Therapist, writer and mental wellness consultant Dr. Natalie Jones is here to talk TOXICITY! We discuss what it means to be toxic, what fear based dating is and why we do it, why we overlook red-flags in romantic relationships and friendships, what defines unhealthy behaviors in relationships, narcissistic traits to look for in others and ourselves, and how to overcome all of it. THEN Robyn shares her most recent PURELY MENTAL full body c*mgrats and we are SO PROUD!! TW: Abuse, narcissism. Howev...
Dec 31, 2021•1 hr 31 min•Season 4Ep. 29
Sarrah Rose, founder of Tantric Activation joins us to discuss how to do Tantric Sex solo and partnered. We discuss why she got into tantric sex after giving birth to her daughter, how she used it to feel more energized and to facilitate many big awakenings in her life. Sarrah shares about how using breath, sound, movement, and focus together can change the way you have s*x. Finally we discuss bringing meditation into sex, the difference between tantric and non-tantric orgasms, along with how to...
Dec 17, 2021•1 hr 19 min•Season 4Ep. 38
Today's guest is Nicole Victoria, financial expert, money coach, and CEO of the international financial literacy company No Budget Babe. We're talking the importance of being financially independent and all the ways to get there, including getting rid of debt, paying off student loans and investing in both property and stocks. Nicole shares how she went from $40,000 in debt to a millionaire, why she believes budgets are like diet pills and why "The Makin Money Moves Method" (her 3-month coaching...
Nov 30, 2021•1 hr 6 min•Season 4Ep. 37
Psychologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and author of ' ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship ' Dr Ari Tuckman joins us as we explore the connection between ADHD and relationships. We talk about how late in life diagnosis' can affect your relationships, finally realizing you aren't "crazy, stupid, or lazy", and the importance of understanding your or your partners ADHD. We're discussing the ways that ADHD can impact relationships where only one partner is diagnosed, and Dr Tuckman...
Nov 20, 2021•1 hr 15 min•Season 4Ep. 36
Spoiler Alert: 'You' Season 3 We're talking OPEN RELATIONSHIPS with creator of the IG account @queersextherapy & CEO of The Expansive Group , AASECT certified sex therapist Casey Tanner and comedian Khalid Rahmaan. Casey guides us through the different types of non-monogamous relationships, how to ask for one, how to tailor them to better suit your current relationship, and things to consider before opening up and how therapy can help you and your partner create a good foundation. Casey shar...
Nov 05, 2021•1 hr 36 min•Season 4Ep. 35
We decided to do this episode following Texas legislature enacting their stringent abortion law (SB8) and it is more necessary than ever now, with more than 100 abortion restrictions enacted just this year. We hear from six incredible C*mpanions from all over the US (and one in Peru) who share unique stories of abortion; either their own, a parent's, or a friend who they helped. Thank you to Kelsea, Hayley, Noelle, Ilana, Kaylee & Giulia Follow us at @HowCumPodcast and @RemyKassimir Sign up ...
Oct 21, 2021•1 hr 57 min•Season 4Ep. 34
We are honored to have Anna Lee, co-founder and Vice President of Engineering at Lioness on to talk about the world's first smart vibrator that helps improve your orgasms through biofeedback technology; using it to track, compare, and deliver you your orgasm data! We discuss the three different types of orgasms; the avalanche, volcano, and the ocean, what they look like on a graph and how the features that you can use to explore your orgasm data further. We discuss how the toy can be used anally...
Oct 13, 2021•1 hr 12 min•Season 4Ep. 33
Last week we talked to comedian Dylan Palladino about balding and his newly shaved head; this week we are getting a medical expert's knowledge on all things hair-loss. Our guest is extremely special; none other than New York Board Certified Dermatologist with 42 years of experience, son to Nanny, and dad to Remy and Charlotte (and their brothers), Dr. Joel Kassimir. The iconic 'Dr. K' teaches us about everything you need to know about hair-loss; the different types and causes, various methods on...
Oct 01, 2021•1 hr 17 min•Season 4Ep. 32
We're talking balding with comedian+ podcaster Dylan Palladino! Dylan tells us about his momentous decision to shave his head and his hair-loss journey that led him to it. We discuss the emotional side of hair loss, the efficacy of Propecia, and the myths about its connection to erectile disfunction. Dylan tells us about his own bouts with ED and the importance of bringing up taboo/embarrassing conversations amongst cis men and the benefits of sharing stories. Finally we talk body hair, beards, ...
Sep 27, 2021•51 min•Season 4Ep. 31
This week we are talking anal penetration and "Peg The Patriarchy," a slogan coined by sex educator Luna Mattatas but made uber viral by Cara DeLevigne last week, wearing the stolen phrase in a Dior outfit on the red carpet of the Met Gala. We talk to Luna about what she intended the phrase to mean when she coined it in 2015 and what Cara has taken it to mean as well as the Twitter discourse surrounding it and how she felt seeing it stolen. We also discuss why the term "pegging" itself can be pr...
Sep 21, 2021•1 hr 38 min•Season 4Ep. 30
We're talking Greek Life this week! Sororities, Fraternities, rushing, hazing and why people do it-- with one of Remy's best friends and college roommate of 3 years Jordyn Fischer! Jordyn is the VP of programming at the creative video company Jellysmack and though she was not in a sorority in college, was enthralled by "Rush Tok" or "Bama Rush" taking over Tik Tok a few weeks ago. We discuss the viral phenomenon, the PNM's in the videos, as well as how our college experiences differed. We also t...
Sep 10, 2021•1 hr•Season 4Ep. 29
Only Fans this week announced that they would no longer be allowing adult content and then took it back after swift internet backlash. We are talking to Anya Volz (comedian, podcaster, OF creator), Billy Procida (comedian, podcaster, OF creator), and Kenneth Pabon (Tik Tok sensation and OF creator) about how they were feeling during the impending ban and how credit card companies and social media sites are still suppressing sex workers and their content. Yes, cumgrats to us for bringing OF back,...
Aug 31, 2021•1 hr 20 min•Season 4Ep. 28
New York Times bestselling author of 'Rich Bitch' and 'Boss Bitch' Nicole Lapin joins us to talk about taking control of your finances. We discuss the taboo around money conversation and how to alleviate some of the secrecy by talking about your situation first. Coming from an immigrant family with money struggles, Nicole tells us about her journey towards being financially literate including experiences with entitled "hedge-fund bros." We discuss her new podcast 'Money Rehab' and Nicole gives u...
Aug 21, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Season 4Ep. 27
The internet is abuzz with celebrities from Jake Gyllenhall to Mila Kunis + Ashton Kutcher revealing how often or how little they shower from so you KNOW it's time for Dirty Girl Privilege Part Deux with our friends and Hot Mess Comedy Hour hosts Emily Lubin and Andrea Allan! The girls are back and this time they are joined by comedian/ The Downside host Gianmarco Soresi, who went viral this week for a literal Twitter feud with Dwayne The Rock Johnson about hygiene!! Cumazing. We talk all things...
Aug 16, 2021•1 hr 17 min•Season 4Ep. 26
This week Simone Biles dropped out of competing for US gymnastics in the Olympics this week due to mental health concerns and we talked to TWO comedians and former gymnasts, Sylvie Borschel and Dylan Adler (welcum back!) about how they feel about Simone dropping out, the internets response to it, and the gymnastics culture in general. The good, the bad, the dark ugly, and how it shaped them as children. TW: Sexual Assault/ childhood SA Follow Dylan @DylanAdler_ and Sylvie @Sylvs Follow us at @Ho...
Aug 10, 2021•1 hr 7 min•Season 4Ep. 25
Remy and fellow Twihard comedian/podcaster Gabby Bryan dig into The Twilight Saga (now on Netflix) and WHY we love it so much despite its heteronormative, hyper religious, borderline pedophilic themes. We talk about how it affected us as teens as well as how we've started seeing things differently and changed our minds on a great deal of things ie Edward or Jacob and what age would we want to get turned at? CW: We've got more bleeps in this episode about A TWEEN BOOK than we have in any other ep...
Aug 03, 2021•1 hr 14 min•Season 4Ep. 24
You've ass-ked and we've delivered: we're teaching you how to eat ass with the comedian who puts the ass in passionate and the host of the Stout Lusty Wench podcast, Christiana Jackson! We discuss positions, preparation, the importance of reciprocity and so much more. We also celebrate Christiana's recent birthday and how turning 40 has changed how she views sex. Thanks SO MUCH also to our Cumpanion Molly for sharing her cumazing story about OCD and working at a sex shop! CW in this episode: sui...
Jul 26, 2021•1 hr 15 min•Season 4Ep. 23
A trip down memory lane with Remy's longtime friend, writer and drag performer Poutine Levine. We talk about the importance of changing your mind and changing paths, Poutine's journey to drag and gender fluidity, the importance of long term friendships and how they evolve over the time. Also, thank you to our SURPRISE guest for stopping by! Follow Poutine @PoutineLevine Follow us at @HowCumPodcast and @RemyKassimir Sign up for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO for only $5 at...
Jul 18, 2021•1 hr 6 min•Season 4Ep. 22
A cumazing episode all about late blooming, coming out/dating later in life, and "gay ass movies" that shaped us with Gay Ass Podcast host/ comedian Eric Williams and Betchlor host/comedian Chris Burns, AKA @FatCarrieBradshaw. Thank you to our Cumpanion Jaclyn for sharing her cumgratulations as well as her own late blooming story! Gay Ass Movies Mentioned: Center Stage, Clueless, Drop Dead Gorgeous, First Wives Club, Grease 1+2, Hocus Pocus, Mean Girls 1+2, My Best Friend's Wedding, My Big Fat G...
Jul 08, 2021•1 hr 40 min•Season 4Ep. 21
We're talking about the birds and the bees-- and how SO many other animals get it on with one of the most socially influential veterinarians in the United States Dr. Lisa Lippman, and her partner/ We Don't Deserve Dogs podcast co-host and stand-up comedian Richie Redding (HBO)! Learn how different animals bang, reproduce, who has got the "weirdest" genitalia, which animal gives birth out of their cl*t, and why mammals have a specific number of nipples. TRIGGER WARNING: incest, r*pe, beastiality ...
Jun 25, 2021•1 hr 11 min•Season 4Ep. 20
We're talking to stand-up comedian and actor Irene Tu, who has NEVER had an orgasm and is probably okay with that! Irene tells us about how she is "almost never horny" and how the societal pressure for her to cum lead to her going down a rabbit hole that nearly ruined her life. Irene shares with us why she feels she may be Asexual, though she does want companionship, and we discuss the importance of emotional intimacy and foreplay leading up to a sexual experience. We hear about why she prefers ...
Jun 16, 2021•53 min•Season 4Ep. 19
New Tik Tok besties Marissa and Drew (!!) c*m on to talk about their whirlwind Tik Tok friendship [inspired by Drew's viral video overhearing Marissa's friend's talking sh*t on her]— what Marissa did when she found out, how she finally met Drew, and the new meetup/friendship group that she started in the aftermath; @nomorelonelyfriends. We discuss making new friends; how to do it, where to do it, and why rejection therapy can be really helpful! Finally we discuss one of our guest's EXTREMELY Gen...
Jun 08, 2021•1 hr 31 min•Season 4Ep. 18
We're talking pivotal life moments with life coach and motivational speaker Raia Carey (better known as "Coach Carey") and How C*m's own Social Media superstar and recent college graduate Raechel Murray. Raechel joins us for CumGRADuations to celebrate the graduating classes of 2020 and 2021 and talk about graduating during the pandemic, what school has been like since the beginning of Covid, the college experiences she feels she missed out on, and her future plans now that she has graduated. Th...
May 29, 2021•1 hr 11 min•Season 4Ep. 17
We're talking Israel + Palestine with your favorite Jewish/Palestinian lesbian married couple, OR the only one you know -- the "El Salomons!" Comedians Jess Salomon and Eman El Husseini join us to discuss how they met, what it was like for them in the early stages of their relationship, coming out to their families and how the history between Jews and Palestinians helped bring them closer together. We discuss what is currently going on in Israel and Palestine, and the importance of educating you...
May 22, 2021•1 hr 19 min•Season 4Ep. 15
Comedian and season 1 guest Ester Steinberg is back for a special cumgratulations: we are celebrating her first Mother's Day! She tells us about the bizarre techniques that the internet suggests for inducing labor, how often she masturbated during pregnancy, and what breastfeeding was like for her. Finally, hear why Ester recommends everyone have an open relationship with their partner before they get engaged. Follow Ester @Ester.Steinberg , listen to her podcast Stand Up Mom, and see her specia...
May 13, 2021•38 min•Season 4Ep. 15
You've requested it, and it's FINALLY HERE! We're talking anti-depressants and sexual dysfunction with psychiatrist + sex therapist Dr. Barbara Bartlik and comedian Andrew Collin! Andrew tells us about his journey with anxiety, depression and medication. We cover the sexual frustration that comes with the loss of orgasms while on SSRIs and how he has learned to cope, with sex positions that work best for him. We discuss weighing out the pros and cons when it comes to maintaining sexual and menta...
May 06, 2021•1 hr 16 min•Season 4Ep. 14
We're talking sensitivity with comedian crooner JR De Guzman (Netflix, Kevin Hart's Hart of the City). From his heart to his uncircumcised head JR knows sensitivity and joins us for a heartfelt conversation on falling in love deep and fast, the 5 love languages, and the importance of talking about these topics among other men. We get confronted about our relationship with ourselves and our capacity to love others while learning to establish healthy boundaries. How to change the narrative from fi...
Apr 28, 2021•1 hr 28 min•Season 4Ep. 13
Undeniably hilarious comedian and producer of FX's new documentary 'Hysterical,' Jessica Kirson joins us on this exciting episode. We discuss her new film, in which she stars in alongside fellow iconic female stand-ups. Hysterical chronicles the endeavor of reaching success in a male-dominated industry (which is relevant for all women, honestly) and the importance of lifting each other up, and recognize that there is space for everyone. We learn how Jessica was personally selected by Robert DeNi...
Apr 21, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Season 4Ep. 12
This week we are joined by internationally known disability advocate and stand-up comedian Pamela Rae Schuller. Pamela tells us about growing up as a person of short stature with Tourettes and OCD, "The cute kind of Tourettes!" But also the kind that caused a tic strong enough to break her neck. We discuss the portrayal of disability in the media and how it perpetuates misconceptions that promote stigma. We talk about how children with all kinds of disabilities struggle to fit in and often get t...
Apr 14, 2021•1 hr 21 min•Season 4Ep. 11
This week witnessed Khloe Kardashian's unedited photo "scandal" and we talked to two NYC photographers, Dave Krugman and Jenni Walkowiak, about the hyper-visual age we live in and the psycological effects it has on us. The need for better online personas has made photoshoots an ordeal we must all go through, whether it's for LinkedIn, your CV or your new Instagram profile picture. Have you ever had a meltdown because you couldn't communicate with your photographer? Or because you looked like shi...
Apr 07, 2021•1 hr 34 min•Season 4Ep. 10
