It's a penis and balls episode! Ben is back to talk about why him and Remy don't bang often anymore, the famous 90's toy he used to masturbate with as a child, and a genital surgery he might need to undergo in the future. Gavriel tells us about the time they had emergency testicular torsion surgery and Ben almost faints; twice. We also uncover a rampant lie that Ben has been telling about his own "virginity loss" story, Ben reveals to the Cumpanions how he blew up his hand this week and Remy acc...
Aug 10, 2020•1 hr 3 min•Season 3Ep. 20
The Kassimir sisters reunite (after recently separating) and discuss the reason for Remy's bittersweet move out of NYC/ Nanny's apartment and Charlotte's plans for the future. They take a trip down memory lane talking childhood diaries, video games they've played for years (Paper Mario, Zelda), and what they plan to do with their matching Deathly Hallows tattoos now that they live on opposite coasts. Remy's cat Grace also makes a cameo to let everyone know how she is settling into life in Oregon...
Aug 03, 2020•58 min•Season 3Ep. 19
Remy, Robyn and Gavriel are answering more of your submitted questions and taking a trip down memory lane to learn all about how every team member became part of the crew. Follow us at @HowCumPodcast, Remy at @RemyKassimir, Robyn at @RobynKennnedy Sign up for access to extras for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live shows & merch! This month is disability awareness month! We recommend watching Crip Camp and Love on the Spectrum on Netflix...
Jul 27, 2020•50 min•Season 3Ep. 18
We're honored by the presence of TWO of our favorite sex-meme creators this week; Lorrae Jo of @SluttyGrlProbs and the woman behind @Whorgasmic, Arielle Kaplan. We're talking jizz, the Gizzney collection, feminisim + the patriarchy, being poly, balls, different ways people wipe after pooping, Nick Cannon, and like so many other things. It's a lot learning and a lot of fun. TW: sexual assault, violence and r*pe CW: Heteronormative language Follow Arielle @Whorgasmic and check out her new podcast ...
Jul 20, 2020•1 hr 27 min•Season 3Ep. 17
Anybody else been having the craziest dreams lately? We have and needed to dig into why. We are talking dreams and nightmares with Dylan Selterman, Senior Lecturer in the Psychology Department at the University of Maryland and manager of the DREAM Lab (Dreams, Relationships, Emotions, Attractions and Morality) there. We discuss what certain types of dreams mean-- if anything, our recent sex dreams, Cumpanion submitted dreams, and how dreams we have while sleeping can affect our relationships wit...
Jul 13, 2020•1 hr 8 min•Season 3Ep. 16
Our first Ballroom episode! Sydney Baloue (AKA Syd Xtravaganza) is a ballroom archivist and historian as well as a producer of HBO Max's Legendary who joins us to define Ballroom Culture and discuss how it is crossing over to the mainstream. We define Ballroom terms; the different categories of Vogue, Dip vs. Deathdrop, Shade vs. Reading, and the various types of Queens. We talk 'Realness' and Trans identity in ballroom, how sex and sexuality are expressed in ballroom, and finally Sex Work, lack...
Jul 06, 2020•1 hr 42 min•Season 3Ep. 15
This week Remy is joined by some members of the extremely international How Cum team, Robyn Kennedy and Gavriel! We're getting to know the team and answering YOUR submitted Cumpanion questions! Gavriel is a sexual wellness coach and our new producer bringing you research cumming all the way Israel. Robyn, our social media maven cums to us from New Zealand and offers amazing insight that only our resident Gen-z Kiwi could! We're talking everything from mismatched libidos, the difference between c...
Jun 29, 2020•1 hr 8 min•Season 3Ep. 14
Our Harry Potter episode is finally HERE! Our favorite researcher (the magical Charlotte Kassimir) is back to talk witchcraft + wizardry with her sister Remy and the two hosts of the Potterhood podcast, comedians Will Poznan Neko White! These four Potterheads talk sex and romance in the Wizarding World; Which couples did we wish we'd seen hook up? Who at Hogwarts would be the best in bed? Are wizards using contraceptives and if so, what does THAT spell look like? Also, Charlotte shares a Cameo t...
Jun 22, 2020•1 hr 2 min•Season 3Ep. 13
Remy and Ben talk about Remy's sexuality and how Ben feels about dating someone who is not entirely straight! Woohoo! Then we go back in time to May 2019 in NYC at Charlotte's apartment and Remy has a grand ole' time with comedian couple Cas Humes and Nasser Khan right before their big move to LA and eventual marriage. We discuss not wanting kids, Nasser and Cas tell us about their similarities from being raised in conservative Christian and Muslim households, and Remy reveals how a trip to Ripl...
Jun 15, 2020•58 min•Season 3Ep. 12
Remy and comedian Jay Jurden (The Tonight Show, Comedy Central, HBO's High Maintenance) discuss fluid sexualities, coming out, equality and how to come together for BLM during this unprecedented Pride month. We also re-live our horniest bi-sexual realizations and Jay rattles off a great list of male butts in movies. You'll laugh, you'll learn, you'll love it. CW: Discussions on exclusion Follow Jay on Instagram @JayJurden + download his album Follow us at @howcumpodcast and Remy @RemyKassimir Si...
Jun 08, 2020•1 hr 45 min•Season 3Ep. 11
Remy is joined by her boyfriend comedian Ben DeMarco to interview another comedy couple; Caitlin Peluffo and Steve Rogers. We discuss our recent blowout fights, which one of us lies about his dick-size, who said 'I love you' first, and everyone's horrendous first impressions of each other. Trigger Warning: In our introduction this week we discuss police brutality, how important the Black Lives Matter movement is, and what to wear/bring to a protest. We also list several charities to donate to, w...
Jun 01, 2020•1 hr 23 min•Season 3Ep. 10
Trigger Warning: physical /sexual abuse, slavery, and child torture. We begin with idiotic banter and spontaneous beat-boxing from Remy and Ben as they chat about how Rick and Morty continues to inspire this podcast, Remy's new obsession with Madison Beer, and a deep dive into the Call Her Daddy scandal, ultimately both questioning: could this all be a hoax a la LonelyGirl15 ?? Then we jump back in time to September when Remy and Charlotte had the extreme honor of interviewing Katie Ford at Nann...
May 25, 2020•1 hr 35 min•Season 3Ep. 9
Remy is joined by her friends and fellow NYC comedians, the ridiculously funny hosts of Mango Bae ; Pranav Behari and Usama Siddiquee . Prepare to guffaw on this wild LOLercoaster full of truly one-of-a-kind wet dream stories from BOTH of our guests, a WAY too in depth look at Tik Tok, and a rousing (arousing?) game of "Should You Put This In Your Ass?" Pranav and Usama compete for the title 'How Cum's Sexiest Man' as they talk feminism, treating people properly in bed, and why the best men valu...
May 18, 2020•1 hr 3 min•Season 3Ep. 8
This week Remy, Ben and How Cum were featured on Bravo's The Real Housewives of New York City in the wildest clip we could've ever expected! In the beginning of our episode, Remy and Ben discuss behind the scenes drama + how they feel about what went down and then we jump back in time for Remy's interview with woman/ reason it all happened; Bravolebrity and podcast host Chanel Omari , star of Princesses: Long Island . Our guest waxes poetic on how to be 'cool' while Remy asserts that Chanel's pe...
May 11, 2020•1 hr 15 min•Season 3Ep. 7
Trigger warning: suicidal ideation, substance abuse and death- but it's a really fun one, we swear! This week we're joined by Instagram God, Legend, "Daddy," (whichever you prefer--) Tank Sinatra - AKA George Resch; the man behind the memes and @TanksGoodNews . In this episode we discuss Nanny's legacy, how Remy is coping with her very recent death (recorded in early December 2019), and George tells us how his relationship with his late grandmother shaped him for the best. We talk about dealing ...
May 04, 2020•1 hr 14 min•Season 3Ep. 6
We're talking *comedy couples*, Christianity, and confusing cums this week with hilarious standup comedian Taylor Tomlinson . Currently quarantined with her new (also comedian) boyfriend Sam Morril , Taylor tells us about how living together unexpectedly has been and how a joke she made led to their Web-Series "New Couple Gets Quarantined." We also talk about Taylor's Christian upbringing, and how an abstinence-only education may have led her to have "better sex" than her friends but also the gu...
Apr 26, 2020•1 hr 12 min•Season 3Ep. 5
We're talking love and relationships in the time of quarantine with none other than sought after psychotherapist Vanessa Marin , who specializes in sex therapy and couples therapy. She gives us insight into maintaining a happy relationship while working and living in such close quarters, navigating new relationships while being quarantined separately, and dating in quarantine as a single person. (How?!) Finally we discuss Vanessa's online programs that help you transform your sex life from ordin...
Apr 20, 2020•1 hr 19 min•Season 3Ep. 4
Bit of a trigger warning on this episode with the flagrant and unfiltered (yet wildly empathetic) comedian Andrew Schulz . Andrew goes deep into why he thinks women like true crime, his innovative dating strategy for deciding someone is going to be his girlfriend ("The Two Week Rule"), and his views on pegging, the male g-spot, rim jobs, and queefs. We get to travel back in time for this one [recorded in October] and Andrew tells us all about his *new* girlfriend >> fast forward THIS week ...
Apr 12, 2020•1 hr 7 min•Season 3Ep. 3
Legendary sex therapist, podcaster and host of SiriusXM's Sex With Emily , Dr. Emily Morse stops by to dispel sex myths and teach us how to have the hottest sex of our lives!! Strap in, strap on, this one is going to be CUMAZING. We learn about "The Kivin Method," (a wildly erotic and way more effective new way to go down on a vulva), prostate milking, and the best ways to store your sex toys. Dr. Emily then teaches us about navigating boundaries and asking to do new stuff, the biology of the ho...
Apr 05, 2020•35 min•Season 3Ep. 2
We've cum back! No, it's not an April Fool's Joke, we wouldn't do that to you during this nightmarish pandemic. We kick off the season by taking a much needed deep dive into mental health with comedian and mental health advocate, Kelsey Darragh. The topic? Maintaining sanity. During quarantine as well as when we're back in "normal life." We talk stress, depression, anxiety, suicidal tendencies and how to develop coping mechanisms for when the going gets tough. Kelsey talks us through her experie...
Apr 01, 2020•1 hr 35 min•Season 3Ep. 1
Remy and Charlotte close out the season by calling Cumpanions from around the globe to Cumgratulate them on their new accumplishments this year. Wow -- that's a lot of cum puns and it's only the first sentence! We chat with people from South Africa, to New Jersey, to L.A. and Michigan. First ever orgasms, first squirts, first partnered orgasms, anal orgasms, AND a cumpanion swipes her v-card. This episode, like this season was/is cumazing. Thanks for cumming & listening; we will miss you all...
Sep 02, 2019•1 hr 18 min•Season 2Ep. 37
This week we are talking BDSM! Everything from being a Sub, Dom--to both, to catching a whip with your genitals and exploring your sexual fantasies. Remy welcomes NYC stand-up comedian Rachel Sennott to learn about BDSM and we are joined by Professional Dominatrix and sexpert Mistress Couple . She guides us through her initiation into the world of bondage and dominance and her first night moving into La Domaine Esemar , the oldest BDSM chateau in the world. We talk about the importance of consen...
Aug 25, 2019•1 hr 31 min•Season 2Ep. 36
This week we are talking about a bodily function that effects our lives and helps to give life: our PERIODS! We are joined by two giants in the period space; Miki Agrawa l, co-founder of THINX and Tushy and Nadya Okamoto, founder of Period. The Menstrual Movement, which aims to end period poverty and period stigma. We commiserate about how we have felt about our respective periods, from first periods to now. We talk about the various methods we've used for them; from tampons, to cups, to pads, p...
Aug 18, 2019•1 hr 17 min•Season 2Ep. 35
We're discussing all things BOOBS this week: How we feel about them in society, how we've felt about our own, and every question you've ever wondered about yours, but were too afraid to ask! Remy is joined by Suzannah Weiss , a freelance sex writer for Glamour, Teen Vogue, Playboy, and New York Magazine, as well as Meshelle, the hilarious "Indie Mom of Comedy" and recipient of the prestigious Soros Fellowship award. We're talking everything from nipple hair to nipple sensitivity (for men AND wom...
Aug 11, 2019•1 hr 3 min•Season 2Ep. 34
Trigger Warning: rape, suicide and abuse. We want you to enjoy our content, but please make sure to take care of yourself; some of the following material can be sensitive to some listeners. We talk to Syd Wilder, comedian, insta-model and host of the " Girl Instarupted " podcast. We're talking everything from surviving suicide to growing up at the Playboy Mansion and everything in between. Syd opens up about her sexual assault, suicide attempts and previous sexual and family relationships; as we...
Aug 08, 2019•1 hr 3 min•Season 2Ep. 33
This week's guest is Ev'Yan Whitney : sexuality doula™, sex educator & facilitator, and the host of the podcast The Sexually Liberated Woman . Ev'yan has helped thousands of women and femme-identifying people step out of shame, fear, and trauma and into sexual liberation through online courses, in-person workshops, and one-on-one sessions. In this episode we hear Ev'yan's story of how personal traumas and struggles of enjoying sex with her husband led to helping others-- and herself. We talk...
Aug 04, 2019•1 hr 4 min•Season 2Ep. 32
OMG we could not be more excited for this guest!! Remy sits down with (and fan-girls over) the original Carrie Bradshaw, Candace Bushnell ; icon, it-girl and critically acclaimed, international best-selling author of nine books, including the infamous Sex and the City. We discuss her new book, Is There Still Sex in the City? , how sex throughout life changes, and what life after divorce is like. Candace regales us with stories about sexually coming of age in the 70s and 80s, celebrity encounters...
Jul 28, 2019•1 hr•Season 2Ep. 31
Sadly, Remy couldn't be here to host this episode… because today, she is our GUEST. This week Charlotte interviews Remy about her biggest takeaways from the season and where she's at now, SEXUALLY. Also, the Cumpanions submitted amazing, important questions and they are ALL answered in this episode: from cumming tips & tricks, to how to tell a partner about your struggle to orgasm, to more personal questions about depression and the importance of vulnerability. There is ALSO a sneak peek int...
Jul 21, 2019•1 hr 11 min•Season 2Ep. 30
Warning: This episode contains deep thoughts and SICK banter. In this VERY EXCITING How Cum/ We Really Love Island crossover event Remy, Charlotte, and comedian Lili Michelle (Remy's WRLI Season 2 Co-host) interview Season 1 Love Island UK contestant, Chris Williamson! Chris calls in via Skype to talk love, sex and secrets behind the making of Love Island. We also chat about how to dump someone properly, the importance of honesty and external accountability, and his wild "first time" story. -- C...
Jul 18, 2019•1 hr 18 min•Season 2Ep. 29
We're talking all things PENISES! Remy and Charlotte interview Dr. Eid, a board-certified urologist focusing on the treatment of advanced erectile dysfunction. He specializes in penile implant surgery, and also treats urinary incontinence after prostate cancer. He is one of New York's leading penis prosthesis surgeons and is here to answer YOUR questions! We are talking why E.D. occurs, how to treat it, and how sometimes it might be an indication of a larger medical problem. Dr. Eid also answers...
Jul 14, 2019•1 hr 11 min•Season 2Ep. 28
