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IT'S FINE. with Rachel Varkey

Rachel Varkeywww.rachelvarkey.com
Look — we’re all guilty of it. It’s so much easier to say “it’s fine” than to navigate the complexity of our very real, adult problems. "It's Fine" offers women, just like show host Rachel Varkey, to let it out, put it out there, and start talking about all the things we're not really fine on. From our lack of fulfillment, careers, relationships, mental health, self-love, and everything in between — we're going to admit what we're not fine about. If you'd like to learn more about this podcast and Rachel Varkey, visit www.rachelvarkey.com or find Rachel on Instagram @rachelvarkey.
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Episodes

069: Get To Know Your Pelvic Floor with Sara Reardon

THIS EPISODE IS RELATIVELY GRAPHIC FOR THE SQUEAMISH AND IS EXTREMELY PERSONAL. IF YOU'RE NOT INTO THAT - SKIP THIS EPISODE. I am chatting with Sara Reardon, a board-certified women’s health and pelvic floor therapist specializing in the treatment of pelvic floor muscle dysfunction in men and women. On this episode, we’ll talk about: What the pelvic floor actually is What are some of the challenges that you might face when you have a tight or weak pelvic floor How the pelvic floor is integral to...

Sep 17, 202446 min

068: How to Stay Married with Dr. Tracy Dalgleish

I am chatting with Dr. Tracy Dalgleish. She is a clinic psychologist, mom of 2, and the author of “I Didn’t Sign Up For This”: A Couples Therapist Shares Real-Life Stories of Breaking Patterns and Finding Joy in Relationships... Including Her Own On this episode, we’ll talk about: Moments when we start to see the friction of our relationships and how to tackle that change How our biggest issues with our partners might be more about ourselves than we think Strategies on how to “communicate” our n...

Sep 03, 202432 min

067: What Are You Living Your Life For? with Deanna Figurito

You’re listening to the summer series of the It’s Fine. Podcast. I’ve decided to take a recording break this summer because well, transitioning into working motherhood and balancing life has been CHALLENGING. For the full episode with Deanna, listen here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4bLhhvwP9rIGX2OSlenp88?si=51fda2916d0540ff

Aug 20, 202413 min

066: Be Nicer To Your Younger Self with Elaine Evans

You’re listening to the summer series of the It’s Fine. Podcast. I’ve decided to take a recording break this summer because well, transitioning into working motherhood and balancing life has been CHALLENGING. For the full episode with Elaine, listen here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3glrnnzBqNhY0Mmb7tBeII?si=paDrfSSGTaSv-9vEDQIy1A

Aug 06, 202443 sec

065: I'm Currently Experiencing Anxiety with Nadia Florita

You’re listening to the summer series of the It’s Fine. Podcast. I’ve decided to take a recording break this summer because well, transitioning into working motherhood and balancing life has been CHALLENGING. For the full interview with Nadia, please listen here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0Y2P3RXnQ3ODAaroTDVACe?si=YDfuzdxkQJinjXGLBd7uTw

Jul 30, 202444 sec

064: The Root Cause of Your Burnout with Nina Nesdoly

You’re listening to the summer series of the It’s Fine. Podcast. I’ve decided to take a recording break this summer because well, transitioning into working motherhood and balancing life has been CHALLENGING. For the full episode with Nina, listen here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3UHqLGPaU2hUzcWzlaG1Xb?si=a0utg1jlSuKlwBH_C5Q4Ow

Jul 16, 202412 min

062: “Getting Your Body Back” (And The Things We Tell Ourselves) with Anna Victoria

Today, I am chatting with Anna Victoria. She is the founder of Vitalura Labs and Bodylura Nation. On this episode, we’ll talk about: Learning to love our body in different seasons and changing our motivations Ways to know your body is changing without getting on the scale Anna’s simple hacks to working towards your body goals

Jun 18, 202445 min

061: Should I Freeze My Eggs with Dr. Aimee Eyvazzadeh

Today, I am chatting with Dr. Aimee Eyvazzadeh. She has 20+ years working in fertility care and the host of the Egg Whisper Podcast. On this episode, we’ll talk about: What the egg freezing process looks like What the emotional conversations are around wanting to freeze your eggs (ie: like using donor sperm) What you can gain from learning more about egg and embryo freezing (especially if you aren’t sure what the future looks like)...

Jun 04, 202433 min

060: Learning How to Trust Your Gut with Tracy Vadakumchery

Today, I am chatting with Tracy Vadakumchery, the Bad Indian Therapist. She addresses toxic guilt and shame that affect cultural norms and South Asian mental health, along with all things people-pleasing anxiety and culturally-related stress and trauma. On this episode, we talk about How our ethnic communities might keep us from trying to explore the right kinds of support What trusting our gut can look like and why we struggle to trust it A simple way to identify your values Tracy is accepting ...

May 21, 202436 min

059: What Matters as a Mom of a Newborn with Dr. Mona (The Feeding Debate)

Today, I am chatting with Dr. Mona, a pediatrician and host of podcast “The Peds Doc Talk”. On this episode, we will talk about: The feeding debate - breastfeeding vs. formula The best ways to care for yourself as mom of a newborn What bonding looks like and what should be priority one

May 07, 202428 min

058: Mental Load with Paige Connell

Today, I am chatting with Paige Connell (sheisapaigeturner on socials). Paige is a working mother of four who uses her platform on TikTok and Instagram to share her thoughts on the mental load, parenting, and her career. Her goal is to raise awareness about the mental load of motherhood and advocate for equitable relationships for couples. On this episode, we’ll talk about: What is mental load Where does mental load show up and examples of it How mental load can impact our relationships, especia...

Apr 30, 202443 min

057: Toxic Cycle Breaking (Cycle Breaking Parenting) with Harriet Shearsmith

Today, I am chatting with Harriet Shearsmith, creator of the podcast Unfollowing Mum and certified empowerment coach. On this episode, we’ll talk about: What is cycle breaking and how can we become aware of it How we can identify what cycles and patterns to break in our adult lives How we can know we are actively repairing and restoring our relationships in our adult lives with the people around us, especially our kids Tips for cycle breaking parenting

Apr 16, 202439 min

056: Healing as a Daughter of Immigrants with Dr. Pauline Peck

Today, I am chatting with Dr. Pauline Yeghnazar Peck. She is a licensed psychologist and an Iranian-Armenian daughter of immigrants. On this episode, we talk about: The common clashes between daughters of immigrants and their caregivers What those clashes can do to our identity and self worth What the daughter of immigrants healing journey look like (and it’s probably not what you think) If you are interested in learning about Dr. Pauline Peck and her work, here are the best ways to connect with...

Apr 02, 202430 min

055: Eldest Daughter Syndrome with Israa Nasir (Oldest Daughter)

Today, I am chatting with Israa Nasir. She is a mental health speaker, a psychotherapist, and a self-help author. On this episode, we’ll talk about: Birth order and how it can influence our development and ways we connect with our families The eldest sister profile How to manage resentments as an eldest sister How to set boundaries and prioritize self care to heal as an eldest sister Eldest Daughter Syndrome Masterclass Israa is hosting a three part masterclass on how to manage and overcome ““El...

Mar 19, 202443 min

054: The Birth of a Mother (Matrescence) with Kendra Williams

Today, I am chatting with Kendra Williams. She is matrescence activist, mentor, and coach. On this episode, we’ll talk about: What is matrescence and how it can show up in all facets of early motherhood What areas we can be most impacted by the transition to motherhood What value setting can look like a mother

Mar 05, 202442 min

053: Is Someone Crossing Your Boundaries? With Tiye Chambers

Thanks for listening to the "It's FINE." podcast. I am currently on maternity leave and am re-sharing my favorite nuggets of wisdom from the 2023 podcast year. In 2024, my hope for you is to not let any limiting beliefs (see episode here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5VLsQNn1zVeSZPtnwdg2dd?si=05tzA8CyRYG3u3wfB8cnnA) keep you from the your better than fine life. If you're interested in listening to Tiye's full interview, listen here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/325Z3Kirw8pKGE3rcCsXA7?si=...

Feb 27, 202413 min

052: Finding Your One (Not Just the One Your Parents Want For You) with Natasha Mahani

Thanks for listening to the "It's FINE." podcast. I am currently on maternity leave and am re-sharing my favorite nuggets of wisdom from the 2023 podcast year. In 2024, my hope for you is to not let any limiting beliefs (see episode here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5VLsQNn1zVeSZPtnwdg2dd?si=05tzA8CyRYG3u3wfB8cnnA) keep you from the your better than fine life. If you're interested in listening to the Natasha's full interview, listen here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3gWSsXdwO3aQxqkvRJ4...

Feb 13, 202414 min

051: Are You Feeling Guilty for Living Your Life? with Rachel Ann

Thanks for listening to the "It's FINE." podcast. I am currently on maternity leave and am re-sharing my favorite nuggets of wisdom from the 2023 podcast year. In 2024, my hope for you is to not let any limiting beliefs (see episode here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5VLsQNn1zVeSZPtnwdg2dd?si=05tzA8CyRYG3u3wfB8cnnA) keep you from the your better than fine life. For the full episode with Rachel, listen here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5GJ9MSMEWZakhSP3HHl3p7?si=NhCuCyMxRXONQpDEeHLUeQ...

Jan 30, 202415 min

050: Is Performing For Your Family Really Worth It? with Morgan Pommells

Thanks for listening to the "It's FINE." podcast. I am currently on maternity leave and am re-sharing my favorite nuggets of wisdom from the 2023 podcast year. In 2024, my hope for you is to not let any limiting beliefs (see episode here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5VLsQNn1zVeSZPtnwdg2dd?si=05tzA8CyRYG3u3wfB8cnnA) keep you from the your better than fine life. If you're interested in listening to Morgan's full interview, listen here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5hhc7orvURCMxIEdvtEltI?s...

Jan 16, 20249 min

049: You Don't Earn Your Right to Joy with Katherine Morgan Schafler

Thanks for listening to the "It's FINE." podcast. I am currently on maternity leave and am re-sharing my favorite nuggets of wisdom from the 2023 podcast year. In 2024, my hope for you is to not let any limiting beliefs (see episode here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5VLsQNn1zVeSZPtnwdg2dd?si=05tzA8CyRYG3u3wfB8cnnA) keep you from the your better than fine life. For the full episode with Katherine Morgan Schafler, listen here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3Nplkss43Ub4nxj5V9Z11n?si=YW5GRJY...

Jan 02, 20248 min

048: Don’t Bring Limiting Beliefs into 2024 with Tanya Cole Lesnick

Today, I am chatting with Tanya Cole-Lesnick a psychotherapist turned personal development coach with three decades of professional experience helping people to pursue lives that honor their truest selves, are clear of energetic clutter, and that they are genuinely excited to be living. On this episode, we’ll talk about: What are limiting beliefs The difference between limiting beliefs and realistic expectations How to challenge our limiting beliefs with little micro steps...

Dec 26, 202326 min

047: The Third Trimester (Prepping for Labor) with Sarah, Labor Junkie RN

Today, I am chatting with Sarah of Labor Junkie RN, she is a labor and delivery nurse supporting women navigating their delivery and all things pregnancy and postpartum. On this episode, we’ll talk about: The trials and tribulations of the final trimester A vaginal delivery experience How to prepare for labor The first moments with your baby

Dec 19, 202345 min

046: My IVF Journey (Snippets from the Brown Girl Podcast)

Today, I am chatting with me (haha, Rachel) moderated by Julie George, the creator of the Brown Girl Podcast about my IVF journey. If you’re interested in getting into the thick of our IVF/infertility story, please listen to the full interview at the Brown Girl Podcast https://www.thebrowngirlpodcast.com/ep-46-infertility-ivf-conceiving-hope-w-rachel-varkey/ ....

Dec 12, 202323 min

045: Always the Good Girl with Ana Maria (Good Girl/Bad Girl Phenomena)

Today, I am chatting with Ana Maria, a life coach who focuses on emotional literacy, mindset redesign, and healing trauma from adverse childhood experiences. On this episode, we’ll talk about: What it looks like to be the good girl (where it starts from, how we start to notice, and how it often benefits those who play that role) How being the good girl can translate into bitterness, frustration, and an unfulfilled life and what to do about it How good girls and bad girls see each other...

Dec 05, 202341 min

044: Emotionally Immature Parents During the Holiday Season with Morgan Pommells

Today, I am chatting with Morgan Pommells, MSW, a psychotherapist, writer, and doctoral researcher committed to helping anxious adults heal from their dysfunctional parents and live life on their own terms. On this episode, we’ll talk about: What emotionally immature parents are and what a childhood with them can look like What it can look like if we are operating from a place of safety due to a dysfunctional childhood Why the holidays can be complicated for people with emotionally immature fami...

Nov 28, 202340 min

043: Cool Girls in Cool Cities with Jane Ko

Today, I am chatting with Jane Ko, is the Austin food blogger behind A Taste of Koko®, Austin’s top food and travel blog, and has been blogging since 2010. On this episode, we’ll talk about: Jane’s story and her laser focus on building Taste of Koko How we can evolve as women even when it comes to being cool How cool and authenticity work hand in hand

Nov 14, 202327 min

042: Ask Us Anything with Esha Pathak (20s vs. 30s, Gen Z vs. Millennial)

I’m chatting with Esha Pathak from the Turn Off the Ringer Podcast to answer your questions about us and our 20s vs. 30s perspective on life, love, and everything in between. For Part 2 of this episode, visit Esha's podcast, Turn Off the Ringer: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/turn-off-the-ringer/id1630853999 .

Nov 06, 202345 min

041: Building Community as a Grown Up with Bob Mathew

I am chatting with Bob Mathew. He is a real estate agent based here in Austin, TX. He has a passion for building community wherever he is, and I am lucky to be a part of his local community groups here in Austin! On this episode, we’ll talk about: Why we shouldn’t be afraid to initiate and invite Why expanding our friendship circles can help support the other key relationships in our life How friendships can evolve with competing priorities How to build ethnic community and share your cultural i...

Oct 31, 202342 min

040: Thriving with High Functioning Anxiety with Nadia Fiorita

I am chatting with Nadia Fiorita, a therapist who specializes in anxiety, to talk about how we live with high functioning anxiety. On this episode, we’ll talk about: What high functioning anxiety looks like How you can combat anxiety with balance The power of saying no Tips to manage through high functioning anxiety

Oct 24, 202335 minSeason 1Ep. 40
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