Recently, leading luxury lingerie brand Honey Birdette received backlash after featuring non-binary model, Jake DuPree , on its Instagram . Many who do not even follow the brand quickly flocked to the post, flooding it with phobic language and leading the brand to mute the post after 10,000 comments. We spoke to the center of the scandal; burlesque performer, dancer, model, trailblazer, and extremely positive human, Jake DuPree. Jake tells us about dealing with the backlash, growing up feeling "...
Jun 12, 2023•1 hr 24 min•Season 5Ep. 28
We're kicking off Pride with Addis Fouché: writer, sex worker, content creator, public speaker, and founder of the inclusive learning app Bitter Blush. Addis tells us about her panel at SXSW and her theory about "The Second Puberty of Queer Adults." What is a second puberty? Do YOU need to go through one? We discuss. Addis also tells us about her coming of age experiences at prep school, life as a queer sex worker, why she developed her app, and so much more. Finally, Addis answers the question,...
Jun 12, 2023•1 hr 3 min•Season 5Ep. 27
We're chatting with actor, filmmaker, and musical comedian Eileen Hanley about her journey of coming out later in life, her journey with non-monogamy, and what it's like to share it all on the internet. Eileen shares the joys of being single and queer after being in a straight relationship for 10 years, tells us a few of her favorite O stories, and finally tries to answer the question, "Are queer orgasms THAT much better? And if so... Why?" Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast , @RemyKassimir , @gli...
May 16, 2023•1 hr 3 min•Season 5Ep. 26
We're chatting with Vanessa Marin and her husband Xander about their new book, Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life . She's a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he's a regular dude. Together they share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. We're talking all about communicating in relationships and how to keep long term relationships spicy. Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast , @RemyKassimir , ...
Apr 29, 2023•53 min•Season 5Ep. 25
What is dating like right now, from a science perspective? We are discussing the annual 'Singles in America' study with Dr. Helen Fisher (Biological Anthropologist, Senior Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and Chief Science Advisor to Match.com) and Dr. Justin Garcia (Evolutionary Biologist, Sex Researcher, Professor of Gender Studies and Senior Scientist at The Kinsey Institute and Indiana University). Dr. Fisher and Dr. Garcia give us enlightening statistics on what today's singles are l...
Apr 19, 2023•49 min•Season 5Ep. 24
Remy and Robyn are joined by Ariana Nathani, founder of Drinks First -- a podcast and series of dating events for New York City singles. First we discuss the genius that is the format of her podcast, in which Ariana essentially goes on a "first date" with elligible NYC daters and listeners call in to date them. We talk about different forms of how to meet people romantically in 2023 from Love is Blind to rings that signify if you are single, the truth about being approached in public, and older ...
Apr 08, 2023•1 hr 31 min•Season 5Ep. 23
Today's guest is Ben Katzner, a stand up comedian and author whose debut graphic novel " Hello My Name Is Poop " is available now. Remy chats with Ben about adoption, foster care, and the importance of choosing to parent in a post Roe v Wade world. Ben shares his personal experience growing up as an adoptee, the efforts that adoptive parents should make before adopting, and his reaction to adoption TikTok. Finally we discuss the pros and cons of what we've learned about the adoption industry via...
Feb 26, 2023•1 hr 9 min•Season 5Ep. 22
This we are talking to comedian & TikToker Max Zavidow . Max shares all about his experiences with homophobia at camp, learning what m*sturbation was with a bunch of boys (yes with, not from), along with how this impacted his own first time c*mming. We talk about the societal pressure to like a certain "type" of person and Max tells us about how he felt he had to "come out" as his type being a more muscular woman. We also chat coming out as bisexual, and how helpful Max found being in a quee...
Dec 17, 2022•42 min•Season 5Ep. 21
Remy and Robyn chat with Cumpanion Britt about her unique first time story, penpals, reading erotica, and her many many toys. We discuss Roe v Wade and Britt explains the reasons she hasn't had penetrative sex with a penis and why she may never want to. Britt also opens up about her history of chronic illness, endometriosis, lack of sex ed, and experience with SA. (TW) Thank you to Britt for sharing your journey with us! Follow us at @HowCumPodcast , @RemyKassimir , Sign up for our newsletter ho...
Nov 18, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Season 5Ep. 20
Big announcement! Remy is taking over the iconic Betches media podcast ' Diet Starts Tomorrow ,' with her NEW co-host (and Cumpanion favorite) Emily Lubin. Cumgrats to them, and don't worry-- Remy will still continue How C*m! In this episode, Remy and Emily talk about what it means to each of them to take over a wellness and body positivity podcast. Emily shares her body journey with us and how she went from an eating disorder to loving her body fully and Remy opens up about how her body image h...
Nov 04, 2022•1 hr 29 min•Season 5Ep. 19
Why is there a trend of young boys being taught to hate women, who is teaching them, and how do we stop them? We talk with Cyzor Church, a boudoir photographer and creator of the "Anti-Misogyny Podcast" about how he has been combating the teachings of toxic creators through his videos. This episode was recorded right after a certain TikTok creator/ misogynistic leader/self-proclaimed "self-help guru" was ousted from all social media platforms and we chat about if the kicking off was effective, i...
Sep 30, 2022•1 hr 35 min•Season 5Ep. 18
This week the internet is aflurry with cheating scandals and we are talking to the fantastic Lexy Panterra about her latest single ' Girls ,' which is about just that. We talk getting cheated on, double standards between genders when cheating is involved, and how to take back your power after a betrayal. We're also talking music; why Lexy releases hers on OnlyFans, what genres we like to bang to, and the best beats for thrusting. Remy tries a viral song that the internet swears is a horrible ban...
Sep 23, 2022•1 hr 14 min•Season 5Ep. 17
Today's guest is Nicole Aniston, who after 12-13 years in the adult industry became a trailblazer with her project Closer to Nicole which aims to sell NFTs as access tokens to allow people to watch her ethically produced adult content, and be a part of her discord community. We discuss how she took an antiquated business model and completely revamped it, and the many reasons why NFTs are better than OnlyFans, for creator and consumer. We also talk the similarities between the fight for reproduct...
Aug 24, 2022•1 hr 15 min•Season 5Ep. 16
We're talking top surgery, breast reduction, and SO much more with two second time cummers: award winning comedian Robby Hoffman and Girls Gotta Eat co-host + Vibes Only co-owner Rayna Greenberg! We hear about the differences and similarities of Rayna's breast reduction and Robby's top surgery; how long they've wanted their respective surgeries (and why), what healing was like, scars, cost, and post-surgery sex. We talk nipple sensitivity, the first big boobs Robby has ever played with, and ever...
Jul 31, 2022•1 hr 16 min•Season 5Ep. 15
This week we witnessed the loss of reproductive rights for millions of people in the US with the overturning of Roe v. Wade. We still maintain our rights to speak out and our right to education which is why we are elated to be joined by inclusive youth sex educator Mariah (@SexEdFiles) to discuss good sex education and how to teach consent, body autonomy, media literacy, and sexual health to children/teens of various ages. We hear about Mariah's experience as a teacher, the most common questions...
Jul 01, 2022•1 hr 15 min•Season 5Ep. 14
TW: Childhood SA Stand up comic and musical comedian Maggie Lalley joins Remy to talk about her solo show 'Sex Witch The Musical' which has been featured in the Edinburgh Fringe Festival and New York Comedy Festival. We discuss the childhood assault that happened to Maggie which the musical is based off of, what assault between two childreen can look like, as well as how she healed and turned trauma into art. Follow Maggie @MagsLals Follow us at @HowCumPodcast , @RemyKassimir , Sign up for our n...
Jun 14, 2022•1 hr 8 min•Season 5Ep. 13
Why do people feel the need to comment on "unhealthy bodies" when they don't comment on health elsewhere? This week we are joined by award-winning yoga instructor, entrepreneur, and author Jessamyn Stanley talking body diversity in yoga, overcoming imposter syndrome, and the journey to self-acceptance. Jessamyn also tells about growing up in the Bahá'í faith, what coming out to her family was like, and why she transitioned from being a religious person to being a spiritual one. Follow Jessamyn a...
May 23, 2022•1 hr 5 min•Season 5Ep. 12
We're talking penis problems and how to solve them with Dr. Justin Houman, a urologist and fellowship-trained Male Reproductive Medicine and Surgery specialist in Beverly Hills. Dr. Houman's practice is focused on male hormone management, sexual and ejaculatory dysfunction, male fertility, vasectomies, male incontinence, and Peyronie's disease. As a minimally-invasive microscopic surgeon, he specializes in microsurgical varicocelectomies, vasectomy reversals, sperm retrievals, penile implants, a...
Apr 30, 2022•54 min•Season 5Ep. 11
Remy and Robyn welcome "Molly," a cumpanion who is coming to this weekend's DC show and who can now come -- because of this podcast!! She tells us about doing the assignments, failing, the episodes that inspired her, and the thing (or person) that eventually got her there! She also suggests an OMAZING book called The Adventure Challenge: For Couples. We also chat briefly with Remy's "second mom" Lucy about why she thinks having pimples means you are in love and why Robyn should come back to the ...
Apr 20, 2022•22 min•Season 5Ep. 10
Hilarious comedian Katie Hannigan joins us to talk about her birth control journey; the side effects that she has endured on different modes of BC (including losing her libido and losing her mind), and what she is on now. We talk about how her body healed, getting her libido back, and how horny Bridgerton makes us. Seasons 1 + 2 SPOILERS ahead, in case you haven't finished yet. Follow us @HowCumPodcast Remy- @RemyKassimir Katie- @KatieHanniganForever DC/ VIRGINIA Cum see Remy live! 4/22-4/23 Sig...
Apr 10, 2022•1 hr 10 min•Season 5Ep. 9
This week the internet was ablaze with the scandal that took place at this year's Academy Awards this past Sunday and the jokes made in its aftermath. How To Live With the Internet and Not Let It Ruin Your Life author Gabrielle Alexa Noel guides us through as we discuss jokes, nuance, and why picking a side has felt so imperative recently. Gabrielle gives us a behind the scenes account of her guest appearance on the Red Table Talk , what it was like discussing polyamory with Will, Jada, + Willow...
Apr 01, 2022•1 hr 7 min•Season 5Ep. 8
We're talking FEET and sex on this long awaited episode with certified sex educator and award-winning author Gigi Engle and comedian and actor Corey Rodrigues. Corey tells us about his relationship with feet; what he likes about them, how old he was when he realized he had a foot fetish, his red flags when it comes to dating and whether he would want to be with someone who had a foot fetish of their own! We also dive into the differences between fetish and kink and how what is viewed as "normal"...
Mar 26, 2022•1 hr•Season 5Ep. 7
This week we are joined by Rachel Wolfson, the first female cast member of the Jackass movies and the only female cast member in the new movie, Jackass Forever. We are discussing how she felt getting DMd by Johnny Knoxville, being the only female cast member, life on set and how Covid impacted filming, along with the pranks/stunts she participated in. Follow us @RemyKassimir and follow Rachel @rachelwolfson DC/ VIRGINIA Cum see Remy live! 4/22-4/23 Sign up for our newsletter howcumpodcast.com an...
Mar 16, 2022•1 hr 8 min•Season 5Ep. 6
Our first guest EVER comedian Wendi Starling is back for a series of cumgratulations and we couldn't be more proud. Hear how she went from infamously stating that "love was not in the cards" for her in episode 1 to now in love, living her boyfriend, and expecting a baby! We discuss when and why she quit sex work (OnlyFans and working as a sugar baby), how she met her boyfriend, and the romantic way they first said, "I love you." Follow us @RemyKassimir @wendi.starling DC/ VIRGINIA Cum see Remy l...
Mar 03, 2022•1 hr 10 min•Season 5Ep. 5
(For now!) Robyn's US visit has cum to an end and she is off to the UK. She and Remy recap the highs and lows of the 6-week trip and we learn about who Robyn Kennedy was before the podcast -- or, pre-cum, if you will. We also talk Euphoria, Ukraine, Remy + Robyn's plan to "Pluck Putin," the suppression of teaching CRT in 36 states, voting rights, the anti-trans mandates in Texas, and the "don't say gay" ban in Florida. Charities mentioned in this episode: Save the Children (Ukraine Relief) Equal...
Mar 03, 2022•1 hr 44 min•Season 5Ep. 4
This episode is full of woo-woo, magic, meant to be moments, and rejuvenation. Remy and Robyn chat with our new friends Nicoletta Heidegger + Lisa Reider and our old pal Ashley Manta (The Cannasexual) about the Ranch Reboot Retreat that Nicoletta threw in LA in January that we got to attend! As a Licensed Therapist and Sexologist who utilizes Equine Therapy, Nicoletta put together a restorative and enlightening day filled with yoga, breathwork, erotic wellness, goal setting, animal assisted lear...
Feb 21, 2022•1 hr 56 min•Season 5Ep. 3
This episode is all about New York City sex and scandal. First, Remy and Robyn discuss what was wrong with the finale of And Just Like That and what WE would have done as the writers of this season of the Sex and The City reboot. Then we are joined by NYC natives and Remy's childhood friends Hype writer, Fyre Producer, and author of the recent " What Danielle Miller Learned at Horace Mann and Rikers " for NY Mag, Gabrielle Bluestone as well as senior writer at Rolling Stone (covering internet cu...
Feb 11, 2022•1 hr 2 min•Season 5Ep. 2
We're back! Season 5 kicks off with Remy and Robyn together in the USA for the first time. They recount the last few weeks and are joined by Henika Patel, founder of the School of Sensual Arts to talk Tantra. Henika combines ancient Indian wisdom of tantra and yoga with western psychology and living to turn body numbness and shame into orgasmic abundance and celebration! We're discussing tantra as a path to healing shame, embracing your body, and creating space to C*M. Henika shares how she conq...
Feb 03, 2022•1 hr 16 min•Season 5Ep. 1
Robyn has landed in LA and she and Remy are back for a special bonus episode to celebrate A BUNCH OF STUFF: Our first time meeting in-person after working together for 2 YEARS, How C*m being back on the Top Comedy charts because of a Tik Tok (!!) and our upc*mming live shows in LA + NYC!! We're discussing all the precautions we are taking to make these shows safe and fun AF for you, and c*mfortable enough for us to do them, the promises Remy made to Robyn's mom before she left NZ, and how our sh...
Jan 11, 2022•31 min•Season 4Ep. 41
Spoiler Alert: Sex And The City, And Just Like That For our final episode of season 4 and 2021 we are joined by two comedians and television aficionados Paris Campbell and Ashley Ray to discuss all things 'And Just Like That.' We talk about what we loved and hated about the original Sex and The City, the psychology behind why we 'hate watch' things, and HOW did we ever idolize Carrie Bradshaw? We unpack the difficulty of originally having to fit into a Carrie, Miranda, Samantha, or Charlotte, wh...
Dec 31, 2021•1 hr 30 min•Season 4Ep. 40
