you is crucial. Be sure to come hang with us over on Instagram! We've got weekly intimate couple challenges, "hump" day Wednesdays, & a bunch of wholesome, beautiful encouragement over here for you...
Aug 17, 2020•25 min•Season 1Ep. 6
Listen along as Alana & Paris each share three ways couples can go about "spicing up" their love lives! In a sexual rut or not, these tips are a great way to help reignite the flame between the sheets, and can just help build connection with your spouse overall! Don't forget to follow us on Instagram (@KingdomSexuality) to build community, see couple challenges, new weekly "hump day" sex position ideas, & so much more! The books Paris recommends are: Intimacy Ignited and Sheet Music. And...
Aug 10, 2020•20 min•Season 1Ep. 5
