We have a special cumgratuations: Celebrating Betches Media 10 year anniversary with Co-Founder and Chief Creative Officer Sami Sage! Betches is a female-founded and led entertainment brand that provides a space for all women to get real. Join us to learn about how they started as an anonymous blog between friends and grew into a profitable multi-faceted media source (with 11 brands under their belt) that we love because of their ability to adapt to societal change. Sami tells us about Betches' ...
Apr 01, 2021•1 hr 19 min•Season 4Ep. 9
Trigger warning: this episode discusses the increase of violence against AAPI folks. Join us for this important conversation around the intersection of racism and sexism around hate crimes and white terrorism. In the wake of Atlanta's recent tragedy and the rise of violence against the Asian community, Dominique Nisperos is a comedian and doctoral candidate in sociology that wants Asian-Americans to know that their experience is valid. She aces putting her feelings into words and shining a light...
Mar 25, 2021•1 hr 11 min•Season 4Ep. 8
Only 6 more days until hot girl summer!! How to get washboard abs in just 7 days! -- And other fitness headlines that will make you click, but won't work. We're talking fitness with personal trainer and fitness instructor Nicole Pearce and CEO and founder of DanceFit Melody Afkami. We talk exercise clickbait, binging and quitting, and the dangers of only working out to look hot. Melody and Nicole teach us how to work out for the right reasons and find workouts that actually work for us. Our Cump...
Mar 18, 2021•1 hr 23 min•Season 4Ep. 7
Remy welcums Ben back to celebrate their 1 year anniversary of accidentally living together, a year in review for all the craziest news from March 2020-March 2021, and to tell you about an exciting little cumgrats of their own. We are also joined by cumpanion Rick (50) who tells us about SEVERAL cumgratulations that he has had/given that were inspired by How C*m. Follow Ben @BennyDNYC Follow us at @HowCumPodcast and @RemyKassimir Sign up for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO...
Mar 10, 2021•1 hr 19 min•Season 4Ep. 6
We're talking social media and celebrity; how fake they can both be, and how scammers, grifters, and con artists are taking over the internet-- and why we're following so intently. Remy welcomes back Emmy-nominated producer and 'Hype' author Gabrielle Bluestone, as well as pop culture writer and critic Sophie Ross, and one of the 3 stars of HBO's new documentary 'Fake Famous' Wylie Heiner. We talk pop-culture scandals, internet culture vulture's, how to spot someone's PR team in the press, and w...
Mar 04, 2021•1 hr 42 min•Season 4Ep. 5
This week we are celebrating self love through self loathe with comedians and co-hosts of the Flat Bottom Girls podcast, Maddy Smith and Jordan Jenson. We talk about all the reasons we hate ourselves and how to not do that so much! Trigger Warning: Eating Disorders Follow Maddy at @somaddysmith and Jordan at @JordanJensonlolstop Follow us at @HowCumPodcast and @RemyKassimir Sign up for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website ...
Feb 26, 2021•1 hr 21 min•Season 4Ep. 4
We're talking manliness vs. toxic masculinity this week with our sweet friend, Comedian Stan Talouis as well as an awesome South African Cumpanion named Tom. We discuss how early life experiences and certain cultural ideals about "manliness" effected them both and how much they've grown since unlearning those things. TW: Sexual Assault, Violence, Suicidal Ideation Follow us at @HowCumPodcast and @RemyKassimir Follow Stan at @FunnyManStan Sign up for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes wi...
Feb 19, 2021•1 hr 23 min•Season 4Ep. 3
We are joined on this momentous episode by NYTimes Best Selling Author Wednesday Martin PhD and 'World's Best Sex Hacker' Kenneth Play to answer EVERY question you've EVER asked us about ~*squirting*~ ! Is it pee? How do I do it? Are there special sheets I can buy? (There are!) Wednesday tells us about having her first squirt recorded LIVE for her podcast -- and Kenneth tells us what it was like giving it to her! It is a wet and wild ride + we hope you love it as much as we do. Sign up for acces...
Feb 12, 2021•1 hr 41 min•Season 4Ep. 2
Season 4 kicks off with comedian, activist, musician, and forever sexually curious icon Margaret Cho. We discuss the importance of maintaining sexual curiosity throughout life and why we shouldn't just let our sex lives get stale or "plateau." Margaret tells us about what she's tried recently and introduces us to SO MANY sex toys + sexercises we've never heard of. Finally, we talk dungeons, dominatrixes, and sexual innovation in times of plague; Margaret tells us that leather became popular in B...
Feb 02, 2021•1 hr 29 min•Season 4Ep. 1
Remy and Ben are back to discuss rape-culture, Armie Hammer's cannibalism "scandal" and abuse of upward of 200+ "Kittens" (young women) and Emerald Fennell's powerful and radical new anti-rape film, Promising Young Woman.* (SPOILERS) TW: Rape, assault, abuse, cannibalism, violence *This film is now considered "required viewing" by the How Cum team. Rent it on YouTube or search google for where it is streaming in your country if not available there Instagram accounts mentioned: @houseofeffie @sop...
Jan 23, 2021•1 hr 22 min•Season 3Ep. 41
Hi best friends! For our season 3 finale we are celebrating C*mgratulations and FRIENDSHIPS! Two things that got us through this wildly tough year. We're joined by two amazing Best Friends, hilarious Stand-up Comedians and co-hosts of the 'Unofficial Expert' podcast, Sydnee Washington and Marie Faustin. Sydnee and Marie tell us about how they met and fell in friend love, making friends as adults, working with friends, and what it takes to make a great long-lasting friendship work. Remy talks abo...
Dec 29, 2020•1 hr 6 min•Season 3Ep. 40
Trigger Warning: Rape/Sexual Assault/Cults This week we are joined by comedian, writer and professor Brooke Arnold. Brooke tells us all about her experience of growing up in a cult that has been called "The world's most woman-hating cult" from the ages of 7 to 17, how she escaped and what adjusting to life afterwards was like. We get a look deep inside her former cult-- The Institute in Basic Life Principles (IBLP) and its '7 Non-Optional Life Principles' - and how those principles (Design, Auth...
Dec 22, 2020•1 hr 37 min•Season 3Ep. 39
We're talking hormones and women's healthcare with a prominent leader in women's medicine and author of 'Beyond The Pill,' Dr Jolene Brighten . Dr Brighten tells us how she combines naturopathic and conventional medicine to treat various hormonal imbalances and runs us through different options of birth control for women depending on how their bodies respond. She tells us about PCOS (Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndrome), which can occur after coming off of birth control and how she and other women have...
Dec 14, 2020•1 hr 41 min•Season 3Ep. 38
This week we are joined by two hilarious comedians to talk about advice and whether the people who dish it out can be trusted. Joey Dardano, host of 'Help From A Hypocrite' podcast and Irene Morales, host of 'Dear Nana: Advice From An Idiot' talk the best advice they've received on their respective podcasts, gaining life experience in order to give advice and how to properly take on any advice that someone gives you. Joey and Irene both tells us about about growing up as Cuban Catholics and we d...
Dec 08, 2020•1 hr 29 min•Season 3Ep. 37
We're talking two of our favorite things- sex and weed with award-winning sex educator and coach Ashley Manta (The Cannasexual) and comedians and regular cannabis consumers Chanel Ali and Courtney Reynolds. We're talking everything from using weed as a tool to help relax you during sex, to using it to help conversation about sex flow freely afterwards in the debrief. Ashley tells us all about the effects of CBD, THC, and even CBN; and gives advice on how to incorporate these into your sex lives,...
Dec 01, 2020•1 hr 22 min•Season 3Ep. 36
New York natives EJ Dickson, culture writer for Rolling Stone, and Julia Moshy, Socialite and tastemaker join us this week to talk growing up in New York City in various social circles, high school sex scandals, which celebrities are the most attainable, and the generational differences between Millenials and Gen-Z due to social media. EJ tells us about a few of her articles including, "No Voting, No Cumming" a small movement started by a dominatrixes in order to encourage their subs to vote blu...
Nov 23, 2020•1 hr 26 min•Season 3Ep. 35
Why don't cis men know about the flat tongue technique, and why won't some people take advice once you tell them how you like it? We're breaking it down with the host of 'We're Having Gay Sex', Ashley Gavin and her 'Youth in the Booth' Gara Lonning. These two hilarious comedians discuss how their podcast blew up and how Gara keeps Ashley from getting cancelled. Gara gives us tips on being in an open relationship while Ashley gives some advice on her favored techniques for giving oral, and shines...
Nov 17, 2020•1 hr 14 min•Season 3Ep. 34
Recorded on the day the election was over, this is a chill joyous episode to celebrate. It's been a stressful week of news watching so we're winding down and making a list of our favorite TV shows; for laughing to, crying to, and getting horny to. Comedian and 'TV, I Say' host Ashley Ray comes by to spill her favorites, tell us about the tweet that got her banned from Twitter today, living as a solo poly person and her cumazingly millennial first time story. Follow Ashley @TheAshleyRay Follow us...
Nov 10, 2020•1 hr 17 min•Season 3Ep. 33
Trigger warning: Rape/Trauma/PTSD/Assault This week we are joined by Dylan Adler and Kelly Bachman, standup comedians and co-hosts of "Rape Jokes by Survivors." Dylan and Kelly tell us about their individual experiences as rape survivors; how they cope and heal, how doing comedy and starting their show helped them to see themselves as survivors rather than victims, and finally their new music video about how extremely horny they both are. Follow Dylan and Kelly @dylanadler_ @kellybachman Follow ...
Nov 03, 2020•1 hr 35 min•Season 3Ep. 32
Comedian Mary Beth Barone joins us this week to talk politics and 'Drag His Ass' her fuck boy treatment and redemption program (and live show/meme account.) We delve into fuck boys; how are they created, are they redeemable and how do you ween yourself off of them? We learn about how many days Mary Beth has been living fuck boy free, why she needed to create the program, as well as what growing up as a Catholic Republican was like, and how that affected her sexuality and coming out journey. Remy...
Oct 29, 2020•1 hr 19 min•Season 3Ep. 31
Comedian and Shooters Gotta Shoot podcast host Erica Spera stops by to talk sex and dating while having herpes and the most common things people get wrong about the extremely common STI. We learn how she got it, the succinct and effective way she tells people she has it, the support group she started for it, and why herpes is not as big of a deal as we've all been taught to think. Finally Remy talks about the STI's she has had and we end with some tall guy vs. short guy tips from Erica. Follow E...
Oct 19, 2020•1 hr 12 min•Season 3Ep. 30
This week we're talking to gorgeous gay icon, Matthew Camp. We learn how he became one of the original pioneers of Instagram modeling as well as co-owner queer clothing company Daddy Couture (with Rebecca More-D*cks of the notorious C*ck Destroyers). We also chat about his wildly successful OnlyFans and adult films. We talk about coming out, Go-Go dancing in NYC, Matthew's late mentor, and the importance of having people who believe in you. Follow Matthew @matthewcamp Follow us at @howcumpodcast...
Oct 12, 2020•1 hr•Season 3Ep. 29
We're talking pregnancy during a pandemic with hilarious comedians and new parents Giulia Rozzi and Will Miles. We discuss having a newborn during Covid, pre-birthing classes via Zoom, delivering a baby with a mask on, and Giulia's experience as an 'older' mother. We discuss Chrissie Tiegen's recent pregnancy loss and dig into the insensitive Twitter backlash that ensued afterwards. Finally Will and Giulia tell us about how their sex life has changed since having a baby, their work-life balance,...
Oct 05, 2020•1 hr 4 min•Season 3Ep. 28
This week we are joined by Tik Tok heart throb and self-proclaimed 'Starry-eyed Storyteller,' Chris Barnett. This model/actor, turned TikTok sensation is best known for his POV videos, and his 'Vintage Acting Challenges'. We discuss how he feels about people falling love with him on the internet because of his acting and how different he is from his characters. We talk DracoTok, thirsty comments, and the myriad of wild fan requests that Chris gets. ("Redo this video but with your shirt cut in ha...
Sep 28, 2020•1 hr•Season 3Ep. 27
That's right, a cheating episode. Tune in as we dive behind the scenes of one of the most controversial online dating sites, Ashley Madison and talk to members and staff about why various people cheat and have affairs. We hear the unique story of Bobby Goldman, a widow (70s) who turned to the website after her husband (a Broadway and Academy award-winning writer) died. Bobby tells us why she prefers married men to single ones and how she turned her experience of dating 6 men at once into the suc...
Sep 21, 2020•1 hr 11 min•Season 3Ep. 26
For our 100th episode we are joined by Remy's good friend, former Sugar Baby and frequent user of 'Seeking Arrangements,' "Amanda" who takes us on fabulous sugar dating adventures and explains why she no longer works in sex. We discuss how "Regular Dating" differs from "Sugar Dating", and the precautions you should take when looking into becoming a sugar dater. She tells us about how she became comfortable accepting gifts, what it is like to be flown out to Vegas, and why she wouldn't sugar anyw...
Sep 16, 2020•1 hr 15 min•Season 3Ep. 25
This week we are joined by Los Angeles screenwriter and standup comedian, Sarah Afkami. Sarah has just wrapped on a Lionsgate project called "The Look" airing on Starz soon. We chat about Sarah's gender identity, fear of transitioning, and alter-ego "Mendy." We talk strap-ons, body dysphoria, and the isolation of pansexuality as well as how Sarah's early sexuality with women was interpreted by Sarah's parents. Finally, Sarah defines the non-binary paradigm and Remy explain the Bella Thorne Only ...
Sep 08, 2020•1 hr 16 min•Season 3Ep. 24
Founder of @CatCallsofNYC Sophie Sandberg comes on to talk about the various types of street harassment and how her grassroots initiative (which started as a class project) has exploded into a global effort with over 200 Catcallsof-- Instagram accounts. TW: Harassment + SA Follow Sophie @CatCallsofNYC Follow us at @HowCumPodcast and @RemyKassimir Sign up for access to extras for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live shows & NEW merch Movies to watch: On The Basis of Se...
Aug 31, 2020•1 hr•Season 3Ep. 23
Comedian Lucas Connolly comes all the way from New York for this outrageously funny and didactic episode. He regales us with stories about being one of the earliest 'queerspawn;' growing up with four moms in Laramie Wyoming. We talk about Lucas' hooking up with guys just to make sure he wasn't gay, his Craigslist virginity loss story and a concerning trend he came across on Tik Tok. Finally, him and Remy discuss the differences in discussion of body image and plastic surgeries in their household...
Aug 24, 2020•56 min•Season 3Ep. 22
We are talking to Sexologist and Activist Michelle Hope about what it means to get into "good trouble." We discuss protesting, actionable items for allies, understanding generational trauma, and the importance of voting from the bottom. Michelle teaches us about body autonomy, a terrifying history of the US using BIPOC women's bodies to develop birth control and medical tools, the complexities of drinking and consent, and feminism vs. intersectional feminism. We also hear about how working in a ...
Aug 17, 2020•1 hr 16 min•Season 3Ep. 21
