An unbelievable conversation with sex/ love writer and recent author, Maria Del Russo and Co-Founder of sex toy company Dame Products, Alexandra Fine. We discuss themes from Maria's new book, "Simple Acts of Love;" relationships & singlehood, why you should treat single time as a destination instead of a layover, how your dating past actually does not mean anything for your dating future, and the age old question; "Did I bang enough people when I was single?" We also talk about gender discre...
Jul 07, 2019•52 min•Season 2Ep. 27
...is the name of one of our guest's new podcast AND what we are doing on this episode! Remy and comedians/actors Emma Willmann (Crazy Ex Girlfriend/ Inside The Closet Podcast), Jade Catta-Preta (MTV's Ladylike and GirlCode), and Ashley Gavin (We're Having Gay Sex) chat girl on girl sex in this fun informative episode. Our hilarious guests answer all of your questions about strap-ons, STIs, and whether "lesbian sex is all just scissoring." (It's not!) It is such a treat to end pride month with t...
Jun 30, 2019•1 hr 12 min•Season 2Ep. 26
We're taking you into the world of audio porn this week and it is SO GOOD. Remy and Charlotte talk to Jim; the orgasmic voice behind FeelGoodFilth.com , as he explains how he makes audio porn and why he started. Remy also invites CEO of Quinn and senior at Stanford University, Caroline Spiegel to talk her new audio erotica website which features everything from guided masturbations to ASMR. This episode has everything: phone sex, dirty talk, Daddy Dom/Little Girl role play, mental health, and on...
Jun 23, 2019•1 hr 18 min•Season 2Ep. 25
We are in LA with wildly talented author and adult film star Logan Pierce ! Logan tells Remy about the way he pursued a career in porn, how his "boy next door" look recently came into fashion in the porn industry, and what defines "porn for women." We discuss scary firsts from his book , gang bang scenes, and surgically enhanced penises. Logan talks about confusing sexual chemistry for intimacy while on the job, the pros & cons of having relationships with people with the same job as you, an...
Jun 16, 2019•1 hr 8 min•Season 2Ep. 24
In this week's episode we have two brilliant doctors of physical medicine and rehabilitation, Dr. Tayyaba Ahmed and Dr. Allyson Shrikhande, who specialize in pelvic pain. They teach us about a very gender neutral organ; the pelvic floor, and many different causes of pelvic pain. We learn about endometriosis, the seriousness of pudendal nerve/ pudendal entrapment, and why kegels aren't always the answer. The doctors answer questions from the Cumpanions and talk thrush, anorgasmia, penis burn, cli...
Jun 09, 2019•57 min•Season 2Ep. 23
This week Remy welcomes hilarious comedian, J-Train/U Up? podcaster, and naturally good advice-giver Jared Freid. Jared answers all of your dating questions and explains the difference between guys who neg and guys who flower, why people are watching your Instagram stories and why they stop, and why you can't put your standard's into someone else's hands. Jared explains what is everyone doing wrong on dating apps, why kibbutzing is important for men and women, getting messy during sex, and why h...
Jun 02, 2019•1 hr 3 min•Season 2Ep. 22
Pardon this late-in-the-day post, we were celebrating Charlotte's 26th BIRTHDAY but this one is amazing and worth the wait. Remy sits down with the amazing Buck Angel . This motivational speaker, film maker, human rights activist, adult film star, and the first transgender man to win AVN's Performer of the Year award in 2007 has completely stolen our hearts. We discuss so many aspects of the trans male experience and dive into Buck's past and personal experiences; undergoing top surgery at a tim...
May 26, 2019•1 hr 13 min•Season 2Ep. 21
Episode 20 of every season means Ben is here! Remy talks to her boyfriend and his ROOMMATES; brothers Volkan and Cenk, who she essentially lives with as well. We discuss sharing a living space (especially with siblings), everyone's weird pooping habits, and having sex with other people in the apartment. We chat about what signs might mean that your roommate is fucking, losing your virginity in a foreign country, and who the messiest one in the apartment is! We also deep dive into Charlotte's res...
May 19, 2019•1 hr 8 min•Season 2Ep. 20
This week Remy sits down with her wildly talented, hilarious, and similarly named friend Ramy Youssef . This stand up/writer/actor has not only been on Late Night with Stephen Colbert, has a stand-up special coming out on HBO, but he also has a new Hulu TV series out (called Ramy) that the New York times has called a "revolutionary comedy." Having grown up Egyptian-American in a Muslim family, Ramy tells Remy about grappling with his faith while being surrounded by the pressures and temptations ...
May 12, 2019•55 min•Season 2Ep. 19
Trigger Warning: rape and assault. We want you to enjoy our content, but please make sure to take care of yourself; some of the following material can be sensitive to some listeners. During this emotional, inspiring, (and still incredibly funny) episode, the incomparable Fran Drescher (The Nanny!) opens up about how she turns pain into purpose: surviving uterine cancer and the struggle of attempting to convince doctors of the pain she was feeling; managing herself and her emotions through two di...
May 05, 2019•1 hr 12 min•Season 2Ep. 18
Thank you, thank you to everyone who came out our first ever LIVE show this past Thursday. We SOLD out and are definitely going to do more of these bad boys. Follow us @howcumpodcast for updates about future shows! In this episode Remy talks to comedian Eitan Levine about how he won an AVN award (porn award!) for his Hamilton inspired film: Hamiltoe . Charlotte's voice is out from all the fun at the live show but Eitan tells us about surviving cancer as a child, growing up as a grandchild of Hol...
Apr 28, 2019•55 min•Season 2Ep. 17
Nanny and Remy's house flooded TWICE this week but it's ok because our LIVE show is Thursday and we c*nt wait to meet you guys. We ALSO got to record this awesome episode with Remy's two powerhouse women: 1) Hannah Berner , host of the comedy mental health podcast Berning in Hell, star on this season of Summer House on Bravo and badass bitch who opted out of professional tennis, and 2) Gabrielle Bluestone , Writer and Executive Producer of FYRE: The Greatest Party That Never Happened" on Netflix...
Apr 21, 2019•1 hr 14 min•Season 2Ep. 16
Tickets are almost sold out for our first live podcast/ stand up show! Join us at Stand Up NY on April 25 at 7:30. Use our promocode "How Cum" for a 25% off discount. ...AND GET EXCITED! This episode is one that many of you have requested. Partners in love and life, Chris and Charlotte Rose; aka the Pleasure Mechanics teach us ANAL 101! After hearing what they have to say, you'll know what to put in your basic (anal) tool kit, how unlikely "gaping" actually is, and how to answer, "is there a 'wa...
Apr 14, 2019•1 hr 12 min•Season 2Ep. 15
Make sure to get your tickets for our first LIVE PODCAST & stand up show on April 25th at 7:30. (Doors open @ 7) Use our promo code "How Cum" for a 25% off discount. Until then, listen to this awesome episode with wildly hilarious entertainer & RuPaul's Drag Race All Star alumnus Katya Zamolodchikova , also known as Brian McCook. This episode is EVERYTHING! We touch on drag life and a dish soap make up remover tip. We also discuss fearing competition, lacking a gay mentor, the pros and c...
Apr 07, 2019•1 hr 7 min•Season 2Ep. 14
We are gearing up for our FIRST LIVE SHOW and couldn't be more excited. Buy your tickets, use promo code "How Cum" and we will see you on April 25th in NYC for a night of PURE JOY! But until then, enjoy this awesome episode with comedian & host of the "Yung Daddy" podcast; Lev Fer! We attempt to define what a "fuck boy" is, and how it compares to a "slut." We cover how Lev deals with receiving overwhelming amounts of nudes, talk about different butthole colors, discover a new dating term cal...
Mar 31, 2019•57 min•Season 2Ep. 13
This one is a banger. We get to chat with the one, the only, the amazing and stupendously slutty host of Viceland's Slutever Karley Sciortino. We talk about everything from Karley's re-definition of the word "slut", witches on broomsticks (aka magic dildos), the switch from vagina shame to pussy power, having an "anti-social clit", VR porn, and so much more. Also, Remy has a sexual experience that she never has before AND Remy & Karley were both named "Innovators" in Cosmopolitan's first eve...
Mar 24, 2019•1 hr 2 min•Season 2Ep. 12
On the day that he celebrated "10 years of being a professional degenerate," Kirill Bichutsky's 1 million+ follower account @slutwhisperer was yanked off of Instagram. This controversial social media personality recently starred in Netflix's revealing documentary American Meme and his half-naked champagne facial parties are legendary, but we wanted to know: who really IS the Slut Whisperer? What is real versus just social media, and how do we use social media in a healthy, less stressful way? Ki...
Mar 17, 2019•1 hr 10 min•Season 2Ep. 11
"Nobody's sex life is anybody's business…except on this podcast." So, we chat with comedians & sexual "late bloomers" Freddy G and Ray Gootz. Ray tells us about losing his virginity at 37 to a sex worker at the Bunny Ranch & Freddy explains how and why he didn't have an awake orgasm until he was 23. We define several terms; incel, refractory period, and a "delivery boy" attitude. We keep it funky and fresh and talk pre/post sex vomit stories, Kelly Kapowski from Saved by the Bell, & ...
Mar 10, 2019•1 hr 1 min•Season 2Ep. 10
We sit down with the amazing and hilarious mother son duo, KarenLee and Cam Poter from the hit podcast Sex Talk With My Mom . We cover A LOT with these kindred spirits of ours: how peoples' "orifice hierarchies" can vary, sexless marriages, KarenLee's personal definition of "cougar", Cam's "pregnancy scare," and of course, "anal anal anal." We also find out that KarenLee gets wet at the first note of a saxophone, Cam tells us a WILD "ball-breaker" story, and magically, Cam finds out something he...
Mar 03, 2019•42 min•Season 2Ep. 9
Wow. This. Episode. We call Remy's friend, comedian Crystal Beth; AKA "The Girl Without a Clit" and catch up with our anonymous friend from the bonus episode. This episode has everything: trips down memory lane, people's assumptions about bisexuals, and an insanely hot story about an insanely hot threesome with two insanely hot guys. Also: can you cum without a clit? We find out. Want more? Follow us @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast & @thecrystalbeth And HEY!! Are you a new Cumpanio...
Feb 24, 2019•59 min•Season 2Ep. 8
We reached 500 reviews on iTunes and are thanking everyone who has rated & reviewed with a BONUS EPISODE! You guys are gonna die. We thought this episode had been lost forever due to sound issues-- BUT WE SALVAGED IT! (Thanks Alex Pischera!) This episode was SUPPOSED to be episode 4 of season 1; which means it was recorded BEFORE REMY CAME. (Pre-cum!) It is so crazy to hear how much things have changed. Seriously, you'll be shocked. Our guest's voice and named have been changed to protect he...
Feb 20, 2019•1 hr 9 min•Season 2Ep. 7
Get ready for this amazing episode with Dr. Ian Kerner, psychotherapist and author of the best-selling book, and cunnilingus how-to guide, "She Comes First." You'll learn SO much and laugh along the way. We talk about everything: mismatched libidos, the distinction between spontaneous and responsive desire, and how privileging intercourse over outercourse can be problematic. We ask a bunch of listener questions, get to real solutions and make lots of sound effects in the process. Want more? Visi...
Feb 17, 2019•56 min•Season 2Ep. 6
Valentines Day is coming up and BOY do we love these guests. We brought in hilarious comedians LeClerc Andre and Khalid Rahmaan (Eff'n Up Podcast) to talk about how they have eff'ed up sex and how they learned the ropes. They hit it all: ball play, "begrudging blowies", and more. Want more? Follow LeClerc, Khalid and their podcast on Instagram: @LeClercAndre @khalidsays @effnup Follow us @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast And HEY!! This episode has REAL fun extras. Are you a new Cumpanion...
Feb 10, 2019•56 min•Season 2Ep. 5
We sit down with Ashley Hesseltine and Rayna Greenberg from the top 20 comedy & dating podcast Girls Gotta Eat . We talk about it all: happy endings, sizing up a guy's load (the more the better for Rayna), dirty talk, butt stuff, fan erotica, and fingering with long nails. Charlotte also joins us to talk about what to eat vs. what not to eat on a date . You'll laugh, you'll learn, you'll eat. SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & us...
Feb 03, 2019•59 min•Season 2Ep. 4
We interview Dr. Helen Fisher! She is a Biological Anthropologist, Senior Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute, Chief Scientific Advisor to the dating site Match.com , and all around amazingly COOL person. We discuss her extensive research on the evolution and future of human sex, love, marriage, & gender differences in the brain. She also teaches us how your personality style shapes who you are and who you love. We talk about millennial dating culture and "slow love", how to get over a b...
Jan 27, 2019•1 hr 6 min•Season 2Ep. 3
Charlotte had an accident and has to sit this one out but Remy is in LA interviewing Vanderpump Rules ' Ariana Madix, who famously stated that she hates her vagina on reality TV. We discuss how that hate came to be, whether it is still around and what it is like to be a perfectionist with body issues. We also dive into the rocky waters of emotionally abusive exes and skin cancer. We explore how the show has changed throughout the years; especially in this new political climate. Finally, we discu...
Jan 20, 2019•52 min•Season 2Ep. 2
We're back baby!! Season two kicks off with with Remy and Charlotte welcoming the nationally syndicated sex advice columnist Dan Savage. Equal parts brilliant, hilarious and kind, Dan explains how to communicate and give instructions during sex, how self-touch isn't a negative reflection on your partner, what the campfire rule is, and how if we fake it, we will likely NOT make it. Dan also tells us why we should "WATCH THE GAY PORN" (we can all learn quite a bit from it) and discusses the Babe.n...
Jan 13, 2019•53 min•Season 2Ep. 1
HELLO MY CUMPANIONS! I miss you so much. Just wanted to say hi and give you some updates. Also, how sick that we have an official name now? "Cumpanions." Some of you voted for "Cumrades" on the Instagram poll and I do still think that's pretty clever. ((Were you not part of the vote? Are ya pissed? Follow us @howcumpodcast on Instagram and participate in all the polls! Send questions, comments, all that stuff.)) MISS MY VOICE?! We Really Love Island (My NEWEST podcast) cums out tomorrow but How ...
Nov 21, 2018•3 min
One gigantic celebration for our Season 1 finale episode! Remy and Charlotte are back together and calling How Cum listeners from all around the world to CUMGRATULATE them on their first orgasms, and hear how they happened. We get a sick update from former guest Molly Brenner who just had HER first O too! She had to re-write her one woman show "Molly Brenner is Not Coming," and now performs "I'm Coming!" Also, Remy has her first INTERNAL orgasm! This episode is LONG so if you want to break the s...
Oct 29, 2018•2 hr•Season 1Ep. 35
This week's guests are the three hosts of the only male-run podcast with only female guests; The Good, The Dad, & The Ugly! Comedians Will Winner, Casey James Salengo, & Patrick Schroeder came over so I could thank them (specifically Will) for introducing me to the Womanizer on their podcast many months ago. We discuss many things including "The Him Too Movement", penis pumps, TLC shows from the early 2000s, dating new people, masturbating with roommates in the house, and copying sex stu...
Oct 21, 2018•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 34
