Did you know that only 20% of schools in the US are teaching Sex Ed right now? That is not enough schools. To fix that I talked to two sex educators, Dr. Andrew Porter (The Sex Wrap Podcast) & Andrea Barrica, founder of O.School. We talk how to manage STIs, good ways to introduce toys to people for the first time, and what the internal structure of the clitoris actually looks like! Did you know doctors only discovered it in 1998? This is crazy. We also answer some fan questions! Follow us @h...
Oct 14, 2018•49 min•Season 1Ep. 33
I interviewed "Liz," a How Cum SUPERFAN who is staying anonymous. Liz is a long time listener and did ALL of my pre-orgasm assignments (1-6). We discuss how all of the assignments went for her and then we talk about what we did last night... I took her to a sex party! It was crazy. You will learn about sensation play, ASMR, electric shocks, and what went down (pun VERY intended). Follow us! @howcumpodcast @remykassimir Need more/ Want to support the pod? Get bonus content and donate money to me!...
Oct 08, 2018•54 min•Season 1Ep. 32
This week I have THREE amazing guests. First, journalist Hannah Soyer calls in & we talk about her article, "What Sex Is Like With A Disability" from Cosmopolitan Magazine. Hannah, the creator of the This Body is Worthy Project discusses living with Spinal Muscular Atrophy, the dangers of being a disabled woman surrounding sex, and finding sexual agency with masturbation. I then talked to comedian Chris Crespo & writer Spencer Williams. Chris was born with Complicated Syndactyly & st...
Sep 30, 2018•1 hr 7 min•Season 1Ep. 31
What is polyamory and how do you do it?* I asked writer Charyn Pfeuffer, who practices polyamory and open relationship styles. Over the past two decades, Charyn's sex-positive writing has appeared in more than 100 media outlets, including Marie Claire, Playboy, Refinery29, The Washington Post, Thrillist & Forbes . On this episode we discuss it all: Are people born poly? Can you be polyamorous and married? What about having children? We also define different types of polyamorous relationships...
Sep 30, 2018•51 min•Season 1Ep. 29
This week I am answering YOUR questions. Things like: "how do you sit when you use ___ sex toy?" "What really went down during that tantric massage?" "Is it normal if I used to cum and can't anymore?" and more! CW: Gendered language, offensive language, fatphobic language Have questions of your own? Write to us @howcumpodcast IF YOU LIKE/LOVE THIS PODCAST SUBSCRIBE/RATE/REVIEW!! Nice comments are oh so appreciated. Want extra content or a shoutout on the pod? Or watch a LIVE episode Check out ww...
Sep 23, 2018•57 min•Season 1Ep. 30
Celebrating my birthday with a jumbo episode about sex, sobriety, and the joy of handjobs! Seamus Kirst, journalist and author of Shitfaced joins me as I interview him and my friend; comedian Sydnee Washington! We talk about sober dating, going to rehab in highschool, delayed ejaculation and the Real Housewives we're most worried about. Then Seamus and I (both Virgos) are joined by ANOTHER Virgo friend Britni Diamond. We talk mutual masturbation, revealing strange fantasies to people, and mainta...
Sep 09, 2018•1 hr 33 min•Season 1Ep. 28
This week's episode features adult entertainer Sofia Rose & Actress/Comedian Alyssa Limperis ( Crazy In Bed Podcast ) . Body positivity is on the menu; we discuss everything from being a BBW (big beautiful woman) to battling an eating disorder and what body image can do to your sex life. We also talk old-school MySpace, ugly armpits, depression, & how you don't have to find the right person, you just have to find the right person for right now. CW: eating disorders, fatphobia, gendered l...
Aug 26, 2018•1 hr 5 min•Season 1Ep. 27
NYC comedians Pauline Murphy and Jeena Bloom stop by and we have a heated debate regarding dick preference; to circumcise or not to circumcise? That is the question. We also discuss what it is like to live as a trans woman and be able to have EVERY type of orgasm. We also talk about Pauline's predicament - she's only cum four times. Ever. How Cum? Let's find out. CW: Transphobia, slurs, gendered language, fatphobia, shooting, dark humor Follow us! @RemyKassimir @JeenaBloom @WhiskeyBurrito RATE! ...
Aug 19, 2018•50 min•Season 1Ep. 26
This week is GIRL POWER week! Comedians Ariel Elias & Molly Ruben-Long ( Well Behaved Podcast ) and Instagram blogger Jen Winston ( @girlpowersupply ) join me to talk about what feminism actually means, dating in the current political climate, what to do when your heroes are perverts and more! It's a great episode. TW: SA, Louis CK Follow us @howcumpodcast @remykassimir www.Patreon.com/HowCum...
Aug 12, 2018•56 min•Season 1Ep. 25
Comedians John Fugelsang (SiriusXM's Tell Me Everything) & Christian Finnegan (VH1's Best Week Ever) discuss Christianity! How does Jesus feel about sex, abortion, homosexuality etc. according to the Bible? We discuss that, growing up as a Christian, faking orgasms as a man, cyber sex in AOL chatrooms, and more! --- Follow us! @remykassimir @howcumpodcast @johnfugelsang @christfinnegan EXTRAS on Patreon
Aug 05, 2018•49 min•Season 1Ep. 24
Corinne Olympios, the notorious Bachelor contestant turned podcaster & clothing line owner lets us into her world off-camera. We talk about hang-ups with masturbation, long distance relationships, what to do if you dislike oral sex & more. Corinne's boyfriend Jon also joins us on the mic for an interesting look into the male perspective. CW: gendered language Assignment: Rub back and forth on a soft surface or pillow Follow us! On instagram @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @colympios EXTRAS ...
Jul 29, 2018•41 min•Season 1Ep. 23
Alik Alfus , one of the stars of British reality show Made in Chelsea , (and childhood friend of mine!) joins me and Charlotte to talk about growing up in New York City, falling in (and out) of love while being in the public eye, first loves, and Alik's first blowjob (a LEGENDARY tale in NYC). I also have a breakthrough in self realization and we do some expert sound effects with our mouths. If you went to high school with us-- don't worry, all names are BLEEPED but you'll know exactly who we're...
Jul 22, 2018•46 min•Season 1Ep. 22
Ralph Sutton (Owner of GaS Digital Podcast Network) & Lindsey Jennings (Comedian/Suicide Girl) join me to discuss masturbating in public, threesomes, doing stuff for the story, dating people who work in sex, and much more. CW: Gendered language, fatphobia, suicidal ideation Lots of stories got cut for time but are available on Patreon.com/HowCum Follow us: @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @lindseyjenningz @iamralphsutton...
Jul 14, 2018•46 min•Season 1Ep. 21
You've asked for it, and here it is! My boyfriend Ben DeMarco (Comedian & Creator of Fat Baby) joins me to talk about his side of the How Cum journey, first loves, first blowjobs & his late in life circumcision. We interview two fans of the podcast about THEIR story- Toni & Chuck. Toni is a 50 year old woman who had never had an orgasm before listening to How Cum. Chuck is married to Toni and has WILD stories of his own. We had the best time, I can't wait for you guys to hear this on...
Jul 08, 2018•51 min•Season 1Ep. 20
Molly Brenner Is Not Coming! Is a show about how Molly Brenner-- is not coming. But she came on this show! Comedian Riley Lassin joins us as we dive deeper into Vaginismus. We also talk about whether ghosts are watching you have sex, making barbies have sex, and how much we miss HBO's True Blood. CW: Gendered language Follow us: @remykassimir @molly_brenner @rileylassin Subscribe to our Patreon for extras!
Jul 01, 2018•47 min•Season 1Ep. 19
These three hilarious LA comedians chat with me about NY vs. LA dating, giving people yeast infections, banging people who look like you & "vaginismus;" a disorder that doesn't sound so merry. CW: SA, transphobic slur, fatphobia, CNC, racial slur ** At the end one of our guests mentions OM- is has now been outed as a super problematic ponzi scheme/ cult Follow us! @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @nicoleaimee @missyannmodell @the_real_miss_piggy @ourfamousfriends Extras on Patreon.com/HowCum...
Jun 24, 2018•47 min•Season 1Ep. 18
We're still in LA for this one as Ester Steinberg (Comedian from the upcoming season of The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel ) and I coach ' Kill Tony ' comedian Ali Macofsky on how to cum. That's right, there are still women out there who can't! WHO KNEW?! me. that's who. Enjoy! (Follow up ep on Patreon ) CW: Gendered language, weight talk, surgery, SA Follow us: @remykassimir @howcumpodcast @notalimac @ester.steinberg...
Jun 10, 2018•54 min•Season 1Ep. 16
I'm in LA!! These next few eps I am out here having the BEST TIME and talking to a barrage of UNREAL west coast guests. My first is drag superstar Rhea Litre , one of the most requested Drag Queens for RuPaul's Drag Race; who has sky rocketed to fame seamlessly, without having to appear on the show. ::gasp:: Rhea comes from a line of famous Drag Race Queens, her mothers include Raja and Mayhem Miller . She and her sister Willem dropped "Let's Have a Kai Kai" which blew up on Youtube with over 3....
Jun 03, 2018•42 min•Season 1Ep. 15
In This Part: In part 1 we left off at my orgasm after ep 6. In part 2 I re-cap episodes 7-14. Now that I can cum alone-- how do I do it with a person? What other stuff is interesting about sex? We delve into the different topics [below] and I play some highlights from those episodes, and let you know what the assignments were all in one spot. Guests on these episodes: Melissa Vitale ( NSFW ), Betsy Carroll, Polly Rodriguez (CEO, Unbound ), Dan Soder (Showtime's Billions), Mark Normand (Amy Schu...
May 31, 2018•1 hr
A mid-season summary of my journey so far! This is Part 1: I go through episodes 1-6 with you and relive the journey from How Cum to How Came! Guests: Corinne Fisher & Krystyna Hutchinson (Guys We Fucked Podcast), Alia Janine (Comedian/ Former Porn Star), Emily Wilson (Babe.Net), Napoleon Emill (Caroline's March Madness Winner), Lindsey Metselaar (We Met At Acme/ @dontexpectsalads), Alex Pischera (Sound Guy/ Comedian), Charlotte Kassimir (Sister/ Research/ Last Week Tonight), An Anonymous Nu...
May 27, 2018•43 min
Instagram poets Yasmin Gomez ( Words with Yaz / Words with Queens ) & Danae Guerra ( DeeGuerra ) join me in a discussion about how love and sex are intertwined! Do you know what oxytocin is? You need to. Listen to this ep because it's prob fuckin wit ya life! We also talk about arranged marriages, physical and emotional abuse, parents who are on drugs, jackhammer sex, being spiteful, & instagram stalking. CW: fatphobia, abuse, childhood abuse/ SA Assignment for Men/Mascs: Give the person...
May 20, 2018•1 hr 9 min•Season 1Ep. 14
God f*cking damnit this episode is so funny. Comedians/ my friends Andrea Allan & Emily Lubin from the Hot Mess Comedy Hour podcast stop by to talk HYGIENE and **spoiler alert**-- two of us are VERY gross. And one of us I might say, is TOO clean. We had the pleasure of interviewing CEO Melanie Cristol via telephone (we're so high tech!!) about her company Lorals -- which make revolutionary latex panties, ideal for giving/receiving oral sex!! Their Indiegogo campaign came and went quicky (heh...
May 13, 2018•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 13
Unreal episode with some comedian pals: Ian Fidance (You Up with Nikki Glaser, Sirius XM) and Jes Tom , "weird queer comedy babe." Orgasms vs. cumming. The difference between sex & gender. What it's like to be non binary, bisexual, or both. We talk about this stuff, growing up closeted, dating assholes, and assholes in general. Also, where is the line when it comes to writing jokes? Should comics be allowed to say anything they want if it's funny or do we need to be more careful? File this o...
May 06, 2018•1 hr 5 min•Season 1Ep. 12
Religion shapes a lot of how we how we think of relationships and sex. On this episode we delve into the religion I was born into, JUDAISM!(Le'Chaim!) Two formidable, accomplished, & brilliant Jewish humans join me: Robby Hoffman: Comedian & Emmy nominated writer for The Chris Gethard Show on TruTV David Yarus: Founder of the dating app Jswipe We talk jews vs non jews in the bedroom, being gay/ coming out, dating apps, leaving Hasidic Judaism, and some stuff I learned on Birthright that ...
Apr 29, 2018•1 hr•Season 1Ep. 11
Have you ever been uncomfy asking for what you want during sex? Have you ever tried it in another language?! This week we get a lesson on how to bang en Français (In French) from Paris comedian Lisa Raduszynski! Fun, oui? Oui! CW: Binary/ gendered language Follow us @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @lisa_raduszynski EXTRAS ON Patreon.com/HowCum
Apr 22, 2018•29 min•Season 1Ep. 10
Dan Soder (From Showtimes's Billions/ The Bonfire on Sirius XM) and Mark Normand (Comedy Central Hour Special/ Tuesdays with Stories Podcast) are both hilarious, successful, objectively attractive comedians. On this episode we discover how similar laughing and cumming are, which they'd prefer to make a girl do, and which they'd prefer to do themselves. We discuss former relationships, banging fans, what a "chuckle fucker" is— and how to avoid one. We discuss an article from The Atlantic called "...
Apr 15, 2018•43 min•Season 1Ep. 9
Polly Rodriguez, the hilarious CEO of Unbound chats with Remy about different sex toys BESIDES the Womanizer and the importance of lube. They get a *tiny* bit side tracked during a debate about interspecies banging (a la "The Shape of Water"), discuss a poop snafu that happened during sex, and talk about Polly's battle with cancer and how that shaped her work. We also discussed my assignment- masturbating with a Chakrub . Enjoy!! CW: Binary/ gendered language, bestiality, illness, SA Assignment:...
Apr 08, 2018•57 min•Season 1Ep. 8
NSFW has been dubbed "the Soho House of Sex" by Vice.com Their 800 members range from busy New Yorkers, Fortune 500 executives to international models and entrepreneurs. The Brooklyn-based private club and digital agency connects like-minded millennials with vice-category brands in sexual wellness, cannabis and adventure. NSFW (The New Society for Wellness) hosts monthly adventures ("SEX PARTIES"!!) including Clubhouse, Dankquet and Playdate with curated experiences at a 4 story townhome in Will...
Mar 25, 2018•1 hr 20 min•Season 1Ep. 7
Mission ACCUMPLISHED! Remy had her first orgasm and welcums her sister Charlotte (HBO's Last Week Tonight) back to talk about exactly how it happened and what toys she recummends. Then we talk tantric massages and female masturbation classes with comedians and co-hosts of Guys We F****d' Corinne Fisher and Krystyna Hutchinson! CW: gendered language Follow us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir @KrystynaHutchinson @PhilanthropyGal Toys mentioned in this episode: The Womanizer, The Airpulse Arouser fr...
Mar 11, 2018•1 hr 15 min•Season 1Ep. 6
O.M.G. This episode is so chock full of goodness. David Goldberg (LGBT/Comedy/Things to Do Editor @ Timeout NY) co-hosts and introduces Remy to his favorite sexual healers, Lola Jean & Dominus Eros (3FStudios) and we learn about all of the sexual healing classes they offer, including but not limited to: BDSM, Wrestling, Tantric Massage, Masturbation Classes, Tantric Massage, Couples Classes etc. We also chat about life as a gay person, life as a pan sexual, and what it means to be polyamorou...
Feb 25, 2018•1 hr 34 min•Season 1Ep. 5
